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Good day mama in d house,had issue bothering me.got pregnant last year n had d baby thru CS n my baby is 7month plus . Want to know wen it's safe to conceive n give birth normal cos I don't want to go thru pain again.

I wud nt blame her Cos some women tend 2 Hot during their menses,all U̶̲̥̅̊ wil do is 2 tel her U̶̲̥̅̊ are nt comfortable wit it.shikena

annoonymous: my name is Roland from USA, i want to use this opportunity to thank a great spell caster who helped me to bring back my ex DR OKOASE templeofgreatspell@hotmail.com lover after she has end up the relationship for four years now. naturally i don't believe in any spell caster,cause there are a lot of scams but i run to him as directed by a friend of mine,when i told him he helped me and in two days my ex is back to me and it was real and i was really surprised.... for the solution to your problem in your relationship, u can kindly contact him at this email address: templeofgreatspell@hotmail.com
My Regards.....

tank U̶̲̥̅̊ very much

jimmy4x: I feel ur pain dear and m so sori, u'll find someone better, ds is really touching and painful...

tank U̶̲̥̅̊ very much,made me feel beta

Am heartbroken as am writin dis,there is dis guy I am datin since 2010,afta much persuasion I gave in 2 his demand by avin sex wit him in 2011 n was a virgin then.afta 5month,he started misbehavin by nt callin or sendin as he used to n we dot discuss as we use 2.I asked wat d problem is,he reply by tellin me dat he is kind of busy n had lot goin on his mind.had dis goin til yestaday wen I had d courage 2 ask him if he is seein anybodi n he said Yes,dat they started seein dis year n she lives in Abuja.I was shocked wen he told me dis.d only tin dat came out of my mouth was'Thank God I knw'.if i had nt asked him,stil b tinkin dat am his GF n I ve pursued so many guys bt Life stil goes on.

OCTAVO: Nope, you are the wicked one here.

I knw wat I did was bad n I nid advice :'

firetrap: ask yourself one question, if you were the one that found such a text on his phone would you forgive him so easily? it is not enough that you cheated on him emotionally but u think kneeling down to beg him is the highest thing you can do to earn his trust back and. once a person. losses trust in his partner in a relationship it is hard to regain or rebuild that trust. a lot of people come her to talk about how they love their boyfriend or girlfriend and they go on to ask advise on how they can win back the persons trust. if you really love a person you would not want anything that would bring harm to that person. my advise to you is to have a rethink of what you understand by love. it is hard for men to really love a person but when they do, they do it with all their heart. you may have just lost the love of a man who truly loved you cos if he didn't he would not even make a big deal of the whole situation.

pls wat wil I do 2 earn his trust back.I knw wat I did was terrible n he said he has lost d trust he had in me.he told my friend cos I ask him 2 beg on my bhalf n he said acceptin me is nt d problem bt wat abt d trust he had lost

firetrap: if I may be bold to ask, if he hadn't found the text message, would you not have gone to Port Harcourt to meet the other guy?

I neva wud ve tried it.d chattin ends here bt my guy wil neva blive me.

[quote author=fresh_dude]Now she's playing victim. "Afterall I've begged him, I even knelt down!" As in the guy dey show himself abi? I know no be only am dey chop your kpomo, so if e no gree your PH guy still dey.
But if I be dat guy ehn, if you tell me good afternoon na to carry torch light remain.[/quote]na only him dey chop am ,d PH guy is a friend n he is aware dat I ve a guy.n d chatting ends there

I called him yestaday n he said he is no longer interested in me,dat he had lost d trust he had 4 me. I love him so much n I knw wat I did was very bad n abt dat guy,we are just friends n he is aware dat I ve a bf n d chatting ends there.

lrguru: what did he promise to do to u! Lick ur poosie all tru d night while u guys are doing the 69?

And i trust u must have been fantasizin about his plans and what he'll do to u thats y u never deleted his text from ur phone

wats 69 cos I dot knw wat U̶̲̥̅̊ meant by dat

OCTAVO: Yes! Kill yourself o.

U̶̲̥̅̊ are very wicked

clemz85: Babe u erred, bt dt by d way. If luv him dnt gv up evn if he givs up, kip begn. Assure him woteva wud save ur relationshp. If it com to worse, get a life den.

thank U̶̲̥̅̊ very much,I appreciate ur advice

haitto99: u messed up,pray he forgives u,if na me u go cry blood and I no go answer

U̶̲̥̅̊ are 2 harsh n its nt gud.after al I ve knelt down n apologised tellin him dat am sori.wat else does he want or I shud kil mysef b4 he accept my apology

Bisjosh: What was the crazy msg?
And why did u leave the crazy msg on your phone when u knew u would be visiting your bf?

Answer the above before we proceed further!

d msg is abt a friend(guy)askin if I can com 2 port harcourt n tins he wud do 2 me wen I com.bt my guy blive ve done sometin wit d guy.ve beg my guy dat such tin wud nt repeat itsef bt he is annoy

Halo my fellow nairalander,I went 2 c my guy last saturday n as I was chargin my fone at his place, in d middle of nite he woke up n start readin my msg n saw a crazy msg.d moment he saw d msg he has refuse 2 talk 2 me.I had 2 kneel down n apologised bt e did nt answer me,my friend even want 2 talk wit him on d fone 2 beg on my bhalf bt e refuse .he has nt cal me since on sunday n ve bn d 1 callin him .bt ve stopped callin since tueday mornin since he is nt bothered.wat shud I do

Yomii: Be wise but you never can tell who your future husband his. Be wise!

ow do U̶̲̥̅̊ mean cos I dot even want him again

Darlene babe: in my own opinion, u shouldnt abuse him.. but let ur yes n no .. stand a ground. 2. find out y he want u back, cos some guys do it to obtain favour n wants sthng frm u. 3. u stated family , is he married

my dear its a long stori cos d girl in questn attend same church n they are both chorister n d funniest tin is dat he has introduced me 2 d girl dat am his fiancee.he slept wit her cos I refuse him sex then.he said he want me bak dat he regret leavin me bt dot blive dat.n abt sometin,dot ve cos am nt working.n he is nt married just gf/bf stuff

[quote author=Mynd_44]I wonder why people do silly things and then come for advise. What passed you to lie like that? It has always been said that you should never attempt to test your partner as most times, it back fires on your head.

This is what you should do. The lies stop right where you are. Forget what his reaction might be, forget the fact that he might get so mad that he might leave you and for the Love of everything you hold dear, forget the fact that you might be enjoying this "test"

sit him down and tell him what's what. Tell him the truth and why you did it. Hold nothing back and he might forgive you but attempting to lie that the tests came vack positive is silly cos after that lie, you will have to tell another lie to cover it up.

What will you say? That you lost the baby? But you forget that that might just make him start worrying if you can carry a baby to term.

Just tell the truth and you will be free to walk away from this really silly pyramid you are building[/quote]tank U̶̲̥̅̊ very much ,wil cal him later in d day n tel him ve seen my menses bt wil neva let him knw I was testin him

Princeparix: OP> Are you trying to get married by all means available?
Is getting pregnant your best option?
Having unprotected sex-is it your hubby?

Trust is a system that grows gradually but can be floored so quick that you regret lying.
If i were to be that dude>>i wont take it lightly.

am nt desperate my dear n being pregnant is nt on d list now.tanks 4 d advice

After I broke up wit my guy late last year,some of U̶̲̥̅̊ may ve read d story here on nairaland.started goin wit a guy february dis year.so d guy told me dat if I shud get pregnant dat he want me 2 kip d baby dat he is old enuf 2 ve a child cos he is 32yrs.so recently I told him ve nt seen my menses which is a lie,n he ask me 2 a pregnant test 1st 2 knw if its true n am plannin 2 lie dat its positive.wat wil b his reaction if he found out dat am liein.wil he eva 4give n trust me again.pls ur candid advice

then(2001) in secondary skul I use 2 ve a friend wich my classmate tout was my bf cos we were alway seen 2geda,help him wit his notes.afta we finish skul(2004)he ask me 2 b his gf n I accepted.afta a while ,he started askin 4 sex which I refused cos then I was a V.2 cut d story short he got a girl pregnant n she gave birth 2 a boy in 2009.nw he is callin n tellin me he want me Back.I told him it can neva hapen cos we are matured nw n am currently doin my NYSC n dat he shud b api wit his family.ve insulted him On fone hopin he would neva cal bak,he stil does.am I doin d rite tin

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Exponental: Divorce & breakup are most times better options to happiness. Pick up ur pieces n start afresh.
"happiness" is d key here.

tanks veri much

repogirl: You should be happy you didn't have to go through three abortions first before he told you this. So which kain advice you want now? That he must marry you because of the abortion, girl just move on and be wiser next time.


Abeg use protection and if you don't care for infections there's postinor 2 abeg so incase you date anymore loosers, you don't have to abort before they cut you loose.

@ repogirl tanks very much 4 d advice

[quote author=nekaa]Ur heading looks like u willing to undergo more abortions for him and he's saying no...[Ow,cos I dot undastand wat U̶̲̥̅̊ meant by 'n he is sayin no/quote]

I met dis guy 2011,we were best of friends n then he ask me out wich I accepted.he came 2 my school n we made out.later found in 2weeks dat I was pregnant n i cal him,he said he doesn't ve d moni 2 take care of a child nw dat I shud go 4 DnC wich I did. Nw he is usin d excuse Dat his family dot want him 2 marry oda tribe oda dan isoko or urhobo.pls I nid ur candid advice though am we ain't Seein much.

tpacalipse: If I ever died for anything, be rest assured that it can never be for love. What rubbish.

for dis modern life infat life is gud says LG

Can any1 tel me ow 2 put a topic cos am new here

Bertbert: Me na aeroplane I go win

it so wondaful 2 hear dat

[quote author=Babycake]Mynd_44]How do you know she is God's will? I think you are just dellusional

Delusional?not at all. I've heard God speak to me in diverse ways;
1.Through the holyspirit(loud&clear voice).
2. Through the word of God.(bible based revelation)
I look my best anytime we meet and i dont try to be 'too spiritual' in our conversations.She kept saying there is no connection between us.
There are many goodlooking goodgirls triping for me but the revelation @ my disposal have kept me glued to her.....I must confess, the 'dulling' is getting too much.
more response pls.[/then u wil ve 2 wait until u turn 40.u just ve 2 move 4ward quote]

[quote author=pafestula][/quote]i hup its nt true cos he is my favorite wrestler at al time

if she is acting as strange now, all you need todo is to draw her closer to know the reason why she is rejecting your offer. if she gives you any good reason 4 her not to marry you, then know for sure that she is right cause she knows she is not for you. give it up and find yourself a woman for you. cos marriage a an everlasting covednant.