₦airaland Forum

He respected himself!

Hian!

Husband and wife with little income but seeing nothing wrong in having more children.

Guitarlife:
oya make una nor vex, I don hear, nobody is contributing to the thread , everybody is putting energy into correcting me. Nor be me get thread o, make una gather advise the OP.

Na to correct an impression.

Guitarlife:
@OP what is the level of education of this your brother ? And what is the level of education of you the other girls ?
Does he have a job ?

It seems he was not properly brought up and from the way you have narrated this, he doesnt even seem to have a job.

It looks like the adminstration of your parents marriage was not totally adequate and your brother is behaving just in the manner he has been brought up, in a family without love I suppose otherwise, how can a man and the wife build two separate uncompleted houses ?

Why will a man borrow money from the wife when he has more than 4 times that amount in savings and not pay back ?

Have you girls done anything to give your only brother an impression that he is alone ? You need to understand that culturally in Yoruba land the man child is the only person that can inherit a parent, the other ladies are expected to inherit from the inheritance of their husbands family so in a situation where there is no love ab initio your brother will see you guys as enemies .

Lastly, it seems your mom has a weakness with money , dashing fake pastors money and all, are there cases when her son needed money in the past and she did not give him but rather donated generously to pastors as you alluded to ?

For your brother to have turned around like this shows that there is a deep seated fundamental issue that needs to be addressed and you have to be really objective and ready to shift a lot of grounds if you dont want that family to fall apart.

I wish you goodluck.

Female children inherit property in Yoruba land. My father bought some plots of land in Ojota (Lagos State) in the 70's from one of the daughters of the Olurunfumi family which was part of her inheritance.

Most of the Yoruba families I grew up with in Ojota have moved on to different parts of the world, their late parents houses sold and the proceeds shared among all recognized children irrespective of gender.

Any video on that?

This guy has really transitioned!

Collect whatever is given then vote who you are convinced is about development.

nanauju:
Wait o, this full blown bearded man just an adult??
When she says 'adult', does she mean he's now old enough to get off her roof? Or he just clocked 18 or 21 which one?? Cuz I'm confused

18

Hmm..He just turned 18, finished secondary school last year!

Hmm...

Sad.

Glad some people who were accessories to the attack are in police custody and already charged to court.

alphaNomega:
Na today?

But new to some.

Financial security.

Business idea for the discerning mind.

May their souls rest in peace and the injured, quick recovery

stevedre:
Not forgetting Sharia law areas in Northern states, this helps in breeding Boko Haram sympathisers since this is what Boko Haram wants.

True.

This proves criminally minded persons are not tribal conscious, it is all about getting the crime executed.

Military offensive will not end Boko Haram as long as there is a brimming pool of easy recruits which the core Northern setting provides.

Marry off a girl child who gives birth to a child who ends up with nothing to look forward to. How can a man have many wives and have over 19 children with no means to effectively cater for his brood?

The Northern political class need this senseless breeding for electoral numbers without thinking of human capital development, they get the electoral numbers while Boko Haram gets the insurgents!

They have the right to decide who they want around.

"He traveled to the US where he is a citizen for more medical examination and possible treatment"

What a clown!

Hahnemann:
His village elders have finally caught up with him

At age 97?

Disheartening.

It is not about religious leaning but personality, El-Rufai has continuously displayed behaviour that makes him unlikeable and a polarizing figure.

moshoodn:
Tapping into your wealth of knowledge, how do you think individual can make money from this initiative?

In Nigeria?

"What God has joined together" x 2!

One can imagine the millions spent on the non-functional CCTV camera!

mfm04622:
Banks have been fighting telecom companies through CBN to stop them from offering the services. The banks tried offering the services but adoption was not significant. Guess CBN lost patience with them. The banks have lost

Telcos are in the best position to offer mobile money solutions. Your phone number is tied to financial services but Nigerian banks are seriously against it.

Sad.

He isa cheerful giver!