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FamilyRe: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Pavore9: 9:02am On Dec 26, 2018
Mizwisdom:
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I agree, she's a psychopath. OP, might have a temperate that makes her react this way, coupled with hardened treatment giving to her by a primary care giver in childhood. The only solution is DELIVERANCE. You can be a Christian for years and still live in bondage because your prayers are not targeted at your problem.












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I would gently disagree on the deliverance route, she needs professional attention. You'd be surprised what talk therapy can do to one when they feel the empathy and zero judgement.
CrimeRe: 20-Year-Old Man Murdered On Christmas Day (Graphic Photos) by Pavore9: 8:51am On Dec 26, 2018
akinbodma:
Its like you never experience Muslim burial before
Remember the Christian cemetery noted in the write up, certainly not a Muslim. Have you considered the angle of the Police, will they allow someone murdered to be buried immediately? Nigerian police and their lengthy investigations.
FamilyRe: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Pavore9: 8:42am On Dec 26, 2018
obekediamondfuto:
it's sad that some people tag this behavior as a form of depression either from being broke or something related to the present... most don't understand the half of it..... they have cough.... you have cold, catarrh, cough, fever etc...

The name of this syndrome is EDD, someone stated this one the front page....

I've known about this for years....
I actually wanted to help u tackle it.... but I think you should bask in it for a while, just so you'd appreciate it when you are free from it....

right now, you have found that bliss in solitude.... it will get worse
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but it's still not fatal...

there is a surefire way to tackle this but you are not ready for it.
actually just 3 easy steps that requires extreme commitment and consistency.

you can breach the commitment part at some point but the consistency part..... once breached.... you become worse off.

don't worry, in due time you will understand everything I have typed on your thread op
I did state the EDD on the front page, wanted her to go read wide on it as I know someone who is exhibiting same and the organization where he works mandated he go for therapy and he is presenting seeing a psychotherapist.

Traumatic childhood experiences, insecure attachment, repressed emotions etc are some of the issues that needs to be journeyed through.
CrimeRe: 20-Year-Old Man Murdered On Christmas Day (Graphic Photos) by Pavore9: 10:56pm On Dec 25, 2018
Someone murdered today and buried same day? It doesn't add up.
Jokes EtcRe: Funny Chicken Pictures by Pavore9: 7:00pm On Dec 25, 2018
Two fighting, adiye meji nja! cheesy
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Shares Beautiful Christmas Photos by Pavore9: 6:57pm On Dec 25, 2018
popsyleo1:
You should better go off line and look for another husband to marry or better humble yourself and go and beg Churchill simple
Look for husband huh
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Shares Beautiful Christmas Photos by Pavore9: 6:56pm On Dec 25, 2018
Motherhood has really changed! cheesy
CelebritiesRe: Nadia Buari Rocks Santa Claus Outfit To The Orphanage by Pavore9: 6:28pm On Dec 25, 2018
sage101:
Please come and join me oooo
With this, you are not a responsible father! cheesy
CelebritiesRe: Ronke Odusanya Shares Christmas Photos With Daughter by Pavore9: 4:53pm On Dec 25, 2018
lobell:
We have successfully bred a generation of women who feel comfortable having bastards with reckless abandon. I wonder what the next generation will look like.
Who bred them? Are men not becoming comfortable having children without being married?
CelebritiesRe: Ronke Odusanya Shares Christmas Photos With Daughter by Pavore9: 4:52pm On Dec 25, 2018
babeosisi:
Where are the fathers of these babies ?
A father, mother and child is no longer the ideal family picture.
FashionRe: Upload Pics Of Yourself In Your Christmas Outfit by Pavore9: 4:11pm On Dec 25, 2018
I no dey buy Christmas cloth again! cheesy

I can imagine the curses that has been laid upon many Nigerian tailors this period! cheesy
CelebritiesRe: CDQ Poses With Lady In G-String To Celebrate Christmas by Pavore9: 2:05pm On Dec 25, 2018
Ugosample:
don't mind all these people making these comments

Omo wobey ni omo wobey, whether male or female

And may "Omo wobey" not be our portion

that's all
Amen o.
CrimeRe: Drunk BRT Driver Flees After Knocking Down Naval Officer’s Wife by Pavore9: 1:36pm On Dec 25, 2018
When Primero Transport Services Limited get sued, they would become strict with who they allow behind the wheel!
CelebritiesRe: CDQ Poses With Lady In G-String To Celebrate Christmas by Pavore9: 1:31pm On Dec 25, 2018
noble2faith:
My friend wey dey always insist sey he no wan get female child get good points!
If everybody no wan born girl, who our sons go marry? who go born our grandchildren?
CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye, Son And Daughter Dance To Celebrate Christmas by Pavore9: 1:23pm On Dec 25, 2018
OkaNaUbe:
When you know that the Christmas chicken is almost done.
You remind me of my childhood experience, that kind happiness dey shack! cheesy
FoodRe: Post a picture of Your Christmas Food Here, Let Others Salivate by Pavore9: 12:00pm On Dec 25, 2018
See food. cheesy
FamilyRe: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Pavore9: 11:52am On Dec 25, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Is it a book? Emotional detachment? Perhaps.
It is not a book, just google the terms: Emotional detachment, Flat effect and read wide.

I hope this link can help.
https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/general/what-is-emotional-detachment-disorder/
FamilyRe: Why Am I So Unemotional? by Pavore9: 11:41am On Dec 25, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Why am I so unemotional? I mean, nothing hardly interests my fancy. Just this morning, I've received countless 'Yuletide's' greetings from acquaintances and close friends, but I haven't even deemed it fit to return the texts nor the calls. I intentionally rejected two calls from unknown persons who I know were calling to wish me a Merry Christmas. Nothing ever interests me.

I'm not even turned on/elated of the fact that today is Christmas. Seeing people passing by and chanting at the top of their voices 'Eku Odun' or 'Merry/Happy Christmas my sister' really irks me a lot. I wonder what the whole fuss is all about!

I mean, I've just been trying to force myself to reply people who've been disturbing my ears to the ongoing celebration, and in actuality, I don't even mean it.

I remember warning someone yesterday never to wish me anything else I block him. How sad!

Now, the whole summary of my post is, I'm not fun-seeking. I'm too rigid. I'm never elated at any celebration. I don't go to see movies. I hate eateries. The mall scares me. I tell off the few friends I have, but they understand my madness and they keep returning. I hardly get moved if someone is even dying. I always find faults in everything.

Am I mentally deranged or totally normal?
Am I a sadist? Why am I so unemotional? Right now, my mind is filled with strife. I truly agree now and think that I need mental help. I think I'm a psycho.
You're dealing with Emotional detachment., go read up wide on Flat effect.
BusinessRe: 276,852 Pos Transactions Failed On Christmas Eve —NIBSS by Pavore9: 7:00am On Dec 25, 2018
handsomeyinka:
Na so I wan buy my Christmas chicken yesterday when the chicken seller told me to swipe my card, I just saw the chicken smiling.
You no well! cheesy cheesy cheesy
BusinessRe: 276,852 Pos Transactions Failed On Christmas Eve —NIBSS by Pavore9: 6:59am On Dec 25, 2018
One can imagine the frustration! sad
FamilyRe: Its A Wonderful Christmas Gift...a Bouncing Baby Boy. by Pavore9: 5:37am On Dec 25, 2018
Congrats.
CrimeRe: Stowaways Who Threatened Crew Of Ship Are Nigerians And Liberians by Pavore9: 11:33pm On Dec 24, 2018
After their jail terms, deportation.
Christianity EtcRe: Christmas Carol Song "Silent Night" Celebrates 200 Years Anniversary by Pavore9: 5:32pm On Dec 24, 2018
Classic
FamilyRe: Man Loses Marriage For Accusing Wife Of Making Love With Son by Pavore9: 4:07pm On Dec 24, 2018
revolt:
Strong indications he might be saying the truth.
If your mother told you that your wife is having sex with the son between you two, you will just swallow that without personally verifying? huh

If it happens to be a false allegation, has that man not lost his relationship with his children as such is unforgivable?
CelebritiesRe: Idris Abdulkareem Celebrates His 44th Birthday by Pavore9: 6:39am On Dec 24, 2018
Iamkuttie:
Which one be Thanjs again?
I wonder o.
PoliticsRe: House Of Reps Member Donates Christmas Gift To Christian Indigenes In Yobe Stat by Pavore9: 6:34am On Dec 24, 2018
Nice one.
CrimeRe: Man Testifies Of How Jesus Rescued Him From Kidnappers In Port Harcourt by Pavore9: 6:58pm On Dec 23, 2018
The bus driver is a suspect.
CrimeRe: Girl Used By Yahoo Boy Vomits Money In Warri, Delta State by Pavore9: 5:42pm On Dec 23, 2018
No video? : huh
CrimeRe: White Man Plays Along With "A Yahoo Boy". What Happened Next Is Surprising! by Pavore9: 4:35pm On Dec 23, 2018
Joel got the opportunity to prove he is not a scam and changed the lives of many kids.
CrimeRe: Police Parade Four Notorious Robbers Terrorizing Bayelsa State (photo) by Pavore9: 3:33pm On Dec 23, 2018
Nigerian Police and undressing!
TravelRe: Ibom Air: Akwa Ibom Airline To Launch – Governor Emmanuel by Pavore9: 1:29pm On Dec 23, 2018
Mismanagement is so sure!
FamilyRe: See Moment A Little Boy Kicked His Mom's Pot Of Stew While Dancing(See Reaction) by Pavore9: 5:35am On Dec 23, 2018
The boy go collect am! cheesy

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