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Women are women

Them don beat this one sotey e no come sabi speak English again... Adesanya give am H factor beating

Kwara is peaceful, I think I agree with the list to some extent. What about Nasarawa State in the North central, is it not peaceful?

Lol all the south western state that want to have their state on the list, pls go and fix your Omonile problem first.

Lol, am a guy And I do ask o... too many political enemies. I cannot be caught sleeping

Lol... those are Buhari people, some look like his daughters

StacyO:
Now that's you mixing the truth with bitterness.

I don't attack men,I suck wisdom and know the real people.

No bad energy from this side, so ain't no room for bitterness. You only see what you want to see.

StacyO:
Now that's you mixing the truth with bitterness.

I don't attack men,I suck wisdom and know the real people.

No bad energy from this side, so ain't no room for bitterness. You only see what you wahg to see.

StacyO:
I know what it means but,I don't know what it is.

I'm not interested in all those confusions anyway.

But you vibe like a radical feminist always attacking men... I have seen your threads and comments

StacyO:
I don't know what feminism is.

Hmmmm... let me juggle your memory
Feminism is the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes.

While Radical feminism is a perspective within feminism that calls for a radical reordering of society in which male supremacy is eliminated in all social and economic contexts.

StacyO:
Now,your number one makes me right






The rest,I agree to disagree

Lol, I do not see any point I have made that makes u right, but it's fine.
Shebi you are a feminist ba??
I want to ask pls what do feminists really want in this world??

StacyO:
1). How would you know money is her top priority? Why I asked,what else can some of you men offer.
Have you tried engaging her in a biz or other things that will serve as a source of income to her.

2). Refer to number one.

3) Marriage as a matter of fact is like saying that a woman is the corner stone.
The money is given by the hubby,fine. What else?

4) Why it was written that you men are the creators of this hoes you shame and cry of.

5). I concur

6). Change in what aspect exactly?
7). mmmmm

1. She asks for money. Engaging her in biz?? These girls don't care about fishing, all they want is just fishes all the time as far as she has a vagina in which she can use to get it.

2. Skipped

3.. Aside money, roof over her head, warmth. She gets protection, attention, sense of belonging, a name to bear, the pride o being Mrs and beautiful babies. A lifetime of premium banana will fall on her

4. We did not create them ma... they chose to hoe around cos they know they have holes in between their legs.

5. Why won't you concur.

6. Change in thinking that the hole in between her legs that was meant to push out baby is a business center. And it's more important than her brains.

7. I don't get that one.


Peace

StacyO:
Ladies should no better now. Some of you are empty noise makers,I'm even feeling ashamed for some of the men on this forum.


Simple question
#whatcanyoumenofferinarelationshipapartfrommoneyandsex¿

Why will you be ashamed for a man... and I know you will end up marrying one if you haven't already. Heck he may even be on this forum.[/quote]Simple question
#whatcanyoumenofferinarelationshipapartfrommoneyandsex¿[/quote]Come on, after all your experience how is this even a question. After all the climax men(depends on your body count) have made you reach?

After all the ones that have listened to you whine about your frustrations
After all the care, love, and affection a man has showed you in a relationship
After all the partying, and outings to special places he has taken you to for the first time. Abi na your papacarry you go clubbing no be your boyfriend or male friend?
Who does those special things that your father can't do for you. Except you are lesbian which is fine and would explain why this wouldn't make sense to you.

But sister ask your fellow straight girls what their boyfriends do for them and you will be amazed, and will come to appreciate men more.

I feel this write up comes from a deep pain... and you are right my brother. It will shock us all

Sarita01:
Lol,normal how,in what aspect

Well cutting out all the bullsh*t... the truth is at different stages in a man's life he wants a different kind of woman. But what is a common denominator in all these stages is her attitude, a girl who has a character that is worth keeping. I will give you the low low later tho

Even if no be Kiddwaya party, as far as he is there he becomes the party

Sarita01:
I got tired of the back and forth arguments with you mister that's why I just agreed to disagree.
But on a closing note I want you to answer this question what do men want?the op asked that question but none of you answered,since you say women can't offer anything more than sex,what do you want them to offer apart from sex?

What a man wants is simple. A normal human female. That's all

That is all o... if she had a protruding stomach she will not post this na.

Okay cool

Sarita01:
None mister

Okay I take it that I have won this argument and have put it to rest...

From now henceforth, let it therefore be known throughout Nairaland kingdom, that most women can only offer sex in a relationship and nothing more..

Sarita01:
Let's just agree to disagree bruh,cos I'm tired of typing long Epistles. peace out dearie

If you are settling for an Agreement, you have to state the terms of that, what aspect are we agreeing to disagree on. All or some??

StacyO:
You want me to ask you some questions as regards your 1-7 ? Or like Sari typed,you agree to disagree

Go ahead and ask away

Sarita01:
You again,enh,wetin woman Don do you sef?

Nothing at all... have I said anything that implies that woman don do me something??

Madt o

StacyO:
Sorry for interfering, but in one sentence, can you write out what most, if not all Nigerian men can offer their women apart from money??

All what her father can give her and more.

Pls go back to that last quote I made, I have updated all ur points I mistakenly clicked submit half way thru...

Go check it again. You're doing well

goodmorning40:
You are so whacked your brain is malfunctioning
Slow down before you go full blown

I know I hv struck a nerve, something I said up there is true about you, either you are over 40yrs old or you have 8 kids. The way you are now cursing without making any valid points says it all

Papa 8 children

Sarita01:
My counter points
1. You buy your mom gifts to show appreciation does that mean you don't care for your woman enough to show appreciation to her by getting her gifts cos as I said in my last comment you quoted a true girlfriend does almost everything a mom does for her child,there's only so much words can do if not backed with action,your mom not asking you to get her stuff doesn't mean she's not expectant.
2. "Knowing the mind of one doesn't necessarily mean you know the mind of all"women are the same everywhere it doesn't matter the racor the colour of their skin,I'll categorize women into two,the ones that expect and the ones who demands,the expectant ones won't ask you for nothing but would like if you use your initiative to do stuff for them while the ones who demands wouldn't want to wait for you to think but would do the thinking for you.some weeks back on nairaland news,a romanian woman conspired to kill her husband so that she could get more money(spoiler alert she's a white woman),you can't tell me the man never gave her everything she wanted it she still got greedy. You're comparing black women with white women,the whites are the ones who fed feminism to us(theory of strong independent woman that is equal to the man),in a scenario where a woman decides to choose patriarchy and allows the man to do the providing,the man tags her as demanding.if we study patriarchy in-depth we'll find out that the man does all the providing while the woman sits at home and get fat.
3. Not all men can pleasure a woman(cos you said mind blowing sex) A woman can also offer care,love,affection,attention,advice,listening ear,mind blowing sex(change your style),friendship to a man,but my question is would that be enough to the man when she decides that everyone should cater for themselves and carry his/her own cross(do their house chores themselves),your woman would go out and hustle like a man,she doesn't cook,doesn't clean,doesn't do the laundry,hire nannies to take care of the children(white women don't do such stuff,they're not subservient to any man),would you like that?
4. The op said and I quote"a LovePeddler is made not born",who makes a woman a LovePeddler obviously it's a man.for generations women have struggled to find their place in a man's world,a woman wants a job she needs to sleep with the boss despite her qualifications,she wants to pass her course in School she needs to sleep with the lecturer to get good grades,for ages we've been objectified and seen as objects of sexual satisfaction,so how do you expect us to attain our goals and aspirations when men only see us as walking vaginas nothing more,you have to pay me through your vagina to get what you want(men literally made women what they are today).
5. We've evolved and have seen that men only wants our bodies and wants to make us into cheerful givers,want to kill our dreams,so why not use their own wants against them,you want my body,pay for it,it's my body you can't expect me to give it for free since you can't give me jobs for free or good grades for free,then I won't give u myself for free,since men now see everything as a business transaction,why can't I gain from it(it's a win win for both parties).
6. Such is life we have the good,the bad and the ugly,it creates a kind of balance,there'll always be women who wants to use their bodies as business and also men who will want to pay for it. But if men could change their mindset then women would be forced to make the right decisions.
8. It's not transactional for only women but also for the men.i want you now to choose what you want cos as the op said men are truly confused,do you want to be a patriarch or you want to be with a strong independent woman(a feminist),there are no gray areas,the problem with men is that they want to eat their cake and still have it(you want a woman who is submissive,subservient but not dependent)how the hell is that possible?

Lool... I must win this Argument and put it to bed. Let me counter your counter points
1. Am not saying I will not buy my girlfriend gift, you compared them to moms I was just stating the difference. For a girl care and friendship and relationship aid not her top priority. Money is. And that is a key difference btwn mothers and girlfriends.

2. Am not comparing you with whites am just saying why can't you guys be like them and only want the simple things in life. Like cuddle, kisses, love and affection. For you guys it's all about monetising all these things if not you will not accept it. Let me tell you the trick, I love giving, what I hate is the entitlement mentality. Am somewhat a mild Feminist. It angers me when I see a woman sells her dignity and self respect cos of money. See eh, the truth is that the white girls and the ones who don't ask for money like it's their right end up getting more than the typical nigerian girls in terms of monetary values. Now a typical nigerian girl only gets the change whenever she wants to give out the coochie and that happens once In a while, but the girl wey calm down go endup getting the guy(marriage) and that is a lifetime cashout and all the pecks that comes with it. Am not saying Nigerian girls won't get married o what am saying is that at the end of the day, the guy who she bills will only see her as a pay sex and no man wants that to raise his kids.

3. Lol, it's onlywomen that can pleasure them , this argument is not what the woman can offer. You asked what can a man offer aside money abi. That na the answer when I give you. Lol... marriage iss a different case entirely where everyone has their roles, the man knows its his job to take care of kids, wife and her family. Dating a nigerian girl means you owe her money. And don't come and say dating a Nigerian man means you owe him sex cos if the man does go out and gets sex from another woman she will be angry. Let us not deceive ourselves white women do house chores. There are stay at home moms. You can only say they hv more carrier women, who are not restricted by religion or culture than us. Yes they do nanny which is not bewitched by tradition and culture and painted as bad.

4. Lol, madam women choose to be love peddlers it's not any man's fault. A man only saw an opportunity in her lapses. A lecturer who demands sex for grades does so cos she can't pass with her brain and the male employer does his cos he knows she is not qualified for the job. And sometimes women make the first offer... yes they do. Note am not in support of any of the above. But for the sake of this argument, women are not as innocent as you claim. Seduction happens.

Don't get it twisted men do see women as so much more: like mother of their kids, adviser, vanguard of his future, confidant etc. It is because of this high esteem men have for women that many of them will not see husband, coss many no get sense only vagina. Truth is a man would treat you how you present yourself. You won't treat your car and toilet paper d same way their values differ.

5. Like I said before it's how you present yourself. If you jump in with your yansh first and not your brain... he will only see you as that. That assumption that men only wants your body is also not true, people that preach that are girls who have nothing upstairs. Thing is men are intimidated by women of substance, a girl who knows her onions men are afraid of demanding sex from those types without committing to them. That is the truth. Those kind of girls are rare in this country. You can't trash value if it's there it's there.

My dear a girl with skills and brains don't offer their body for positions their pedigree and value gets them there no matter the glass ceiling. Will you tell me that the great Ngozi Okonjo Iweala got to where she is by offering her body to men?? Come off it.

6. I agree with you in the first point. But na women need to change firat if they want men to treat them differently. They don't want to work hard, they always want d easy way out, which is to use their vagina to knock on the door.

7. I want an independent woman who is loyal to me and ours. I want to get her everything ashe needs knowing fully well that she has what it takes to get even more for herself. A woman that has value that she can pass on to our kids and we can hv an intellectual conversation on anything and she can best me in most. Someone who will challenge me to want to do more... I don't mind if she wants to be career woman, but she should know her priorities. Family comes first for us.

goodmorning40:
You are contradicting yourself

Lol, guy take your 40yrs old asss and go and be useful to your 8 female children who think their vagina and not their brain is the most useful part of their body.

Thank God you say gentle criticism

Well the red background is a no no... the one with the sky blue background is cool.