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Reiyvinn:
Came across your profile from an old post only to discover it was your birthday. Happy birthday Peachess.

uzoormah:
Wetin dz one dey talk sef

uzoormah:
Wetin dz one dey talk sef

Enavie:
Lol, what do I want to scam about you? Scam? I don't get it.

Enavie:
Hmm, don't expect a nice response from me.

First and foremost, it's written all over you. I browsed your profile, and all I can infer is that you chose to be this kind of person. Your ideology, its ingrained in it. However, you are not totally what you think you are, you have some interesting qualities you shouldn't throw away because you want to become social. Contact me on WhatsApp, let's talk better (number).

walepackage:
second,u have to work on those tins that arouse ur temparament,havin the believ that we are all human and nobody is "perfect"we can make a mistake by provoking others in our actions or inaction.This wil help u in ur dealings with people who u have nt realy familiar wit,and wil reduce ur rate of temperament becos of"individual diferences".Thirdly,after undastanding that people varies interms of thinkin,atitude,behaviour,opinion due to their own biological make up nd socialization,it wil project u to be more free wit people and the chain of the interaction wunt break quickly.If u can try this for sometime u wil change.Lastly,watch som more emotional films,were theirs sympathy,ensure to do"self actualization in ur mind"if u aint sympatize wit the scene,then go outside of ur comfort, visit places where people needs help try nd show some love.Do it for some time,ur compasion and sympaty wil b activate,this wil reshape ur psyche towards life nd it wil realy show in ur atitude nd behaviour towads people around u.

walepackage:
I tink its an issue of mindset whic u developed from ur subconscious to ur conscience, maybe probably to ur past experience or when u ar growing up as a child,it maybe u ar the type that was raise in a smal nuclear family and restricted to be cautious of ur interactions with generalize other.I tink the first way out,is for the fact that u know u have a prob.In order to profer some posible way out,i wil like to ask u.#are u the type that is judgemental in nature.#are u temperament in nature,#do you grow up in a quiet environment or have something best known to u that gives u joy.#do u have this non chalant attitude"i dont care".

munas:
Which utrasound? lol

Utrasound will show jaundice? or
Utrasound will show rhesus problem? abi
Utrasound will that the baby may not cry early?

Utrasound will show hole in the heart abi?

My dear,that utrasound has a lot of limitations and things it cannot detect.

Just pray to your God and use good government facilities

sunnymighty:
99.9% causes of Autism is unknown ma.

shaybebaby:
As a mum to a child with autism, feel free to ask me anything. I don't know it all, still learning as he grows but can share my experience.

tensazangetsu20:
I tried sending you a PM but I don't think that feature is working.

tensazangetsu20:
Autism is also difficult to detect during pregnancy and is hard to manage in Africa because of the high illiteracy level.

tensazangetsu20:
But you know you can't detect autism during pregnancy and it's very difficult to manage in Africa.

tensazangetsu20:
That's very true. I feel so much pain anytime I see my sister and know she will have to be dependent on others for life. Even in school, her teachers advised us to withdraw her and take her to learn a trade. People meant to help her.

Joavid:
Well, cos of technology, we can detect birth/child defects in early stages of pregnancy and abort if we don't want the stress.


The rate at which people give birth to 'special kids' this days is alarming. like seriously, what happened to the human race

I've known a few special needs kids (Particularly autistic) and it can be very very frustrating dealing with them. It requires a whole lot of patience.

Infact, with a particular kid, the mum is still in denial of her daughter's special needs. she makes up all sorts of excuses, (at some point I think she's just pretending not to know). luckily for them, they're rich, she's in one of those British schools and the little girl is brilliant - the girl can read what her mates can't. she's 4 years old and yes, she reads!!!

Benita27:
Are all normal kids loved?.

tensazangetsu20:
I have a sister who's autistic and it's not easy at all.

Benita27:
You haven't seen those mothers who still cherish their autistic kids?.

thorpido:
mentally challenged or children with intellectual challenges is better.

thorpido:
If you do an ultrasound and you detect abnormalities,what would it be?Abortion?Some people do not support that.
Moreover,some of these abnormalities,especially intellectual disabilities are usually not picked up on ultrasounds.

NotOfThis:
Why're you calling them imbeciles?

Benita27:
They're called special kids and they have professionals whose job is to teach these kids.
There is a saying that "no matter how pikin be, him mama like am like that".

dingbang:
Just pray that u don't give birth to one

thorpido:
Parents with such children cope.It's a big challenge they have to take but many take it in their strides.
Sometimes some take them to special kids' homes where professionals take care of them.
A few abandon them.There are many cases where such children have been left at the gates of hospitals or wards.
Sometimes,the parents let them die.