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Angela777:
Exactly my personal experience! And realizing that, I didn't stay married to my Nigerian ex for years, few months and he went back to Nigeria claiming it's all my fault and I disrespect him telling in his face no other women in my house, in my life and he should go back to his kids and women whom he was hiding from me.
Dear Japanese lady, check his phone and his chats, I didn't check but he left his chats open in our bed and beeping was bothering me and I did see sex chats and traditional wedding planning with a Nigerian woman and so much cheat. Check his phone and his chats or if he claims to be genuine to you, ask him to open his phone for you and check chats and texting. When I did see, I got the other women names and talked to them in Facebook, some were very honest and told me how he lies to them too.

Tellemall:
Dai Jo bu?

Your typical Japanese reactions of politeness and refusal to offend this husband of yours makes you an excellent Target for him to practice his manipulation skills.

If you said he is Igbo, then he is from the place Nigerians call the east.

From all your posts the man is definitely married or having a relationship with a Nigerian women while all you do is pine after him all day. He probably has up to five children while you are waiting to understand his behaviors. I have seen a Nigerian man in America do that. He's enjoying his life while you're feeling sorry for him. You should feel that way for yourself if you think he's not doing anything with another woman when he's in Nigeria. He is always offended/angry because he is looking for a way to get rid of you, probably.

Nigerians are cheats, both their men and women. They only want to be with foreigners for their money. If you don't spend on them they will not like you. And they always run back to Nigeria to have relationships with other people because the only people who can satisfy them are their selves, so that they can cheat each other and nobody is offended.

space9880:
thank you but sadly she is dead

error4040:
OK my next question might sound personal

2. you once mentioned you're in your late 30's.
in your own view how can you explain life in Japan as a Japanese

error4040:
Hello, i just came Across this post Today and i must say This is absolutely an Amazing reply.

error4040:
this should be one of the must funniest things I have heard this year
hahahahahaha!
this is sooooo funny.

Vincent88:
We have done all the test to find out the exact cause but all the results came back clear with no causes found which it is strange and worrying.

error4040:
Can you explain why ?

error4040:
How interesting

Vincent88:
We have been to many good hospitals and she is very okey in herslef and the doctors cannot find the exact cause of her miscarriage all they been saying she is fine which is true because she get pregnant easily but it doesnt stays. It is like a spiritual things . Thank you

Weedfree:
I am not interested in these hidden leave people they are just boring copies of the original anime Naruto.What I really care about are the other characters the hidden sand. Yodo for instance should be given more screen time she is the only girl that makes sense her powers are cool and it is unfair she lost to that shadow guy and her brothers the mysterious Araye yet again lost unfairly to that girl I mean what and Shinki they did not even give him a worthy challenger.

P.S: Is anyone following Dragon Ball Super. They are set to release a new Film

error4040:
OK
let's start with

1.Apart from you been married to a black man, How do Japanese see or react to Black's in terms of Racial view or Racism in General.

CapedBaldy:
just finished grave of fireflies. super sad movie about ww2. I rate it 8/10

error4040:
Is their anyway you can Share Japanese Culture with us ?.

error4040:
Hello, their is nothing to be Sorry About because no Human is perfect. what you need to know is We are All just trying our best no one is Above mistake.

PeraGSD:
Some afternoon pics

space9880:
good morning guys I'll be a year old tomorrow.

error4040:
This one weak me, I just don't know why someone would treat his wife the way her husband is treating Her.
For God's sake she would be sick yet he won't care to take her & see a doc or pay her bills.

What ever offense she might have committed or in anyway she offended him treating her this way Is Inhuman

well every story is Two sided, meaning Don't judge someone you don't know.

error4040:
Your Reply Was Not Rude, you misunderstood what she ment


Yes

Angela777:
I did see many men living with bad abusive women and not appreciating the good ones.

and no, it's not about you, you are a very nice lady and it's sad your Nigerian husband apparently doesn't value you, even he doesn't take you to the hospital when you need it.

error4040:
LMFAO this Reply is Deep!

Angela777:
Yes, he is very lucky and he will be very stupid if he loses her. Unfortunately the good heart is usually used, hurt and mistreated and in love it doesn't work to be a good woman, many men love bitches and abuse the good one.

Graxie:
Ma, you have a beautiful heart, many women in Nigeria lacks these virtues, thank you, i am sorry and ability to forgive. Kindly make Jesus your friend. You are a rare gem. What a lucky man your husband is, to have found a sincere wife.

Angela777:
You are a very sweet lady and and everybody, including me, wouldn't like to see you cheated and abandoned. Your husband always coming back when he is in Japan, probably because you are a very supportive person and he doesn't need to be permanently on charge of all bills, he is comfortable coming back to a nice place and your nice heart. You are asking many questions here and I see you have many doubts, your heart knows something is wrong and you know it for years. And now, after so many years, it is up to you if you insist in knowing the truth and end your marriage or you wait and wait until you get older and wasted more years, then abandoned by him. It's very possible he will never tell you the truth about his wife and kids in Nigeria, probably because he was married before marrying you and if he tells the truth, his immigration status in Japan could be compromised because he lied marrying you. Or just he knows, being a bigamist it's a crime in Japan and he will have problems if he admits it.

Hamatoyoshi:
My new born kittens ��

error4040:
You're Welcome I guess

GameKartel:
@peacefull, you have a very beautiful mind, always learning, very kind-hearted and honest about your feelings and care for your nigerian husband. I never knew a japanese woman can learn so fast about stuff like language, culture and a large country like nigeria. you are a more amazing wife to him than any other woman would ever be, and that's why he is stuck on you and always coming back to you. that igbo man is your legal husband and my advice for you is to try as much as you can to be a better wife to him, mark me this day. He will always miss that special qualities about you and would keep wanting you for himself and never letting you go. all the best of luck in your marriage. note; this next msg is not for you please.
( how i wish me fit get myslf an oversea woman wey sabi relate well with ppl lyk dz, me go jst 4get family pressure and jst leave all these 75% shakara stubborn naija women wey jst dey misbehave lyk say marriage come with user manual. Me go cut out soon, bcuz he don dey ma mine since ..

Homeboiy:
I believe that the distance between my age and yours is like from Nigeria to Japan

I can feed your family for 20yrs

Stop generalizing

What statistics do u have to say that men cheats

Or Can u prove it to her that husband has a wife in Nigeria?

Nonsense

error4040:

About the new Word, Am sorry if it sounded offensive to you
my advice to your english the more you keep engaging in English the more your vocabulary expand

Well actually Am not from East Nigeria, but I do have friends that once said that in a family A man is expected have a male child that will inherit his inheritance after his death, that in a family with No male but female this lead to his extended family members taking over his inheritance.

But don't take that as an excuse not to love your child & I believe your husband also loves his child

and lastly Your reply was not rude.