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goodmorning40:
Waow so much frustration and rage. Yes my girls vaginass are the most important part of their body which they must guide jealousy from devourers like you who want to fuuuk a truck load of girls, so when next you come across such descent ladies just waka pass and look for free donor girls like your daughters.
If that is what makes me a hypocrite illiterate and your society shambler I am very happy I am one

goodmorning40:
So your prayer is for your daughters to be free donors on every love journey
They would have probably fukkked your entire village before they finally settle for one

goodmorning40:
What a croocked mind you have

Sarita01:
1.What are you saying,I never said money makes mother's happy I said if you want to show your mom appreciation and love,you buy her gifts. there's only so much words can do if not backed with action,
2. and why the hell are you comparing us with the whites,and how do you know how the white woman thinks,have you been with a white woman before,you judge everything based on movies you might have watched or what someone might have said.
3. The op asked a question and many men refuses to answer this question,as a man what can u offer in a relationship aside money?
4. if you decide to keep your money to yourself and she decides to keep her services to herself,what can couples offer each other in a relationship?
5. The way women view money as an entitlement is the same way men view sex,men thinks that once they're in a relationship with you,then your body is theirs to use as they want.
6. If men could change their entitlement mentality then women will also change,
7. I've seen relationships where the woman practically slaves for the man(cook,cleans,washes his clothes,fetches water,iron,give him sex whenever he wants)and the man will still open his big mouth and say she's too demanding. It's only in slavery where hard work and commitment isn't rewarded.
8. Some relationships are full time employment filled with stress,but very little gain.

padi94:
Pls complete this your statement, giving money is also not compulsory buying your own data should be embraced

Look Male and female whatever is transactional in this country Nigerian girls vagina na business center...
A typical naija girl with her attitude of collecting money before she open her legs if taken abroad will not be far from being a bawd, call girl, cocotte, courtesan, drab, hooker, hustler, sex worker, streetwalker, tart, LovePeddler...

Let the truth be said.

KidDarkness:
Why are you calling the mods?
Sex in a relationship is NOT compulsory. Chastity should be embraced.

Sarita01:
Everyone wants money,it's not only for a specific gender. The problem with my gender is that we want money but we don't wanna work for it and the easiest way to cash out is to be in a relationship. Women loves to compete with one another,we envy and also admire other women who looks hot and dresses well and we want to be like those women,that's where the unnecessary request for money stems from.most women don't want to cut their cloth according to their size and their parents wouldn't be able to or would not like to spend on non essential things
But as a man,you want your woman to look smoking hot and beautiful,you want her to be like women you admire and wish to have,you need to spend money in Repackaging her.
There are things I would love for my man to give me money for,if I'm not able to afford it,I don't work,I'm still in school,there's only so much my parents can do like paying fees and feeding me.i want to make my hair,buy new clothes,buy toiletries and I'm not working,where do you want me to get the money from if not from my man.that's why the op asked apart from money what else can a man offer in a relationship.
A girlfriend does almost everything a mother does for her child,when you meet the right woman,saying a girl friend have nothing to offer is like saying your mom have nothing to offer to you which we all know its not possible.and if you want to show your mom you love her,you buy her gifts,you shower her with money.

Calabar1stSon:
What do you think is the way forward?

Because the Youths have been blackmailed as not being ready to takeover power by the older population when in reality they've stiffened the laws in their favour.

On the otherhand, the youths have subjugated themselves as tools for electoral manipulation and violence in the hands of these politicians.

I'm of the opinion that only the youths can take away power from these politicians because they've failed us woefully.

Why I won't also blame these Men 100% is because majority of the masses vote with their stomach and not with their conscience!

Sarita01:
The writer actually have a point,what exactly can a man offer other than money,if we take money and sex off the table what else can couples offer each other.
Money in relationship should not be seen as payment but as appreciation,a man would that is thankful for having a woman that cares for him,cooks,cleans,washes,a good companion,encourages,have his back should always try and appreciate her by giving her gifts and vice versa.in our world the highest form of love is taking care of people's needs by giving them money or buying gifts for them.that's the measurement for love in this present age.but appreciation is not only meant for men alone it's also for the woman,when you truly love your man you appreciate him too for being the man of your dreams by giving him gifts or paying for some stuff,men are not allergic to gifts.actions always speaks louder than words