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Na today we don dey hear this one? Abegi, let us hear word.

Stanna2025:
His downfall will be so loud beyond unimaginable..only time will reveal these

This is stereotyping and it's really unfortunate.
You young people these days just talk anyhow without thinks.
What makes you think she has lived the life you have described?
You had a camera watching her youthful life?
This is an irresponsible opinion from you to describe someone you don't know personally. Very irresponsible

Sonnobax15:

Awnnn. Just take a look at how this brought tears to my eyes

After successfully wasting away her youthful years, while forming maradona, dribbling men and chopping their money as if she'd be like Ronaldo forever,now na she just realize say true true there's something that's called meno-stop which is one thing that's capable of humbling women allover the world

I come dey pity for her, honestly. May God send her one mugu who'll come to her rescue,but certainly not me or any of my brothers

Your mouth sha na wa o.
Are you this free and Idle to talk about people like this?

AWONEYAN:
Is this what is next for him?
Two expired spent layers getting married at low salvage value.

Secretary to the Federal Government thinking of how to do honey moon when Trump was helping us to deal with the terrorist

The woman marrital CV is super crazy..
She was once married to.....
1. Former Governor of Jigawa State
2. Dubai Business man
3. Ooni of Ife
4. Qatar Prince

And now....
5. George Akume (SGF)

Am surprised she is wearing white gown. She should have put on campala of many colors

Nigeria has no repressive regime. Your candidate lost elections does not mean the person who won you begin to paint him bad. Which repression have you particularly experienced?

Orlandoo:
Warning to those migrants who resides in the US while supporting repressive regime in their own country Nigeria. One day Trump will ask them to self deport.

Boss, first to comment actually means first to comment ON THE TOPIC, not comment "first to comment".
How do you comment first to comment without even a single line on your thoughts on the topic? Na wa o.

Ceejay8:
First to comment , thanks everyone , this is my first time making FTC , I dedicate this to Mazi nnamdi Kanu and omoyele sowore

Shave of your hair, wash it with heads and shoulders or any shampoo, then apply black seed oil.
Just once you do this and it will be over.
But continue to apply black seed oil.

Letteris not bully.

jiz:
Dr. Olisa Agbakoba, SAN, has written a second letter to the suspended Senator representing Kogi Central in the National Assembly, Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan, demanding a retraction of what he described as her “clearly false and unsubstantiated”

Dear SAN, allow the court to declare the allegations false and unsubstantiated. Don't bully our best performing and elegant senator. No panic, Akpabio go settle you either you win or lose

What settlement?
Do you know the gravity of her allegation?
Oh yes, she can be forced to retract if she does not have evidence to produce and if she cannot explain the inconsistencies of exalting someone who you claimed harrassed you just the next day after the harrassment and subsequent days with warm photos of she and the accused together.

Babangidapikin:
You can't force a retraction, if she claims she has evidence.. rather you reach a settlement.

Stop her by all means if want to see her alive again.

Penguin2:
My young cousin sister just told me she got a visa to travel to Cairo and ‘work’ but I don’t trust this ‘work’ narrative.

The impression I have of these Arab cities ( Cairo, Dubai, etc) is that African girls are trafficked there to go and prostitute for their traffickers.

But people who have information about what happens in Cairo can tell me.

Do Nigerians genuinely work in Cairo or is my little cousin about to be a victim of traffickers?

Asking is not accusing.
Especially on the premise of the tradition of infidelity from yor tribe which I believe she is aware of.

Just ask nicely but very deeply. If she says no, believe her, get it off your mind and give her serious knacking llle Nackson.

If she did, with time you will know.

That is if a State of emergency is not declared in Rivers state before then.
Don't under estimate the combo of two political juggernauts in Tinubuand Wike over paper weight Fubara. He will be kicked out if they find him a threat to their own political ambitions and nothing will happen.

Freshtruth:
All of the that resign will later regret it. If Fabura move to Lp he will win 2027 . I strongly think he is thinking to that direction with his recent romance with Alex Otto. This drama will just work in peter obi favour to win PH in the next presidential election. I trust Tinubu if he was in obi situation he would have contacted Fabura that is how tinubu is master of politics

Threaten to go public, international public with them if tou are not refunded.

proeast:
I just had a nasty experience at the Indian consulate in Ho Chi Minh City.

Here is the entire story:

On Friday, I went to the Indian consulate in HCMC to apply for one month tourist visa, after booking online the previous night. On getting to the consulate, the lady at the reception took my documents inside and after a while, returned to tell me that my visa has been granted in principle. That i have been issued with a single entry visa. However, I must pay 6.3000,000.00 VND about $250. I was shocked when I heard this because I already paid the agent that booked the appointment $100 thinking it included visa fees. They said it was because I’m a Nigerian and we are charged higher. Nevertheless, I decided to go ahead and pay the amount to save myself further stress. But the lady again, insisted I must pay cash.

I called a Vietnamese lady who accompanied me and she helped provide the balance because I had only 3+ million VND with me.

After paying, they collected my passport, Vietnamese visa and then conducted biometrics on me. Then I left.

This morning, I received a call from the consulate that I have to pay another 8 million VND otherwise my visa would not be issued to me. I was shocked and I told them that I can't pay a dime again. They either issue my visa or refund my money. The lady agreed that I should come and get the refund. However, on getting to the consulate, they refused to give me the refund. That it was a new policy. Eventually, I left with my passport. No visa! no $250!

I'm currently feeling robbed and dehumanized. I don't know how to go about this to seek justice.

Pls can anyone help me with advise or pro bono services because I believe I have a good case and such inhuman acts shouldn't be allowed.

Dont know if this is the right section to put this enquiry, however, forgive me dear esteemed Mod.

Please, how can one who has been away for over 10 plus years from Nigeria get his BVN done?

The diaspora centers are far off from his location and he has no means to make the trip.

A lot of our people are stuck abroad because they are under travel ban due to one issue or the other, just waiting for the right time to face the issue, which are mostly document related.
Some too have no shishi to move both home and abroad.

Suffer dey outside o, I swear 9ja better pass away.

Please if person has any idea kindly share.

Thanks.

They are subsidizing everything for you that is what they are doing with all the money. Its easy to call people names because of the parochial mindset you have. Education, Electricity, Healthcare and many more are subsidized by the government, If you think its a lie, ask you relations abroad to tell you how much they pay for these things, then you will understand.

Johnjustice:
The headline clearly said most expensive kilowatt in Africa...you people supporting government when they increase tarrifs and fuel costs, you people are.either paid sycophants or very naive.

Ask yourself, what is the government doing with all the money they make from Nigeria and Nigerians?

Are they lying or they didn't compare it to America that is your problem? Choose one. By the way you dont you have google or Safari on your phone to make a simple research to confirm?
The America you mentioned is more than all of them there.
All you people do in Nigeria is complain, complain and complain.

SalamRushdie:
Static sense and lies , why don't they compare it to America

These are the CSOs and Elders that are causing trouble in the State.
They want to assume themselves positions they don't have.

That 1st presentation of the budget to only 4 members was an aberration.
They didn't even look at the budget before they approved it.

What a shame for the so called Elders and CSOs to support such an anomaly.

It's not loud. The Senator is assuming her authority over FCT above Wike. She needs to calm down. Senators of a state for example dont demand from thier Governors accountability like that.

She should do her job and Let the Minister do his job. The constitution does not say the minister should be reporting to the Senatorbut to the President. Who is she to demand audience from the Minister even if he or she is not Wike?

Anyway, I trust Wike.

Anguldi:
Fire on the mountain Tinubu ain't firing Wike

I have never met the Minister until he came for appropriation. I have reached out to him several times. The Minister for some reason thinks Senator Aduda (ex-Senator of the FCT) is still the Senator, unfortunately that's not the case.

I have written him one or two letters, I have Whatsapp messages sent to him, and I didn't get a response.

This allegation loud oOoOO

All this hate conclusion is because he did not support the clueless Peter Obi. That's all.

Malroux:
Wike is an empty barrel. All talks and no action.

Well done.

However, when you have the funds, invest in a green house and innovate your faming techniques to mitigate the pest issues especially rodents.

Shit happens...move on.

The Government should take thos issue seriously.

This is an act of war against Neighboring countries.

We are under attack by foreign invaders.

The response should be precise and overwhelming to put a stop to this.

The President needs to act now.

My dear bro, that is life for you.
You can make decisions yourself if you are single.

Now that you have a life partner, it's not always easy to make sole decisions like Abacha or Idi Amin Dada of Uganda.

Please, God will replenish your pocket when you do for others.

Kindly take the 100k, buy the rice and tell them to rebag for you so you can share to her mom and your mother too.

100k will never stop your plans.

The bottom line is your wife will be happier, comfortable and will even respect you more as she prepares to deliver.

I wish you safe delivery of your baby and a happy home.

Remain blessed.

Opportunist, always seeking for photo ops.

This man is deceptive and will ruin Nigeria even worse than it is today if given the chance to be President.

He will probably reduce government spending but that will be all he can do, his policies will be disastrous for the nation.

As Governor he didn't steal when no one could question him, is it now that he is not Governor he wants to steal?

This is not about rigging elections or stealing, there is more to it.

Wutinky:
It’s not about not working for Obi, Wike rigged the election with impunity, this rigging caused the most of them passing night at electoral office and he still went ahead with the rigging, he’s power drunk like Tinubu, what’s purpose of Godfatherism if not to steal the state dry until their death.

Boys not men.
A mature man will not blame her.

preshpraiz:
My dear, I can relate to you because I have a first hand experience of what you are going through. Please keep providing for your boys, God will always come through for you.
As for the deadbeat dad, karma is real. He will definitely reap what he is sowing
I have managed to teach my children contentment, even if it's garri and sugar that I can afford, we all drink it in joy and lots of laughter. Contentment has really helped me.
FYI some men will blame you for his addiction to gambling, they will say you nagged him into gambling. Wait for them, they will soon land but sweetheart I will advice you press the IGNORE BUTTON.

You made a mistake knowing his behavior and still going ahead to marry him.
Anyway, no need to blame you now.

As for your sons, they have already seen your struggles for them and they rely on you only.
So do not fear or fret. They will grow up with much respect for you and repay you back with care.
As for your decision to go and not return,
well that's a good one. He will come looking for you when he gets back to his senses and becomes responsible.

Sorry about this, we all have our trials and tribulations,
this is yours...keep praying.

If you have opportunity to travel out with your kids, please do so quietly. Dont tell a single soul about it.

When you get there, divorce him and move on with your life.

Greatmind653:
Pls, if you don't really understand this post, don't comment please. If you're gender bias, pls, read and ignore.

Good morning kind hearted people in the house. Pls, I need honest and matured advice from experience and knowledgeable people in the house.

How can I train my sons especially my 11yrs old boy into a good, respectful, well behaved young man in a situation where he constantly see his father in gambling addiction, and the house is not always peaceful because of this?

How can I make them believe that the fact that their father does not provide anything for them nor anything in the house, does not mean they're not good enough?
My son has learnt the habit of not asking his Dad for anything no matter how little because he knows the answer already. He would rather starve than ask him for anything. Every of his needs, he will patiently wait for me.

I practically provide everything in the house and he knows. Infact my husband and my two sons can be in the house hungry for the whole day if I'm not around.
Any money he has is strictly for betting. He wouldn't even use it to feed himself not to talk of his children.
He eat anything I provide in the house without him providing. Most times it's very annoying.
Most times, we don't talk to each other in this house, yet anything I cook, he must eat.
I'm trying my best, because I can't watch my kids go hungry or stay without light, water, TV subscriptions and the rest. But once he's holding TV remote, no one dare change the channel.

How can I train well behaved young boys in a home like this? I'm so lonely and worried for my children too.

I'm no longer traumatized by his gambling addiction, because I have tried everything, and it didn't work if this is the life he wants, then fine.

I'm traveling with my two boys for the Christmas and I intend to stay in my family house for a very long time. Maybe not to return back here.
This house, I shoulder the house rent, all the bills all for the sake of my children. I don't want a broken home. I don't want my children growing up lonely without the presence of their both parents. But, am I doing the right thing here?
My husband has refused to change for years. all efforts, complain, family intervention all failed.
He's been in gambling even before we got married. I have endure for so long and I'm scared if what I'm enduring really worth it.

I've given up either.

Am I making my children better by staying together here or they could be better when we're apart?
Anyone experience this before?

What's the right thing to do here?

1. It will definitely hurt. You should feel sad about it. Everyone will.
However, don't take it too personal else you are labeled an enemy of progress.
You must withdraw smartly from this so called friend, he is or never was a friend.
Reduce your engagements with him, focus on yourself and family.

2. You need to understand that so many children are here, teenagers and the rest...they don't really understand lifes intricacies at least yet. So they will always give their opinions naively.

For me, I think this is no longer making sense.

There must be other motives and interests to all this.

Wike seems to be hated so much now because he didn't support Peter Obi in the last elections.

Otherwise, where was this NLC and TIC since 1999 when Tinubu held Lagos down or other states where former Governors have had a say or two after their time in office in their states?

Wike should leave Fubara alone to run the state but I think all this noise is completely unnecessary.

Boss, God Almighty in heaven will continue to bless you. Amen.

I am very happy to see this and very proud of you.

This is good news and thanks for sharing.
You might know, but this has and will encourage one or two or more people out there.

Well done.

You are the one that used a bad language to address someone,
you are the one still saying his/her comment is the reason for Nairaland ban.

Between you and the person who is putting this platform more at risk? Are you not being a hypocrite?

So because Obi made a comment, someone cannot disagree again?

Why?

AqualinaXYZ:
As you hear Obi your peniss don stand



If na news about how Tinubu is destroying economy you’ll hide your shameless face


Na una type make them dey report Nairaland

You are very correct. They do everything with sentiments. Always thinking negative. That is why they are like that.

Confirmedzombie:
National alignment. Soon only igbos will be left in the sailing ship.

Igbos don't know how to play politics at all.

Igbo can never produce president in Nigeria.

They play politics of hate, bitterness, ethnicity, religion, sentences.

God bless GEJ for joining the moving train