So I have been unemployed for a while until late last month that a friend gave me link to his place of work and I got the job. The pay is not good but I had to take it cos I was wasting away without any income.
Now I joined him in the city but he didn't tell me in his one room apartment, he has 3 other guys living in. I now make the 5th guy in one room. All of them have a girlfriend that still come to sleep in the same room. I'm sure you can imagine what it means living in such a condition. I'm just 2 weeks into the work but I have already felt so tired and fade that I'm thinking of quitting the job and go back to the village which is neither a better option. Some days, I sleep in the open in the compound because no space for me inside, absorbing all in the cold into my system which is very unhealthy, plus uncertain security situation. Also, according to the company's policy, I won't get paid through out the probationary period which is 3 months. How do I handle this?
I need advice please.
The first question I have for you is if it's your friend that is paying for the rent alone or if it's a collective stuff? If he is the one paying alone na to talk to reason with am make every man get he own sleeping position. That way, whoever is coming with a visitor would have to plan on where the visitor would spend the night or he would have to sacrifice his own space. If the rent is a collective stuff, my brother na to bear for the next 3 months or look for somewhere else to be spending the night. I would never advice you to go back to the village unless you are expecting something huge there.
Morah1: A young man said to be in his early twenties is now receiving deliverance prayers from the spirit of addiction after he was caught smoking Indian hemp inside a church around the Illoabuchi axis of Diobu in Port Harcourt.
maxwell530: what about Emerson? Did he not win UCL and Euros as well? Jorginho wasn't even the best player in all the competitions he won. You can't beat yourself and say Jorginho played better than Kante in the UCL, Jorginho didn't play better than Veratti and co in the Euros. You don't give an individual award to a player just because he's in a winning team.if we are to go by ur logic, Raphael Verane supposed to win Balon d'Or in 2018 ahead of Modric.
I bet you if joginho wasn't in that Italian squad they wouldn't have won the Euros. It is very obvious you only watch when the ball is being kicked. Let me tell you something, it's joginho that brings calm and coordination to the Italian and Chelsea football.
shegzbillionz: wonder where people like this jump out from to spew trash from the gutter they call mouth, how the hell do you think Messi isn’t doing well at Paris? Do you watch games at all? Do you know Ballon D’or criteria, or you follow every rumors and hate posts online and come here to talk because u have a phone in your hand, I think you need to be arrested
This tells alot about your upbringing. Inability to involve in a debate or dialogue without trading insults. Please move forward you would find your kinds. Shalom
I was here on this platform in 2019 seeking for advice concerning Transportation business. I eventually went into the business and it was a sad experience. You can read my previous threads for more information on the business.
After the collapsed of the transportation business, I venture into money lending business.
I lend money to people with the hope to get a refund with interests.
Since 2019 I went into the business, I have lent money to over 20 people and only 5 have refund the money.
Those 5 people who refunded the money, it was a fight before the refund.
Before I lend money to people, I make them sign T & C documents. Some signed the hard copy others signed the softcopy.
When it is time to pay off, they refuse to pay. I have called them severally. At a point I told them to pay only the capitals and forget about the interests.
At a point some will make statements like "Don't disturb me. Even Federal Government owes. It is debt not stealing".
I had made arrangement that this December I will arrest some of them.
But recently I read on this platform that the police has no right to arrest anyone over debt.
Please how can I get them refund my money without involving the police?
My brother just forget about more than half of that money because more than 50 percent of your debtors have already made up their mind not to pay you back while another 20 percent have got the willingness to pay but the Nigerian laicadesical attitude towards lone won't make Dem pay back. In case of next time don't give more than what you can't forego as lone especially without collateral.
Euros and the Copa America played a major part in deciding this year's winner not t just club trophies or goals . Lewy couldn't get his hands on the Euros and just like Barcelona his Bayern Munich team couldn't win last season's UCL
No UCL, No Euros (equivalent to Copa America) and you were expecting Lewy to win the ballon dor
What about joginho which excuse do you have for him not winning it.
Isaytrash: I was inside my room vibing to Tupac when suddenly all my siblings still joking around in the varanda ran inside, shouting snake snake!! As man of the house wey I be I carried my mortal and small cutlass I normally keep in my room incase of emergencies like this to find and butcher the snake. After much looking I found it in my dog kernels it was then I knew the reason why Hulk has been barking for like 30 minutes. I butchered it and useless it
Find pictures below
Modified Btw the area is a new site with plenty bushes around guess the snake came from the soundings
My brother the only advice I can give you is for you to mind the way you shit in your toilet to avoid stories that touch. Make we no go hear say 70 years old man loses his preek in his toilet due to snake bite. I come in peace.
[quote author=Ademola47 post=108072473][i] FIFA has announced Lionel Messi as the winner of the 2021 Ballon d'Or.
Sentiments apart (I love Messi a lot), but I think Lewandowski was cheated. He deserves the award more than Messi. His performance (in the Bundesliga and champions league) has said it all.
What do you think? I am a die hard Messi fan but truth be told, Messi doesn't deserve the award. Especially due to his performance in psg this season. Now I know the ballon d'or is a political award and does not always determine the best player due to performance. I drop my pen in peace.
Ademola47: FIFA has announced Lionel Messi as the winner of the 2021 Ballon d'Or.
Sentiments apart (I love Messi a lot), but I think Lewandowski was cheated. He deserves the award more than Messi. His performance (in the Bundesliga and champions league) has said it all.
What do you think? I am a die hard Messi fan but truth be told, Messi doesn't deserve the award. Especially due to his performance in psg this season. Now I know the ballon d'or is a political award and does not always determine the best player due to performance. I drop my pen in peace.
For the best keeper, I think Mendy deserves it more.
Sundaland: 18-year-old Thai boy was rushed to the hospital Tuesday after a four-foot-long python bit his penis while he was sitting on the toilet at his home in Nonthaburi in central Thailand.
Siraphop Masukarat went to the toilet on Tuesday evening, when he felt a sudden sharp pain in his male member.
He looked down and saw the python with its jaws clamped around the tip of his penis. It quickly let go as blood spurted around the toilet bowl.
Cultistupdate: There is a looming cult war between eiye and aye. Alot of people has been wounded. This looming cult war is around Udu Road Warri. And some killed. Urgent update. If you have any friend or brother in any of these cult groups tell them to run for their lives first.
Why you dey come tell us? Wetin concern is? You no know cultist Dem social media group to go post am? Where as who want die make them leave am make he die. Abi them tell us before them go enter bush?
I don't know what this guy is still doing roaming the street as a free man and spewing gibberish. He is supposed to be in jail already. It's very obvious he is the PRO of these terrorists.
KingEverest: all these journalist and reporters eh they understood wat he meant o they just wanted to implicate him
If it were the uefa tournament, would he have described it in the same way. He may not have meant to disrespect the afcon tournament but, human inate perception goes a long way in determining his choice of words in social interaction. That is why when interacting with people try to pay close attention to their choice of words and not just what they are trying to communicate, so you could have a better understanding of them.
G450: Y will u even go close to d river if u don't know how to swim? nd pple dat suppose to b of help were there videoing them... Sense is really far from some pple
Who told you that it's only those that don't know how to swim that drown in water. It may be due to a change in the water current or even a muscular cramp.
Alexxxxadrewv: A video showing a Nigerian pastor confessing how he stole instruments from another church and sold an amplifier which was among the things he stole, to a DJ in Benin, Edo state has emerged.
According to clergyman named Pastor Uhunoma, who is the assistant pastor of Christ Victory Bible church located in Benin, he indulged in the act, because he wasn’t paid by the church.
He reportedly stole an amplifier, projector, protector screen, camera and light from another church before he was apprehended.
He confessed that he sold the amplifier to a DJ in Benin and gave out the name of the DJ.
Those who caught him asked him to take them to everyone he sold the stolen items to and he agreed.
Pastor Uhunoma was then queried about if he would continue stealing from a church after he’s freed.
In response, he unintentionally said he would stop if he got a job, which prompted the men to yell at him.
G450: Y will u even go close to d river if u don't know how to swim? nd pple dat suppose to b of help were there videoing them... Sense is really far from some pple
Is it only those that don't know how to swim that drown in water. It may be due to a change in the water current or even muscular cramp.
ezugegere: I see a mentally sick woman old woman... What she needs is medical care... Let's stop this nonsense
I swear. I believe they must have gotten their conclusion from a statement she gave due to allucination because of her mental health. Have Nigerians bothered to ask themselves why majority of witches caught are usually very poor old people. Abi rich people no dey get witchcraft?
paulolee: hmm.....see were u reason am reach? Wetin concern d media outlets doing such with computer games? I thought both players involved are stars n gat dier pics scattered all over d internet n Google is free dt mistake is too childish n shows shades of lazy journalism..free computer games excuse abegi bcoz dey own it n u weren't forced to buy one..
You just misinterpreted his post. Try to read again and this time read slowly so you could understand better.
so the media outlets cannot tell the difference between a Chelsea jersey and a Man City jersey even the picture of Mendy (GK) shows him putting on a Chelsea jersey but according to this slowpoke, it's not the media's fault because "black players look alike in video games".
Stupidity will always defend stupidity
Don't tell me you still don't comprehend what he is trying to say. In case your brain is too slow to understand, he is basically saying that it is a clear case of racism and used the PlayStation analogy as an example to back his point. Shalom
Is this guy not a Yoruba Muslim? I thought the other idiot dat gave an interview said he was denied job because of his religion. Logically thinking, I believe he was denied because they perceived he wasn't competent enough or because he didn't cut corners (bribe) and not on the ground of his religion.
Creativeace: The thing about movies is that even when we all the know they've been scripted and acted, we just cant keep our subconscious minds from connecting and vibing with the emotions and energy its giving out
Back when we were kids, our enviroments made us watch movies especially Nigerian-movies that were predominantly about the manifestation of whitcraft in the dark, so we grew up afraid of the dark and couldnt dare to leave our rooms in the dark !
Also with age and experience comes emasculation and we tend to vibe to diffrent kinds of movies that affects our personalities !
So everyone has that movie character from whom he learnt one or two things from.
Where do you think most of our teenage girls learn the acts of drama from ? zeeworld and telemundo ofcourse !
I'll go first Ragnar lothbrok of the viking series has influenced my masculinity in a lot of ways, from being emotionally cold to most things, to being strategic and never revealing your end~game untill its about to unfold.
Share yours !
I am surprised nobody has talked about game of thrones. If you watch and understand that movie you will be exposed to the laws of power in it's practicality and get to see life as a game where you are either a player or you are played. In the real world nobody truly loves you, they only follow you because of what they believe they would benefit from you. The earlier you understand that the better for you.
The actress revealed that most married men sleep with their side chicks more than their wives. In the past oloshos dey feel ashamed but now a days they are they ones advertising and defending their trade in public. 95 percent of our current Nollywood actresses are nothing but glorified oloshos. These days we have actresses that are more popular on social media than in movies. Side chicks are the ones doing most of the work. Please somebody should ask madam if it is carpentry job or plumbing job. What insolence. Drilling ones husband and coming out in public to defend it with stupid points.
If it were to happen in one west African country , it would have been a case of ungun known men. Wahala for who no come from a country where the system works.
ShadowWalker00: This is a documentary that exposes the criminal syndicate confraternities, cultists and their crimes in europe from Murder, to human trafficking to drug trafficking, etc.
These guys have made life difficult for Nigerians and other west Africans in Europe. They have made Europe to begin to shut its doors to African immigrants. The worst part of it all is that majority of these girls know exactly what they are signing for when they left Nigeria. Many of them are passing through what they call modern slavery (total loss of freedom). Ironically, this is perpetuated by the so called freedom fighters. I am speaking from experience.
Tomek09: Man gets 25 years for raping a 15-month-old toddler.
The Lagos Domestic Violence and Sexual Offences Court, Ikeja, has sentenced a 38-year old bus conductor, Seun Aina to 25 years imprisonment for raping a 15-month-old toddler. The judge, Abiola Soladoye, sentenced Mr. Aina on Tuesday, September 28, after finding him guilty of defilement.
"The defendant is sentenced to 25-years in prison without an option of fine,” the judge said. The prosecution led by Peter Owolabani said the bus conductor committed the offense at 5.30 p.m. on 3 January 2018 at No. 5, Dominion Estate Road, Ijede, Ikorodu, Lagos.
He said the convict was 35 years old at the time he committed the offense and the minor was his neighbor’s daughter. During the trial, the prosecution presented three witnesses including the Investigating Police Officer and a medical doctor.
The defense presented two witnesses, the convict, and a medical doctor. The offense contravenes the provisions of Section 137 of the Criminal Law of Lagos 2015.
This idiot should be castrated immediately. He is a danger to the society.
That is good for the cross riverians. How dare they touch our first class citizens (Fulani herdsmen). If they are scared for their own security then they should leave their community for the herdsmen.