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Hmm.......certainly Amaechi's voice.

Inspiring.

Our drama King!

Kini big deal? At least he has always had the option to surrender, many innocent Nigerians who were murdered by the police were not given the opportunity

chiboy1116:
Wow, she's getting old already...

None of us is getting younger by the day!

ShadowM:
Hello Pavore I stay in Kaduna Nigeria and I would like to go into carrot farming. Is it too late as we are already in January. I don't want the heat to kill them off

I don't have an idea of the local conditions in terms of temperature, rainfall, soil type etc so I can't advise appropriately. Are there carrot farms around where you intend to set up?

darfay:
3 Christians. 2 mozlems

4 Northerners 1 southerner

At the end, they were someone's son, brother, nephew, husband and father. Tribe and Religion do not count in death and loss!

post=74425992:
Thanks for the link, reading ASAP!

You're welcome.

post=74425136:
SAY NO TO SUICIDE.....only cowards take the easy route out!

You think suicide is easy?

Take out time to read this:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/get-hardy/201203/the-edge-suicide

He thinks he is in Nigeria, where it is a normal, normal.

3rdavefarms:
His money, his life


Linda has started again
She should face her own trouble to know the real father of that bastard she is caring around


She messed up the little boy’s life before his 1 month old

Jeremy osi

She knows the father of her child, while you don't know. And you knowing will not add days to your years nor mine.

Na their problem be that.

stephenUgh:
I kw I have also lost too but in *ratio*, am on the winning side

I am reflecting in the direction of for one winner, there are so many people who have lost.

He jumped the gun! Why release the info to the public now?

Hmm...despite the first fruits and weird tithings, many Nigerians are degenerating, hoping and praying for the opportunity to travel out to developed countries whose people see Nigeria's brand of Christianity as a form of mental illness!

stephenUgh:
I won #248k from betting a week to Xmas. As I speak to you, that is my only savings home and abroad.

how do u now convince me to stop betting this year?

In ratio to your winning, how many lost their bets?

Dino, God's "anointed"?

oka4ugoo:
If Eze Ego dey alive today, all this Arthur Eze then and co. go be learner where the guy is.

But come to think of it, after Eze Ego's death nothing has been heard of his wife and children abi the man's wealth and family vanished with his death.

Blood money no dey last!!!

His wife and children are still living big in Lekki.

Back in the 90's, he really lived big!

Aksah12:
I feel sorry for her.
But if you really want to help her, don't push. If you prod her she might withdraw. Don't think because she told about the incident she's gonna open up completely to you or do everything you tell her to do. Just give her time. Gently make her see reasons why the case needs to be reported, but If she insists she doesn't want to report the case, then let her be. Remind yourself she just went through awful experience where she felt powerless so don't ruffle power with her. It has to be her own decision on who to tell when to tell and how. She needs to know you will support her no matter what her decision is.

Currently, you need to know the emotions she might be dealing with; shame, guilt, pains, later on depression might set in and then some more gory tales if the situation isn't properly handled. Help her identify those emotions if you can, be there for her when she needs to talk about it but also give her space.

Generally, rape victims go through a some post trauma but it isn't the same for everybody. There is no general rule as to how she is expected to behave. Response are individualised. Therefore, you need to be able to watch out for her emotions and her response as your guide to help her out.

Nevertheless, She will need constant reaffirmation because she will be battling with guilt. "Why did i pass the night there?" "was there no other place I could have spend that night? " "maybe if I had screamed, or fought harder it wouldn't have happened ". She is going to get a whole lot of "if I had....." and all other guilt trip. So you will have to tell her she did all she could and it's not her fault things played out this way, irrespective of how it happened or why it happened the offender is always at fault.

If she can put words to her feelings and thoughts then you can begin to deal with any belief system or assumptions she has about the assault. You need to make her understand you do not see her as immoral or promiscuous because of the occurrence.

You really sound like one who has a training in counseling.

Articulated Lies!

A tragedy!

Reverend Father senior am with a year!

"Amosun also advised the federal government against deploying soldiers to the state for the polls"....Being an insider, he knows what Buhari is capable of!

I suggest Canada.

pythonkid:
She be like person wey go don carry mayorku waka wweall ..

Hmm...which kain "waka"?

Just as his father bought his mother.

It nurtures bad blood between siblings.

NAN recalls that the multimillion Naira state-of-the-art rice mill, owned by an Indian national, was inaugurated by President Muhammadu Buhari in Kano in December 2019. ........Hmmm

The hygiene level of the setting is.........

maiunguwar:
@uboma this could be pavore in disguise

So if I intend to market a service in Agric section that am well known in, does it make business sense to push it with a different username, discarding the name Pavore9 has earned? If fraudsters in the e-currency thread in the business section who have often used my username to gain the trust of their victims feel comfortable to push their "services" with my username, it is I the owner that would be scared to use it?

Be guided.

myettiallah:
Wetin be Egun biko nu...
These pple call themselves sophisticated yet even within their small minute tribe, dey find room for division..

I spit on their sk**ll mi**ng attributes

Why exhibit such ignorance so early this year?

You didn't bother to read up on who the Egun people are despite having a smart phone.