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Anyone who has used hot plate for sale in lagos should please quote me.

Welcome to the club bro.

You better be prepared for more.

She will soon weaponise not cooking and denying you sex....lol

Raphsays:
the guy said he couldn't afford the wig. But he could come up with options that could make up for the particular wig she asked for.
Well many guys deny their ladies what they can afford if they feel she doesn't worth it.



From her outbursts u would know he has done that already. Communication doesn't just boil down to sitting ur lady down and start talking. Even when she asked him for the wig, he could suggest something cheaper and nice too. This is also communication.



I am very sure the guy is always not giving the lady many things she wants, (her outbursts clearly states that).
After all he didn't state she's materialistic because if she was, he wouldn't engage her.

The guy got fed up because he was so sure he couldn't maintain the lady even as a husband.
And when one have slept with a lady he's not married to several times wetin remain again?
Any small tin na to serve her hot breakfast. Which the guy did.





Well, i understand how guys shirk when a girl starts billing.
I have understanding to a level and i can relate since i am a married man.

Should a lady who isn't financially balanced be disturbing her man to buy her a wig??

Am also a married man and there Absolutely nothing wrong with what the guy did.

At some point in life only a lazy lady will curse her man cos he can't get her wig.

She not disturbing him to assist her in getting something to do.....wig is her problem in this current economy situation.


Lastly a married man like you should know sex is two people act and should stop trying make it look like it men that gains from it.

"One has slept with a lady "is a very wrong statement

Sonnobax15:
ok oh mr. Rich nigha .

Nah working boy.........his profile say it all.

OKOATA:
I can't afford the wig or give her atleast part of it not showing his broke ass self by breaking up that's my point. I care less whether he buys it or not. No be everything person go dey show him brokeness ontop. Na only broke guys dey too worry ontop all these kain issues.

Brokenness??

Anyway have gone through your profile and I understand.

Jewessgratitud3:
The words were said out of anger. If you check well, she may not really mean it as a curse. She acted on her feelings at the time. She only needs to be corrected not thrown out like that. What if she didn't say it out and is cursing him behind his back? That one dey and the man will never know.

Abeg the lady spoke out of pain. The man too stingy

Spoke out of pain cos of wig??

Once again I think the problem is actually family base.

A lady well brought up and not from a hungry home won't behave such a way cos of nonsense wig.

You ain't financially stable as a woman and you disturbing a man to buy you wig isn't that an act of foolishness.


Lastly kindly Google the meaning of An Adult so you can stop calling anyone stingy.

OKOATA:
Because of wig this one dey break up with his woman. In as much as I see some women as materialistic and golddiggers but as a man you should be able to take care of your woman in your own little way. No be everything be break up.

So once he can't take care of her need at that point next thing Is to curse him??

Like is wig even something that important??

Jewessgratitud3:
Your decision was too drastic and rash. You should tried to reason with her on why she made such statement, cut her some slack and see if she would do it again before leaving her. I mean... For someone to make such weighty statement, you must have really pushed her to the wall. Like you rightly said, she said you keep denying her, which means it's not that once you did it.

The girl too should have been more patient as what she requested for is not something that will kill her if she doesn't get it. The Wig can always wait or better still let her go and hustle and buy it herself.

Both of you were wrong .no be every small thing go enter I no do again.

How is the guy wrong??

A lady placing a curse on him cos of wig and he shouldn't walk away??

Sometimes I wonder if this entitlement mentality is actually a society problem or family problem.

Once you aiin't able to give what they want next ting is to emotionally blackmail you.

komzy589:
So you’re saying that even though everyone is hailing the Lagos State Governor, everything economically is well over there!
Is it the Governors that removed subsidy without creating an enabling environment to withstand its effects?
Is it the Governors that floated the Naira knowing fully well that it cannot sustain itself?
If you get those two right, country will normalize and those are not under the Governors control.
I’ve never in my life seen a group of people defending a failing president as we see today. Even Buhari didn’t get this kind of support from the North.
But I’m happy we’re all suffering the effects.

Then we should stop electing governors then.

If the president is responsible all you mentioned so what do we need governors for??

lexy2014:
who is responsible for the economy of Nigeria, inflation, security and exchange rate?

Then why do we have governors.

What there duties since the president is responsible for everything

If we talk nah.......hmmm


Billionaires....lol

Wizyoung:
The reality is that the so called Federal allocation to states isn't even sufficient enough to sustain some states' basic infrastructures like road maintenance not to mention development of mega project to ease unemployment. So it is neither about the allocation in a sense nor about the governor.

When a sitting governor embezzles state's fund without fear of sanction from the PRESIDENT, it could only mean one thing...

He has a role model at the top - The President

You are very funny.............you think a president can arrest or punish a sitting governor??

Try and Google what your governor get a month and you will surprised (i mean minus the security vote).

Governors are the real thieves but alot of you are so blind to that cos they cleverly direct everything to the presidency.

She is just frustrated.

Trying to thrash what the woman did for her hubby is her being jealous and bitter.


We know them.....anuty that wish every lady life turn out like her own.

Yoruba call it "da bi mo se da"

MikeofKd:
This period is the worst period be a Nigerian youth ,the government has completely crippled and humiliated us. The economy is very bad and even worse, things are getting out of hand every blessed day.

My problem with Nigerians are our spirit of adaptation , I can promise you dat if fuel sells for 5k per litre people would still buy after complaining heavily , cause thats all we do ,complain bitterly but everyone would at d end of the day find ways to adapt.

For how long are we going to continue this way for christ sake? Almost all the youth are into one fraudulent activity or the other these days and the most decent looking ladies have a very troublesome amount of body count these days as well.

How I wish we can all in our frustrations pay Tinubu a visit at Aso rock , atleast make we protest heavily reach him side cus im fed up honestly.

I'm a bachelor but im still managing like a student , bills upon bills and worst you dont even get to enjoy for these services you pay for at all.

You cant even find an understanding girlfriend anymore in this country. Omo make I stop here before I go craze , Nigeria matter fit make man craze .

The problem is we focus too much on the presidency forgetting the one we should hold is the governor.

We should go Abuja to face tinubu while leaving the governors abi
I don't know if this governors are using jazz or we just have alot of educated illiterate in Nigeria.


Your governor is suppose to create job and better the likelihood of where you residing that why he get allocation every month.


Better start asking your governor what he is doing with your money and leave the presidency alone.

EreluRoz:
It is you who rather don't understand how military operates, it's ok if it's from their superiors but not an ordinary civilian.

We've had military serve us and we knew our boundaries, they are very respectful but you don't treat them as trash as a civilian

You are very funny and very naive.

All over the world any military man that breaks the law a police man can arrest him/her.

They are not above the law.........those one making video are just private there oga won't even comment cos they know the law.

Wizywiz:
Op na true you talk oooo....I could remember some years back my ex wife tried pulling such shit on me...after some misunderstandings..I beg her...beg for days she no gree....make we do she go shun me imagine na..as a sharp no nonsense guy man I lock up ooo.... begin stay out late for night.... weekend I don japa, go watch match and chill with the guys... Saturday Sunday.. coming back late come become my hobby ( me wey hate late night Waka come dey do am.) After some weeks she begin act nice ooo...I lock up...if she bring food I go tell her say I don chop, she come come begin para begin dey beg, night reach madam practically raped me ooo....next day she don buy gifts begin apologize....naim make I dey tell guys these days...love ya woman but no loose guard ooo...no allow woman jonse you anyhow oooo...don't be a SIMPle man

Bro naso we dey run am.......na my neighbour even worst pass, anytime en wife para for am or deny am like this baba go just dey happy.

1 week this guy no go kan house naso the wife go dey cry make we call am make en come house.....person wey be serial cheat before.

Na who loose guard woman dey show rubbish.
I go house you,feed you ,cloth you still kan dey beg you for sex......my mama no born mumu ooo

marlow1962:
I don’t fancy sex the way some ppl do nowadays, I prefer money to sex( jokes, no jokes)
But dahm, I marry now I cun touch u u do shakara, I touch u again u do shakara, maybe inside a month na 3- 4 times u don Bleep me then na till (maybe weeks or months) u go come dy expect me to beg u make we Bleep( wertin me and u go still enjoy) on God I will lev u alone to go Bleep urself ( maybe when u don Bleep urself to ur satisfaction, u go cun kneel down beg me)
Am a man of no nonsense( no be everytin u go wait make ur papa teach u, sometimes get sense learn from outside)
As I dy now, woman wer I use my money pay heavy bride price ( cun even still rip me off) go cun dy gv me condition or option when to do and when not to do ( e b lyk u still like ur papa house)

Bro the most annoying part be say dem no fit take am......deny woman sex 2 times she go call you bad person, accuse you of cheating instantly.
Infact she will report you all around that you cant perform your homely duties.

They only feel nah them fit reject sex while men cannot.........if your woman deny you sex abeg do your own back trust me her head go correct.

If my wife deny me sex ......nah are lost becos nah opportunity for me to come back home anytime and hang out with the boys.....infact nah that time my account dey rest well

She deny me sex dem no born her papa well make she ask me for money.

NotBeenPaid:

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Every man needs wisdom to run his home. For some, this your advice would further distabilize the home.

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A woman who want stabilise home will never weaponiase sex.

No matter what no woman has any right to deny her husband sex for month and only a foolish husband will tolerate that.

If she is ill or after child birth it is understandable but to deny him cos she is tired ,angry,not in mood etc for several months

I don't blame her nah the mumu husband I blame.

As a married man if your wife deny you sex constantly for months bro is your fault...You be MUMU.

In marriage women have two major weapon against a man.
Not cook for you
Deny you sex.

If a woman knows the kinda of man she married too is someone that 2sec away from cheating ,she won't be weaponiasing sex.

Only a mumu man begs his wife for sex all the time.......lock up, spend time outside more, don't care too much and be that unpredictable man.

She will keep denying you sex once you keep showing it affect you and keep begging for it.

This my experience :
My wife tried it 7months into our marriage and she eventually beg me to touch her......infact she forced herself on me at some point.

So what happened was during the lock down I yelled at her one day inside the compound.......later in the evening I apologise but she kept giving me attitude.
Fews days later I tried to make peace again, after my sweet talk I tried to settle things with sex but she strongly opposed and I locked up and she started wearing short to bed.

She kept opposing for like 2weeks so I stopped.......we were cool back and she was expecting me too make advances but I wasn't.

She noticed I started hanging out alot with my neighbour at night and I completely change........2 months went by and she was already crying inside, one night she just tapped me she want sex ,I told her am not in the mood for it......she started ranting and ran into the bathroom, came back with a bowl of water....she pulled my short ,use water to rub my penis and started doing her thing.
I was just looking at her ,after she ride and was satisfied....she cleaned me up with tissue and go clean up aswell.

Weeks later one Sunday, I came back and she went on her knees begging i should end things with my side chick and don't let our home scatter......she thought I was fucking someone outside becos I totally stop making any sexual moves towards her.

Women can't stand rejection......only men who care too much suffer things in marriage.

No matter how you love your wife let her always know there women who wants you outside......she will always be on her toes.

Anyone who says because a man isn't performing well in bed that why the woman isn't interested is daft......how many women are good in bed Most can't even do basic things during sex but isn't there fault .....alot of men endure and don't complain.

Women love sex and if she genuinely love a man she won't be weaponiasing sex all the time.

Only weak men suffer sex starve in marriage....sharp men rejoice anytime there wife weaponiase sex (if you understand).

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