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Christianity EtcRe: Is Artificial Insemination A Sin When Done By A Single Lady?? by PapaFejiro: 5:45am On Sep 22, 2022
No it's not. Please fo ahead and have your child and impossible onetowo more.
If marriage is not coming, it's good you have your children to make your life eventful and not lonely.
Please go ahead.
PoliticsRe: 2023: Major Contenders For Senate Presidency IF Tinubu Wins - Obinoscopy by PapaFejiro: 5:38am On Sep 22, 2022
1st time senator cannot be Senate President.
Great2017:
Why did you not consider Oshiomhole?
PoliticsRe: 2023: Major Contenders For Senate Presidency IF Tinubu Wins - Obinoscopy by PapaFejiro: 5:37am On Sep 22, 2022
This is just an analysis, you dont need to get emotional or carried away. No one is being mischievous.
EzeNwaanyiMmili:
rubbish post


I rather see Atiku win than Tinubu

Tinubu presidency is dead before arrival.

sane Nigerians have rejected him

where will he get votes ?
SE is no go area
SW apart from his urchins , real Omoluabis and intellectuals in SW have rejected him totally.
North he'll struggle to get reasonable votes in the North because except you're living in a fools paradise you'll realise that the north is going for their brother Atiku.
Middle belt is no go area because what Middle belt saw in Apc their mouth no fit talk am.
you don't expect such people to vote the very person romancing murderous herdsmen because of their votes.
South South will be between Obi and Atiku because no reasonable southerner will want to reinforce failure called Apc through the agbado munching gorilla Tinubu.

so I ask again where and how will Tinubu win ?
which region will he sweep ?
the only hope of the agbado munching urchins is federal might because they're in power but buhari I know will not interfere in this election and it will be level battle field.

so projecting Tinubu to win is you being mischievous and propagating a paid agenda which we all know already.

Tinubu will never be president
God will not abandon Nigeria in the hands of Tinubu.

God bless igbos
God bless real Omoluabis
God bless North.
God bless other tribes in Nigeria.

thunder scatter Tinubu urchins.
PoliticsRe: Aisha Yesufu Analysis Of Peter Obi Chances Of Winning The Presidential Election by PapaFejiro: 5:57pm On Sep 21, 2022
She is making predictions based on emotions. That's all.
It will shock you to note that a lot of factors will hinder Obi in his so called stronghold of the SE.
1. No known political stakeholder or leader supports him. And these people have their hardcore followers.
2. The IPOB question.
Peter Obi will not win any state in the SE.

The South-South, hahaha I am laughing when she thinks Obi will win here, how? Maybe Edo state, otherwise forget. Then maybe PDP dont resolve their crises and Wike joins Obi, otherwise he will loose here big time.
People don't make realistic analysis before they come out to talk.

In the entire North, just forget it. Dont follow the enlightened few who are online supporting Obi, you see those voters with small radio, no one can change their minds there, they will only vote for a Northerner like Atiku and Kwankwaso. They don't even know who Peter Obi is.

For the South West, well I trust Yoruba people, they will not say it, but a Yoruba can never see a yoruba man on the ballot and vote an Igbo man. It can never happen save for a few young ones.

Fact is Peter Obi cannot win this election.
PoliticsRe: 100,000 APC Members Defect To PDP In Katsina (Pictures) by PapaFejiro: 5:20pm On Sep 11, 2022
You must be living in the past or a fools paradise to compare 2019 to 2023.
lhordspy:
Lol. Another cheap propangada by miscreants. In few minutes, we are going to see exodus of Obidients miscreant jubilating. You are supporting LP, but jubilating over PDP.

If we call them PDP lite now, they will start to cry and waiL.

If you can show me a picture depiciting or someone carrying a Full placard with atiku face on it in those picture you posted. I will send you 10k.


This was a governorship mobilization for the governorship candidate of the PDP organised by the state chapter in safana LG . Nobody defected. It was a mere political mobilization.

Those people arent even upto to 300. In a state where APC polled over 1million+ votes difference in 2019.

And to think people still say Atiku will win in kastina, the home of President muhammed buhari is nothing but BLASPHEMY. A man, atiku that couldnt win his polling unit in 2019.

Kastina is more APC, than a p*nis is made for a va*gina.
FamilyRe: Help! My Wife Doesn't Want To See My Best Friend In Our Apartment Again by PapaFejiro: 9:12pm On Sep 10, 2022
You are good in this for sure.
Domipraiz:
Good evening to you all. I don't know if this is the right place to drop this.

Am a married man. I lived in the same compound with my best friend sister. We Just moved into the neighborhood not too long (11 months ago). My friend's sister is also married with kids.

Let me go straight to the point, ever since we moved into the compound this woman has been disturbing my wife with gossip. She's a full house wife while my wife is running a M.sc programme but due to ASUU strike, she has being at home. This woman will come to my wife and talk bad things about everyone living in the neighborhood including those living in our compound. Most funny thing about her is that once she leave our apartment, she's moving into the next apartment.

My wife and I have studied her very well that most time we try to avoid, ignore or resist her from coming to our house but to no avail.
Not that I can't warn her to stop coming but am trying to avoid issues that will arise between me and my friend and also her husband.

She was keeping malice with another woman (Mrs Adelaku) in our compound because the woman ignored her totally as a result of her gossip.

Last two weeks Mrs Adelaku came to our apartment to invite my wife to her brother's wedding and as a result of that she thinks my wife is getting closer to that woman.

Yesterday she came to our house and confronted my wife of gossiping with the other woman (Mrs Adelaku) about her. That when neighbors are trying to settle issues between her and Mrs Adelaku that she quoted my wife. She accused my wife of telling Mrs Adelaku everything she has being telling her. And also tell my wife not to confront Mrs Adelaku.

But my wife went to Mrs Adelaku that same day to confront her but she swear with the bible and everything she has that she never tell her anything related to that. That perphers she and my wife are not a gist partner if not for the wedding invitation that she brought.

With anger, my wife went back to this woman (my friend sister) and tell her what the woman said. She later apologies to my wife that it was a trick. That she just wants to know their discussing that when she came with the wedding I.V she discovered that the woman (Mrs Adelaku) stayed a little bit longer in our apartment.

Ever since my wife has developed so much hatred for her/ her husband and even my friend that she doesn't want to see anyone of them again in our apartment.

Am so sorry for the long story, am not to good in this. Kindly bear with me.

What can I do in this situation? Matured mind please, thanks.
PoliticsRe: Wike: Presidential Aide Backing Atiku, PDP, Ayu by PapaFejiro: 7:00am On Sep 09, 2022
Peter Obi will not win Rivers state. Except if Wike joins his campaign. Believe it or not.
AntonVince:
Oga Wike, the one-man riot squad. grin
Enough of this singing like a canary.
Moja mosa lafi 'nmo akinkoju loju ogun (The hallmark of a great warrior is knowing when to fight and equally knowing when to retreat)

You don't have to exhaust your arsenal in one swoop.
You have rattled the PDP enough and left no one in doubt as to your importance and the party leadership has already made concessions to assuage your concerns. That for me is enough. It's time to sheath your sword.

As you are very much aware, even you with all your grit cannot stop Peter Obi from winning Rivers State, so what is the point of fighting to death? Simply embrace the olive branch being extended to you, get your loyalists firmly rooted in the NWC and BoT and then go back to your state to work for Obi.

Simply play the game your traducers played with Jonathan in 2015. Do the same thing the likes of Sule Lamido and Adamu Muazu did in 2015. Stay in the PDP but work for Obi.
CrimeRe: 2 Widows Accused Of Being Witches Tortured To Death In Cross River (Graphic Pics by PapaFejiro: 6:20pm On Aug 30, 2022
I can tell you one thing, they must have laid curses on the idiots who did this to them and also the land before the gave up.
That is why they can never progress as a people. Please Biafra take them, these idiots cannot be part of the South-South region or Niger Delta.
Obio4real:
More details have emerged on how two widows, Mrs Martina Osom and Mrs Rose Akom were tortured to death by youths on Saturday, August 27 in Ebbaken community in Boje, Boki Local Government Area of Cross River State.

Photos obtained by GRASSROOT REPORTERS shows one of the aged women tied with sticks while the other was set ablaze.

GRASSROOT REPORTERS gathered that the women who are Catholics were returning from early morning prayers when the youths accused them of initiating a member of the community into witchcraft.

They had ordered the women to confess that they are witches.

An eyewitness had told Vanguard that:
“They were both tied with strong ropes and beaten in the rain all through the day until they died."

Source: https://www.grassrootreportersng.com/2022/08/photos-how-2-widows-accused-of-being-witches-were-tortured-to-death-in-criver.html
FamilyRe: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by PapaFejiro: 3:24pm On Aug 29, 2022
Are you married?
Candidlady:
sad


You want your wife's mum to pack her kaya back to her house so your wife's so called godmother could stay undecided
Or am imissing something huh

Stewpid question please
1. This her godmother who/what is she to you undecided

2. Who invited the godmother over (something tells me you were the one that invited her)
For her to use such lines
My wife later came to me outside and was annoyed "that I dont welcome her mother in my house."



Lemme drift a Lil

please what is the gender of your kid?
If it is a boy child kindly look for the neatest waste bin


all the best to you
FamilyRe: Help! Am I Wrong Asking My Wife To Talk To Her Mum by PapaFejiro: 3:23pm On Aug 29, 2022
You are right. Your wife is being childish. But no need to react
Just let things play out. Don try to force anything. So she will mature and begin to reason properly.
UncleDaddy2017:
My wife recently put to bed our first child. While at the hospital, it's been my wife's godmother who travelled down from another state specifically to be with my wife. Infact, she came straight to the hospital and she has been the one sleeping there with her at night. While I stay with her by day. When am at the hospital to relieve her, she goes to our house to sleep.

My wife's mom and my mom (both live few streets away from ours) do come to the hospital during the day ... So fast forward to yesterday Sunday.

My mother-in-law told my wife she will come after church... Hours after church closed we still didn't see her. Only for her to show up with a big traveling bag. And she knew quite well that my wife's godmother put up at our house.

My house is a one bedroom apartment.

When she came, I asked my wife that now that her mom is here, how will all of us sleep in this house as my wife, our baby and the godmother will sleep in the room, while I stay in the sitting room. She became angry and said they will all stay in the room. But that if I don't want her mom to stay in the house, she will just tell her to go away.

So I told her that the proper thing to do is tell her mom to wait till Wednesday when the godmother lives, then she can come. Besides her house is only few streets away. She can be coming during the day and go back home.

So this night now, the mom has bathed and has gone to stay in the room. The godmother who's now feeling sleepy, had to stay in the living room as she can't go to the room bc her mom is there. Me on the other hand, can't sleep in the living room bc her godmother is in the sitting room.... So I sat at the veranda until 11pm. The cloth I had on was the one I wore since morning. I can't go to the room to change as the mom is there. Neither the living room bc the other woman is there.

My wife later came to me outside and was annoyed that I dont welcome her mother in my house.

Do you think I'm wrong to have told my wife to tell her to wait till Wednesday before she comes?

NB: my mother inlaw and I, live like mother and son until she came yesterday Sunday.
Christianity EtcRe: Okpaleke: Rejected As Bishop In Imo, Accepted By The Pope As Cardinal (Video) by PapaFejiro: 9:38am On Aug 29, 2022
Any lie in the headline?
StrongandMighty:
I wonder what's the intentions of the mod that moved this topic to the front page with such destructive headline...
EducationRe: 10 Best Performing States & Regions In WAEC 2021 by PapaFejiro: 5:34am On Aug 20, 2022
The average is taken by the number of states in the region. Cumulatively SE have never beaten SS.
Enyimbafc:
SS has six states while SE has 5 states.SE leads by percentage.
EducationRe: 10 Best Performing States & Regions In WAEC 2021 by PapaFejiro: 5:32am On Aug 20, 2022
Amazing comment...South South to the world.
Michelle70:
out of the ten, SS has four.

Omo, we too sabi book
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Navy Arrests Norwegian Ship Stealing Crude Oil In Nigeria by PapaFejiro: 5:26am On Aug 20, 2022
Give Nigeria a chance please.
hisexcellency34:
They are the same people behind the theft
CrimeRe: 16 Nigerians On Interpol’s Wanted List by PapaFejiro: 8:51pm On Aug 19, 2022
Igbo people, chai. Na wa o.
Oghene meh...biko.

Why are you people like this? Later you will call yourselves umu chineke and look at how you guys are destroying our country name outside.
It's really bad.
Not good at all.
Nemere2020:
https://fij.ng/article/16-nigerians-on-interpols-wanted-list/
PoliticsRe: Why Wike Should Be Expelled From The PDP by PapaFejiro: 6:10am On Aug 10, 2022
1. You are a hater of Wike.

2. Your hate is baseless.

3. Your hate is baseless because you have been fooled by the media.
Did Wike tell you or anyone else that he wanted to be VP? The man has clearly said he went silent and took a break. Why are you and the media claiming he is asking to be VP? He was never in that committee.
You people are just haters and very wicked. Everyone of us will react same way he did and even worse. How can you reach agreement with people and when the day comes they betray you?

Wike is the tap root of PDP when everyone ran away. He held the party down so it can survive, now you all hate him. Shame on you all.

You people in Nigeria hate truth, you love lies and darkness that's why we are not growing as a country. Any outspoken person saying the truth is killed or hated. Abegi una go siddon one place.
kingsways:
1. At the convention and before the whole world, Wike promised to support any candidate that won PDP primaries. He is failing to keep his promise

2. Wike lacks honour. It's only someone who lacks honour that breaks a promise

3. No where in the world is the candidate of a party compelled to pick a candidate he defeated as running mate. Wike did not contest to Vice President, he contested for president and was defeated

4. By fraternizing with APC, Wike is now wilfully constituting himself into a distraction and nuisance to the PDP

5. PDP can win without Wike. Afterall he was defeated at the convention with all the Rivers money at his beck. His immunity has less than ten months, and I hope EFCC will do their job when the time comes
CrimeRe: Court Fines Rufai Oseni ₦70,000 For Driving On BRT Lane. by PapaFejiro: 7:07am On Aug 03, 2022
Chai, you people and overthinking...
Gourdoinc:
Simple and short. The APC agbado goons were expecting a death sentence. They want him in prison so that Tinubu can now visit Arise TV when he isn't there, and make a carricature of himself. Rufai has done nothing , nobody else hasn't done.

See how they blew it up , it shows their desperation. They feel rufai is obident and thus why they gloated at his predicament. Rufai, if you can see this, we obidents will pay for the fine in seconds. Don't fret bro. However don't drive on BRT lanes again. We are a lawful people, na only vawulence against enemies of Nigeria be our bad character.

Be Obidient and yusful
RomanceRe: The Next Time You Allow A Hooker Spend The Night With You, Stay Awake !!! by PapaFejiro: 4:12pm On Jul 21, 2022
Another point is that your good can kill you. Even if you feed her well, pay her extra sef, she might see you as a target and inform criminals that you have money.
They could plan to kidnap you.
Take to a hotel and not your house and it should be short time.
AgricultureRe: Giant African Snails Force US Town Into Quarantine (pic) by PapaFejiro: 10:50am On Jul 04, 2022
This Florida sef own too much.
All kinds of animals living their lives are termed 'invasive' abegi.
PoliticsRe: 2023: We Will Kneel, Beg Wike Not To Dump Our Party – PDP by PapaFejiro: 5:14pm On Jun 28, 2022
Are you now saying you are wiser than Walid Jibrin and the entire PDP leaders?
peepydelano:
Wike is not an important political figure, I just wonder why the hype .His exit won’t make any significant change or have much effect on pdp in general. Let him go and Ofcourse it will be the end of his political career. He’s from the minority and as such has no voice.
EducationRe: 2022 Unity School Cut Off Marks State By State by PapaFejiro: 4:57pm On Jun 27, 2022
South South needs to do more?
Frigga13:
Never knew Yoruba people are handicap in Nigeria educational system and need quota to survive
And yet with NBS statistics they major grin

Atimes one wonder how this Yoruba controlled statistics do help their economy

North is very understandable.. south south need to do more

Clearly shows igbo leads in all round development of Nigeria

Is from bottom to top... not top to bottom

Nigeria need to be restructured.. that the only way to move this nation forward

Power to the people
North 2023
PoliticsRe: Buhari Rules Out Bail Option For Kanu by PapaFejiro: 10:38am On Jun 24, 2022
If the state is prosecuting you, the judge gets legal advice from the the Attorney General in the person of Malami, and who does he gets his orders from? Buhari of course. So in this case it's normal. But if it's mere civil case between two individuals or entities then the court will be truly independent.
Klington:
Buhari has control of everything even the court that ought to be independent and last hope of the oppressed.
CareerRe: Just Fired. How Do I Cope With The Emotional Trauma? by PapaFejiro: 2:40pm On Jun 20, 2022
With your level of education, this kind of job loss should not get you worried. How much sef is the salary? You should be thanking God you are no more there.
Now you should take a few weeks break like 2 weeks to get your mental recovery and be back to your best. Forget that chewing gum girl, her mom, brother and akara school.
Either you go on social media to advertise your discipline like LinkedIn or you start forex, business of buying and selling etc.
You can start buying Ogbono or beans in sacks, wholesale and retail via social media. You could repackage and do a lot more.
Dont work in toxic environment for your mental health sake.
Send an email if you need business ideas and support. With your husband's knowledge of course.
MsJackson:
Hello my uncles and aunts.

I'll make this as brief as possible. I teach in a school where the owner uses his father's compound, back flats. His family lives in front apartment.

Some months ago, last year precisely, i had an issue with his sister, last born, and i decided to avoid her totally to prevent future occurrence. I face my job and do it well.

We the teachers observe that the family always call their son to report any issue, especially if we faltered in some cases. It was getting too much.

So on that day, exactly two weeks ago, we were asked to oversee the students sporting activities, done in front of the school compound. I was walking out with my colleague and we were discussing something we both saw on social media, about gistlover. The sister overheard it and believed we were talking about her, calling her gistlover.

She walked up to me and confronted me in a harsh manner. I tried explaining to her that we weren't referring to her, but she wouldn't listen and before you know it, we were exchanging words. I said a lot because I was angry that she singled me out to confront, when we were two discussing the issue.

She was telling me to get out and i was sooo angry that I used the f word on her. Later, her parents came back and she reported me to them. Without calling to hear my side of the story, they both told their son to send me away. The mother even said that wherever she saw me, she would strip me naked. Their son my boss came, me and my colleague were called to say what happened,we did, then my boss told me to go home and stay put for a while.

After a week,he called and told me my services were no longer needed, that he made his own private investigation from the students and they confirmed I used the f word on his sister. I am not innocent. I admitted my fault, but he refused to temper justice with mercy. He promised to pay me for this month, but my reputation is stained. AGAIN.

Considering the fact that I had some issues with a previous school two years ago, very close to this one. There I resigned on my own. Now everybody is looking at me like I am a bad person. I AM NOT. I try to be sooooo nice and polite, but people always take advantage of that to look down on me. I am extremely humble to a fault, even hubby says I present myself as mumu to people too much.

Is it a crime to be of small stature? I am 39yrs of age and this girl I had an altercation with, she is in her early 20's. I felt so disrespected because of how she confronted me, even poking her fingers in my face in the presence of the students, so I lost my temper. I didn't mean to. Now people are looking at me somehow. I don't feel like waking up in the mornings because I wonder how I would face the day.

I NEED A JOB, that will help me heal from this trauma. Graduated 11 years ago, Chemical Engineering, University of Benin. But I still don't have a good job, I have been teaching to hold body, but I am fed up.

The salary is sooooo small, compared to the work load I was handling. I would love to work in a good company, but nobody, no one is willing to give me a chance. I am depressed daily. God should just use a good person to help me, wipe my tears. Sorry for the long write-up.
RomanceRe: Married But Dated A Single Lady For 2 Years Now I Am Loosing My Mind! by PapaFejiro: 6:47pm On May 27, 2022
As a married man you cannot be this deep into someone who is not your wife for any reason.
Take a vacation or resign your job and go back home.
That's the only therapy that can cure your obsession.
NLElder:
First of all don't be quick to judge me. I am just here for matured help/advice cos I am fast loosing it. I am sure if it's abroad I will to told to go meet a therapist.

I am a young man in my early 40s and married for 9 years now with 2 kids. My nature of work is such that I am living on another town 5hours away from my family. This has been the case 6years out of the 9 years I am married. I have never really enjoyed my marriage as a young man cos I am always driving up and down every weekend to meet my family and when I got a promotion with more responsibility I reduced it to every 2 weeks, and as the stress of work and driving became more stressful, I now go every month. I have tried all my best even till date to see if I can get another work in the same state my wife and kids reside to no avail and my wife can't leave her work in the state join me as she is in a federal government establishment that has no branch in the state I live and work.

The scenario so far shows you that I am not enjoying a healthy sex life with my wife, but being someone brought up to respect the marriage institution, I have resigned to my fate and taken life as I have seen it. To make matters worse, with due respect to my wife, she suffered female genital mutilation and you know it affects women's sex life and their man is always worse off for it. In summary we lead a routine boring sex life in the few occasions we even get to have it. However, the 6 years I have lived and worked in another state, I have never cheated or thought of cheating on her despite all the cold lonely nights I have to spend alone. I am a kind of introvert and never hide it from people that I am married. Some will be like "u no get side chick"? I will say no.

The problem started 4 years earlier out of the 6years in the city I live and work. Since I am always lonely and bored in my crib, I mostly do video calls with my wife and kids daily or chat online with friends to keep my mind busy and avoid unnecessary tensions that will remind me of the lonely boring life I was living. This also keeps me away from sexual urges if I feel any as a fool-blooded young man I was. It was in one of these online chats that I got close to one young lady of about 30. We really got close through chatting and graduated to exchanging numbers. I always make it known that I was married to everyone I meet and she was no exception. We became best friends online and kept our limits as married man and a single lady would. We became curious and excited to meet each other live when we found out we were in same city.

We arranged a harmless date in a restaurant in town were we really got to know more about each other. I found out that she was a struggling young girl teaching in a private school with NCE and was unable to proceed to degree level due to lack of funds. Her salary wasn't even up to 18k and she was squatting with one lady in very uncomfortable circumstances. After that 1st live meeting, a very good friendship ensued but entirely platonic .

All these past 4 years before I met her, I cook for myself and go to market by myself. One Friday she called and I did not immediately pick cos I was in the kitchen. I called her back later and told her I was cooking and she jokingly asked if she could help. As at then she was yet to come to my place, so I told her if she really wanted to help then I would come and pick her up and that was how for the first time in 4 years, a lady visited me in that town. It felt awkward. It did not take long for me to find out how homely she was...washed plates, tidied everywhere, and finished up the cooking. I really felt at peace and started getting worried at the same time. We spent time chatting but kept our distance and nothing happened between us and I dropped her off later where she was squatting.

After that, our friendship went to another level and the visits became more frequent but still nothing happened between us. I got to know she was a well brought up lady that still had values and I also confirmed she had no man as at the time she met me. She said she had always wished to be married before now and never believed she would reach 30 and still be single.

I know my story is getting rather long, so let me try to wrap up. In summary, she started having issues with the family she was squatting with and didn't have enough money to rent a place of her own. I didn't have enough to rent for her either as I was already carrying a lot of financial responsibilities for her by then...monthly stipend of ₦10k to add to her salary, tolletries, making hairs and even helping out with her sick mum hospital bills.

So without a 2nd thought, both of us decided she move into my place. Inside me I knew it was somehow but I think by then we were already in love with each but maybe living in denial.

So she moved in and that was it. Yes, we started having sex, uncomfortably at 1st but later became 2 sex maniacs. It was as if she was sent to compensate me for my horrible marriage sex experience I have endured all these years. We couldn't have enough of each other. In fact when I want to travel and see my family, she breaks down crying. I knew it was more than a side chick matter. In fact this lady gave me a fulfilled sex life that I swear if it's in the olden days I wouldn't mind taking her as a 2nd wife. Months grew into years and our passion for each other grew to the point that we got jealous of the opposite sex calling us. She even starts frowning when my wife calls or tears will start running down her eyes. People, I became so confused. We both knew we have gone too far and yet were not ready to end it.

I even because part of her own family cos I go with her to see her sick mum and played a prominent role when she died. I don't know her older siblings knew if I was married or not , but I think she confided in her older sister who seemed to like me so much and only warned her to be "careful."

After 2 years, she started agitating about marriage so much that she said she needed to move out of my place. That as long as she is with me, she might not get married since it's obvious I wasn't going to marry her no matter how much both of us pretended about it. Deep inside me I knew she was right and I couldn't be selfish to keep her from meeting single suitors but I felt an inexplicable pain in my heart as if a part of me was about to be cut off. However, I forced myself to assist her to get a place and yet she on her own kept coming to my place every weekend until she moved in again leaving her place wasting for over 2 months., only going there once in a while to pick things..

All the 2 years we were together she was open and truthful to me about relationships she was now trying to build with single guys she hoped would marry her. I was already feeling bad inside me that she was about to leave my life, but she kept assuring me that she was with me and truly told me everything happeneing in the new relationship she was building.

She later moved out completely from my place after 2years on a new year day. She said needed to start the year on a good and clean note and had gotten serious with the guy that said he wants to marry her. I began to feel extreme jealous I couldn't explain. I knew it was not right but I couldn't stop myself. I tried my best and stopped calling or chatting with her but I still didn't find peace. One evening a month after when it was now clear that she has decided to get serious with the guy she said was coming for marriage, she visited me and and you can't believe it, we made hot passionate love. And when we were lying side by side, her new man called and she quickly ran into the toilet to answer him. I felt it was time I ended this whole thing, it wasn't looking right again.

So I confronted her why she was still leading me on when she is now in a marriage -bound relationship and she said because she still loves me and doesn't know how to let go of me. We cried together that it wiould be tough as we would soon separate from each other for life and she left. I cried like a baby as we made love again and she consoling me to try and teach my wife the things she does to me despite her FGM predicament.

The period she was with me, she was uncomfortable answering calls from her man and I got fed up and decided to investigate. So I went to the street where she showed me the guy lives(she was truly open to me and I give her that) and waited to see if she has started visiting him as she mostly denies and lo and behold, I saw her entering the guy's house. I felt a sharp pang of jealousy which I couldn't control. I picked up my phone after some minutes and started calling her, but her phone rang severally and she didn't pick. I was almost half-dead with jealousy. I cried iny heart and drove away. I sent her a text that because she was "enjoying" herself with her man she was now avoiding my calls. That maybe tbe guy was so good at it. She called about 2 hours later and really took offence that because she visited him and did not pick my call was simply because she doesn't want him to start asking questions and not necessarily that they were doing anything.

We quarrelled like never before and said hurtful things to each other and I asked her to return my key at my office the next day cos by then she no longer visited my house as she has really gotten serious with the guy. She returned the key and for over 2 months we stopped communicating and became strangers.

Instead of pushing her out my mind, I felt a daily torture looking through her Facebook pics, WhatsApp status, and other social media. I will go to her guy's street and painfully watch her enter his house from afar. I was fast losing my mind. I knew it was over for good and don't want her back but the obsession is yet to leave me till date. Everyday, I check her pictures and feels pangs of pain and jealousy as I see her lovely smiles. My people it's punishment and torture for me. I keep obsessing every second of my life about her. Who can help me? Something is definitely wrong. In one of her recent status, I saw her flaunt her hands with an engagement ring and I felt a sharp pang of sadness instead of happiness. People help me I am loosing it. Even though she has apologized to me and I too have apologized for the hurtful things we said in the course of our quarrel, my mind is still not at peace.

Even now presently she is engaged she still calls me and tries to engage me in friendly conversations but I will just be answering without interest. She even sent me a pic recently at a wedding she went to and I told her she should stop sending me her pics but should be sending to her man. She apologized and said she has taken note. Yet, I will feel bad inside me if I don't see her friendly chats which my attitude has made her reduce. Yet in all these, first thing in the morning I will quickly rush to check her pics, if she has made new posts, etc etc. I need help, I really do. Sorry my people for the long post but I really needed to empty myself to see the help I can get if any cos I want my normal sane life back. I have also prayed to God and asked for forgiveness for cheating on my wife ....I have no excuses for doing so but from the long story you can see it was never my intention.
PoliticsRe: 'Northern Stakeholders Will Leave PDP If Wike Mistakenly Emerges As A Candidate' by PapaFejiro: 6:32pm On May 27, 2022
Don't follow what Deji is saying. Firstly Wike cannot win the primaries without the North. So why will there vote for him if they dont want him?
Also Deji is still pained by the way PDP messed his ambition to be a member of their NWC. Wike blocked that move. Deji hates him and can never see anything good in Wike.
pinkPUSSY:
The chances of Presidential aspirant, Governor Nyesom Wike winning the presidential ticket of the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, may cause uncertainty for northern stakeholders in the party.

Deji Adeyanju, popular rights activist, on Friday, said this while alleging that Wike’s presidential interest in PDP was causing crisis in the South-East.

He wondered how the PDP plans to win the 2023 presidential election as a divided party.

On his Twitter page, Adeyanju wrote: If Wike wins the PDP ticket, I see many of the Northern stakeholders leaving the party or working against him within because they already believe he is responsible for manipulation of many congresses across the country.

“Imagine organizing a parallel primaries in Akwa Ibom because Udom is running for president. See the thing they are doing in Edo. PDP is in complete crisis in the South-East because of Wike’s interest.

“How do you intend to win the general election after dividing your party so much like this because of primaries?”

https://mobile.twitter.com/adeyanjudeji/status/1530105391153135616



https://mobile.twitter.com/adeyanjudeji/status/1530129628244877312
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Joins Labour Party, To Contest For President by PapaFejiro: 6:12pm On May 27, 2022
This pandora issues is all you guys have? Hahaha...na wa o.
IPIGSONMETH:
Pandora coward Obi don run go Labor party. grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Supreme Court Affirms ₦6bn Damages Against Dakuku Peterside For Defaming Odili by PapaFejiro: 6:07pm On May 27, 2022
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PoliticsRe: Supreme Court Affirms ₦6bn Damages Against Dakuku Peterside For Defaming Odili by PapaFejiro: 6:04pm On May 27, 2022
Call a press conference and say this with your full chest. Dont be cowering behind Nairaland.
gaby:
Ah ah...

Na which kind judgement be this, how and wetin the guy wan take pay the damages?

Peter V. Peter.

Our court system is one of the major problems bedevilling us as a nation.

The day we can get it right with the judiciary, a foundation would have been built upon which every other block/concrete of progress can be placed one at a time for a truly developing and to-be prosperous nation.

This judgement was obviously influenced and hatched by the plaintiff's wife right from the lower courts up to the Supreme court and supported by all the presiding judges who sided with her by taking the defendant's comments as an insult to them all and their profession.

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