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Quarelling over the shenanigans of politicians is not wise. These politicians are mainly about themselves.
the things we allow to divide us in the country are plenty, Religion, Ethnicity, politics.............and when we do this we play into the hands of the politicians who are more than willing to use our lowest sentiments to their gain.

Politicians are not to be trusted, they will skew facts, figures and opinon to suit them per time.

Money is a good thing, but it is not everything.
Like all things in life nothing in isolation is a silver bullet.

Dpsychologist:
By: Dpsychologist

Let’s talk, guys:

Have you also started feeling like money is EVERYTHING in today’s world?

Or do you still believe peace > paper?

Drop your thoughts. This one’s personal.

wrong quote oooo. no be me be OP

lucianohase:
Sorry to say this, she is a very, very selfish person and the earlier you think of safe guarding yourself, you should know how best to go about it, the better for you. But if you don't, you will over labor yourself, get exhausted and die. But don't get violent, else you loose all you have laboured for. Secondly, you ought to have seen early signs of this in her before you got married, yet you still decided to go ahead with the marriage. Like someone said, she really has plans, so you need to act fast

Liazz:
Back home before we travelled, she wasn't employed, I was fully in charge of all finances with the help of my family members.

It's either she got too used to that arrangement or she get plans wey she no dey tell you IMO

[quote author=Liazz post=135898128]Am I being unreasonable being mad at my wife?
We relocated abroad 3 years ago but she isn't helping to settle any of the bills.
We both are gainfully employed though I earn much than she does. Our monthly expenditure is about £2000 and she doesn't care to help in any way. I foot all bills making me struggle to save while she keeps all she earns to herself. We also had a loan of over 10 thousand pounds to settle when we relocated, she didn't help with a dime till I paid all bits by bits which took me almost 2 years.
Despite this, I still help with house chores like taking care of our kids, home cleaning and even washing dishes though she does all the cooking.
I've expressed my displeasure several times but she keeps insisting I can't force her to financially assist, it's my job as I'm the husband. She seems convinced she isn't doing any wrong and no sign of remorse whatsoever.
I financed our relocation 100% without her contributing a dime.
This is causing a strain in the marriage and I am thinking if I am unreasonable in my demand, am I?
Your comments are highly welcome.
[/quota merging seems amiss. How were the financial dynamics while you were u Naija?

Akfrenzy:
Some states need to be merged with others 😆

But selfish politicians are hellbent in creating new states for selfishness

100% 100% 100% agreed!!
states with no element of viability abound

hahaha, wetin i wan teach you ooo brother

NothingDoMe:
Bros teach me. 😅 You sabi write abeg. 🙌

Na this type of intelligent comments seun dey find for Nairaland.

ability to provide glib and seemingly sharp witted responses does not cover a lack of understanding. Note that when your premise is flawed then your arguments that folow will also be flawed. Your presumption about the importance of the physical location of the Origin of christianity (evolved from and different from Judaism) is a flawed premise.

HEAVEN4444:
lol it's a struggle to try to spin reality. I sympathize and empathize with you

End time pastor............. its the followers that ar gullible.

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JUrMXDuaGyg?si=VfDWJC1mP-WdKH9g

A viral statement by Prophet Jeremiah Omoto claims that paying your first fruit can wipe away sins and secure divine backing—even for those involved in 419.

The message has ignited debate online and in religious communities.

HEAVEN4444:
I mean the foundation of Christianity is Israel but now the place has been raised to the ground by Iranian warriors. So does that mean that Christianity will now be obsolete ? I mean the power house and foundation of the religion just got bombed back into the stone ages and so surely that must render the religion obsolete right ? What is the next step by Christians ? Should they revert to worshipping Orunmila and Obatala ? Orunmila baba ifa.

struggled to frame a response but all i can say is "ENJOY"

I honestly do not believe this. reasons for women staying unmarried to that age are very very plent. to just Say any woman who is unmarried at 30 is not a good woman disingenous.

Life constitutes of more than what netizens think and believe. General statements about any calss of people that do not admit exceptions are by their very nature false.

Do you know how many terible women are married at 25? A terrible woman is likely to know better how to manupulate a man adn would probably marry earlier if she wants to

elipheleh:
Good women don't stay unmarried long time.
Just as good items don't stay in market too long.

The logic is if she is 30 and unmarried, then she definitely is not a good woman.

Even if a bad woman marries early, she will definitely be kicked out of it, and then back to market

Sirchiboy:
Is it advisable to marry a lady in her late 30s

Just marry a good woman... Leave the shenanigans. Your marriage is what you and your spouse make it not what netizens preach

Akinfemmy:
I worked as a photographer for a studio in Lagos. I started the job in January, and the studio was newly launched, so we weren't getting much traction. However, during the interview stage, the CEO didn't mention that there were no clients. He spoke as though there were already clients, and it was just a matter of me coming to work. It wasn't until I resumed that I found out this wasn't the case, but he assured us that we shouldn't worry, our salaries wouldn't be affected, and he was hiring a marketer. The marketer joined us in February, but nothing changed. Although we were working, most of the jobs were promotional, and only a few were paid.

Fast-forward to June, after the end of May, we were all expecting our salaries. However, the first week passed, and then the second week, so I wrote an email asking why our salaries were delayed. I also informed management that I was running out of money to cover my transportation and daily expenses, which might later stop me from working. I asked if there was a good reason for the delay, it would be kind of management to inform us. I sent the email on Monday last week.

On Friday, I informed the secretary that I didn't have any money, and I might not be able to come to work if I wasn't paid. She didn't respond. The following day, Saturday, I stayed home and didn't go to work, unaware that some staff members had also decided to stay home. That evening, I received an email stating that I had been terminated with immediate effect and that I was to return all company properties by Tuesday, which was just my ID card. I replied that I wouldn't return anything until my salary was paid. Note that I had worked for two weeks in June.

On Monday, I received my pay, but it was only for May. I went to the studio on Tuesday to return my ID card. The secretary informed me that I might be paid for June's salary by the end of the month. And that's how my unemployment journey started.

Nothing spoil, it's not like they had capacity to pay

Wisdomkosi:
Source : https://igberetvnews.com/1484497/meet-notorious-fake-ebonyi-prophet-ubadimma-ordered-demolition-mans-building-photos/

The reason for the lack of progress is clear

most interesting thing i have read on Nairaland in a while

matify83:
https://www.jpost.com/middle-east/iran-news/article-857856

budaatum:
Sounds to me like PETROAN do not want their own monopoly challenged.

Exactly the case. Don't mind those people

Chilipepper:
Nigerian women share experience after giving birth.

Evil women and weak men in all the stories

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

richmond500:
Please married people I need ur input on this.
I do two jobs, one govt job that pays me 150k, and another audit firm that pays 250k, making it 400k
My girlfriend has been very supportive though, she cooks and clean at all times, except my laundry cos I do my laundry myself and once a while help in cleaning but I don't cook cos I can't eat food that I cook, I don't even help her in the kichen enter except when I want to microwave food.
Recently she asked me to give her my UBA ATM card where I recieve 150k and I should keep the 250k for myslef that she will manage the money herself but will only give me 15k monthly for transportation, Kai my own money o. She has agreed to buy all groceries and house-upkeep needed for the month except rent.
Her excuse is that it's better since I dont help in house chores.
Though I do give her monthly upkeep for her stress but managing my finance is not something I actually fancy.

I am still contemplating on it and I need input if it's ok to allow her manage the money.
Pls I will prefer married people input and not redpillers abeg

our problems are many and they are mainly self inflicted. Our shortsightedness is legendary.

ugowems2000:
National Agency for Food and Drug Administration and Control (NAFDAC) has warned Nigerians about the circulation of an unregistered cosmetic product, Fair Child Soap, which is reportedly being marketed for children.

In a statement released by the agency, NAFDAC disclosed that its routine post-market surveillance uncovered the sale of the imported skin-lightening soap across various retail outlets in Lagos. The product, which is promoted using misleading labeling, is not registered with NAFDAC and poses potential health risks.

Read more here: [https://ravenewsonline.com/nafdac-warns-nigerians-about-circulation-of-unregistered-skin-lightening-soap-for-children/]

haggai247:
You just lost money that's a hybrid of civet cat.

that cat could have been worth more than all your chickens.

It's not a hybrid of anything. It's an African Wild Cat

kay29000:
Nope. It's a stray cat.

It may be an "African Wild Cat" it's similar to a domestic or stray in appearance. Look it up

pele, the name comes from its alleged kidney stone treatment abilities

Jieta2:
And I just suffered from kidney stoness am still on drugs.

NiceLegs:
Since evening, I have been trying to google it.
I'm using "Google Image" to search for it on the internet but it's bringing out so many grasses.

Google the name "stone breaker plant"

[quote author=NiceLegs post=135626448][/quote]It's called 'stone breaker plant ' Google it it has benefits. Antiviral qualities and I think it works for kidney stones too

Women should also treat women better.....let me rephrase, people should treat people better.

ChristIsAll:
This is Why I always advice women to do something while in marriage, don't let any man bobo you with sit at home syndrome!

READ THE STORY BELOW👇👇

A woman who is trying to find her missing husband Cries Out as her mother-in-law takes over the home...
Following her husband’s abduction and escalating family strife, a Nigerian widow has gone to social media to relate her heartbreaking experience involving her mother inlaw....👇

https://247trendz.com.ng/2025/06/03/a-woman-who-is-trying-to-find-her-missing-husband-cries-out-as-her-mother-in-law-takes-over-the-home/

this man seems to be unwravelling very fast
[quote author=TouchNfollow post=135604369]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EHrk7YHUR20?si=oLhCYQtv3TStQGod



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“Don't carry any news about me or my church. If not, I'll arrest and lock you up.”

-Pastor David Ibiyeomie warns, threåtens to take action against bloggers and Nigerians on social media commenting against him. pic.twitter.com/ZxpRnhZnng

— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) June 2, 2025

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More like a"yeyebrity"

Meteng:
She don blow na. She’s now a celebrity

you can leave, even if you dont go too far away. Just make sure they are cattered for and get your siblings to contribute their quota.

An Adult needs space.

SultanOfPuna:
I have lived alone in apartment from 2019 to 2023
Due to financial struggles i relocated to my parents house 2023 since then i'm still with them

Now its 2 years and i have gotten financially stable and solid.
I want to leave but my parents are old and they want me to be around them at this stage of their life.


My parents are really old
My siblings are all married except me. My siblings are in different states far away from my parents.
I'm the only one closer to them

I'm the one taking care of the house and making sure things are in order.
But deep down i want to leave the house and go create my own family.

If i leave them and move out i fear that things will be out of order and disorganised due to old age.
Unfortunately no younger sibling to help look after them.

What should i do?

Nigerians need to learn to resist the urge to Shalaye. No lies in the damage cos she admitted. I remember when they accused Sanusi of sleeping with one woman like that. Baba did not say a thing, the story got lost very quickly.
In fact this story was dying before she granted this interview. maybe she wan trend but except she wants to open an only fans page I do not see the benefits

Bigcowhorn:
You speak like you are not a Nigerian

Have you ever known silence to fix a damaged reputation? Even if the damage was clearly done by lies and Malice

JagaLove:
the world has turned upsidedown man. She is now a superstar. Even the interviewer should be ashamed

100 perecent

nothing to clear up na. She slept with a married man while she was also married to another man. Her statements are admissions and dont help her story. Somethings just need to be left to die out on their own. Deed was done, d matter cast............wetin remin?

PantShifter:
There was a need for her to clear things up

Why is she even granting interviews??

matter wey she suppose just keep quiet about till the world moves on to other things

damilola4162:
The Anambra woman who went viral over her s3x t@pe with a married man has revealed that her daughter leaked it online.

In a new interview clip shared yesterday, the woman recounted how she fell in love with the married man identified as Ichie Obiora, even though she was also married to another man.

According to the lady, Ichie Obiora treated her well, took care of her and rushed her to the hospital after her husband knocked her out. She also debunked claims that Ichie Obiora’s title was taken from him over the video. She stated that he would only pay a fine as the title is for life.

The lady further revealed that rumours that her married lover was sl33ping with her and her daughter, are not true. She noted that her daughter was angry with her for abandoning their father and accused her of moving in with Ichie Obiora, even though it’s not true.

She added that she deleted the video, but her daughter recovered it, showed it to her estranged husband and also leaked it online.


Source: https://newspremises.com.ng/anambra-woman-who-went-viral-over-her-s3x-tpe-with-a-married-man-reveals-her-daughter-leaked-it-online-video/