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I guess if you are also gifting your daughter a house, one should make sure that her husband's (son-in-law) name is on the house documents, so it will pamper his ego!

79733139:
Be empathetic... the man thought he was going to die, at least have some sympathy.

What is special about dying in Nigeria?

He was selfish with his decision, disregarding the implication it would have on his children' future. I am imagining how often his children wished they never lost their chance of being British Citizens.

MondayUche:
THANKS TO THOSE WHO CALLED AND PRAYED FOR US. THANKS TO THOSE WHO MESSAGED AND ENCOURAGED ME. AND A VERY BIG THANK YOU TO THE 2 ANON WHO SENT US 5K AND 2K MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL. THOSE WHO UNDERSTANDS MY STRUGGLE THANK YOU ALL. GOD BLESS EVERYONE IN EVERY WAY OF YOUR LIFE. AND I PRAY YOU WILL NEVER EXPERIENCE A SITUATION THAT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE BEEN LOCKED IN A CAGE AND COULDN'T GET OUT OF DISAPPOINTMENT. I STRONGLY BELIEVE THAT MY TIME WILL COME AND WHEN IT COMES, I WILL TESTIFY AND WILL ALWAYS HELP THE NEEDY BECAUSE I KNOW WHAT IT TAKES. I AM BLESSED WITH ALMOST EVERYTHING BUT LACK SUCCESS AND I DONT KNOW WHY GOD IS PURNISHING ME THIS WAY. ANYHOW SHA, I KNOW SOMEDAY MY PRAYERS WILL BE ANSWERED IF WE WILL STILL BE ALIVE TILL THEN. LET ME FINALLY TAKE THE WORLD THE WAY I SEE IT. AFTER RENT WHEREVER WE SEE OURSELF SO BE IT. EVEN IF NA FOR OPHANAGE HOME IF I CAN LEAVE MY KIDS IN A GOOD HAND OF A GOOD GOD FEARING MOTHER AND END IT SOMEWHERE E PAY ME THAN TAKING THEM BACK TO MY SO CALLED EVIL VILLAGE WHERE WHAT IS HAPPENING TO ME IS COMIG FROM. MISSING THEM ALREADY BUT THEIR CREATOR KNOWS THE BEST. THANKS GUYS. I HAVE BEEN READING ALL THE COMMENTS SINCE LAST NIGHT AND I MUST SAY I REALLY APPRECIATE EVERYONE IN EVERY OF THEIR OWN UNDERSTANDING. EVEN IF I AM NOT FAVORED, MAY GOD FAVOR YOU ALL

Monday Uche with the alternate moniker MrUcheMD (the moniker you started your "begging business" out with before the switch to MondayUche), why not address the earlier post where someone on twitter sent you N162k 2 months ago.....which is about the 6 months salary of many graduates in Nigeria?

Did you post on twitter that you have already started the indomie business or not?

Your criminal activities have been busted and you come up with a "farewell speech" that you have copied and pasted in your other thread in the romance section where your criminal activities were laid bare.

Though a 12 year old thread, the NGO job is it! Build your profile.....it will take you places, speaking from personal experience.

GboyegaD:
Just curious, if you were the sibling or cousin, would you put your life on a hold to help him look after two kids?

His mother is in the village (sick or not) and I strongly believe there are relatives living in the same compound with his mother unless he wants to claim here that his.mother is staying alone in a fenced in.compound in the village where no relative (even from his own mother's side) is available to assist in looking after the children.

The OP has perfected his excuse- giving formats and an unrepentant scam artist! Someone on twitter sent him N162, 000 on the the 17th of January 2021, that is the 6 months salary of some graduates who earn.N27,000 monthly.

That is his footprints on twitter!

Sterope:
ENGINEERG

No be only you get craze for head.


Let me help you take this madness a step further.

Those stupid Mission schools benefitted from the taxes and exploitation our colonisers forced on our fathers, slavery as well.

Before whoever became the first Christian and educated your family converted. Their admission was based on abandoning the Muslim or traditional faiths to become Christians. Education and Christianity or no education at all.

After grabbing the lands and our money. That was the choice. The nerve of you all!!!

What stopped the Muslim missionary societies to emphasis on school apostolate over the centuries Islam has been part of what is today's Nigeria?

What was your excuse not to set up western focused educational institutions when the Christian missionaries were, especially in the core North?

Is that why your folks forcefully took over historically Catholic owned schools like St John's College Kaduna, to rename it Rimi College and Queen of Apostles College Kaduna, the first girls' secondary school in the north of Nigeria. founded and managed by the Catholic Reverend Sisters and was forcefully taken from the Reverend Sister to became Queen Amina College Kaduna?

Tinubu during his tenure as governor was smart enough to hand over missionary schools taken over by the then government in the 70s, to their founding owners.....go across Lagos today and see those schools thriving far better than government managed schools.

MondayUche:
Chaiiiii you just wont understand. My 2 younger brothers are struggling to survive, one is staying in Jabi market Abuja while doing Uber while our last born managed to follow one village uncle that visited home during Xmas to go and do house boy for them. Our village in the east is hmmmmm im just praying for grace sha[1quote author=Pavore9 post=99998435]

Apart from your mother, no sibling nor cousin?

The fact is that you are not coping in Lagos. Go back to the village with your children where you don't pay rent, enrol them in the village school. In the morning as they follow other children to school, you go out to your farm and also be on the look out for the daily waged jobs.

MondayUche:
If i get I won't come here to spread my pride outside. My mother is very sick and old in the village. Who will stay with them no body

Apart from your mother, no sibling nor cousin?

Appropriate move.

MondayUche:
Even to start the indomie cooking business in my street I did not see the capital to start it. Starting of the Akara business is not free I hardly see money to buy my kids food and medicines then how will I start business? It's okay thanks anyway

With the reminder of house debt, you and your 2 kids should relocate to the village where I believe you have relatives that would assist in looking after the children while you go out to earn an income.

tabithababy:
. Yes.... Help her decide to leave......and bring on the new girl that will take care of the triplets with 20k sef....

What is special about him that will make another lady take up the trouble of raising triplets that are not hers on top the N25k, children that will still go look for their mother when they grow older?

Nice one.

Loss of illicit income for them

RIP

Sad.

mfm04622:
I can't remember the last time I ate noodles!

I feel uncomfortable around it.

Asadujames202:
You're painting a different scenario here


The op and his brother contributed 50/50 in building the house


Not like his brother owns the house

Build which house? Is it the OP that is still an undergraduate student at EBSU?

bravetentewa:
My prayers are with you ... May the verdict favor you

What will be a favourable verdict to him?

Do the time.

Congratulations.

Bright minds.

In as much as it is unsightly and blame the government officials who ought to have them cleared out when they started mushrooming, OP is such a narrow minded individual ! Does he have a database of the tribes of the traders there?

emi1000:
Why can't we just live in peace in this world? Your brother's wife is now part of your family, there should be peace and love between the both families, op I'm not saying you are at fault o, I'm just wondering why people keep having issues with their brother's wife, it baffles me�

We tend to struggle with the reality that once a brother gets married, the dynamics would change. His nuclear family is his wife and children and in reality, his family of origin becomes extended.

My "brother's house" is more applicable when he is still a bachelor but when he gets married it also becomes his wife's home and the law regards a sibling going there to "act drama" as a trespasser.

I strongly believe there are unresolved underlying issues between the OP and his sister in-law before the incident.

He deserves it.

When someone has to verbally remind others that he is older than them, he is dealing with insecurities.

LadySarah:


Ikwerre ppl na dem get am .Wheb your caretaker tells you to travel for weekend and drop your room key while going. It is either your room has been earmarked for the corpse or it houses the compound's sewage pit which might be full and needs to be evacuated.

Their houses no dey get compound .

Why should a caretaker tell you when to travel for the weekend, drop room key on top house you don pay rent for!

He will certainly find a political gathering that would accept him as there are people who his nuisance value tickles!

Misunderstood?

Northern Nigeria is covering almost 80% of the entire land mass of Nigeria, yet for decades they are yet to get that landmass engaged for all year pasture for their livestock.

It is said more than 60% of Israel is desert but the Israeli cows is on record to be the highest producers of milk in the world and they didn't achieve that by roaming around the Middle East with them.

The Federal Government's inaction has been an enabler of the bare faced boldness.

Ajayifolake:
Tomorrow is another weak, please I do not want him to stay at home again. Please help me

In as much you want quality education for your son, the reality on ground is that you are presently not earning and you should have considered enrolling him in the nearest public primary school, so he will still be in the school system. Coming online to source for termly school fees is not a sustainable way to see a child through private school education.

thatigboman:
are u serious? Im shocked like the landlord of aso rock. I have never heard such before

He instructed to be buried within his property in Ojota.

thatigboman:
RIP to the dead.
Wait, a grown up igbo girl buried outside igboland? Strange things are happening these days

E shock u? Go and ask where a former Eze Ndigbo Kosofe (Lagos) was buried.