Romance › Re: . by Pancakeey(op): 6:03pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Kaylet: You'd have ignored the message you this tiny rat.
You're just a kid and good as my younger sister, so I'll not reciprocate.
Chat when you need me I might be tiny but my sense of reasoning isn’t diminished. Now, can we say the same for you? I’m not a kid like your younger sister. If this is the way you talk to your younger sister that’s not my business. I’m not her. And you should have also ignored my thread. Trying to bully me won’t work. |
Romance › Re: . by Pancakeey(op): 5:04pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Kaylet: You and lies Sha. I don't feel like casting you.
You're indeed what you're. I just went through your profile and I’m not surprised. This is what you do on every thread. You’ll be fine. |
Romance › Re: . by Pancakeey(op): 5:03pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Kaylet: You and lies Sha. I don't feel like casting you.
You're indeed what you're. Sorry? Do I know you? You’re free to cast me if you have anything to say But, if you don’t have anything meaningful to say then maybe you should try ignoring for once. |
Romance › Re: . by Pancakeey(op): 8:36pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
missimelda01: Hey hunie Sending you love and light!
Don’t be too hard on yourself, you need some time to figure things out..a relationship might not be what you need at this point. There are lots of unhappy people in relationships, focus on finding happiness from within...you’ll be fine in no time  Thank you ❤️ |
Romance › Re: . by Pancakeey(op): 7:26pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
NATIONALPASTOR: Fear not.
Its nothing new.
Its been happening.
You need that experience for your development in life.
That experience will prepare you properly and make you more stable and fully balanced in your future relationships.
Remember that A BROKEN FRIENDSHIP/COURTSHIP IS FAR BETTER THAN A BROKEN MARRIAGE ...
FINALLY, THE GUY LOVED YOU BUT I LOVE YOU MORE...
JUST CHILL LETS TOAST TO A BETTER LIFE FOR YOU.
DON'T FORGET TO BE STRONG FOR YOURSELF. Lol, thanks Your I love you more line made me smile I know I need this experience to grow. I’m just struggling to adapt It’s all fresh in my mind |
Romance › Re: . by Pancakeey(op): 6:00pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Thanks everyone for some of the nice and not so nice replies.
I really appreciate all your replies. |
Romance › Re: . by Pancakeey(op): 3:55pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
pcguru1: You're a lady so my advice is different a bit, there's no shame in feeling like that, we are all humans. But you have to have this mentality that you have your own self to watch out for.
Having a balanced life or an hobby, or something you can put your energy into, I am a guy , or we are guys, some of us do not know how to process heart-break, as it's just another disappointment to us as usual. So I will say don't focus too much on that, the revenge is living well.
Then going out matters a lot, you will connect with like-minds. Corona is here now, so it might be limited, go out, or join all those travel groups on Instagram where they visit places.
then do a form of self-development, what skills can you pick up, and what field can you go into. Living a fulfilled life is the only way one can stay steady, if not it would just seem like you are working and there is no purpose. With all these, this will give you a sense of growth till relationship picks up. That is my honest advice. Thanks a lot❤️ |
Romance › Re: . by Pancakeey(op): 3:53pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
SpeciMental: @Pancakeey
Many would speak soft, comforting words to you in a bid to show empathy. However, when all fleeting hugs and kisses are over, you'd still be left with your current predicament. Here, I give you raw truth that you must pay the price to realize and find true freedom.
Every situation you find yourself in life is an opportunity to grow and become a better you, both the highs and lows. Your ex might have been a great guy or not, and he may have been right or not about you. It matters not. Now he's left you with an opportunity for you to invest more time and resources into yourself.
You have an opportunity here to learn the power to be alone yet not lonely. Without this as the basis of your life, all relationships and endeavours you commit to will be at a compromise of inner peace with yourself and self-realisation.
Nevertheless, acknowledging the basic human need for companionship, this only becomes possible if you bring yourself to decide to commit solely to investing in your personal capacity till you're capable of making your wildest dreams come true. Seek companionship from your dreams making a chair at your table for them so they always sit before you and making a bed for them in your head so they always lie down with you. They are worthy companions, more than enough in number, and will stick with you till your last breath if you stick with them.
You must start by making a list of all the things you'd love to do on earth before you're gone and start to invest in yourself right now, in any little way possible until you're capable of making them a reality.
#Unemotional, purely mental from the philosophical Specimen# Thanks a lot |
Romance › Re: . by Pancakeey(op): 3:49pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
TATALoAlaMu: Don't rush. Spend some time with family. Family is unavailable. I’m just alone at home |
Romance › Re: . by Pancakeey(op): 3:49pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Truvel: What Is Or Are D Reasons 4 D Sadness? Is It Because Of D Break Up? Or D Job? Or Because U Are Broke? Or Because U Feel U Are Alone? Everything is enough reason to mad me sad. I’m not where I expected I should have been this year. The year is almost over and I’m ending it alone and broke. |
Romance › Re: . by Pancakeey(op): 3:47pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
light099: From those points I was able to pick out from your post, it's obvious what you really want but somehow along the way, you still managed to maneuver and wear an entirely different garment on your intention at the end, in order to give a right impression of your wrong motive. Well, every other person on the thread might be carried away but you and I really know that kind words are the least thing you desire at the moment, that is why I canceled it out. What you really need is a cheerful giving maga who could bankroll your broke ass on a steady, while at the same time he would put up with your inability to contribute anything to the parasitic relationship and your unavailability because of your tight work schedule. Whenever you're ready to be useful to yourself and others in life, getting good friends is the least of your problems but a parasite has no friends. I don’t know how to reply to this. Yes, maybe you’re right. I knew I was a liability to him and yes I wasn’t available all the time. But I’m sure I don’t need a maga at this moment to bankroll me. I want to add to myself. What happens when I meet another guy to cover up my expenses? And we break up again? I’ll be left in where I began. Broke and unavailable. Thanks for this tho. |
Romance › Re: . by Pancakeey(op): 2:47pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Nueel: You just have to stay strong this period.
Forget about what your ex said and concentrate on work. This life no hard o. Try and get along with folks around you, so as to forget about the breakup stuff. Work on yourself too. This life no hard o ❤️ |
Romance › Re: . by Pancakeey(op): 2:47pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Brandonx:
I don't know why I find your writeup amusing! But Sister don't worry ehn we ve got you covered. @ luminouz is here for you. Lol thank you I guess |
Romance › Re: . by Pancakeey(op): 2:46pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Madibah: this is why I advise people to take MJ What's that? |
Literature › Re: TAMING HIS DESIRES 9 Cont’d (18+) by Pancakeey(op): 2:33pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
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Romance › . by Pancakeey(op): 2:29pm On Nov 18, 2020*. Modified: 3:33pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: How CRAZY was/is your Ex? by Pancakeey(f): 2:12pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
punisha: Another lucky lady. There's a thin line between love n hate dear. You will be shocked that all u need is just a trigger and u won't even want to hear the name of that ur prince charming anymore. Yeah I so much agree |
Romance › Re: How CRAZY was/is your Ex? by Pancakeey(f): 9:05pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Powerfly: Sammy has beaten not less than 3 guys because he felt they were making advances at me. I told this dude from the first day that i was into women.. That anything i did with guys were simply smokescreen dramas which i usually pull out when i'm bored and done.. but sammy went ahead to introduce me to his mum as the girl he wants to marry. He gets so freaking jealous and says alot of hateful and harmful comments. Gosh! He even crys alot. dude is a pisces nigga. Water element signs are often obsessed with people they have feelings for..leading them to passion crimes. Lol how did you end it with him? |
Romance › Re: How CRAZY was/is your Ex? by Pancakeey(f): 9:03pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Reading all these crazy ex posts and I can’t relate  . I’ve never had a crazy ex. I’ve never been a crazy ex. I can’t imagine hurting someone I claimed to love before. Lol love really does things to people |
Romance › Re: She Would Want More. by Pancakeey(f): 8:55pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Op wants to eat his cake and have it.  Anyhow keep hitting if kasala burst be a man and face it. Enjoy it while it lasts |
Romance › Re: There Are No More Virgin Girls, A nairalander cries out! by Pancakeey(f): 8:51pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
It’s like you need a virgin for sacrifice abi? |
Romance › Re: by Pancakeey(f): 7:34pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Yahoo boy don collect your babe  Ehya. You’ll be fine |
Educational Services › Re: Forget ASUU And Apply For A Virtual Paid Internship Of N77,000 by Pancakeey(op): 10:01pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
Zz |
Educational Services › Re: Forget ASUU And Apply For A Virtual Paid Internship Of N77,000 by Pancakeey(op): 5:00pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
Internship registration is on |
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Romance › Re: Ladies Slim Guys And Bold Guys Which Do You Prefer by Pancakeey(f): 5:34pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Auladimeji: We have so many useless Simps on Niaraland.. Yinmu And their leader is Auladimeji king of simps nation |
Romance › Re: Ladies Slim Guys And Bold Guys Which Do You Prefer by Pancakeey(f): 5:33pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Brunosamel: look at them Entitlement done enter your head... Go and make your own money jera  |
Romance › Re: Ladies Slim Guys And Bold Guys Which Do You Prefer by Pancakeey(f): 5:32pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Eeeew how will someone prefer short guys? Short guys should be an abomination and they should be banished from earth  I won’t engage any midget who’s offended with my reply. I said what I said  Grow some height  |
Romance › Re: But Why Are London Nigeria Females So Rude? by Pancakeey(f): 5:30pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
TheCork: ^^^^^ threre u go....see one of them ..is it ilegal for Nigerian women to be nice? Can u even reach London sef? (Goat) 
Hahaha[color=#770077][/color]  sorry o How’s London? |
Romance › Re: I Want To Fall In Love by Pancakeey(f): 5:29pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
JOACHINpedro: You hope for a better yield in relationships, you don't expect it cuz it's no longer assured. Sixfeetbelle na op. Hmm I don’t agree. My relationship is rocky at the moment. You can’t tell me to hope it gets better. Because that won’t do it. I feel we just have to work towards achieving that perfect relationship. Expectations or not Ooh  I didn’t even check the op moniker |
Educational Services › Re: Forget ASUU And Apply For A Virtual Paid Internship Of N77,000 by Pancakeey(op): 5:26pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
adinoyi360: do i need to open my email to complete the registration? because my email is not accessible nw Yes, you have to verify your mail. |
Educational Services › Re: Forget ASUU And Apply For A Virtual Paid Internship Of N77,000 by Pancakeey(op): 5:25pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Vasgas: Good morning, I just finished my registration on the internship site. I have some few questions to ask you?
1. Have you been paid by the platform before?
2. is this your first time of working with them?
3. Can one applied for multiple internship Programs?
4. Any advise on what one should expect ?
Thanks for your time Hello Vasgas. Congratulations on your registration. I do not work for internshala but I’m a beneficiary to their internships. Yes you can apply for multiple internships. In fact, it is wise to apply for more than one. Because it’s just like you’re applying for a real job so you might get picked in one application and you may not be picked in another. So to be on the safe side apply for multiple internships. Yes, and please do not pay any company or send money to anyone. Internshala is free. The internships are virtual so you’d be working remotely. You might be lucky to get a three month paid internship and yes, having a laptop or a good mobile phone will aid your internship. Good luck! |