Tell her if she have saved money up for the marriage if she has not she should stop pressuring you till she has enough money to contribute for the marriage

victooman:
Good day nairalanders,,
l met a beautiful and excellent girl during my Nysc, honestly she is everything l need in a woman,
We finish our service last year and started life in Abuja, she live with her sister and doing her own business while l live alone in the same town,, The problem now is that this girl mother is already pressurizing her for marriage,, she is 27 yrs and the mother is already making her looks like she is too old for marriage,, yesterday she came to my house looking all moody and worried,, when l enquired she told me her mom is asking her when the man she is dating will come home for introduction,, l took my time to explain things to her,we can't go into any marriage without been financially stable,l have a business l am running and l am looking at stability of that business in 3-4yrs time,,l told her l wont give you any specific date on when to come see her people ,,but l assured her if she stick with me God knows l wont think of any other woman during marriage,,, she told me her plan is to get married at 25yrs and l told her things dont always work out the way we plan them,, honestly l dont want to lose this girl and l also dont want to rush anything,, what do l do nairalanders...

Still get a scanner sir .. so far it has obd port it will surely save you alot of cash and you can turn your car back to tokunbo

mine85:


You made valid points... The smoke is blueish or sky blue... I will also ask the mechanic to check injectors...

For scanner, not sure it will work, na old car, even my dashboard isn't showing the lights. Doesn't read well.

Scan your car and do some google research with your result .. you can get these bluetooth scanner from Jiji. https:///ilupeju/car-parts-and-accessories/vgate-icar2-bluetooth-obd2-scanner-6gx7Q93OFieDqfIR8AdoQrnW.html?page=1&pos=2&cur_pos=2&ads_per_page=2&ads_count=2&lid=iLD-8-fZH5iRKnrL. It goes for 10k and download car scanner on Google play store you can scan your car for free .. then you can Google the result and learn more about the problem before going to the mechanic to fix it with the direction you learnt online .. but from my experience if the smoke is whitish then it is a leaking coolant to your exhaust .. if it is blueish in colour then your injectors are failing and your car is pumping much fuel than required into the cylinder so you need to change all your injector , if it is blackish smoke then your piston rings are bad you need to get a good mechanic to replace that for you .. just get the scanner and scan it first then paste the result first.. I am not a mechanic but I like buying cars with engine problems and low mileage then fix it by using mechanic and my scanner to resale for a good price

mine85:
If i drive for a 5mins or more, white or light blue smoke will suddenly come out and within 2 mins, it will stop. Sometimes, when i accelerate, the smoke will come out much, other times, it won't. Still yet, it smokes sometimes even i don't accelerate at all.

Comparatively, most times, it doesn't smoke. But when it does, it comes out quite much and stops gradually. But when i start the car, it doesn't bring smoke.

What could be the fault.? Your advice needed to also guide me with all these mechanics.

Car. Is 2.2 camry

I will blame you for accepting another man's cabbage because she didn't have any a closure with her husband and you are commiting adultery sleeping with another man's wife so fix it .. You can now see reasons why her husband ran away from her to abroad she has a bad character of being bossy and not ready to listen or keep to your rules which is bad for you as a man . I have dated girls in the past that speaks ill about their ex's but when you get close to them you will notice they are the devil's themselves and that was what scared off their ex's, now I don't even try it again ones you speak bad about your ex I lose interest in you .. thank God you have learnt about it early enough so it time for you to have some balls than your dick head and make decision telling her if she is not ready to keep your rules the doors are wide open for her to leave but make sure you talk to your kids about her and know they feel about her before making moves

family6644:



Exactly the problem I am having, she doesn't seem to see anything sensible in my late wife values and teachings and this is making me to dislike her and she doesn't seem to know despite trying so hard to explain to her.

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Bro tried reaching out to you but you number is not connecting please want to ask for some advice on fish farming sir thanks

fisher777:
Hello nice people! Farmers and farmers friends, I hope the fishes are being cared for properly. Well, its been a while. Pls ask your technical questions and as usual I'll try to offer my opinion....I beg to decline responding to questions regarding how much money to do this and that. Like I have said earlier, a newbie needs a mentor. There are farmers in every state so if you are really serious about doing aquaculture you are required to connect with a farmer before you start so find one or two in your state or outside your state and hold their hands.

Please, if I may suggest to those looking to produce their own fish feed...that stuff is capital intensive and not for newbies. Besides it requires vast knowledge on nutrients and feed composition among other factors. If it were easy the best brands of products in the market won't sell above 5k today. There are low cost feeds in the market which are quite good... Enof said for now pls.


The bros/sis asking after blood meal for feed composition... Pls note that it is not advocated. Besides scriptural reasons for sanctity of blood(any organisms blood) do you have the means to verify each time that the blood you wish to use is pathogen free? Are you aware of zoonotic diseases? Are you aware of the variables that influence fish growth, or do you assume its all about Crude protein? What about digestibility of the said nutrient? As already mentioned, fish meal is your best option here. Take note that we are working to eliminate animal proteins from feeds.....literally we want to stop feeding fish with fish before we can eat fish. It is accomplished already and we are working towards making it commercially viable.

Good day all!

MondayOsunbor:
500 THOUSAND DOLLARS INVESTMENT WILL GET YOU AMERICA GREEN CARD AKA INVESTMENT VISA

BUT GHANA NA ONE MILLION DOLLARS

These law is a bad law I can’t imagine when do Ghana official currency becomes USD that they are asking for $1 million usd investment capital even the US is only asking for 500,000 usd investment package which is reasonable . Another reason is that the US minimum wage is about $8 per hour and averaging $100 per day While Ghanaian minimum wage is averagely just a peanut of just $2.12 usd per day saying they want a foreign investors of $1 million dollar is a bad policy targeted towards their fellow poor Africans countries that can’t afford that kind of capital for investment .. I think what they would have done is to increase the taxation on foreign operated business and reduce the tax on locally owned business that would have helped their locally owned business to be competitive with foreign owned businesses Than just closing down the foreign owned businesses that is already existing that is what the US did to China and other countries that caused the trade war is a way forward..

My question is first do you love this guy if Yes then don’t leave him .. well first try to inquiry about his past, his experiences and his fears then tackle it from there before you conclude . All I can see is that your guy enjoys sleeping with different ladies and not ready for marriage. Better you have a deep talk with him and ask him how he sees you

Confusedgirl869:
Hello everyone. This account is created for this .

This issue has been bothering me a lot and I am very confused on what to do.

We have been together for more than 2 years now and we hardly have issues, infact we are a perfect match or so I thought.

I am 26 while he is 35, we both working and I never disturb him for money, I take care of all my needs myself. He is very calm and peaceful, doesn't hit me and I really admire him a lot. I on the other hand is also good, hardworking, not materialistic and all that makes a good woman.

So after thinking of our relationship thoroughly some weeks ago, I realised that there is really nothing stopping us from getting married this year or next. I decided to hear what he has to say because he never talked about us being or getting married. I also noticed that whenever he sees or hears about bad marriages he felt lucky he is not in yet. This always makes me feel bad because I know myself. I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy, he is what I want. The very first day we met, the first thought that came to my mind was 'this is my him' I don't know why I had that thought being our first time meeting.

Anyways, few weeks ago I decided to ask him what his plans are. Are we in on a long thing or not? I got the shock of my life when he made me understand that he doesn't want to be tied forever, he loves his space and the way nobody disturbs him. That he only wants a baby mama, he wants me to be the mother his kids but not in marriage. I was mad and I cried for days. He was even sounding like nothing is wrong with being a baby mama, maybe not but I just can't.

Well, I made him understand that I can't be a baby mama and it will also be hard for me to move on with another person. I've bonded so well with him and all that. And I also hate jumping from one man to another. I told him to talk to people who are in successful marriages and stop looking at the bad ones. Today when we were talking I asked him about it and he is still maintaining his stand on the mama.

I don't want to give birth to kids that have 2 homes, I grew up like that(it took me lots of self discipline not to become useless) and wouldn't want that kind of life for my kids, I want them to grow with their parents in ONE house. At the same time, I don't want to lose my good man and relationship.

I need your opinions please.

Go to that shop and take every goods and valuable from the shop to another location if you know you can't afford to leave the valuabled in it .. Please don't go to the village for your life sake .. Because your uncle's are up for something evil against you and your family ..quote author=Aizen123 post=90328655]Please I need advice. I lost my Dad over 2 months now and he hasn't been buried due to the pandemic. My Uncle's are all in Lagos and can't come back.

So after the lockdown was over we decided to go to the village.. On getting I discovered that his shop was open and all the money going into the first Uncle (first son) account.. So I called my uncle because he told me it was locked and he was saying did he need my permission before to open the shop and i decided to just control myself because i like peace and i decided to go to the house in the village...

On getting there I called my uncle and he told me the keys are with them in Lagos ... That it was waybilled and i said ok and went back with my brother and sister.

Fast forward today... I got a call from someone in the village that my Dad's burial death has been fixed and i was wowed because as the first son i haven't been told yet by my uncle's. So right now i am about acting but i need advice.[/quote]

godkiller:
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HeavenlyCherub:



You will never ever have to persuade another human being to do anything. Someone who cherishes you will do without persuasion. I don’t think anyone in their right mind will want their partner to say “you made me do it.!”

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My sister that does not mean he does not cherish his woman but according to the post he was advice by an old man he respect a lot and I can tell he must have also come across someone with the experience so you have to respect his thought also and find a way around it without sounding as if you are forcing him into it .. Forcing him or trying to emotional blackmail him will only increase his fears and scare him off that is why I think the trick style I listed will work ..

I have been in your shoes before with an older virgin .. The more older a woman gets the more painful it will for her .. I believe your dick is too big or you have a curve dick that is another complication itself .. all you need to do
Step 1 : fun play with her by kissing and sucking her boobs . Kiss and lick all the sensible part in her body

Step 2 : start by trying to insert a pencil or a finger inside her private part first you have to assure her first that all the pain only happens in a a second that once your finger is in that all pains will be gone you may need to hook her down while trying to insert your finger inside her no matter what don’t pity her and make sure you are fast enough to be successful in your first attempt of doing that never allow her tell you that your finger is so painful that she prefers your dick just tell her there is no logic there that since your finger cannot enter how possible will it be for something as hard and big as your dick to enter when your finger cannot enter .. when successful with that .. you try to stroke the part with your finger gently till she is very relaxed while you are stroking with her private part with a finger

Step 3 : when you notice she is well relaxed introduce a second finger inside her private part without telling her about it you will need to hook her down and make sure she does not overpower you into removing your fingers from inside her private part just shook it in and hook her even if she is crying don’t remove your finger you will feel that you tearing something while inserting your second finger just continue till the second finger is fully inside her then keep it inside her because if you remove it you have to start again from step 1 another day then start stroking deep with the 2 finger till she is comfortable with it .. you may need to introduce a third finger if you have a bigger or a curve dick .. after that remove your fingers make sure you don’t let her rest ..

Step 4 : Try using lubricant i recommend olive oil and not Vaseline on your dick then try inserting it into her private part I pray it goes in but if it does not tell her to come up and try inserting it herself definitely it will go in if you have done your finger job well .. Then you stroke her with your dick slowly and gently till you cum ..

Note : make sure you don’t put on ac and even if are using fan make sure you switch it to lowest .. because breeze dry some pussy faster making it more painful for her .. You can also give her alcohol maybe Best Cream drink or night train it will help her a lot to beat the fear..

Hope small boys no Dey here no be me teach una bad thing ooo

My brother you have come a long way .. just appease to her .. but you did what I know what most ladies hate .. dating someone they know :. Next time if you will cheat don’t cheat with someone your woman knows it hurts them more ..

Just go and confess.. you been told the solution already so why asking us

My brother .. the next time she makes that can statement shun her immediately tell her what kind of negativity is she feeding her mind with if there is anybody that will quit it would be her for being critical and suspicious of you , that is disrespectful for your own personality not good and healthy in a relationship . Then you tell her you are 100 percent committed to her after dropping your mind you walkout angrily if you are inside your house you can walk out to the toliet or kitchen then if she try to stop or say she is sorry .. Try assuring her of your love ,commitment and try warning her against any negative thoughts in your relationship that you won’t take it anymore .. but if she is not sorry just know that you are in that relationship alone or you have a feminist girl friend or you your woman is getting attention from other guys and she is cheating that is why she is suspecting you

It is simple .. just tell your parent any of them you are close about it and let them add at as part of the conditions he must abide to before they can give you out to him in marriage .. then you should desist from forcing him about it or talking about it .. Even when he speaks about just assure your guy you are in support of traditional marriage only but your dad is a stubborn stone to break and plead with your guy persuade him with your love that he is your all and all .. He will accept out of love for you but they way you are going about it arguing with him about it .. Will make him feel you have something ulterior you are planning to achieve .. Just let it be your parent forcing him about it you can even display a charade in front of him and your parent telling them they have to accept what your man can offer which is the traditional marriage but your parent won’t accept and will persuade that no one marries in your family like that he have to accept to having the traditional , court and church marriage . But note ..if he does not accept because of the finances involved in the church marriage process then your parent should compel him to do the traditional and court .. Just make sure you are in support of your man on these topic why your parent do the job of forcing him into the 3 process .. Plan it with your parent they know what to do when it comes to that let it be your parent presenting it to him and not you anymore ..

EjaikreTheViper:


u dey beg too?

Hahhhahahha I Dey beg for billions my mouth don wide pass millions if you get billions abeg remember my account..

At least you didn’t caught me

Cup 6

DozieInc:
Complicated matters.
Too bad your relatives wouldn't accommodate your son, very few men would want to raise another man's child.
Quarreling or not talking to your husband won't profer solution.
Try make him see reasons, appeal to his conscience. Don't make it seem as if he is obligated to house your son.
Best wishes

I support your comment I don’t know why most women don’t know how to handle men . Continue appealing to your husband and also be the best wife to your husband .. also put him in your prayers that is the only way you can convince him .. not talking to him will only make matter worse and push him to another woman ... the way you are going with the matter I see you losing your husband and being a single mother to 4 children but God forbids.. Better kneel down and make peace with your husband immediately