Mivici: that's is what I want, I want to save myself the stress to open a domiciliary account....so I want to know if it's possible to receive funds even if your account is not domiciliary
like i said it is possible but its left for the sender to instruct
Mivici: Hearing this for the first time. My account isn't domiciliary, is it possible I receive money from abroad through Western Union or money gram? Direct to my local bank account.
wineconnoisseur: Please farm expert in the house I need your help, I’m planning to buy a land for piggery, poultry, fisheries and greenhouse farming in a semi urban area of ogun state instead of going for the cheaper rural area land due to the proximity and road network. I’m planing to buy 5 acres but now I’m thinking of buying the land in different parts of the semi urban areas like buying one acre each for different livestock, I don’t know if it make sense that way? Just incase if one livestock farm is not doing well, it will be easy to sell the business without affecting others. I will be starting with poultry farm and then the manure will be used for the green house. I will need your inputs maybe to situate the farm on the same land or separately like I wanted to do it. Thanks in advance
having your farm in one contiguous piece of land has advantages for logistics and security.
farming in a semi urban area which is obviously still developing has its issues too. Poultry smells and does fish when u discharge water. the smell can become a nuisance to your neighbors who can start trouble. you also have to clearly have a way to channel your waste water from fish cos that too can become a nuisance. your green house should not give you any issues. perhaps consider snail farming too as that does not cause significant nuisance. whatever you are doing consult experts. i inspected a poultry farm that failed one cos birds were always dying. it had shut down when we inspected, one of the reasons became very clear, each hen house,(there were more than 10) had oly a small tank for water. typically u would estimate that each bird may consume 500cl to a litre in a day and the tanks could not supply even a quarter of the required amount. pens were also too close together, leading to poor ventilation and easy transmission of diseases.
So consult experts or people with experience all the time
Bongadu: I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life
what does your contract say about termination without notice as they have just done?
flakkypastries: I got a job with a small micro finance company some months back. And I have been doing my job effectively without any complain
I notice I was having chest pain throughout Sunday, so I had to call my supervisor that I will be late to work on Monday morning because I needed to visit the doctor... I'm not the type that take permission from work I was at the hospital when my supervisor called me that the manager said I shouldn't bother to come to work again on that day , I thought maybe they wanted me to rest
Lo and behold, I got to work this morning, my boss said I should handover all the companies properties with me that I have been relief of my job. I pleaded to him but he wouldn't listen to my pleas
Thank God he paid me January salary and gave me 3 rubbers of rice.
Chevrolet076: After more than 15 years since I visited a beach (Eleko beach), I anticipated seeing and having the usual beach feel of strong roaring foamy waves, very cold winds that can sweep you off your feet, the wide expanse of water so wide and so blue that connects to the sky as far back as your eyes can see, hundreds of sea creatures especially crabs running back into the sea as it recedes, the freedom of trekking kilometers down both sides of the sea, the non-existence of any foreign thing like tractors, restaurant etc close to the sea... Just the traditional dishes and feel.
Everything is so bad that I just felt I wasted money on overrated stuffs.
No roaring waves, no cold winds, swimming pool-like water waves and forced waves from the jet skis and boat l cruise. Green colored sea filled with sea weed Cans, bottle, food pack littering everywhere Guys with intimidating looks smoking up and down Loudspeakers playing useless music and disturbing the peace of the sea, Almost non-existent sea shells. Except for few tiny ones Tractors everywhere with security guard threatening you if you dare to cross over to landmark side Sand heaped on all four sides of the sea making it look like a swimming pool. Imagine a whole beach o
Everything has been monitized and the beach is so small that it's choking.
You can only have fun by buying overpriced things. Boat cruise at 3k, horse riding for just a short distance at 2k per person, one tiny suya at 2k, entry fẹẹ increased to 2k as well.
If not for the other families that came with football which we started playing, what would my holiday look like?
It is well. I just think not everything should be monitized and milked so it loses its natural feel.
Felt so bad for nature. The beach's sadness penetrated through my bones
Has anyone experienced this? Any idea of a good beach that is still an actual beach?
tasalanoni: Nl folks, pls your opinions are needed. I'm currently 31, earning reasonably well and with greater prospects for the future.
I'm also not a very family oriented person in the sense of creating familial bonds and deeply cherishing them hence I derive my fulfillment and pleasure in doing the things I love to do, acquiring wealth and giving help wherever I deem necessary.
The thought of opting for an adoption is beginning to occupy the greater part of my consciousness and the reasons are few and in my opinion very valid.
raising a child is a huge responsibility that should not be taken lightly. when i consider what is in bold font i think you are not ready for the responsibility. particularly towards a child that you actually have no connection with. in addition children in two parent homes fare better. a man who cannot handle a marriage is likely unable to raise a child.
egobetter4me: I know a lot of you will blame me after reading this and even want to curse me, but this is my sad story and I just want to put it out there for people to learn. Don't ever let your parents decide your partner for you. Even if you have to run away, do it.
I recently got married to an ugly, short, black, smelly, village girl. At first my uncle took me to see her, then we spoke and she came visiting. All these happened in the village.
When I went back to the city, I told my mom I wasn't interested in her any more, but she insisted I must marry her. My mom would always take my joy by telling me about the girl anytime she sees me happy. There was no breathing space. We live together and I pay the rent. I loved her so much that I could do anything for her. She once sold her wrappers/materials and jewelleries, to send me money for school fees.
Anytime she tries to talk to me about the girl, I will beg her and let her understand that young people like to marry who they truly love. I don't want her, I don't love her and I don't think I will ever will. After all said and done, she still insisted, so I called my elder bro to come talk to her. He came in from another state and spoke with my mom for hours. She did as if she would allow me marry my choice, just for my brother to go. Immediately my brother left, she started again.
My mom has BP. She stopped using her medication and was ailing. she threatened that if she dies, that I killed her. I thought to myself, that if she truly dies, I might live with the regrets for the rest of my life. I really tried but I was defeated. I succumbed. But before marrying the girl, I spoke to her(the girl) that I don't love her and that I'm marrying her against my wish, but I guess she was desperate. She said I shouldn't worry, that the love would grow in the marriage.
We got married. She lives with me and my mom. Even my neighbours were disappointed in me, when they saw her. Church members and friends were all disappointed. I can't start narrating to them how I got here.
We are over a year gone now and she still irritates me. I so much hate to look at her. We've had sex only about 5 times or so and I have to get high to do this. I only kissed her once(at the alter and I cringed)
I cry everyday.....both at home and while hustling. I never envisaged my life to be like this. I had hoped to meet a beautiful, clean and well mannered graduate from the city. Someone I would truly love and she would love me too. I'd hoped that I would meet her, approach her and we start as friends, then lovers, then I would propose and all. I never planned for it to be like this.
I am so sad with my life. Right now, I'm thinking of applying for masters abroad and probably use the means to Japa and never come back again.
My life is so miserable!
Learn from me. Don't ever let your parents blackmail you into marrying someone you don't love. Pls don't. Just run away for months or few years and they will leave you alone.
Fearyourcreator: You sha wan kee yourself... You better find better person ... E be like she Sabi for bed dey enter your head or her looks... These things no dey sustain marriage pass a year ooo... I pity your peace ... You will just turn a walking dead
FanRong: I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.
My story We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.
On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.
Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)
After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.
Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.
She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.
I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.
A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.
Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home. 1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.
2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.
3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears. When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.
4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her. While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.
5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex. Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me. We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.
After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys. At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.
I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.
The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.
We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.
Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.
I need mature and candid advice please. Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?
The real question is not about Marriage as an institution, it is about the people who get married. Marriage has not changed, it is people that have changed. Commitment, discipline and compromise to make a marriage work has not changed. it is people who are unwilling to exhibit these qualities.
A thing of value placed in the hands of an idiot will be ignored, misused and abused but does that change the value of the thing? it will look like a mess because it is in the hands of someone who does not understand its value.
Meddymeddy: I have seen plentiful post about failed marriages on the Internet. Most marriages only last a couple of years before divorce comes up. Although there are few happy marriages. The ratio for happy marriages and failed marriages is 20:80. There are many factors that contribute to failed marriages which include cheating, unfaithfulness, finance etc. Some just wake up and realise that their wife is no longer attractive ( did they force her on you? ). Back in the days marriages were pre set up whereby couples barely knows themselves. Nowadays you see couple dating for 6-10years and when they finally get married issues will start poping up.
Maybe marriage should be like a contact after some years it will be terminated depending on how long the couple want it to be
In the video shown above, a young man, Chisom Okechukwu, resident in Anambra State, had his latest invention shared on video. This time, it was an electric wheel chair, which was made from locally-sourced parts/parts from scrap vehicles. The electric chair comes with a portable power source and is able to move in all directions.
Using his local language, Chisom answered questions bordering on its manufacture and operation. After that, the interviewer supported his efforts with thirty thousand naira, encouraged his father, who was present there, to consistently show him support and have faith in him. He also called on the society at large, to support his endeavour.
u are dashing an ingrate a fourth of your hard earned money monthly.
i am not a seer but if you marry this one OYO is your case. You should let her go as of now.....in fact yesterday. block her, Ghost her break all connection becasue this one has you wrapped around her finger.
I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.
However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.
I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.
She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything. Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.
in that case you are blessed with a good physique. stop struggling to look Mama-ish. the grass appears greener in another persons yard. emphasis on "appears"
Time never reach. with this your physique, it is likely the weight will eventually pile one, particularly when u start having kids, by then maybe na u go tire.
meanwhile you are not skinny. na ur mind dey worry u
Using an Age filter will lead you astray. Just do your investigations well into any woman you are interested in. Has nothing to do with age. Find all you can about whoever u want to get into a relationship with, it applies to both men and women.
Always ask questions about any lady's past. If she can't tell you, get it by yourself. Avoid any lady is who shouting privacy yet she wants to have access to yours; passwords of your whatsAPP, Facebook and other social platforms. Ladies can keep secrets. They always claim "Saints" whereas they aren't. Many ladies above 30 years who are not married, 95% are the caused of their problems. Don't pity any lady in relationship especially if you would like to settle down with her.
A situation where a lady told you that a man is her Uncle whereas the man wasn't her uncle. she has been with the man for more than 10 years as a 'side chic' whereas she couldn't get a guy or relationship for 2 years. The man is her sugar daddy. He only called her whenever he wants her. Ladies are heartless and wicked. Above 30 years, many ladies are just looking for an innocent guy to put their useless problems on his head.
In my opinion, avoid ladies who are above 30 years with multiple Exs. Just avoid them for your peace of mind please and future. The good ones are less than 3%
Redomi: I was coming from the farm this morning, I met a friend in the road and we were discussing when this baby owl just fall from a nearby tree, we caught it and tie the wing.
Please put the owl back in the tree it fell from.
That's a Northern White faced owl. A beautiful creature as you can see. What is the current status of the owl
na u dey try keep up with persona wey no be you. forming hard guy like u said.
when dealing with relationships there are no guarantees but there will be no success either unless you try.
MikeofKd: Good day Nlanders, pls I need the wisest counsels of wise Nlanders. I have a problem which is lack of commitment to women, ive been this way since I left uni, and pls know that this isnt due to masturbation or any sorts, cause I havent done that thing since my teenage years.
I meet a woman today , we vibe, connect and all but i'm just damn too scared to commit any woman no matter how good she is. I'm scared that if I continue this way I may likely find it really difficult to get married.
Seeing and experiencing different complains of men in real life and on the forum as made my commitment issues with women only worse. I'm currently working, fair pay, got my own place, I'm doing quite well for myself. Ive met different women this year that were good women, but I fear if I give my heart to them they may switch up, women are too complicated naturally to cope with.
This fear of commitment is seriously holding me back from getting a serious relationship. My only fear is if I continue this way I may not get married. I need the counsels of wise nairalanders to advice me on what to do concerning this commitment issues cause it quite depressing no lies.
I form hard guy, but deep down I really be craving for a romantic relationship, I'm just too scared to give any woman my heart cause ive been hurt in past relationships . So hurt that even when I had a good woman I couldnt see it and I lost her.
Your Wise advice and counsels would be deeply appreciated thanks.
GVTAsiwaju: When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though). We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds. I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...
Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.
its not a method i would employ. it may not work on all women either. Last last Domestic violence is Domestic violence.
The wife may be one of those few " odd" women who crave a bit of violence and believe it is a sign of love cos when she mouths of at her hubby she knows the slap will come eventually and she will keep at it till she gets the slap.if this is the case she probably needs some therapy to break her out of the craving and to teach her to bridle her tongue and respect her man more.
There is a saying that " in every man is a King and a fool, whichever you address, is the one that will respond to you"
Yesterday myself and my friends were having a chat at a bear parlour , we are all married. He said he loves his wife very well but she is very stubborn and some times talk harsh to him and rude or commanding, although she some times apologizes when she is wrong but this is a case of sometimes, in other to let her come to her senses if she repeats again, one slap always adjust her senses for one week and she will be humbled and quick to cry, he will then apologize to her that she caused it. We were all shocked.
He said she fears her so much as a result of this, guys is this is the right way to handle your wife and how can she change.
i was like this, after many years and many treatments, i settled to using Dudu osun to wash as often as possible and then using skin success cleanser, the plain one not the toner. eventually a friend told me something strange. he said "forget you have a face".
sounded weird initially but then i did and lived my life unbothered about what was on my face.............life got easier.
ultimately these things are mostly age related, u will eventually outgrow them. many of these treatments can do a lot of harm.
So, finally, wash your face often, change your pillowcase and handkerchiefs often, stop bursting and live your life like its golden.
Romance › Re: My Wife Ask Me To Go Open A Domiciliary Account.. by Patented: 1:03pm On Jan 17, 2024
