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deluckiest:
For the past 6 years, my wife has been monitoring all my phone lines—MTN, Glo, and Airtel. She screenshots my chats, records my calls, and even gathers proof with pictures. Changing my phone numbers doesn’t help because she says as long as I use my NIN to register a SIM, she can still track everything I do, whether openly or secretly, unless she chooses not to.

I want to put an end to this, but I don’t want to get her into trouble with the law.

Has anyone gone through something like this? How did you handle it? Please share your advice.

How long have you been married? When and why did she start monitoring?

Mummytoo:
Good morning everyone
Happy Sunday
I want to know please which gospel song uplifts u, which gospel song makes you forgot all your worries


For me it's DON'T GIVE UP ON ME YET by GRACE IDOWU

I feel different with that song

Say yours

Mercy said no

ujnwachukwu:
Thank you. We are 8 weeks + now and this is how we look

Don't think this is a pure breed at all.
You really can't get a pure breed for that amount. Still a beautiful Dog. Enjoy

Therock5555:
5am this morning, thinking of my long day ahead when suddenly this smart ass tried to be too smart in crossing the road, it got blinded by the headlights and froze, I did justice.

My GTA skills no be child's play.


Unfortunately, I don't know when I'll be done with work today, na one lucky soul I go give...

Merry Christmas in Advance....

Location?

press9jatv:
“Marriage is the lowest paid form of séx work” — Blogger Chidera Eggerue




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1RscMVSU_lY?

Must have felt very smart saying this. The internet has given everybody a voice including those who are better unheard

Suicideboy:
Long story short, I've dedicated my whole life to my career, now holding an engineering role with close ties to my company's executive committee. To get here, I chose to stay single and even burned bridges with family and friends.

Recently, though, I've been questioning it all. A close colleague, who worked directly under the CTO and was with the firm for nearly 20 years, was abruptly fired after a minor disagreement. Seeing someone so loyal and experienced dismissed so easily made me realize how fragile my own position is. If that happened to me, I don’t know if I could recover. It's left me feeling nihilistic about all the sacrifices I made for my career.

I can buy any car I want, own the latest phones and gadgets, dine at the finest restaurants, and even pay for the company of the most expensive escorts. Yet, none of it fills the void. I’ve achieved what most would call success, but it feels hollow. Every purchase, every indulgence, is just a fleeting distraction from the emptiness that lingers. The more I have, the more I realize how little it all means. What’s the point of all this wealth and status if, at the end of the day, I still feel utterly alone and unfulfilled?

I believe the Family is an important support system, whether its the one you were born into or the one you create. It sounds to me like your professional relationships are all you have and like the example you gave that can be extinguished in the twinkle of an eye.

By nature we tend to want to have deep connections with other people, however small that number may be. We like to share our successes and our pains. In fact its often good for our mental health to have a few deep connections.

The void you feel is a reflection of your nature as a human being.

Seek out reasonable connections with good people and with God and chances are the Void will be filled. People can also be very unreliable so tread with caution.

My opinion is not sacrosant

planting now means you will spend a lot on irrigation oooooo. also that that soil looks a bit low in organic content, consider using well cured manure.

griinfarms:
Hello guys.

So we are on a vegetable farming venture specifically for ugu,though we have introduced okra and pepper into same farm. So we made 52 beds on the farm with extra space for visitors. The land size is 100 x 100 in feet. We currently had plantains on this particular plot and another separate one also with plantains. But the other farm was doing far better than this one so we chose to convert this farm to a vegetable farm.
We started about two weeks now, and we already have updates from the first badge of 326seeds planted. So far, a total of 1300 seeds were planted with a spacing of about a foot on the beds.

We covered about 40beds with ugu, while planting the rest 12 with okra and pepper. Oh and yes dere were about two very small beds on one edge of the farm. I had some garden egg seeds so i threw some in there. Am going to be providing updates with pictures on this journey. Let's together see how profitable it will be.

E don finish already

ebubeson:
Before I continue.

Ephesians 5:25 "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it"

Ephesians 5:22 "Wives submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord"

Your wife is to be treated with much love, respect, care, attention etc. You are not to be like a boss over, but a good leader to her. She can give you Godly counsel and guide you on matters she knows God's will on. You are not to be domineering, but flexible even as you lead.

On the part of the wife, respect your husband and submit to him. See yourself as a Deputy or Vice President of the home. Submit to him on things that are good and Godly. Anything that God hates and does not conform to God's will, do not submit to anyone on that.

A wife is to be good, humble, not toxic and not rude. A husband too should be good, humble, not to toxic and not rude. Do not give place to the devil in your marriage.

Husbands love your wives. Wives submit to your husbands.

Note: From the insight I got from someone, marry who you can respect.

Happy Sunday.

I fully agree and also I feel this issue should never be addressed with an unequal emphasis placed on the responsibility of the men.
Yes women are to submit to husbands and more so men are to Love their wives........not just love but to Love them like Christ loved the church.

That is a deliberate love that overlooks shortcomings and is sacrificial.

Well done for the balance OP

durentboi:
I messed up my life as a teen. I did not learn anything beneficial. I wasted all that time from age 16 engaging in vices, drinking, and fighting with people.

Now I'm ready to turn a new leaf and live like a decent human being.

But I still have many things to learn that I should have learnt all through those wasted years.

Everyone is looking at me side eyes, like it is time to move out and go to my own apartment.

I just started learning digital marketing and I'm waiting for my final year results to come out to see if I passed or not (I didn't do well during the exams because I was sick)
Please help me. I dont want to be poor

Good that you have identified your fault and hopefully I are ready to make amends. Pick up what you have and figure out what you can do with it. Even if you no pass, life never end. The day you decided to change for the better is your ground zero, from there na up remain. Focus, re-strategise and move up

SayAsSeen:
Did she try or what?

If this is everything. Then there are questions to answer

careful, the grass is greener where it is watered. if you would rate him in the top 20% compared to most men then............... be wise

AishaDant:
We have been dating for exactly two years now and to be honest, he is a very sweet and romantic man. I absolutely adore him because he is kind, caring, gentle and considerate. He also listens... Most men these days, do not listen. My boyfriend listens when it comes to most things. However, when it comes to matters of the bedroom, he is closed-minded, shy and quite reluctant. These are a huge turn off for me but I know nobody is perfect so I talk to him about it and it goes in one ear and out the other. He says fine he would try harder and do what I ask but when the time comes, he shys away, leaving me upset and even frustrated.

Am I being too coded? Alright! He enjoys bjs... He would moan, shake - these things I enjoy. I absolutely enjoy being able to fully satisfy him but what of me? He does not give head!
Crazy huh? Imagine wanting and enjoying something you refuse to give. How is your partner supposed to feel?
Oh and for those of you wondering, I am extremely clean. Maybe too clean even.
This is a problem for me. He is too reserved and finds it difficult to try new things.
Guess what guys? He is talking about marriage when he cannot even satisfy me in the bedroom. I just smile and change topics because I know I am not gonna marry him.
I don't want to be sad and miserable. I am young and I want to be happy and satisfied.

He wants to introduce me to his family officially before he comes to see my family this December. What do I do? He is a very nice man and he is well-behaved, sane, stable but he does not know how to satisfy a woman in the bedroom. What do I do?

OH and he is not on nairaland. He thinks nairaland is boring. He prefers Instagram so hopefully he doesn't see this ever. 😒

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i fitint Agree

This is just weird.

if it comes to light later and you don't disclose you can be fired especially when you had the opportunity to disclose.
having a conflict or potential conflict of interest should not be an automatic bar to employment in a reasonable organisation.

Meerahbel:
From DM

Dude wants to stay trending.

But wait oooo...OP no video, no link, did u fabricate this?

BlindAngel:
They cut the exhaust yesterday and wedded an iron inside of it to act as a catalyst, but the problem is still there.

A catalyst contains specialised material, metal will not work. Maybe na to change engine but still co sider scanning elsewhere sha, for like a second opinion

Take your car to pro to have it scanned and diagnosed. It's likely your catalytic converter is gone also. This does not explain the level of consumption you are experienceing but is probably contributing to the issue.

get you car scanned sha.

BlindAngel:
Good day Nairalanders, I bought a Toyota Camry, popularly knows as (Spider) about a week and 3 day's ago, and since then I'm spending close to 200k on fuel alone.

The next day after I bought the car, I bought 20k fuel for learning how to drive, before I could drive along the road to and fro 6 times, the fuel finished and the car stopped.

Since then I have been buying 20k fuel on a daily basis.

3 days ago I took it to a mechanic, they changed the nose, I don't know if I got that correctly, but I will attach the picture.

They changed the fuel filter, spark plugs, fuel Injector, and 0 two sensor plus others but yet the problem still persists.

Yesterday, after they finished working on it, the mechanics assured me that it'd work, but advised me to buy a good amount of fuel that it might be the cause of the problem, he said I should stop buying fuel of 20k downwards. So I bought 46,000 naira fuel to test it and I snapped the fuel kilometer reader on the dashboard, before I could drive anywhere the whole fuel finished in the middle of the road, I thank God I had some liter of fuel on a gallon that's on my boot, I brought it out filled my fuel tank and the car moved.

When I got home I checked my dashboard and saw that I only drove for 18km before the 46,000 naira fuel finished.

My brother Is saying that it's because of the huge cost of fuel that it's normal, please expert in the house is this normal?

If it isn't, I'd be selling it and getting a Toyota Corolla. I'm so fed up.

Below is the before and after picture of the kilometer reader on the dashboard before I tested the car with the 46k fuel I bought, few moments after the mechanics were done working on It.

while this story is true, the images are not.
particularly the first 2

Rapmoney:
Source: https://www.guinnessworldrecords.com/world-records/smallest-cat-ever

Testiebobo:
Some curious rodents has been disturbing my territory 😡
So I decided to make a bait out of a poisoned salad I got from Kilimanjaro yesterday.
I was expecting the famous pouched rat (óketé).
But unfortunately, I found this dead rabbit at my backyard. I'm not really sure if it was my trap that took its life 🤐 or something else.
R.I.P🫡bunny

Now that you know it may have been rabbits perhaps use a trap next time so you have the opportunity to release.

where was this though?

fadilaMaikiriki:
Have you tasted it before? One of the tastiest meat you'll ever eat.

Nope and don't plan to.

Monitor Lizard

Made a purchase form this dude. transaction was smooth and sweet

obedience4:
Meet Pastor John Mwangi of Revival church in Githurai, Kenya. According to him, the servant of God cannot walk on sinful ground and wants to be carried by his congregation until they buy him a Range Rover 2023 Model

John Mwangi, a pastor from Githurai, says he is holy and close to God. He says he can’t walk on sinful ground because he’s holy and close to God.

So this pastor’s followers carry him on a chair like an old king or lord. People are worried about this because he seems to be more holy than Jesus, who is the Son of God, even though Jesus never asked his disciples to carry him. Some people say that this is the end of the world, just as the prophets said it would be.

John Mwangi is a church planter with Sozo Ministries in Kenya, Africa, and serves as our national director for Kenya as well. He and his wife Triza launched the Juja, Kenya church in February of 2017, which has since grown to over 50 adult members plus kids. Your generous support enables him to serve God’s Kingdom in East Africa by training leaders, evangelizing the lost, and planting more churches.

prophets said it would be.

https://afromambo.com/meet-pastor-who-cannot-walk-on-sinful-ground/

Too many charlatans giving the body of Christ a bad name.

This is not a case of a man that made a mistake, this is a case of pure deception. Christ sef waka, na U come holy pass. Dey play

Nigerians will celebrate but wait let another tribe chop office for their land, they will protest!!

fadilaMaikiriki:
She's currently jobless. She has a degree, which is one of the reasons why she says the 100k is too small for a graduate with a degree, and for a secretary.

I see nothing in trying to negotiate a higher pay , however she should use this one to hold body first. The option is to sit at home and earn nothing

fadilaMaikiriki:
This lady was offered 100k to work as a secretary to one of the offices in a firm/company. The company has staff bus that takes the worked to and from work. And they work Monday to Friday. But the lady is saying 100k is small that they should add something to the money.

What would you do if you're being offered this amount to work in this position (as a secretary)? Would you accept the offer or decline?

What is she currently doing and what are her qualifications?

pimplucious:
Bought this bird from its captor to set it free. What bird is it? Is it falcon?

Looks like a grasshopper buzzard but not sure

pimplucious:
Bought this bird from its captor to set it free. What bird is it? Is it falcon?

Set it free, it's a raptor they don't tend to do well in captivity. Except u have a really expensive aviary

omotolsy:
Dell Latitude 5400

14inch HD Display
Intel Core i5-8365u max 4.10GHz
8GB DDR4 Memory
256GB NVMe SSD Storage
Intel UHD 620 Integrated Graphics

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Segxydube:
U be mumu... What if they saw him and he still died? Are you a novice or what.. When someone slumps chances of survival depends on how hard the person hits his head on something... He might have hit his head on the table or on the floor.

All possibilities are valid. U invalidate something just cos u can think of something else............ . Someone has slumped in my office before and cos someone was available to give CPR she survived.

So you think cos he could still have dies means increasing the chances of getting first aid early is a dumb idea. And you still dey abuse. You go geo one day sha.