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Then he was born after 1993 then.

Some people go just open mouth yarn rubbish for clout...

Nigeria hasn't witness anything close to abiola support in 1993......there was no social media then but people felt it all over the world.

DrFunmisticGlow:
Jehovah witnesses usually have a form telling doctors not to transfuse them. Did the husband have such a form?!

He was referred and I think to procedure was to stabilise him before major surgery.....she was meant to the make the blood available when he getvto the ward.....so it was at that point they got to know about the whole jw thing........I don't know how this handle in the hospital but I think over here is the relative that get blood for there patients.

GboyegaD:
Is he a JW member? Did he sign not to be tranfused blood? If he is and did sign not to be tranfused, the wife did no wrong. If he did not sign not to be transfused, she could be arraigned for murder.

One thing though, if people believe in science and its inventions in life, why say no to transfusion? Religion sometimes ehn...

Bro is either you are police man or lawyer ooo.
We are all heading to the CMD office right now and this exactly what the ASP just said..
He is saying once she can't produce anywhere the husband signed not too be tranfused either by words or written then the family have a case.

Klass99:
You see yourself? You are afraid of being turned on and beaten up, but what I said is a very likely scenario. You should voice it out and see what happens, you sef you quickly came to NL to blame her when there's a chance the man knew what was at stake but stuck with his beliefs.

We are here in luth .....you can come help voice it out.

Honestly I will pay your tfare...thanks.

Kobojunkiee:
Find out the condition of the man when his wife signed the papers at least. Was he conscious when his guardian signed the documents on his behalf?

He was semi conscious so the doctor told the wife being the next of kin.......According to the nurses in the ward they said the guy came in unconscious from the theatre so there no way he could know about the blood thing.
He was operated Saturday night and he died around 2am this morning.

The husband family have gotten the police involved so they are questioning the nurses and doctors.....to be honest everyone is actually against the wife decision.

thesicilian:
Ok
There's enough blame to go round, actually.
The wife takes blame for prioritizing religious beliefs over evidence based medicine.

The husband also takes the blame, because by signing up to become a JW, he invariably agreed to all their terms and conditions including no blood transfusion even for life saving conditions. The wife was only following his example.

The doctor also has some part of the blood, for agreeing to do the surgery knowing the strong stand of JWs against blood transfusion and not providing alternative measures.

The doctors had no fault oooo.....it was after the surgery they found out he is a JW infact they said if they knew earlier they won't have done the surgery...The top consultant that did the surgery was really angry.

Klass99:
If I were her, I wouldn't have made such a life altering decision without informing or involving hubby's family of parents and siblings.

Nigerian in-laws wey dey always find small something to hold on to and make a wife's life miserable. Na im this woman go buy correct market, plus the noose and millstone they will use to first hang her, then drown her in the sea. Chai!

On the other hand if the late hubby was a JW too and held strongly to the same beliefs about receiving blood and you all know it, then no one should be finding fault with her or accusing her of causing hubby's death.



Pecolee, are you certain about this? He may have been informed of all the ramifications prior to whatever procedure he had and so he went in fully aware of the consequences. Conscious and aware enough to have decided on his own, if he wanted a transfusion or not.

The problem now is the guy isn't here to clarify if he agree to not getting transfused with blood.....You no we are in Africa nobody want to hear that part, I can't even suggest it else I will be beating here ooo.

Kobojunkiee:
Sadly, someone died and that is never easy to accept.

Was the husband also a Jehovah's witness?

Yes......an abia indigene.
They are not taking it likely with her at all.....the whole thing sound ridiculous.

Non of her jehova witness is showing up.....they all left her now.

thesicilian:
Was this possibility of blood transfusion discussed with the husband before the surgery and if so what was his position on that? Being Jehovah's witnesses no one can blame the wife personally for the decision, she was betrayed by her religious beliefs.

The husband too is also a jehova witness but he didn't take the decision clearly cause he was semi conscious.

Kobojunkiee:
The woman was married to the man at the time of his death, so their is technically nothing wrong with what she did. Being in charge of the bills does not give one legal guardianship so the in-laws are wrong in assuming they should have been consulted on the matter.

I wish you are here now to defend her ooooo.....she really needs someone like you.

Hell just broke loose

Should A Wife Be Allowed To Take A Big Decision Without Informing Her In-law?

Good afternoon everybody.i will make this short as possible.

A friend of mine just died in luth (cause of that was anemia). He was operated upon and they told his wife to get blood (2 r.o) for transfusion after the procedure but due to being a jehova witness she decided not to get the blood (jehova witness don't take blood,is against there faith).

She had a back and forth about the blood with the doctors and was asked to sign incase anything happen which she sign without the husband family knowledge....it was only her and her fellow jehova witness that took the decision.

He passed away this midnight, she called her in-law to inform them and I also got the information from the deceased younger brother.

On getting here the family found out the surgery was successful but he died of anemia, the doctors told them it was the wife decision not to get him blood against there prescriptions and infact she signed taking responsibility if anything happens.

A serious fight is happening here, the family are claiming she killed there son which I totally agree to as well.

So this my question, should a wife be allowed to take such a big decision without informing the husband family first.

Note; it was her in-laws that were paying the hospital bills.

It won't be like this if marriage isn't restructured to be a financial burden to a man.

As a man you need to know the reason why a lady want to marry you.....I mean the major reason.

The major reason why ladies get frustrated when they get to late 20's and no husband is there parent get tired of carry there burden.......they want to push the burden to another man hence the pressure to find a man.

The day most woman stop seeing marriage as a means to pass there financial burden on a man....that day marriage will start making sense again.

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Kobojunkie:
I read your Op, then I also read your comments after that too.

So where did i talk about anyone doing it alone??

Kobojunkie:
Again .... Why not?

Experience? I don't have to be one to know these things. I see and know many who currently wear the hat of wife and husband in their own homes. And when I see married individuals such as yourself whining about how you do it all, it makes me wonder why you chose ignorance and arrogance even in this day and age.

Read the thread again.

Kobojunkie:
Why not?

Experience? I don't have to be one to know these things. I see and know many who currently wear the hat of wife and husband in their own homes. And Jane I see married individuals such as yourself whining about how you do it all, it makes me wonder why you chose ignorance and arrogance even in this day and age.

I guess you need to see a Optometrists..there absolutely something wrong with your eye sight and you have comprehension issue.

Read what I wrote again with your glasses on and your brain fully charge so you can grab what I wrote.

(I talked about hidden motives and not about anyone doing it all)just incase you read it again and your brain can't still comprehend.

Kobojunkie:
Um.... I am neither a single mother or father.

Ooo so why were you telling the other guy what single mother goes through I thought you were talking from experience.

Kobojunkie:
There isn't anything to argue.

Leave God out of your bitter marriage woes next time.

Ok single mother

Kobojunkie:
Paul freely expressed his opinions in his letters .. you chose to worship his opinions over God's own declaration.

I will pass.....it ain't worth the argument.

Stink of bitterness

Boss lalasticlala please do the needful

Kobojunkie:
God didn't tell you any such things so don't rope God into the mess that is or was your marriage.

God told you intend in Genesis 2 vs 24 that marriage is an agreement between a man and woman - He set no gender roles as far as marriage is concerned. However, as a result of man's sin, in Genesis 3 vs 16, God cursed marriage stipulating the man would rule over the woman until they both perish.

Jesus Christ came to redeem all men and women, including marriage from the curse, commanding that His followers no longer live in submission to the curse but as Sons of God , above the curse. He even went ahead to declare that your marriages are of this world and not of His Kingdom - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36.

The opinions of Paul expressed in the letter to Timothy have nothing to do with what God said and so does your adherence to them.

I guess satan gave the inspiration for the bible passage i quoted....

kazyhm:
This is the reason I said men should start telling their own story......because female belittle men effort and contributions.......even those effort that gave them advantage over others........female on average don't even know the value of things provided by men for their elevation and comfort.....they downplay everyone's effort except their.

Bro stop replying this lady abeg........it is a waste of time.

yuping:
Please can you give me five good reason someone should marry, to my own personal believe I just think no matter how we all have hidden agenda to get married.

We just have to find a way around it .....having a family of your own Is a joyful thing.

yuping:
Observing from far, una sure day I go marry like this, Cus is sounding like telling me to rewrite WAEC and jamb after I luckily scale through.

Just make sure you know the reason why she want to marry you......the major problem we facing now is hidden motives.

If we are all honest from the get go there won't be issues.