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ifenuwon:I don't think she will tell you who those guys are since your love in her heart looks dim. Just act on the advice you have received on this forum so as to avoid being victim of the present occurence. Be man enough and if possible let her go and move on with your beautiful life. |
Zarqabe:Is it possible to manage the two successfully knowing fully well the demands of the two? |
Cohabitation is a living arrangement in which an unmarried couple lives together in a long-term relationship that resembles a marriage. Although in Nigeria students do call it “campus love”. Some students believe it a period to test for compatibility. Is this statement completely true? Your views are welcome. Reference - http://www.treatrelationships.com.ng/2017/05/why-you-should-not-cohabitate-as-a-student.html |
optional1:This dos and don'ts are wow... OP this can only happen in Bollywood and Nollywood. On a lighter mood excesses must be avoided so that someone won't love away his life. |
StrawberryGloss:Your last submission nailed it Op ponder on it - Think ahead. A woman needs a man. Be a man. Take charge. Sit her down, confront her and tell her to stop or it’s over Who knows, maybe she wanted to be open minded to different options and cushion the blow if things don't work out with you. But she needs to be stopped if you truely want her. |
Olachase:Lol OP will DM the fourth joker to you because she has more than 3 ways |
Lalas247:This your question caught my attention. Offences weigh differently. Some can be overlooked while some must be corrected. It would be sadonic for a guy or lady to continue with the same offence and expect forgiveness at every time. A time will come that "I am sorry" will become nauseating. For every "I am sorry" there must be a corresponding and lasting behavioral change. |
>>>Will she change for the better in Marriage?<<< It is on a rare occasion for people to change in marriage. Any behavior that has persisted for years is difficult to change. Your question is like saying "will you stop your favorite food once you get married?". Any behavior of hers that gives you a concern now is a pointer to what may be a potential threat to your marriage. However, a miracle can happen. My submission; if you can't change her now then you can't change her after you have walked her down the aisle. |
TboyGOLD:Op read the two articles below: http://www.treatrelationships.com.ng/2017/05/I-love-her-but-she-dates-other-guys.html http://www.treatrelationships.com.ng/2017/06/5-relationship-questions.html |
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A relationship should be enjoyable, full of fun and a lovely adventure. But sometimes, the kind of a relationship some people get into is a cheat and deceitful. Nothing makes people see you as being dumb and dull, as when they see the way you are being overridden by your partner. Notwithstanding, they stay put in the relationship hoping the situation will change automatically. No situation changes on its own accord unless you do something about it. 7 signs to look out for to know if your man is taking you for a ride are: He is dominance There is a difference between leadership and dominance. A good leader will lead by example and not lord it over you. But when a man shows dominance in a relationship, he will want to coarse you, think and take decisions for you. At least, freedom should be one of your rights in a relationship: freedom of expression, freedom to take a decision, freedom to choose etc. Meanwhile, a relationship shouldn’t be an end to rights and privileges. You should not forget he is not your husband. Even if he is your husband, it doesn't mean he should be blunt and dominance. Dominance is one of the signs that he will be a bad husband. Overprotectiveness This happens when he is insecure. And it is because he knows he hasn’t been fair in the relationship. Overprotectiveness isn’t a sign of love but a sign he wants to rid you of any good suitor that may come your way. The following are what he tries to do when he is overprotective: 1. He frequently checks your daily calls and messages. 2. Whenever he sees you with a man, he gets angry and can even beat you up for it. 3. He doesn’t want to see friends around you I believe if he has been treating you well then he won’t lose his sleep over you. He is not appreciative Nothing satisfies him and nothing moves him to appreciate you. Rather, he gets demanding and asking for what is beyond your capacity to give. He has no value for your views or opinion Your opinion doesn’t matter to him on any issue because he has little or no value for you. “Show me a man who values your opinion and I will show you a man who values you” He doesn’t communicate well Are you the only one calling? Hmm…you are in for something. Is he always busy to pick your calls or your calls get him angry? Frankly speaking, I have never seen a man, who is too busy not to return the calls of people that matters to him. Although, when calls or text messages become excessive, it becomes irritating. But if your call is within the tolerable range and he is still irritated then it is a sign that he doesn’t take you seriously. He is secretive Being secretive is a sign he is taking you for a ride. It also implies you don't have access to anything that pertains to him. He is not proud to introduce you to his friends If this is a frequent occurrence then it means he doesn’t want to take the relationship further with you. Source:http://www.treatrelationships.com.ng/2017/05/7-signs-he-is-taking-you-for-a-ride.html You are free to add more |
One of the heartbreaking scenarios I have seen among youths is the abuse some ladies do experience in relationships. Despite that, some ladies find it difficult to leave such relationship. Don’t forget, this is a case of unmarried couples. The emotional attachment in some ladies is so strong they found it difficult to leave the unhealthy relationships. The thought of “I have a lot to lose” keeps hurting them and they fear to take the risk of leaving such relationships. Therefore, they put themselves in emotional pain all in the name of “love”. Most times, the thought of “I have a lot to lose” comes because sex has been involved in the relationship. Ladies wouldn’t mind walking out of an unhealthy relationship if sex isn’t involved. Sex does have an effect on women than men in a relationship. It is what is responsible for the attachment despite the abuse in such a relationship. For a long time, I have been thinking about what might be the cause of the attachment. Fortunately, I stumbled on an article that gave a clue to what may be the reason why ladies get attached to a man after having sex with him. The article shed some light on oxytocin which is described as ‘love hormone”. This hormone is believed to be involved in a wide variety of physiological and pathological functions such as sexual activity, social bonding etc. Before I continue my findings on oxytocin, it is important to note that men and women view sex and relationship differently. Guys don’t necessarily see sex as a measure of the depth of the relationship like most women do, for guys sex is more of a reward for being in the relationship. A man wanting to sleep with you is not a measure of his actual feelings for you. For women, they want commitment and view sex as a depth of the relationship. Women have control when it comes to sex and can decide whether to give in or not. Therefore they are liable to get attached once they have given in to sex. The deeper attachment ladies get in after having sex is because of the oxytocin that is involved during sex activity. According to Navneet Magon and Sanjay Kalra, oxytocin modulates a full range of physiological functions and emotions: happiness, attraction, love, affection, and hatred after stress. These are all governed directly or indirectly, at least in part, by oxytocin. They were able to establish that this hormone can increase the lust for love. Earlier, Oxytocin has been best known for its roles in female reproduction. It is released in large amounts during labor and after stimulation of the nipples. It is a facilitator for childbirth and breastfeeding. This hormone has a greater effect on women than men. The role of oxytocin has established a fact that sex should only be meant for married couples and not for partners in a causal relationship. So abstinence from sex can assist you not to get unnecessarily attached to a relationship. Someone asked, “What are am I supposed to be doing while making him wait before establishing a real connection?” I have explained in one of my articles that, a marital relationship should be meant for people that are ready for marriage. A relationship in this context must not be more than two years before you get married to your partner. The length of a relationship may increase the urge to have sex. During this period, you can both engage in self-development activities and use the period to get to know each other better. Women would worry less if only they had sex with the men they married. source: http://www.treatrelationships.com.ng/2017/05/why-am-i-still-attached-to-him-despite-the-abuse.html |
There is a likelihood that two opposite sex may have a strong feeling for each other when they are close. The degree of the feeling may vary between them. The partner with the strongest feeling may be troubled as to why his partner hasn't proposed to her. One of the questions on her mind may be “why has he not proposed to me, though, I perceive he loves me?”. This question may persist until there is an answer. I will be focusing on ladies in this article because a question like this is common among them. It is important that you must know that there are certain levels where closeness can lead to a strong emotional feeling. The feeling should not be mistaken for love. You should be able to separate feeling from love for you to ascertain that he truly loves you. He should be willing and ready to propose to you if he truly wants to go into a relationship with you. If you are really sure he loves you, read further to understand some of the things that may refrain him from proposing to you. Moreover, you must create the right atmosphere for him to freely express himself. I will try to discuss some of the restraints: Attitude Hope your attitude has not refrained him from expressing his mind? Maybe there are certain behaviors of yours, he is not yet satisfied with, and he is waiting for the time you will change. Although, love is not easily angered it keeps no record of wrongs. But going into a relationship with a person with such attitude may be like going to hell. Check your attitude if it is not the stumbling block on his way. Lifestyle The way you live may not be okay with him. Guys may be careful of ladies that live an expensive lifestyle. Ladies' expensive lifestyle scares men away from ladies they could have married. In addition, you like partying and hanging around the wrong kinds of places which he may dislike. Lifestyles like this may stop him from proposing to you. Looking before you leap is an important key when going into a relationship. Afraid Some guys have a phobia to propose to a lady. Fear makes some men ask questions like “what if she says No or what if my proposal affects our friendship or won’t my proposal annoys her?” Once a guy is afraid of the unfavorable outcome of his proposal, he may decide to keep the thought to himself. Priority Going into a relationship may not be his present priority. There is time for everything in life, time to sow, time to reap, time for personal growth, time to court and time to marry. The time factor is important in life. Moreover, a man’s attention will be where his mind is. Family One of the two families may be showing displeasure in your friendship and this may affect his decision in proposing to you. Note: It is important that you define your relationship to avoid getting emotionally attached. When your friendship is defined you may likely not get entangled emotionally. Source: http://www.treatrelationships.com.ng/2017/05/he-loves-me-but-has-not-proposed-to-me.html |
Question 1 If 6logx 2 – 3logx 3 = 3log5 0.2, find x {UTME 2004} A. 3/8 B. 3/4 C. 4/3 D. 8/3 Question 2 Assuming loge (4.4) = 1.4816 and loge (7.7) = 2.0142, the the value of loge (7/4) is {UTME 1978} A. 0.5326 B. 3.4958 C. 0.4816 D. 0.0142 E. 1.3594 You can check for the hint to the answer on http://servantboy.com/2017/04/10/short-notes-and-solutions-on-indices-and-logarithm-for-utme/ |
Nuel25846:very correct. Let me drop another method
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SamanN:Yes F = BIL F/L = BI when you have two parallel current wire, regardless of their current, they will exert the same magnitude of force in opposite direction. If they have the same length, each wire will have the same force per unit length. |
Nuel25846:The coefficient of static of friction = tanQ Q = is the angle of inclination coefficient = tan 30 = 0.557 0.557 in surd form = 1/√3 |
Two long parallel wires X and Y carry currents 3A and 5A respectively. If the force experienced per unit length by X is 5 x 10-5N, the force per unit length experienced by wire Y is{UTME 2007} A. 3 x 10-5N B. 3 x 10-6N C. 5 x 10-4N D. 5 x 10-5N Hint to answer Following the above formula and supporting it with Newton’s third law that states the if object X exert a force on object y, object y will exert the same force on X but in opposite direction. For two parallel current carrying conductor, regardles of their current, they will exert the same force on each other but in opposite direction You can visit for solution to some of past UTME questions: http://servantboy.com/category/physics-for-a-level-&-utme/ |
Optimist1998:since the temperature change in the two metal are the same, increase in length is the same, therefore linear expansivity = k/lo expansivity in p = 2*expansivity in Q expansivity in p * original length of p = expansivity in Q * original length of Q 2*expansivity in Q* original length of p = expansivity in Q * original length of Q 2 *Lp = Lq Lp / Lq = 1 / 2 B is the correct option Similar question from UTME 2012 Two metals P and Q are heated through the same temperature difference. If the ratio of the linear expansivities of P to Q is 2: 3 and the ratio of their lengths is 3:4 respectively, the ratio of the increase in lengths of P to Q is{UTME 2012} A. 1 : 2 B. 2 : 1 C. 8 : 9 D. 9 : 8 Solution Temperature difference =( linear expansivity * length)/increase in length For metal P, Qp = ( linear expansivity * length)p/increase in lengthp For metal Q, Qq = ( linear expansivity * lengthq)/increase in lengthq ( linear expansivity * length)p/increase in lengthp = ( linear expansivity * lengthq)/increase in lengthq increase in length of p:increase lengthq = ( linear expansivity * length)p / ( linear expansivity * lengthq) increase in length of p:increase lengthq = 2/3 *3 /4 = 6 / 12 = 1:2 A is the correct option you can visit http://servantboy.com/2017/03/27/questions-and-answers-on-linear-expansivity-for-utme/ |
Donpre:The S.I base unit is wrong but the question is correct. For maximum range angle is 45. Rmax = u^2/g |
Optimist1998:The speed of light is higher in y than x because speed of light changes in different medium. The speed of light slows down in a dense medium(with higher refractive index). From V = c/n where n is the refractive index. You can visit http://servantboy.com/2017/03/20/optics-light-waves/ for more info. |
The Nigerian government has resorted to chopping down trees lining the streets of its capital to thwart black market money changers, one of a range of unorthodox measures it is deploying to defend its weakening currency. On an August morning in Abuja, a labourer who said he was hired by the city government cut branches from a towering tree with a chainsaw. Nearby other workers hacked away at smaller trees with machetes. Asked what they were doing, one, who did not want his name published, replied: “The government does not want the trees because people are doing illegal work under them”. The man was referring to money changers from the north of the country who rest under the shade of the trees and sell US dollars, British pounds, and even Saudi riyals to customers hungry for hard currency. Another worker who gave his name as Alex said: “People change dollars on the road here and it’s not supposed to be like that. People are supposed to go to the banks to do transactions”. But a series of central bank decrees issued this summer has instead increasingly restricted how Nigerians can use their banks, seemingly encouraging black market activity. For example, money changers in Abuja say the new rule barring Nigerians from depositing hard currency into banks only boosts unofficial trade. The naira, still reeling from an oil price of less than $50 a barrel and political uncertainty in the run-up to this year’s elections, has lost a fifth of its value in the past year and has been devalued twice. In import-dependent Nigeria, demand for dollars remains high yet the fall in the price of crude has cut the flow of currency as income from oil exports has dwindled. The central bank’s new controls, combined with its contentious move in June to restrict imports of critical goods such as rice and rubber, has hit foreign investor confidence in the administration of new president Muhammadu Buhari, who remains without a cabinet more than two months since his inauguration. On August 11 the central bank lowered the ATM withdrawal limit, cutting the maximum naira limit by more than half, to 60,000 naira ($301) a day. Those with “domiciliary accounts” which are denominated in foreign currency can now take out only $300 a day. Earlier this month, the central bank banned Nigerians from depositing US dollars into their domiciliary accounts, angering people who had children at school abroad and had to pay school fees in foreign currency. “Anything to strengthen the naira is important, but personally I need to transfer money to my family abroad, that’s why I opened a domiciliary account,” said a man in a suit after withdrawing the maximum daily amount of naira from a cash machine in the wealthy district of Ikoyi in Lagos. He did not want his name to be published. “In Nigeria we need these accounts because many of us work in foreign currency.” At another row of cash machines at a nearby bank, 36-year-old car importer Babatunde Gbanga said the “liquidity challenges” and the new restrictions were hurting his business because he relied on being able to send and receive foreign currency from abroad. http://www.ft.com/intl/cms/s/0/a83e54d0-425c-11e5-9abe-5b335da3a90e.html?siteedition=intl#axzz3j3la7TS7 The naira was in a “crisis situation” partly because of high demand for dollars, said Kunle Ezun, treasury researcher for Ecobank in Lagos. “In trying to control the FX market, the central bank is starving the money market of liquidity.” Bank governor Godwin Emefiele has defended his policies, arguing that the measures are intended to stop speculation, decrease illicit financial flows and defend the naira. Mr Emefiele told the Financial Times this month he thought the naira was still appropriately priced, despite the spread between official and black market rates, and said his policies would help prepare Nigeria for a possible interest rate rise by the US Federal Reserve later this year. Still, many economists disagree. Given that oil prices will remain low, the central bank’s naira policy raises the risk of more controls and even import bans, all of which could undermine growth, said Yvonne Mhango, Africa economist at Renaissance Capital. |
BREAKING TIMES has obtained photographs of Bashir, one of the sons of Nigeria’s former FCT Minister, Nasir El-Rufai and current Governor of Kaduna State.Source: http://www.thebreakingtimes.com/exposed-bashir-the-wild-son-of-governor-el-rufai-photos/
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This billboard is to remind our able president one out of his campaign promises of crushing this deadly group. Though we are praying for you, but faith without work is dead. Hit the ground running!!!!!!
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Meka Akerejola, a staff of Rhythm 94.7 FM Abuja owned by Senator Ben Murray-Bruce is lying helpless in an Indian hospital in need of an urgent kidney transplant operation. News about Meka’s condition first went viral in the social media in 2012 when the hashtag #SaveMeka broke calling on Nigerian citizens to help raise funds for his treatment. BREAKING TIMES gathered on Thursday that the Management of Silverbird Communications is yet to lift a finger of help since Meka’s travails began in 2012. Meka Akerejola on his sick bed Meka Akerejola on his sick bed A Silverbird inside source who spoke to BREAKING TIMES on Thursday on condition of anonymity confirmed that Silverbird Chairman, Senator Ben Murray-Bruce declined an invitation to chair a private fundraising event for Meka in 2012. “They haven’t given him a dime. It was so bad that for the Chairman to even attend a fundraising event organized for Meka in 2012, was a problem”, the source said. A fundraising event for Meka in 2012 A fundraising event for Meka in 2012 Efforts to reach Senator Bruce to get his reaction failed on Thursday as his phone rang out. Senator Bruce recently was in the media spotlight when he boasted via his Twitter handle, his decision to donate his wardrobe allowance to Osun State unpaid workers. For those who live in the nation’s capital, Abuja, the name Meka Akerejola certainly rings a bell. He is a popular on-air personality on Rhythm FM 94.7 an adjudged one of Silverbird’s finest voices on radio. He was diagnosed with end stage chronic kidney disease and was on a twice-weekly dialysis since 2012 before his current trip to India. He is billed for a kidney transplant in an Indian hospital. Meka Akerejola is a native of Kogi state and graduate of Mass communication from the Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria. http://www.thebreakingtimes.com/senator-ben-bruces-staff-lying-helpless-in-indian-hospital/ |
Senate President, Bukola Saraki on Thursday announced Senator Ali Ndume in defiance of the decision of the All Progressives Congress (APC), which in a letter to Senator Saraki dated 23 June 2015, tipped Senator Ahmed Lawan for the position. BREAKING TIMES has exclusively obtained the letter, which was signed by the APC National Chairman, John Odigie Oyegun. A similar letter obtained by BREAKING TIMES was sent to the Speaker of the House of Representatives. Fighting broke in the chambers of the House of Representatives Thursday over the Speaker’s refusal to implement the directives of the APC leadership. http://www.thebreakingtimes.com/leaked-letters-from-apc-to-senate-president-saraki-speaker-dogara/
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ABUJA—But for self-restraint, journalists covering activities at the National Secretariat of All Progressives Congress, APC, would have had a showdown with Governor Abiola Ajimobi of Oyo State, who seemed ready to go physical with them. This development followed enquiries on the outcome of a closed-door meeting between some APC governors and National Chairman of the party, Chief John Odigie-Oyegun. The governors present included Adams Oshiomhole (Edo), Tanko Al-Makura (Nasarawa), Nasir El-Rufai (Kaduna), Rauf Aregbesola (Osun), Abubakar Bello (Niger), Abiola Ajimobi (Oyo) and Atiku Bagudu (Kebbi). Gov Ajimobi They had stormed the party secretariat immediately after their meeting with President Muhammadu Buhari to confer with Oyegun and other members of the party’s National Working Committee. Sources said the meeting was not unconnected to the issue of unpaid salaries and the crisis rocking the party, following the recent elections of new leaders of the National Assembly. However, reacting to questions of what transpired at the meeting with Oyegun, Ajimobi, who apparently was not comfortable with the question, asked journalists their names and their media. He was later to shout at the top of his voice: “I don’t know any of these media houses. So, I can’t talk.” Some of the media represented at the party secretariat included Thisday, Telegraph, Vision FM, Leadership, Blueprint, Newsdairy, Lagos Television station, Galaxy TV, The Tide, Federal Radio Corporation of Nigeria, FRCN, and the Niche, among others. Speaking further in Yourba language, the governor said: “I know what they want is money. Call me one of my aides to find something for them. I don’t have time for any comment.” The journalists, upset at what some of them described as a behaviour unbecoming of a governor, ignored him. http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/06/ajimobi-clashes-with-journalists-over-questions-on-unpaid-salaries-nass-crisis/ |
Delayed cabinet: Stock market investors lose N238bnhttp://businessnews.com.ng/2015/06/20/delayed-cabinet-stock-market-investors-lose-n238bn/ |
The All Progressives Congress (APC) has kicked against the election of Bukola Saraki as senate president and Yakubu Dogara as speaker, describing it as “unacceptable”, an act of “treachery” and the “highest level of indiscipline” http://www.thecable.ng/breaking-apc-kicks-says-election-saraki-dogara-unacceptable |
As the world condemns the killing of innocent foreigners in South Africa, a lady identified as Wendy Ledwaba is celebrating the ongoing violent Xenophobic attacks in the country. Opinion polls have shown that xenophobia in South Africa is more rampant than most people think . The controversial South African lady went on the social media yesterday to express her hatred for Nigerians living in South Africa . She also showed her support for the violent attack that has claimed over 2000 lives of foreigners since 3 weeks ago via twitter. She wrote, ”I dnt care what u say. I’ve lived amongst Nigerians ..my best friend is married to a Nigerian ..they r heartless …they dnt care how they get the money and they think they are untouchable …even the zims and Congolese I know hate Nigerians ..deny it all u want but u and I know that the good Nigerians are only a hand full…if these attacks were directed only at the Nigerians I ddnt even feel an ounce of hurt cos I’ve witnessed all around the pain and chaos they’ve caused” Read other tweets below: http://dailypost.ng/2015/04/21/nigerians-are-heartless-south-african-lady-supports-xenophobic-attacks/?wt=2
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tolutweety:#team GRACE# too ooo |



