₦airaland Forum

Powermind:
It’s fine. No need to get worked up over it.
I just want a Japanese woman as a friend. But it’s fine

ElsonMorali:
You are welcome, madam. I wish you the best in your marriage

kalu61:
it means "how much will you pay.
ego means money
note that one for now

so, where are you from

beatmonster:
I translated the meaning for you.

yes, he is joking

beatmonster:
Don't worry yourself.

English is a second language to us too.

My mother tongue is Igbo Language.

Your is Japanese.

Use Google translator. it helps

beatmonster:
it means "how much (money) will you pay"

ElsonMorali:
Lol. This is so funny. I'm sure Nigerians don't think you married your husband because he has a big d.ick. Besides, what others think of your marriage is their problem not yours.

Anyways take it easy with your hubby. Understanding is key in marriage. All the best in your marriage.

beatmonster:
you apologize too much.

Maybe Japanese women are kind

kalu61:
Ego ne ka iga kwu. haha

Powermind:
Yes, introduce me to a Japanese woman. You could be in a lookout for me as regarding my request. Thanks

djoe21:
Sate, watashi wa anata ni saikō o inorimasu

ujuvals:
@peaceful I love you already.

You are a very loving, nice and polite woman.

I pray your marriage last longer.

Things will work well for you, keep being patient.

Don't let his activities in Nigeria bother you, just focus on your home.

Sisterly hugs

djoe21:
Ok, this is good but I think using google translate will make it easier and better for you. All you need do for now is copy and paste with time, you begin to master words, phrases and sentences.

Do you know how to use it? I mean google translate.

blackbriar:
あなたの意見だいたい分かるけどあまり理解しました。
いなかまち住んでる人は外国人を見られる。
例です。私の友だち、黒人です、大学した時、エレベーター中で、日本人が見れば、安心になったそれでは、n逃げます。

djoe21:
I do a customer service job online where I sometimes have to relate with customers from other countries in order to resolve their issues. Google translate has really been helpful to me in this regard. I use it to communicate well with people from other countries.
It breaks the language barrier.

blackbriar:
Welcome foreigner, これどういう意味ですか

djoe21:
Use google translate. It will also help you.

blackbriar:
日本人女性は黒人に全然結婚しません。ボディコロだから

Angela777:
No, Japanese women are very rare to marry to a foreigner and even more rare to marry a black man. But Nigerians are advising to each other to marry a Japanese lady for to get a legal stay in Japan and saying, not easy because not many Japanese women want to marry to a black man

acekhalifa:
I didn't watch it because I haven't watched like 30 episodes.

most of the new generation kids are just copies of their parents, there's just a few original characters. it's one of the reasons the anime is unappealing, whereas the manga is introducing many interesting original characters and concepts unseen in Naruto.

Angela777:
Oyekanmi, who is married with three children, will serve his sentence at facilities outside of Montgomery County, said Robert Green, director of the county's Department of Correction and Rehabilitation. The move is for Oyekanmi's safety and to avoid any problems associated with correctional officers who know him having to supervise him.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/public-safety/an-enormous-abuse-of-the-trust-judge-tells-former-jail-officer-sentenced-for-sex-act-with-inmate/2018/01/25/8e87189a-020f-11e8-8acf-ad2991367d9d_story.html?noredirect=on&utm_term=.6750c1344b0d

And now tell me, those who are preaching accept the Nigerian man "culture" being polygamist and having the right to have other women being married. Is it his "culture" He lost his job, all benefits for his wife, children just because he has no control over his p...is Stupid man hurting his family future, he was looking to get AIDS from a transgender and give it to his wife What about his 3 children now

Angela777:
Dear, you are not disturbing at all, we are chatting being friends. Yes, meeting Nigerian people in person or here in Nairaland is making friends and many are good people, helping you to understand. I know how confusing can be having doubts if a Nigerian man really loves you or he is only pretending and using you. In western culture we get a partner, spouse and it's trust, love and mutual support, if the spouse is cheating or not loving you, we easy see it in our men, men from our country. With Nigerians is very different for us, too many lies, pretending, hiding, sometimes so loving, supportive, taking care of us when we are sick, feeding and then another day something wrong, going somewhere and you don't know where he is and what he is doing or him going to Nigeria and staying there 1-3 months. We are not used to this secrecy and this kind of behavior. In my personality, I don't accept a cheater in my life or any other woman, even another wife, if he wants to have other women, he can go and have but no more coming to me.

Please, read my saying in another topic about so called Nigerian man "culture" and his polygamy and as they say right to have sex with other women even being married. Personally, I do NOT accept this. Here is the link about it and why, how the Nigerian man is ruining his wife and 3 children life. https://www.nairaland.com/3919201/nigerian-man-sexually-assaults-transgender/2#76564365

Angela777:
Very rare

blackbriar:
That’s even if you see Japanese woman to marry “black” man.

moonraker:
そうではありません。

acekhalifa:
I don't think I'll watch today's episode..
You should check out the Shikamaru Shinden too, you will love it.

TheManOfTheYear:
yeah ***covers face***

Powermind:
Do you have any single lady friends in Japan you can link me to?

Angela777:
Peacefull, I see what topic in Travel section you are talking about. It's good to read the real Nigerians talking between each other, you see how is the real life and what is it important to us, marriage, love, mutual support can be easy used by Nigerian immigrants and it's an easy thing for them, to convince a Japanese or a foreign woman, to make her fall in love, to marry and get the legal residence. Maybe in the process they fall in love and stay married to a Japanese lady or maybe not, you never know but all I learnt it's Nigerian men (not all but many) sooner or later go back to Nigeria and marry a Nigerian lady because coming from abroad they look rich in their country, can get a young naive lady and they believe, Nigerian ladies are submissive and don't claim the cheating and many other women in the life of the husband, not all but many.

Angela777:
Dear Peaceful, sorry but I am confused myself because Nigerian people is very nice and loving in my experience too. I never said all Nigerians are bad, I have good Nigerian friends by the way but what I learnt Nigerians can be very racist to any foreigner, even inside Nigeria to other tribe people, very pretending 2 face people, smiling and nice to you yet hurting you and using you as you were just a tool, not a human. And it hurts when the woman gives her heart unconditionally. It is very confusing for western culture to understand. About man woman relationship all I learnt is if the Nigerian man loves a woman, he doesn't ask her for money or her paying the house, bills, in Nigerian culture, as many Nigerians wrote to you here, the man who loves, he spends on his woman and their living together and the woman ask for money and to pay bills yet the woman takes care of the house and children. I learnt, once a Nigerian man starts asking his woman for money, he doesn't love her, he uses her and probably he needs money to give to his other woman whom he really loves.

But people is different, you can read lots yet you need also to see, to open your eyes around you, you have many years with your husband and you know him better. Here nobody can tell you does he love you or does he uses you? What I personally see, you have so many doubts and you came here looking for answers and we all know if the woman has doubts, something is wrong with her man, women, we have the sixth sense, we feel when our love is betrayed. So look well inside yourself and your relationship with your husband.

Also what I learnt, Nigerian men are mostly polygamist and don't consider having other women and being married something bad. I don't like when Nigerian people is calling cheating and having multiple wives / women "culture". Culture and religion is for Muslims but even there, they don't go with any woman, they keep their 4 wives at home and no sexual transmitted decease. To me, Nigerians claiming their men are polygamist by nature (many women too) it is lack of culture and education, it is a dirty low life transmitting sexual deceases, bringing sickness to wife, children, to their own home and cheating around hurting women and themselves. It's NOT a culture, it's absence of culture, it's NOT to know what real love is and how to care of a woman he loves. And when I hear here in nairaland Nigerians telling accept a Nigerian man the way he is, it is our "culture", to me it's pretending, manipulating foreign women to accept lower standards and to risk her health, it is NOT a "culture".