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To her Ben Ayade is the best governor

GidiRide:
I’m 10 years older than her.

She’s an Nd holder but still want to get her Bachelor degree. We met in my eglise, she liked me and we started talking.

In few days we were already close, and it felt like we met in months ago.

She really loves me, She’s has shown traits of a good girl, well behaved, intelligent and loving. She’s from a good home, her siblings look forward to seeing me on Sunday.

As I’m typing she’s on WhatsApp call with me eulogizing ourselves with our sweet names.

I really do like her a lot, infact I love her truly but but I’m scared.

Pls note that I’m also a great guy, an entrepreneur, a dog lover, a. CEO etc but I’m SCARED.

I don’t want to jeopardize this relationship and sometimes I feel she’s smaller looking at the age gap.

What do you guys think?

buddy ride on nothing do u

If the feelings is mutual nothing do you guyz sailing on

here they go

flirting themselves with exotics cars

those zoomies worth fought for them where thou art?

everyone just wanna say anything just to trend

what is the statics?


fuckkking liars everywhere

WilsonEgwu:
When you go save trips sir, the Country needs everyone input to ensure it speedy development and security of life and property, also I do know that your travel will attract more investment opportunities and fresh ideas on how to tackle some of our dwindling economic, security etc problems through your active engagement with others heads of government. #Nmteam

You are stark

He should go and die

Just that?

Push it to front desk

The people of Akwa Ibom State deserve better

Nice back

This must be a joke

Dreal1247:
This only happens to powerless Christians. God will help us to always be on fire for him. No fire, no power. With fire,you become too dangerous for the enemies to tamper with.

if you believe this lie it means there's something definitely wrong with u upstairs

JudasNaCarrot:
The man with a bushy white hairs from the waste region should be held responsible for all this.



Nonsense and ingrigents.

Mumu d worry u

Bigflamie:


Guys have deployed new system of yahoo, just get a small kid then let the kid act your script with your camera on standby then wait for the outcome of the publicity.

take ur stupid first to the other side
Must everything be yahoo for you?
You must be a yahoo boy

So sad

papaejima20199:
This is my first time posting NL , although I've been reading a lot in the last few months . I'll try to be as detailed as possible. I don't even know if I'm asking a question, or advice, or what. I just have to get some things out of my brain.

I’m 36 and my wife is 32. we've been married for 12 years and have two children, twins age 1. I would say happily married. As in, we don't fight, , never any abuse of any kind, no major life disagreements. I love my wife. She is a great mother, a great provider for the family, and we make a great team when it comes to raising our kids. However, she leaves me feeling undesired. Sexually, just intimacy in general, not feeling wanted or desired, missing that flirtatious quality that we all enjoy in a relationship. Our sex life has been on a steady decline, honestly since we got married. Less and less and less every year, and yes, kids make that even more difficult (and provide very easy excuses)

About 2 years ago, I was close to cheating. There was a girl at work that I flirted with often. We started hanging out , and we always seemed to end up talking, touching innocently, flirting, but nothing ever happened between us. The feeling this girl gave me inspired me to tell my wife how I was feeling, what I was missing, etc. I told her how important sex was to me, asked her what I could change, or if she needed to change something. Her response was that she "just didn't really think about it like you do" and that she would try to work on it. Well she didn't work on it, at all.

The flirty girl didn't work with me any more, and I lost that "flame" with her and let it go, and went about life as usual. I've been working a lot of hours over the last six months. I fell into this flirty relationship with one of my coworkers 22 and we just would have a lot of fun with one another. Mad sexual tension. A few months back things happen and she blows me. Its great. Best sex of my life. We set up plans to meet up off work hours and we do.

My coworker is in perfect shape. Its like my perfect woman. I love the way she loves me. She appreciates me, she satisfies me, she matches my sexual drive, and even exceeds it. She is everything I was missing in life, and I'm as happy as I've been in a long time. She is also crazy about me which feels unbelievable. Its been a while since someone has just wanted me to be happy and wanted to please me. I now consider her my girlfriend.

I don't wish to hurt my wife. But I do wish to be happy.

I do not wish for my children to grow up in a home with divorce. I want them to grow up with myself and my wife still being the team we've been so far, doing equal parts to take care of them, and always be there for them.

I realize a lot of what I'm saying are things that can't go together. I want to be with my girlfriend, I don't want to hurt my wife, and I don't want my kids to suffer . I can't have it all. Now I feel stuck

I need help because I can't seem to go through with this alone, and I have no one close enough with the time and level of trust that I can confide in, so I would really appreciate it if you'd offer me some advice.

Thanks for reading

bros ur head correct at all
You mean u wanna leave ur wife for a lash pussy cos of say she fuccck u well?

A slay queen u don't know how many boyfriends she get? Probably she blows u for ur money.

Na so ur village people want take useless u

Bro sleep well and wake up then think again

Whatever rocks their boat

It's none of my business

Wild and furious

He must be from the Yorubas bloodline





That's it's business

I remember Rotimi Amaechi shut down Rivers State judiciary when he was then the governor of Rivers State.


Here someone is renovating the judiciary complex

Inside life

Dickson is a dick head

He comfortably sold our territory
To our worst enemies

Ogun go strike him

Really!

Life was much graceful with him


Now we can say


Rest in peace

MasterRahl:
Baba, I came to Nairaland to seek for advice. Are you saying I am stupid to come and seek your opinion on a matter? No one knows everything, so if something don pass ur level, na to come ask elders, and na wetin I do be that. Now u come dey say I'm stupid, and foolish. haba!

As for the fucking thing, bro, life is not all about fucking. We get work to do, we get destiny to achieve, we get school to go, we get house to build. So life is not all about fucking, I am not interested in fucking the damn girl. Besides, she's a Jehovah witness and very religious.

sorry bro
But have well

BadRadio:
This has happened to the extent that I ve lost count, I cant place my hands on what the problem might be.

The very minute I show interest by asking her out and then she obliges me... I grow cold and disinterested.


please are there any explanation for it guys

bros ebi like say same thing wer de worry me don reach ur side.
Same here am really sick of my own situation. I will admire the beautiful girls and make move as a gentle man but immediately they show interest and crush back I will lost interest in them. Most of them will even be sending message on whatapp and that will even looked more appealing to me. They will behaves nice whenever they see me but my motions will be totally off with much hates. They call, I won't pick up their calls. There is this pure soul I got recently but immediately I was done with sex hatred for her starts right there, with all these the poor girl still managed to come around but I won't give her attention.

These days I don't even talk the girls again cos I know I won't head to anyway with them.
My friends are even tired of my. At 31 I don't have a girl of my own cos of nonsense

MasterRahl:
Hello fellow Nairalanders. How una dey do?
Okay, I have something to share and I sincerely need your opinion. Considering that this is Nairaland, I know say some people go wan bash me but no shaking. That's what makes Nairaland fun and interesting.

I live in an apartment somewhere in town. It is a massive building with roughly 28 apartments (mini flats).

Now, I'm a Kindle Publisher so I spend a lot of time on my system. And because of the nature of my work, I ensure that there is light in my apartment every time.

My neighbors (a guy and several females) like coming to my house to charge their phones. There's this particular girl (a corper who comes most nights to charge). There's also this particular guy (far older than me) who also comes to charge.

Anytime the guy comes, he'll charge and then settle down to watch DStv. This corper girl also comes to watch TV/charge her phone.

Here's the issue: anytime the lady comes in, she takes permission from the guy to switch channels. It makes me wonder

1. I an the owner of the apartment
2. I own the DStv and I use my money to subscribe it.

Why then does she make it a habit to obtain permission from another person before using it? I'm always on my system writing, but at least courtesy demands that she or any other person takes permission from me before using my property instead of obtaining permission from a fellow neighbor.

I haven't said anything to both of them. It has happened for several weeks and I've just been watching. I decided to table the issue here for suggestions.

One of the reasons why I refused to comment is because I don't want to be seen as an egotistic or proud person. They might say "he's doing guy for ordinary DStv" bla bla bla or he is immature and I don't wanna address the issue in the wrong way.

That's why I need your opinion guys. Should I just overlook it and continue with my life or do I address the issue? If yes, in what way?

Thanks

op apart from ur immaturity, you wanna fucckk the girl abi?
Just chill and talk to the babe.
According to you your work is always on ur system which means you don't have time for the DStv or choice station to watch.

The other neighbour who older than you do come in to watch ur DStv and sudden ur crush babe work in and u expect her to just pick a remote and change the stations other than what the senior bros was watching without excuse or permissions as u Called it. The babe is matured and intelligent while you on the other way round is immatured and stupid. Just becos of DStv you wanna go disgrace urself, if na say you wanna fucckk the babe go ahead and stop beating around the bush already the babe know say na u get the DStv.

Just ordinary DStv broda want to disgrace himself