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RomanceRe: Comprehensive Guide To Safeguarding Your Business With A Cold Room Purchase by Patented: 4:01pm On Apr 02, 2024
i have requested a quote on your website. kindly respond.
dekoolardigital:
Investing in a cold room is a strategic decision that can significantly impact the efficiency and success of your business operations. To safeguard your business and make a well-informed choice, follow this comprehensive guide outlining key considerations when purchasing a cold room

1. Needs Assessment: Guard against making an ill-suited purchase by conducting a thorough assessment of your storage requirements, including the volume and types of products to be stored. Consider factors such as temperature sensitivity, shelf life, and access frequency to determine the ideal cold room specifications.

2. Customization Options: Guard against limitations in functionality by choosing a cold room that offers customization options tailored to your specific needs. Look for features such as adjustable shelving, varying temperature zones, and specialized storage compartments to optimize space utilization and product organization.

3. Energy Efficiency: Guard against escalating operational costs by selecting an energy-efficient cold room that minimizes electricity consumption and environmental impact. Consider features like LED lighting, high-efficiency compressors, and smart temperature controls to optimize energy usage and reduce expenses.

4. Reliability and Maintenance: Guard against downtime and disruptions by choosing a cold room from a reputable manufacturer known for reliability and durability. Prioritize units with low maintenance requirements, accessible serviceability, and a responsive customer support network to ensure smooth operations and timely assistance.

5. Compliance and Safety Standards: Guard against regulatory violations and product quality issues by selecting a cold room that complies with industry standards for food safety and storage. Verify certifications to ensure that the unit meets hygiene, temperature control, and safety requirements.

6. Total Cost of Ownership: Guard against budget overruns by calculating the total cost of ownership for the cold room, including purchase price, installation costs, ongoing maintenance expenses, and energy consumption. Conduct a cost-benefit analysis to evaluate long-term savings and return on investment.

7. Future Expansion and Upgrades: Guard against outgrowing your cold room by considering future expansion possibilities and upgrade options. Choose a scalable unit that can accommodate business growth and evolving storage needs, allowing for seamless integration of additional modules or features.

By following this comprehensive guide and considering these key factors when purchasing a cold room, you can safeguard your business against risks, optimize operational efficiency, and ensure the quality and integrity of your stored products. Make a confident and informed decision that aligns with your business goals and contributes to long-term success in the realm of cold storage management.

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CrimeRe: What’s The Best Way To Handle This Situation? Advice Needed! by Patented: 1:51pm On Apr 02, 2024
if you wan give them time, write a letter of demand requesting the return of payment for the items within the timeframe you want to give them. If dem no do well take it to another level. you can try FCCPC like someone has suggested
PoliticsRe: Igbos Can Only Get Presidency Through APC – Ex-Senator, Utazi by Patented: 12:02pm On Apr 02, 2024
That is how PDP said they would rule for 60 yrs. last last politicians are just politicians.

mouth must run

Kosisochukwu12:
Source : https://politicsnigeria.com/igbos-can-only-get-presidency-through-apc-ex-senator-declares-after-joining-ruling-party/
TravelRe: FAAN Shuts Down KFC Outlet At Lagos Airport Over Discrimination by Patented: 4:19pm On Mar 28, 2024
what has that even got to do with anythinghuh??

malcom1X:
Like say when them fine them Dem go transfer the money give you.
TravelRe: FAAN Shuts Down KFC Outlet At Lagos Airport Over Discrimination by Patented: 1:01pm On Mar 28, 2024
they should have been sanctioned, perhaps fined but not shut down. shutting them down means certain people are out of work now. whatever little economic value that was being created by their activities is lost now.

bestofnollywood:
The management of the Federal Airports Authority of Nigeria (FAAN) has, with immediate effect, closed down KFC facility at the Murtala Muhammed International Airport (MMIA), Lagos.

A statement by Mrs. Obiageli Orah, Director, of Public Affairs and Consumer Protection, FAAN, said that this was in connection with the discriminatory treatment received by a Passenger with Reduced Mobility (PRM) at the airport on Wednesday from the outlet.

The statement said that the closing down of the company was in line with Lagos State Law on People with Special Needs, Part C, Section 55 of General Provisions on Discrimination.

The law states that: “A person shall not deprive another person of access to any place, vehicle or facility that members of the public are entitled to enter or use on the basis of the disability of that person.”

The statement hinted that Mrs. Olubunmi Kuku, the Managign Director, FAAN, immediately intervened by deploying a management team comprising the Director, Public Affairs and Consumer Protection, Mrs. Obiageli Orah, the Regional Manager South West, Mr. Sunday Ayodele, Ag. General Manager Public Affairs, Mrs. Ijeoma Nwosu-Igbo and the International Terminal Manager, Mr. Kerri, to investigate the allegation of discrimination against the physically challenged traveller.

Orah emphasised that the shutting down of the facility at the MMIA, where the incident occurred, was based on the findings of the team deployed by FAAN to investigate the matter.

FAAN also directed the KFC management to tender an unreserved apology, in writing to the affected PRM and a policy statement of non-discrimination written and pasted conspicuously at the doorpost of their facility at the airport before it would be allowed to resume operation.

“FAAN uses this medium to express our unreserved apology to the affected passenger with reduced mobility and assures all airport users that we shall continue to work tirelessly to ensure that the rights of every passenger are not infringed upon,” the statement said.

It would be recalled that Debola Daniel, the son of Senator Gbenga Daniel, was ridiculed yesterday because of his disability by staffers of KFC.



https://applesbite.com/faan-shuts-down-kfc-outlet-at-lagos-airport-over-discrimination/
CelebritiesRe: closed by Patented: 1:31pm On Mar 27, 2024
yimmu
FamilyRe: At Age 23 Cant I Live Alone As A Guy, Away From My Parents? by Patented: 9:04am On Mar 26, 2024
There is no hard and fast rule to these things. However, what do you do for a living and what is your income range?

make we start from there


there is
Testiebobo:
I'hv being trying to give reasons to my parents on living alone as a young adult. I gave them an example that what if i was a afrobeat superstar, would i still be living with them in the same house even at age 23. And they were like is a no no no for them, because i still need them for guidance and counselling. But all the training they'hv being giving me is already enough for me to be independent. Afterall, it is only GOD that can guide and counsel one into any step we take in life. Abi?
FamilyRe: Mosquito Spray That Don't Smell by Patented: 10:36pm On Mar 20, 2024
tipsy242:
Good evening house,

Please i learnt there's a mosquito spray that one can use while staying indoors and is not harmful to the nose. If you know the name, kindly recommend. I need it ASAP.

Thank you.
Anything that kills bugs is harmful and toxic on some level. A spray that does not smell(if it actually exists) will lul u into a sense of complacency. You would be ok sitting in it's fog but that does not mean it's not doing harm. I would avoid it. I like to know when something is harmful
RomanceRe: Man Refuses To Donate Kidney To Ill Girlfriend After Finding Out She’s Cheating by Patented: 2:57pm On Mar 18, 2024
sounds like a lie to me. the donor would undergo surgery first and the kidney would be extracted from him before the recipient would undergo surgery. alternatively both would go into surgery together. so this story of her about to go into surgery and he is making calls does not add up. he would either have already had his kidney removed or they would be going under the knife simultaneously.
RomanceRe: I Slept With My Married Ex by Patented: 8:53pm On Mar 16, 2024
Uche7779:
Hello Guys,

I just violated one of my biggest rules in life and I have been sober ever since.

I got into Abuja on an official assignment, A bit bored, I asked my ex to come over just to have a harmless talk. The first day she came to the officer with her daughter and it was purely just reminiscing and having a harmless laugh. We had lunch and she left.

Two days later, I invited her to my hotel and she came and the unimaginable happened.

I have been filled with guilt, my head is so full with regrets. Another man's wife.

I need help to get over this, who can I talk to please. It appears I am depressed. Can someone please make me feel better. Please!
The unimaginable happened indeed 🤨.
What did you think was going to happen at your hotel, especially after all the sparks of the first meeting. Abeg!!!
FamilyRe: Woman Enjoys At An Eatery With Her Children, Maid Sits Unattended To (Photo) by Patented: 3:51pm On Mar 13, 2024
thesicilian:
First we all know that a single picture never tells the full story.

The person who snapped the pic for social media could as well have bought food for the maid. Nobody minds their business nowadays. You'll just snap pics of private family time and put online
Oil dey your head. what if she is not even their maid?
CultureRe: People Maisprofile Me by Patented: 2:49pm On Mar 12, 2024
sammirano:
Please it is increasingly becoming annoying when interacting with people and they thought I was Ibo, as in of all the good tribes in Nigeria, I am a Yoruba conservative and I need to change this nonsense.
i am Yoruba and I get labelled as Ibo a from time to time. Particularly when i converse in broken English, however this does not upset me in any way.......kini big deal
Car TalkRe: Honda CRV 2024 Or Toyota RAV 4 2024 by Patented: 2:29pm On Mar 12, 2024
either one is good since they are new cars. read the official gas mileage for both cars but the difference will not be much. both cars would be comfy no . you could juts go for the one that catches your eye more.

MZright:
I was hoping I could make a decision on which of these two cars to get and I would appreciate input from y’all.

A few things to note- it’s my first car, and I care about comfort, interior, gas mileage, and durability.

I don’t really know much about cars, so any help I get will be pretty much appreciated.

Or if there is any other compact SUV better than these two, please suggest them. Thanks
PoliticsRe: I Think Tribalism Is A Mental Disorder That Is Helping To Keep Nigeria Down. by Patented: 7:31pm On Mar 05, 2024
HellVictorinho6:
Dont you agree?
Agreed
FamilyRe: My Senior Colleague And His Wife's Messy Marital Life. Things Are Happening by Patented:
EreluRoz:
In one of his statement, he said if he dies now people will be surprised and won't know what he suffers internally. I want to get close to him and reach out to his sister which he revealed to me as the person who constantly fought his wife over her behavior but had to tell her to stop interfering in his family affairs. It's very sad
I am not sure an intervention will work unless the timing is right. The man has to want to be free before anyone can free him. Na subtle ginja and encouragement the man needs.
FamilyRe: My Senior Colleague And His Wife's Messy Marital Life. Things Are Happening by Patented:
EreluRoz:
He keeps saying it's because of his kids he still have her in his house, the annoying thing is this man is financially responsible for her 100% , takes care of her siblings too. Na him be their big in-law for her family. If you see this man outside you won't ever believe he's facing hell at home. I felt so much pity for him. If he were to be my uncle or related, that woman will be herself pack her things and never return. Sometimes I dislike this idea of minding one's business as that's what exactly his family is doing knowing fully well this woman is killing him gradually. Not me sha, I'll sooooo interfere and unremorsefully scatter that hell he calls marriage. Very sad situation
The man is not really ready to be free of the wahala. Em eye never clear
FamilyRe: My Senior Colleague And His Wife's Messy Marital Life. Things Are Happening by Patented: 9:40am On Mar 02, 2024
He will die young at this rate. If he cannot pursue her he should let her do abroad and then file for divorce. Man must grow a pair!
FamilyRe: How Can I Report This Domestic Violence To My Landlord? by Patented: 3:14pm On Feb 27, 2024
you probably need to figure out why the girl keeps coming back before you intervene. ideally she is the one to make the report as she is an adult. las las dem fit go use you settle quarrel. the caretaker/landlord has no more right to report the matter than you do cos all of you are external to the matter in a way. except you want the landlord to evict the man cos of the violence. the landlord may decide not to evict as e no dey tenancy terms or he could be a wife beater himself.

Also even if the evict him are you sure the babe will not follow the guy to wherever he goes next?

Melagros:
There was power cut in my area, so, because of the heat I couldn't sleep soundly in the night, when it was dawn, I eased myself and went back to bed. And one of my neighbours, I think he works offshore

He'd returned on Sunday, this morning, he drove out, and when he came back, then fight broke out between him and his girlfriend that have been cohabiting, when the girl tried to escape through the backyard entrance (which is near my window) unfortunately it was locked up, and the guy trapped her there and beat her up with a wooden stick like an armed robber, honestly I thought that girl would die!

Before we could come to her rescue, she was already been beaten (with a thick stick) black and blue and was just panting and weak! And the girl confided in me sometimes last year that she is an orphan

Distinguished COMRADES, this is not the first fight neither is the second, about twice last year similar incidents happened, the girl jilted the relationship and left, the guy went to her and pleaded for reconciliation and forgiveness, the girl accepted his plea and came back

COMRADES, mind you! The guy is advanced in age, he should be in his late 40s. Why I'm soliciting for your various opinions on nairaland is that; it is the sole responsibility of the caretaker to brief the landlord about this, but unfortunately, the caretaker has failed in his responsibility, (though he was absent this morning) some people have this mentality of 'mind your business' before you said I should mind my business: remember the case of Sanda Mariam and the late son of former PDP chairman. If this protracted crisis is left unreported, one day it may result in fatality

COMRADES, you can see that this is one of the reasons that always scares ME, Don Jazzy, Oprah Winfrey etc from getting married (affray)

Distinguished COMRADES, Say NO to Domestic Violence
Thank you All!

Please nairaland help, I am finding it difficult to upload the audio
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Which Job Should I Choose In This Harsh Economy, Job A Or Stick To Job B by Patented: 10:19am On Feb 27, 2024
if the new job is 350k net and it would not disrupt your side hustle and remote jobs and also the working conditions are right, then you should go for it.
Meerahbel:
From DM
RomanceRe: I Am Emotionally Damaged by Patented: 3:16pm On Feb 23, 2024
U better block her permanently and everywhere
RomanceRe: Wahala: Two Of My Colleagues Igbo Girlfriends Are Really Attracted To Me. by Patented: 2:11pm On Feb 21, 2024
Do not fail your friends, fish plenty for river. do not become the center of another nairaland[b] "see what my friend did to me"[/b] story

bigpriik:
omo this kine temptation no be here,this girls no dey ever let me rest since they discovered i am igbo its calls upon calls,i look a lot like a yoruba boy maybe because i was born and bred here though i can speak igbo fluently because i have spent 3 years in igbo land during my childhood after loosing my mum before coming back to lagos.
my colleagues are dating two very beautiful igbo ladies we all interact well ,communication is good,but the ladies are taking things too far,one is fund of buying me things whenever she comes visiting , this one is worst because she expresses herself too much without caring about the consequences my colleague is noticing it ,i try to avoid her because the guy has done a lot for me and i have a personal principle i never
have anything to do with a friends partner.
the second one is older and more secretive with her moves,yesterday after meeting with my colleague she was on her way home,i was busy arguing with friends over politics and state of the nation,suddenly i recieved a tap on my back i look back lo and behold its was the older girl she is about 25 years of age looking more beatiful than ever she called me "ekureku" meaning "talkative" in igbo she dragged my hand that i should see her off to the bustop which i did,this particular one very seductive hard to resist,i always feel insecure around her.
i saw her off to the bustop she took iyana apaja bus and hugged me before leaving,when i came back my friends ask me who she is i explained they started urging me to Bleep her and clean mouth but my conscience is too active for such act this particular colleague has covered my financial secret a lot oro yi o loor far.
PropertiesRe: Is This A Wise Decision? Please Advice by Patented: 10:32am On Feb 17, 2024
Assigned:
I need your advice please 🙏🙏🙏 long post but please bear with me

So I currently live in a "boys quarter" apartment where I share toilet with about 13 other neighbors living in the face me face you plus the rest of the BQ tenants.

The good side of the house
The house is just about 2 minutes from the main road (trek able) so I don't spend anything on TFare when I'm going to the bus stop. The area also has about 23hrs of power supply which is very rare to find in some other places in Lagos.

All of which are important because I work hybrid and electricity and transportation are major expenses for anyone in Lagos .

The bad side of the house
I share bathroom and toilet with about 13 other neighbors living in the face me face you plus the rest of the BQ tenants and the toilet is at the far extreme of the house. I pay someone each time it's my turn to clean the toilet and sweep.

I also share prepaid meter with everybody (about 15 plus shops) which causes issues whenever we need to buy units and all.
The house has a rule of always switching off the light during the day and putting it on at night by 8pm which means if I have to use light during the day, I either buy additional unit (which the whole house will use because I can't use it alone - no personal switch) or turn on my generator.
No water in the compound so I have to pay someone to help me with fetching water or I carry bucket
The neighbors are one of the most bitter people I've ever seen, but the landlord doesn't stay with us
I pay about 7,500 monthly on electricity based on this arrangement.

The situation

I plan on renting a room self contain (budget 300k max) around the area but I couldn't find any, other places are either too far, not enough power supply, shared prepaid meter, or even sub par apartment for high price.

So as an alternative, I'm thinking about liaising with the landlord to renovate my apartment, get a personal prepaid meter and also channel water from around the neighborhood. The budget which shouldn't exceed 200k.

Considering all of this, what should I do?
Keep looking. I don't expect a landlord who built one toilet for soo many apartments to be reasonable. A lot of things can come out from your renovation that you can't see now. I may be wrong though but.........
Science/TechnologyRe: How Do I Convert From Youtube To Mp4 by Patented: 9:56am On Feb 16, 2024
yes, after doing that follow the prompts.

you can also copy the link and then paste it on savefrom.net


TotoNaRubber:
Thanks
Do you mean like this:

ssyoutube.com/watch?v=6cA452LOvSw?si=mhxrvv-PT223wspD
Science/TechnologyRe: How Do I Convert From Youtube To Mp4 by Patented: 8:13am On Feb 16, 2024
In the link delete everything before the 'y' in YouTube and. Replace with ss then follow prompts. Alternatively U can download vidmix paste the video link in the app.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Which Would You Advise Going For: A 130k Job In Ibadan Or A 200k Job In Lagos? by Patented: 12:03pm On Feb 15, 2024
Come to Lagos, opportunities abound to move up and level up compared to Ibadan. looking at only the current pay is shortsighted.
9japicker:
What do you think or what is your preferred choice between a net salary of 130k for a job in Ibadan or 200k for a job in Lagos?

Note: The 130k job is for an operations manager while the 200k job is for a business manager.
Christianity EtcRe: Evil Reports About Ministers Of God by Patented: 9:29am On Feb 07, 2024
Well said.

when i read the title , i initially thought it was going to be one of those blanket statements along the lines of never questioning "Men of God".
kudos to the writer.

PCHC:
DANIEL 3:12

[Daniel 3:12 NKJV] - There are certain Jews whom you have set over the affairs of the province of Babylon: Shadrach, Meshach, and Abed-Nego; these men, O king, have not paid due regard to you. They do not serve your gods or worship the gold image which you have set up.”

[Daniel 3:12 TLV] - There are certain Jews whom you appointed over the administration of the province of Babylon—Shadrach, Meshach and Abed-nego—those men pay no heed to you, O king. They do not serve your gods, nor will they worship the golden image that you have set up.”

EVIL REPORTS ABOUT MINISTERS OF GOD

You are called to serve (minister) with humility and selflessness, but there are personalities you must never serve:

*1* Never serve anyone or anything that is a god except the Lord God who is the only One you should serve among anyone or anything else that appears as 'god.' If any man you were serving before becomes a god, you shall not serve him; except the Lord Jesus Christ and God the Father above that you are to serve. As it is written,

[Luke 4:8] — "And Jesus answered and said to him, Get you behind me, Satan: for it is written, You shall worship the Lord your God, and him only shall you serve."

It therefore means, never allow your services to any man or thing include any act of worship or acknowledging that man/thing as a god. You are warned. Your services must not be with worship to anyone who has not created you, neither serve any man-made god.

*2* Never serve two masters: and two masters here means God and Mammon.



[Daniel 3:12 TLV] - There are certain Jews whom you appointed over the administration of the province of Babylon—Shadrach, Meshach and Abed-nego—those men pay no heed to you, O king. They do not serve your gods, nor will they worship the golden image that you have set up.”

In this Bible verse, three Jews expressed by names (and not by number) had their "evil report" brought before the king, which stated they disregard the king (who promoted them into being administrators over the greatest province in the world then) by not yielding to the king's decree to worship or serve his man-made god and idol of gold.

I use "evil report" because there are evil reports among men and world's government that are good reports in the sight of God. What the world may call wrong, bad or evil report, sometimes is what the heavens call righteous, good or testimony. And many people call good what the heavens call evil, and celebrate what the heavens are ashamed of. Therefore I teach that if all people of the world speak good reports of you without speaking evil report of you among themselves, you are a false minister of God among them. You are told that one of the marks of a true minster of the Lord is having both good reports and evil reports among carnal and blind men because of how they view things. As it is written,

[Luke 6:26] — "Woe to you, when all men shall speak well of you! for so did their fathers to the false prophets."

[2 Corinthians 6:4,8] — "But in all things approving ourselves as the ministers of God, in much patience, in afflictions, in necessities, in distresses, … By honor and dishonor, by evil report and good report: as deceivers, and yet true;"


Behold the report brought against Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego, was evil report that validated their being true Jews and true ministers (servants) of God beyond being ministers (servants) of the king who appointed them into provincial service and because they were not ministers (servants) of idols of gold (Mammon) or man-made god. To differentiate between the evil reports that are good for true ministers of God and the evil reports that are evil and should not be for true ministers of God:

Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego, in the Bible verse above were appointed into office in the world's government and the "evil report" against them was not corruption charges, not embezzlement, not false declaration of age/asset, not dishonesty, not negligence, not lack of performance/productivity, not against public service code of conduct nor breaking practice ethics, not fornication or adultery etc., Rather the evil report accused them of matters regarding their faithfulness to God higher than their faithfulness to their king or office and above political opportunity and political gains/pressure. The same would be said of Daniel in chapter 6, wherein no fault was found in Daniel in all his job and relationship duties except when it comes to his being faithful to God higher than his faithfulness to his king or office and above political opportunity and political gains/pressure.

*** If the evil report is speaking against your faith, obedience, truth and love in the Lord God, then that evil report is endorsement and good validation of your true discipleship and ministry of the Lord. But,

*** If the evil report is speaking against your fault, bad fruits, vices, lies or fake signs of your profession, then the evil report disqualifies from being a true minister of the Lord.

One of the criteria required for being a Bishop or Pastor of a church is you must have good reports among unbelievers and people outside the church. As it is written,

[1 Timothy 3:2,7] — "A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behavior, given to hospitality, apt to teach; … Moreover he must have a good report of people who are outside the church; lest he fall into reproach and the snare of the devil."
CareerRe: How Can I Become A Permanent Secretary? by Patented: 4:30pm On Feb 01, 2024
Lollz:
This thread is an avenue for those with a dream of being at one of the topmost tiers of the world of administration or becoming permanent secretary to be informed via people's elreal life experiences on launching into this career path.
The question is how can one launch into a career path that would lead to being a permanently secretary of a state, ministry or evn nation?
What are the criterias needed?
Even if one did not study an administration related course what step can one take to further your education and lead you to that path?
When it comes to employment what kind of jobs can one apply for that can place you on this career pathhuh

Let the enlightenment begin!!!!
most permanent secretaries are career civil servants with political connection. most rose to senior levels of the civil service before being appointed. some had retired or resigned and were later appointed
FamilyRe: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by Patented:
ebubeson:
As a married person, share you escape routes to overcoming cheating and how you cope with the temptation to commit adultery.
flee
Run
no uneccasry closeness with opposite gender
no dey collect random number
no dey flirt up and down or entertain nonsense chats
pray,......pray oooooooooo.
let your spouse come up regularly in convos.
pray oooooooooooooooo
remind yourself STD is real
reason wetin people wey trust and believe in you go talk
reasons as the matter fit scatter house
reason d matter oooooooooooo
Foreign AffairsRe: Trump: New York Expands Legal Defnition Of Rape, Includes Nonconsensual Contact by Patented: 8:37am On Jan 31, 2024
HonNL:
https://apnews.com/article/new-york-rape-law-governor-hochul-50e5f9d35b1a7e26881db616a787b45a#:~:text=The%20new%20law%20broadens%20the,cases%20forward%20to%20prosecute%20perpetrators
the should have added unwanted P contact to widen the net to accommodate unwanted sexual acts perpetuated by women
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Failed My Test, Am I Overreacting?? by Patented: 8:26pm On Jan 26, 2024
Offpointng:
But if I was the one, I wouldn't have allowed her ask bfr I give her money monthly for the space of that 3month knowing her predicament so she wouldn't really feel it

Or was I expecting too much??
Yup, you were, women generally don't operate the way men do, it would hv been nice for her to offer but as I no ask she believe say I dey ok. Now ask and see her reaction, that would be the real test of character

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