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Forty is just a number


Happy birthday to her

Good one from Falana
Not just police officers alone same method should be apply to all forces, military and para-military

Recruit the north to tackle their Boko haram and their bandit herdsmen and stop posting our young men from the south to be killed by Boko haram insurgents northern affairs. We all know terrorism is an act and Islamic doctrine.

Recruit their Islamic brothers and sisters to tackle that.

So much stupidity in this nation

Stark illiterate nother police officers and army are here in the South extorting and stealing from masses

One of the things Mohammadu Buhari promise Nigerians was to equip Nigerians hospitals.

Opeyemiebun:
Evening guys, please I will like to seek people's opinion concerning this issue that I have in my home.

I am a married Man with a Kid. Before marriage, my wife has a federal job outside Lagos while I run my business in Lagos. Due to Nigeria's economy, I asked her not to resign as she keeps working while I also keep on with my hustle. I have to be fair to her as she has been giving her all in this marriage and I so envy her strength to make things work despite the distance.

We had our first child last year and she is going to a year.. We both contribute financially and bring something to the table as we run 2 different homes.

I know she goes through a lot taking care of the baby without a car and I know how tedious it is for her to manage.

We are both young (I am 30 while she is 28)
We got our first few properties this January and we planning to do other things as we both bring money together to get things done.

We have plans of getting our first car within a month and my wife suddenly demanded that she also needs a car where she is due to the stress she goes through daily picking my child from creche and managing that with her own job. I asked that I employ a helper for her but she doesn't want.

She plans on getting the car within the next 2months with her own money. My issue is that I am business oriented and see it as a waste of money buying 2 cars when we can buy one and invest the money for the other one.

I am a Civil Engineer and my Job requires I get a car for mobility.
I feel guilty by trying to stop her from getting the car while I get mine and at the same time, if she get one I will also need to get.

I have been cracking my head up trying to see how we can go about it without hurting her and be fair to her as she is the best woman I can ever ask for.

What should I do, should we both get cars and let other stuffs take it course?

Nigeria economy Nigeria economy, what is it about Nigeria economy? You are a civil engineer that's why you deserve a car for mobility and she is a nursing mother and a career lady she deserves a car too. She wanna acquire this car with her own money, so Mr man let her get this car for herself. If you consider having two cars a bad idea cos of Nigeria economy then you quit and give her the opportunity. You can manage with ur legs after all you are man, an engineer.

Village man

From someone whose brain is alive

I don't really know much about this APC gang
But I know their brains not at a good point when make disiccions for the society

Same for both starks and their starwath

SifonAbasi:
Good morning friends.

Please how can I politely stop my ex from visiting my home?

Yesterday was the third time my husband returns from work to meet my ex in our house.

After the incident that happened between us, my ex started coming closer to my husband and they became distance friends.
My husband invited him to our child's naming ceremony and that was how he got to know our house.

Eversince then he has been visiting and I am not comfortable with it.
I told if he must come he should come when my husband is around.

Please what should I do?

these are one of the things so familiar with Akwa Ibom ladies

COWBOYFAN:
Hello Ladies and Gentlemen

I just had a traditional wedding earlier this month. I'm not based in Nigeria. I provided all the finances for the wedding before I arrived Lagos. Everything listed to be bought for the wedding I provided all. To my surprise wedding that was suppose to take place in a hall had to take place in a cramped sitting room. No food, no drinks, no DJ etc. What did they use the funds for? I don't know. I asked questions and no answers given. To be fair to her family members, I didn't give money directly to her parents or siblings. I gave the funds to my wife to be.

Surprisingly on the day of the small wedding, her uncle was accusing me of not providing money to organize the wedding properly. My heart sank. I look in the direction of my wife to be and couldn't believe what just came out of her uncle's mouth. Whereas I provided money for everything. The wedding prayers went ahead and we were joined together.

After the dry wedding ceremony I began to ask questions but my new wife couldn't give me explanation. Fast forward to last week I was looking for money I kept in my drawer and couldn't find it. I decided to just keep quiet and watch. I set another trap. I had some US Dollars in my wallet and exposed the money for her to see. I went to the shower and lo and behold my new wife removed the dollars from my wallet. I got dressed after shower and we went outside to go somewhere together as my driver was in the car waiting. As we were going, I opened my wallet and saw the dollars gone. I blew a whistle right there and she denied it. I asked driver to return home. I had my parent and siblings at home on that day but I can bet my life on them. I told them what's going on. My new wife was all over the place and shaken. I refused to talk to her. I confided in my mother and explained how I set the trap for my wife. Surprisingly my wife started making moves. She planted the money all over the place which I saw as she was doing. I pretended I didn't see her. I refused to talk to her. All of a sudden she confronted me and attacked me that I suspected her to be the one who stole my money. She started saying she stoop so low to allow herself to be ridiculed in the presence of my family. I confronted her with evidence and she began crying and blaming devil. She has done series of money infractions that I couldn't list here. She fights me for money on daily basis since we got married. No money ever enough.

This is a woman that I gave a car to already and spent so much on to be comfortable. I just bought her another car to be given to her on her birthday. On the day she stole the dollars I had just given her 100,000 naira pocket money for the week. She's been crying and begging for two days saying it won't happen again. She has refused to eat.

Here is the bombshell I just confirmed she's now three weeks pregnant. I can't trust my life with her at this juncture. I'm leaning towards divorce. I'm too scared to be with her. She's too greedy.

bro do the needful, the earliest the better.
Life is too troublesome to be added another trouble from a woman.

uncastableodd:
Good morning everyone.

In the middle of the night today, I tried to look for duvet to cover up my son on bed. I decided to check my wife wardrobe.

I saw a pack of mycoten in the wardrobe. She already slept this time. So I had to chill till this morning to ask her questions.

So, this morning when I asked her, she said it was her mum that gave her bla bla bla..
I saw a piece of paper prescribing that cream for her in that same bag I found the cream.

I googled the uses of mycoten and I found out it was nothing serious because it is use for yeast infection and vagina odour. My wife dont have vagina odour and I understand yeast infection can be gotten from toilet or could be infection of body skin that spread or so.

I actually know she lied about her mummy giving her. But what baffles me is that I got a whatsapp message from her when she was coming from my son school..

She wrote that I nag a lot. That I should give her space. That u think she can't cope without me. She said she will look for work to take care of our son.She said we have been together for six years and I don't even trust her a bit. She said I think she can't leave without her. She didn't even address the issue of allegation of infidelity I threw against her(i deliberately did that #.I replied her I can't give her space in my own house and if she is fed up, she can pack her bags and go to her parent house. I told her if my son is infected or if I am infected , I am going to kill her and hand over myself to police. Immediately she blocked me on whatsapp and I did same. After an hour, she unblocked me.

Could she have been sleeping around her? Or are there any other uses of mycoten I don't know?

In my mind though, the cream I find is not really something to worry about but the message I got and her reaction is what I don't understand.

yes! Not just that u nag a lot u are also an idiot

SteveOfu:
Goodafternoon fellow BBW
This message is for the chubby or plus sized sisters...

You're a GODDESS

Don't ever tell yourself that slim is the only measure of beauty�, true beauty is beyond the skin.

Don't ever fall prey believing men prefer slim women... I tell you there are men who would date plus sized and marry plus sized and cherish them ( Stop wallowing in negativity)��.

Do not see your stretch marks, flabs and big belly as a curse, I advise you see them as HANDCRAFTED ART��.. they are beautiful on that thick skin.

If you find yourself being put down by a man because of your size, you are with the wrong man�. WALK AWAY�!!!!

If you find yourself in a circle of friends that are always mocking your big size, LEAVE THEM!!! They are toxic�, you dont need such friends.

'ROUND IS A SHAPE' do not get carried away with kettle or pot stories.

They ONLY reason to loose weight is for health reasons� and YOURSELF!... YOURSELF!!! not society...

A LOT of men are attracted to big girls, there are actually more men attracted to hips and asses, its just pathetic that they fear what people would say to them, so they become CCC (Closet Chubby Chasers).

Big girls are very beautiful, have good hearts,lovable,cuddly and attractive! Yes attractive !!!
� let no one tell you different...

And don't believe the lie, big girls are da bomb in bed���!!!!

Watch your blood sugar�
Watch your blood pressure�
Watch your Cholesterol �
Be very active and flexible(I can do unimaginable stuff) ��

Embrace your beauty.

In life we have " the Elephant and the Ant", and together we bring balance to mother earth.

Don't loose yourself in all the lie...

You are the Best !!!������

op that pic I saw there on ur profile breaks my heart.
Please I will no to chat u up privately

PeacefulBae:
Hello everyone, am kinda new here, I follow stories but am low-key as I hardly comment. D story is long but pls pardon my blunders.
Before I start, I'll do a brief intro, I have my National Diploma from Auchi Polytechnic, currently doing my B.SC program at d Federal University of Petroleum Resources, Effurun, Delta State.
So I started working in a sch, (I'll say like I was an office asst) around March last year. So there's this corper who was serving already b4 I came and I happened to share d same office with him, he was computer literate, so that kinda made us work together then we kick-started off as friends and everything was fine, he'll call me every other morning asking how my nyt was or just to know y I was running late or just to hear my voice b4 I resume work.
Barely weeks after, we started having series of arguments even over d slightest things, infact, we never agreed on anything.
Later on, we kinda had it going, but not smoothly, we'll be talking and he'll just jokingly say he's into me and all of that, we'll joke abt it and laugh it off. (Note: I didn't take it seriously)
Some time in August, the director of the sch were I worked called both of us to his office and asked for a laptop which was in d corper's possession, he would have ordinarily just asked me, but since he saw us work together all d time so he asked both of us. Ryt in front of the elderly man, I was quite and was waiting for d corper to answer d question. He told d director dat he suspects that d bursar took it home. I was shocked by his response so I left d office, he was behind me, while we were in d office, d director called d bursar on d phone and he told him he never took d laptop. D man called us back, reluctantly d corper told him he was with it. D director was angry, he complained that he has lost trust in me because I knew and i didn't tell him immediately he asked. That caused a serious issue as we didn't talk for a long time.
We later settled when he apologized. There were other things we argued abt so d r/ship wasn't going too well.
Around August, he started asking that I b his gf, he's aware that my ex-bf and I were having issues and broke up. The pressure was really much, i couldn't escape from it cos we see everyday. I spoke with a family friend and explained everything to him. (With time, I understood that he seemed like a good guy, he's a church guy and that's a complete opposite of me, he seems responsible too) He encouraged me to give it a try despite my constant complaints that I never felt anything for him, not even for once. So finally, I decided to accept based on d pleas from my family friend who encouraged me that it could work and I may get to like him with time.
Few weeks into, I wasn't getting it, if he kisses me, I don't reciprocate (me dah like pre-intimacy), everything was boring, we had sex only once and believe me, I never liked any bit of it.
So now, I decided to stop forcing myself, I called him ystdy and told him I can't go on with it. I told him I don't feel d same for him. He was hrt broken and I feel really bad.
I just need you guys to advise me, is that d right thing to do
My friend told me that because of d last hrt brk I had, I needed someone who loves me very much, which is this guy, but I don't feel d same and I don't know y.

op I don't even need ur kind for a girl friend, u sound so immature to me. The guy in the other way according to how u him is a dummy, him no fit be my type of guy. He found how that you had issue with ur x-boy friend and broke up and he quickly size the opportunity to friend while sharp guys like me in those days walk in to the relationship and played my game and melt her heart thereafter took way the babe to myself as e d hot And, ur churchy family member advised u to went ahead with the relationship though u knew you felt nothing for him and quicky u had sex with him, was that a kind of test before buy? Neither u or the nigga is smart.

Once I discover that a friend of mine finally born again and too churchy in ideas I push him one side. Those folks hardly use their conscience, except what the pastor preach. You can use their idea to do something meaningful. I'm not a bad person but I hate people who are too churchy in character

Chat me up I want friend you

Ebenezar2020:
until Igbos repent from following This fraudster and also dropping the bia'fraud agitation and come together towards the unity and progress of the nation before SE presidency would be considered.

you are stupid
The igbo nation are not begging for for presidency. Southern states are doing better than the northern who cling to power and have nothing to offer their people they cant even fight polio

sodiqapril:
I actually saw it on twitter and Brought it here as a joke but whatever type of frustration that is bothering you that made you not see the joke in it, I pray the good Lord relieve you of it

you are getting it all wrong bro

sodiqapril:
U gain admission for 27 you still dy contest for me fresher....

dis una quacky life go tire una
He may gain admission at 27 and graduate at 32 gain good job and become successful in life.

Stop making people fee bad

Welloooooo,

For me, I like watching our 9ja home movies where realities are put into dramas than did yanky movies their too tricky

Though telenovela do present something reasonable, but u see American action movies, there's no reality in it just tricks only.


I bow out

yenereal:
That's why to commit crime isn't good. Apart from those wrongfully detained who are still not tried, if you are told the crime these people committed, you wont pity them. Just on Wednesday, last week, 4 men struggled with a pregnant woman at about 9pm on a very busy road in Uyo, to snatch her handbag and her phone. The pregnant woman struggled and one of them use a matchet and cut one of her legs. The woman out of severe pain shouted and people got to hear of it. 2 escaped and 2 were caught and killed immediately. Now assuming police had taken them to the station and they were later sent to the prison, how on earth would I pity seeing them in this condition.
Modified: I'm talking on a personal basis, it's no excuse for the condition of the Nigerian Prison.

you are damn right brodami
They deserved every dose of punishment meted on them, I only feel for the innocent ones there

God save the innocent ones that are there

They don't deserved to safer for what they knew nothing about lord

budaatum:
Sounds like your 17 year old niece has led your daughter astray. If I were you, I'd send her back home to start with, then me and hubby have to sit down and be honest about how we both produced this or lie and rue the consequences of our errors.

were you there to know who led the other astray?

Don't be a demon

NwaAmaikpe:




This is the exact reason God made Mao Ohuabunwa lose at the polls.
The same reason he has sent Orji Uzor Kalu to represent his family in Kuje prisons.

Arochukwu has been totally forgotten, mostly by her influential indigenes who prefer the roads totally dilapidated so they can show off their heavy duty SUVs and rented helicopters.

Abia is the most unfortunate state of the federation while Arochukwu is the end of nothingness.

NwaAmaikpe I support you

We thank God

Akaegwu:
Igbo Amaka. We are developers home and abroad

Akaegwu close ur mouth

Now that others state government are competing in developing and transforming economy of their various states,
These ones here are busy building government house.

Most igbo governors have fail their people

Brandonx:
My Ex- girlfriend who just got married recently (arrangée marriage) still calls and chats with me.

When we parted ways I severed ties with her completely. Few months later she called and texted at first I ignored but after a while I decided to reply her messages and take her calls.

We talked about so many things that happened in the past. She came visiting, we were cool until she traveled back and started acting funny.

I ignored her got into a relationship. She somehow knew about it and she went berserk.
So I stopped communicating with her.

After a few months she called and sent text as usual, we started talking again as my new relationship wasn't too serious.

She requested for my recent pictures, we made video calls. Little did I know she was getting married in a few weeks. I sent her a congratulatory message and she was surprised.

Few weeks after the wedding she called we spoke at length, at a point I asked about the husband, she quickly changed the topic and I also observed she wasn't too comfortable, I told her I was about leaving the house , we should probably talk some other time .
She then said " you asked about my husband, he's fine " I then told her to extend my greetings, her reply was " who do I tell him sent his greetings".
I think we still have feelings for each other.

this our Op no even go primary school at all

He needs help

The sex you long for wasn't achievable

Such a sad day of your life

This may remain unforgettable even in your next life

Randy100:
Shameless and lazy young man. It is not as if she is marrying a 19 years old American model.

He may be still be happy for the rest of his than you miserable soul

illitrate:
Do u have a receipt legally signed by her dad with stamp and fingerprint?

Yes

stupidity:
So this little cousin of mine just moved in to stay with me for a couple of days. So before this cousin came, my normal lifestyle is to eat, and drop the plate in the sink, I can wash later, but it’s usually not more than one plate and maybe a spoon. Also I smoke in the comfort of my kitchen or balcony, I womanize, I play music a lot.

Right now my sister called and said this little girl is complaining that since she came to the house, I stopped washing plate, I disturb her with “weird” music a lot(whatever that is, I don’t knkw)!!!

She also said there was a day I finished smoking weed, I went to my room and started banging door continuously,(actually on this day, my rooms door handle froze, after multiple banging, I corrected it)


The one that is making me ask my sanity now is, she said I always play love music for HER.

you are that type of human a decent soul can't live with

Likewise here, I can't stay with someone who make noise with indecent music

My type of music
Is hymns and classic works from masters of music like G. F Handels, Joseph Hdyn and co.

Bethoveen

UdyOgwoUde:
You don't need to travel far bro. This also happens in some parts of Akwa-Ibom and Rivers State.

Don't say what you don't know my friend


don't be stupid

illitrate:
May I nyash u?

Bro
that's my babe
Please give her some respect

Fresh pusssy