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 Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 9:18am On Aug 17, 2020 |
We are recruiting to fill the position of: Job Title: Office / Logistics Assistant Location: Anambra Job Description Organize office and assist associates in ways that optimize procedures Sort and distribute communications in a timely manner Register customers waybill information accurately using the system Create and update records ensuring accuracy and validity of information Resolve office-related malfunctions and respond to requests or issues Coordinate with other departments to ensure compliance with established policies Maintain trusting relationships with customers and colleagues Perform receptionist duties when needed Skill Requirements Knowledge of “back-office” computer systems (ERP software) Working knowledge of office equipment Thorough understanding of office management procedures Excellent organizational and time management skills Warm personality with strong communication skills. Ability to work well under limited supervision. Analytical abilities and aptitude in problem-solving Excellent written and verbal communication skills Proficiency in MS Office Salary N20,000 - N35,000 Application Closing Date 26th August, 2020. Method of Application Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV to: career@starsunnymotors.com using the "Job Title" as the subject of the email. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: PerfectMatchMaker(PMM) by PerfectMatchNG(op): 10:00am On Jul 20, 2020 |
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| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 8:24am On Jul 20, 2020 |
House Help needed Lagos *Min. of SSCE *Understand Lagos terrain very well. *Must live in Lagos ACCOMMODATION AND FREE MEAL *20 - 30 years old. Application deadline : 29th July 2020 Send CV to: perfectmatchmakersng@gmail.com |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 8:23am On Jul 20, 2020 |
We are recruiting to fill the position below: Job Title: Assistant Accountant Location: Lagos Industry: Hospitality/Leisure Specialization: Hospitality / Leisure / Travels and Administration & Office Support Responsibilities Reconciling the company's bank statements and book-keeping ledgers Completing analysis of the employee expenditures Managing income and expenditure accounts Generating the company's financial reports using income and expenditure data Keeping a check on the company's finances based on financial status Initiating and managing financial and accounting software used by the company Tracking payments to internal and external stakeholders Preparing budget forecasts To manage all financial transactions, from fixed payments and variable expenses to bank deposits and budgets. To reconcile bank statements and compute tax payments and returns. To accurate quantitative information on financial position, liquidity and cash flows of our business, while ensuring we’re compliant with all tax regulations. Publish financial statements in time Handle monthly, quarterly and annual closings Reconcile accounts payable and receivable and ensure timely bank payments Manage balance sheets and profit/loss statements Reinforce financial data confidentiality and conduct database backups when necessary Requirements Minimum of B.Sc / HND in Accounting, Finance or Economics ICAN will be an added advantage Required 3-5years work experience as an Accountant in a reputable hospitality industry. Excellent knowledge of accounting regulations and procedures, including the Generally Accepted Accounting Principles (GAAP) Hands-on experience with accounting software like Sage/Accpac Advanced MS Excel skills including pivot tables The preferable candidate for this position will be a male to balance our gender. Skills: Communication - Effective written and verbal communication skills that conveys information effectively. Good knowledge of hand and power tools. Analytical and problem-solving skills. Decision-making and Team-working. Strong attention to detail and good analytical skills Organization, time management, prioritizing and the ability to handle a complex varied workload. Attention to detail but also the ability to see the implications for the bigger picture Application Closing Date 3rd August, 2020. How to Apply Interested and qualified candidates should forward their Resumes & Application Letters to the following address: The Human Resources Manager, Amber Residence Limited, 16 Esugbayi Street, GRA, Ikeja - Lagos State. Or E-mail their Resume to: careers@amberresidenceng.com using the Job Title as the subject of the mail. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 8:11am On Jul 09, 2020 |
A vacancy exists for the role of a Site Engineer, the applicant must have atleast 7 years on-site building experience and must be a graduate of civil engineering or building. Site Location is at Lekki. If interested and qualified or for referrals, kindly forward CVs to cv@dayolaproperty.com Thank you. Urgent vacancies with a top technology & management consulting firm on the mainland. Remuneration package will be above the average market rates. Inspiring and great working environment too. *Software Developer:* Degree in Information Technology, Computer Science, or relevant course. Extensive knowledge of software development and related technologies. Strong knowledge of Javascript, C++, PHP, and SQL. Proficiency with fundamental front-end languages such as HTML, CSS and JavaScript. Familiarity with JavaScript frameworks such as Angular JS, Node JS, React and Amber. Proficiency with server-side languages such as Python, Ruby, Java, R, PHP and .Net. Familiarity with database technology such as SQL, MySQL, Oracle, MongoDB, and maybe SAP Hana. Solid experience in coding and ability to review code work for accuracy and functionality Strong knowledge of user interfaces. Analyzing code segments regularly. Creating and implementing design plans. Delegating tasks to team members. Keeping up-to-date with industry trends and technology developments. Minimum 3 to 5 years experience building complex distributed systems across enterprise with reliability, high-availability, performance, scalability, capacity planning, and automation. Strong organizational and project management skills. Excellent verbal communication skills. Good problem solving skills and attention to detail If interested pls send your CV to *info@i4nnova.com* Currently Recruiting the following positions for a Reputable Tech Brand, the company specializes in selling ICT hardware solutions and Appliances, leveraging on Open Market, B2B, and E-commerce Channels, as Key distributor for large IT OEM brands. �The roles are vacant as a result of expansion � HOD Accounts (7 years Experience) ICAN mandatory Preferably from FMCG or Financial institution � Chief Financial Officer (10 years Experience) Preferably from FMCG or Financial institution Risk forecasting mitigation and account management Investment banking �GM Sales & Marketing (10 years Experience) Preferably from FMCG or Financial institution �Head Internal Audit (7 years Experience) ICAN certification mandatory Mix of industry & "Big 6" experience preferred �Chief Operating Officer (At least 10 years Experience) Preferably from E commerce, FMCG, or Retail environ �Category Manager (At least 5 years Experience) Knowledge of best practice procurement standards Contract Management Supplier and Vendor Management �Ecommerce Manager (At least 5 years Experience) if interested send cv to Talentacquisitionng@gmail.com *ETHAN SAMUELS CONSULTING* on behalf of her client is looking to urgently fill the role of an *Female Interior Architect* Do you have a background in Architecture and a great passion for Interior Designs as well as an eye for details? Do you possess at least 3 years’ experience handling interior designs and supervision? Do you have great interpersonal skills, assertiveness, passion for management and supervision and most importantly; are you result oriented? If YES, then lets talk quickly – send your resume to shortlist@ethansamuelsconsult.com.ng and we would book a chat with you immediately. NB – Deadline for the submission of CV is 12noon, Monday, 13th July, 2020; this role is open to female candidates only. A foreign background would be an added advantage. Kindly note also, if the above listed doesn’t fit your profile, please save yourself the stress, your ideal profile will be published soon. Thanks Good Morning dear colleagues. *Dispatch riders urgently needed*. If you know any, kindly PC me or send CV to recruitment@amyconsulting.com.mg. Good Morning dear colleagues. *Dispatch riders urgently needed*. If you know any, kindly PC me or send CV to recruitment@amyconsulting.com.mg. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 8:10am On Jul 09, 2020 |
Vacancy: Front Desk Officer. Location: Ikeja, Lagos Applicants should have: Minimum Qualification: ND certificate Excellent written and oral communication Must be Proactive, detailed and a goal getter. Must be confident, articulate and value adding oriented. Qualified applicants should send their resumes or CVs to olaide.mohammed@absoluteoutdooradvertising.com, moss.agates@gmail.com |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 8:09am On Jul 09, 2020 |
*ETHAN SAMUELS CONSULTING* on behalf of her client is looking to urgently fill the role of an *Administration Manager* Do you have a background in Office Management as well as an eye for details? Do you possess at least 4 years’ experience in full scale Administration and Facility Management? Do you have great interpersonal skills, assertiveness, passion for management and supervision and most importantly; are you result oriented? What about your computer skills, are they top notch? If YES, then lets talk quickly – send your resume to cv@ethansamuelsconsult.com.ng and we would book a chat with you immediately. NB – Deadline for the submission of CV is 12noon, Monday, 13th July, 2020; this role is open to all qualified candidates. Kindly note also, this role is for candidates who reside around Ajah and environs - if the above listed doesn’t fit your profile, please save yourself the stress; no need for gambles. Thanks |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 8:09am On Jul 09, 2020 |
*ETHAN SAMUELS CONSULTING* on behalf of her client is looking to urgently fill the role of a *Graphic Artist* Do you have great artistic skills a background in Graphics Design? Do you possess at least 2 years’ experience in graphical respresentation and automation? Do you have great interpersonal skills, assertiveness, passion for management and supervision and most importantly; are you result oriented? What about your computer skills – especially with the usage of various graphics suites and design applications ? If YES, then lets talk quickly – send your resume to resume@ethansamuelsconsult.com.ng and we would book a chat with you immediately. NB – Deadline for the submission of CV is 12noon, Monday, 13th July, 2020; this role is open to all qualified candidates. Kindly note also, this role is for candidates who reside around Ajah and environs - if the above listed doesn’t fit your profile, please save yourself the stress; no need for gambles. Thanks |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 8:06am On Jul 09, 2020 |
Porter / Waiter / Lobby Host Location: Rivers Job Description / Requirements We are looking for SSCE / OND holders to fill the position of a porter, waiter and lobby host. Candidates MUST be an OND holder. Candidates must be smart, with effective communication skills. Candidates MUST reside in Port Harcourt. Send CV to vacancies@genesisgroupng.com using the "Job Title" as the subject of the email. Or Submit hard copies to: Genesis Head Office, Plot 198/199 Rumuogba Estate, Along Aba Road, Port-Harcourt, Rivers State. |
| Romance › Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by PerfectMatchNG: 8:06am On Jul 09, 2020 |
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| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 12:37pm On Jul 08, 2020 |
We are recruiting to fill the position below: Job Title: On-Field Marketer Location: Lagos Job Description The On-Feld Marketer's job would be in the retailing of our products in their environs. That means on the streets, in offices, shops, churches, pharmacies and supermarkets close to them. Our products are hotly demanded and very timely for the current pandemic reality. The On-Field Marketer would be paid a fixed salary that would increase based on their performance every 3 months. They would be required to report at the office once weekly. Minimum Qualification OND. Remuneration Fixed: N50,000 / month. Application Closing Date Not Specified. How to Apply Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV to: medicsurpluscareers@gmail.com using "On-field Marketer" as the subject of the mail. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 10:52am On Jul 08, 2020 |
A fast growing indigenous Pharmaceutical company based in Lagos, requires for immediate employment suitably qualified candidates for the vacant position below: Job Title: Chief Accountant Location: Lagos Requirements The Candidate for this position must be a Chartered Accountant with a minimum of five (5) years post qualification experience Must be computer literate and must be thorough in Financial reporting and accounting functions and have ability to manage the accounts department. Ability to use accounting software like Tally, Quickbook or sage is a must. Remuneration Total remuneration is attractive but negotiable. Application Closing Date 21st July, 2020. Method of Application Interested and qualified candidates should forward a detailed Resume to the "Recruitment Manager" via: ambisecnominees@gmail.com using the Job Title as the subject of the mail. Note: Only short-listed candidates will be contacted. A fast growing indigenous Pharmaceutical company based in Lagos, requires for immediate employment suitably qualified candidates for the vacant position below: Job Title: Account Officer Location: Lagos Requirements Candidates for this position must have B.Sc / HND in Accounting with a minimum of five (5) years experience or a Chartered Accountant with three (3) years experience. Must have adequate knowledge of accounting software application. Remuneration Total remuneration is attractive but negotiable. Application Closing Date 21st July, 2020. Method of Application Interested and qualified candidates should forward detailed Resume to the "Recruitment Manager" via: ambisecnominees@gmail.com using the Job Title as the subject of the mail. Note: Only short-listed candidates will be contacted. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 10:41am On Jul 08, 2020 |
A fast growing indigenous Pharmaceutical company based in Lagos, requires for immediate employment suitably qualified candidates for the vacant position below: Job Title: Stock / Inventory Control Officer Location: Lagos Requirements The candidate must possess B.Sc / HND in Accounting, Business Admin or Purchasing and Supply with three (3) years experience. Must be computer literate. Remuneration Total remuneration is attractive but negotiable. Application Closing Date 21st July, 2020. Method of Application Interested and qualified candidates should forward detailed Resume to the "Recruitment Manager" via: ambisecnominees@gmail.com using the Job Title as the subject of the mail. Note: Only short-listed candidates will be contacted. Wait and Carry Express Cargo Limited is an international logistics company with Head office at Lagos Island Nigeria. We are recruiting to fill the position below: Job Title: Accountant (Male and Female) Location: Lagos Island, Lagos Requirements Candidates with at least 5 years working experience. Minimum qualifications: B.Sc or HND in Accounting. Application Closing Date Not Specified. How to Apply Interested and qualified candidates should send their Applications to: waitandcarryjob@gmail.com using the Job Title as the subject of the mail. For Enquiries call: 07056484088. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 10:40am On Jul 08, 2020 |
We are recruiting to fill the position below: Job Title: Account Officer Location: Lagos Job Description Preparation of monthly bank reconciliation statement Maintain account payable and receivables records - Invoice posting, payable and receivable reporting Reconcile ticket vendor account - daily revenue reconciliation, revenue reporting, machine balances report. Prepare monthly diesel expense analysis report Raise internal memos and prepare bank instructions for vendor payments Petty cash management Tax management- withholding tax and VAT. Qualifications Degree in Accounting and Finance. Minimum 2.1 Relevant Professional Certification e.g ACA, ACCA, CFA, CPA will be added advantage Experience: Minimum of 2 years. Functional / Technical: Microsoft Office Relevant ERP - Quickbooks. Application Closing Date 14th July, 2020. How to Apply Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV to: careers@primerotsl.com using the Job Title as the subject of the mail. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 10:40am On Jul 08, 2020 |
We are recruiting to fill the position below: Job Title: Filling Station Accountant Location: Lagos Requirements Interested applicants must possess a minimum of BSc. Or it equivalent In relevant field and must have been functional in similar field for not less than 5 years. Applicants must also have been chartered by the Institute of Chartered Accountants of Nigeria ICAN Applicants must live within Festac/Satellite Town, Mile2, Agboju, Olodi Apapa, Amuwo Odofin Axis OR Ebute-Metta, Yaba, Shomolu, Axis. Application Closing Date 31st July, 2020. Method of Application Interested and qualified candidates should forward their CV to: Johngateng@gmail.com , credencekc1@gmail.com using the position as subject of email. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 10:40am On Jul 08, 2020 |
We are recruiting to fill the position below: Job Title: Finance Associate Location: Lagos Responsibilities Conduct reviews and evaluations for cost-reduction opportunities Manage the preparation of the company’s budget Correspond with various other departments, discussing organizations plans and agreeing on future paths to be taken Participate in financial standards setting and in forecast process Provide input into department’s goal setting process Prepare financial statements and produce budget according to schedule Update financial data in databases to ensure that information will be accurate and immediately available when needed Prepare and submit monthly/quarterly/yearly, reports interpret information to leadership team while recommending further courses of action Update financial software with daily transactions Create cost analysis reports (fixed and variable costs) Process tax payments Support monthly payroll and keep organized records Record accounts payable and accounts receivable Process invoices and follow up with clients, suppliers and partners as needed Provide administrative support during budget preparation Participate in quarterly and annual audits Requirements BSc degree in Finance, Accounting or Economics At least 1 year work experience as a Finance Assistant, Finance Officer or similar role Familiarity with accounting software (e.g. QuickBooks, Xero, Wave etc.) is essential At least intermediate level MS Excel skills (creating spreadsheets and using financial functions) Strong interpersonal, communication and presentation skills Able to manage, guide and lead employees to ensure appropriate financial processes are being used Organizational and time-management skills Attention to detail, with an ability to spot numerical errors Application Closing Date 13th July, 2020. How to Apply Interested and qualified candidates should: SEND ME A PM |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 10:38am On Jul 08, 2020 |
We are recruiting to fill the position of: Job Title: Account Officer Location: Nationwide Description We are looking for an Account Officer to support our Sales team and provide quality customer services. You will help run successful sales campaigns to increase customer engagement. Responsibilities Craft new sales proposals and contract renewals Update internal databases (CRM) with account details Perform back-office sales tasks to support Account Executives as needed Research market trends and competition Create reports on sales and marketing campaigns Maintain digital and physical records of invoices and contracts Address payment issues Identify new revenue prospects Requirements BSc in accounting or related field Work experience as an Account Officer, Account Coordinator or similar role Experience in customer service roles is a plus Familiarity with Client Relationship Systems (CRM) Good verbal and written communication skills Time-management abilities Application Closing Date 26th July, 2020. Method of Application Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV to: info.colossusinvestment@gmail.com using the "Job Title" as the subject of the email. |
| Romance › Re: Why Don't Women Like Revealing Their Age? by PerfectMatchNG: 10:38am On Jul 08, 2020 |
I think the romance section is going through some house cleaning phase. Incredible128: |
| Romance › Re: Why Don't Women Like Revealing Their Age? by PerfectMatchNG: 3:47pm On Jul 07, 2020 |
It’s because of the assumptions and judgments people make. As one user stated in this thread, it gives people a “yardstick” to measure your entire life by in terms of appearance, behavior, and accomplishments. As a man, I have been guilty of casting judgement on a woman because of her age. For example: “she’s 33 and single yet she says she wants to have kids? She better stop being picky and settle down and start trying before she becomes infertilite”. A lot of it is rooted in biology but it disregards her own experiences in life that caused her to be where she is. I’ve also judged people’s behavior by their age too. For example: “he’s 39 years old and still goes to the club every weekend? I’m only 25 and I’m already tired of the club!” A lot of people in general tend to be ashamed of their age because they aren’t where they thought they would be in life. I can imagine it being a bit embarrassing for a 35 year old to be working in a position mostly filled by 22 year-old recent grads. They’re boss might even be a decade younger than them! So they would rather keep their age under wraps to avoid any eyebrow raising. But at the end of the day, it shouldn’t matter. Aging is inevitable so there is no reason to hide it. 4 Likes |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 11:55am On Jul 07, 2020 |
We are recruiting to fill the position below: Job Title: Bilingual Assistant (English) - Remote Location: Nigeria Job Descriptions We are seeking motivated, energetic individuals who have great language and research skills, to work as a project assistant for a fashion company. We are looking for candidates who speak mother tongue and/or fluent English and either Spanish, Italian or French. Requirements Mother tongue or business level fluency in English (required) Mother tongue or business level fluency in French, preferred Strong communicator Strong organizational skills, good researcher Self motivated, self-starter with a positive attitude Highly resourceful and familiar with various social media, blogs Interest in fashion is preferred, but not required Works well independently, knows how to research efficiently, using creative sources Salary / Benefit Remote work. Flexible time and place of work. Freelance. Compensation: Based on performance, 400-600 USD / month Application Closing Date Not Specified. How to Apply Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV and Contacts to: victoria.hiring.yx@gmail.com using the "Job title" as subject of the email. Note More details about the job function and role will be explained to selected candidates during an initial phone interview. If you think you could be a suitable candidate, please contact us. We are waiting to hear from you. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 11:37am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Management Trainees Orange Drugs Limited is seeking suitable candidates to join its team in the Management Trainee Program. Applications are invited for: Title: Management Trainee Requirements •Must have a minimum of second class (upper division) degree at first degree. •Must have completed NYSC •Skills Required 1.Must be a fast learner, dynamic and goal-driven with strong analytical, communication and interpersonal skills. 2.A self-starter and a team-player with high levels of drive and energy 3.Must possess a high level of integrity, determination and personal commitment. 4.Must possess strong intellect, enthusiasm and resilience to compete in today’s challenging business environment. 5.Proficient in Microsoft Office (Excel, Word, Power Point) 6.Ability to drive is added advantage. •Method of Application Interested and qualified candidates should send their updated CV to: recruitment@orangegroups.com using Management Trainee as subject of the email. |
| Crime › Re: My Story As A Cult Member........initiation Phase Included... by PerfectMatchNG: 11:31am On Jul 07, 2020 |
UNA DON CHASE THE FEMALE THAT WAS EXPOSING THE FEMALE COUNTERPARTS OF THEIR MALE GROUP Please let us stay safe and #SAYNOTOCULTISM 4 Likes |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 3:32pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
URGENT VACANCY- MECHANICAL ENGINEER I am looking to fill a vacancy for a Mechanical Engineer, with experience in handling, managing and leasing heavy duty equipment i.e Bulldozers, Excavators, Swamp Buggies etc. Job Location: Ibeju Lekki, Lagos. Kindly, send your CV to careers@landshop.ng with "Mechanical Engineer" as the subject of the email. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 3:32pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Vacancy - Legal Officer Location - Lagos. 3 - 5 years post bar experience. 100k Gross Monthly. Interested candidate should send their CV to hr@hooptelecoms.com |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy by PerfectMatchNG(op): 3:32pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Operations / Admin Manager needed at a Construction Company. Lekki Phase 1, Lagos. Requirements: At least 3-5 years previous experience required. *Available to resume immediately* Qualified Candidates should send application and cv to info@elvaridah.com |
| Crime › Re: My Story As A Cult Member........initiation Phase Included... by PerfectMatchNG: 3:28pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
I think you maybe right in a way aftr reading the fb link below, I have lost hope in our youth. Softflameboi:Meanwhile you guys are doing a great job here o 1 Like 1 Share |
| Crime › Re: My Story As A Cult Member........initiation Phase Included... by PerfectMatchNG: 3:26pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Someone help this guy!!!!!!!!!!!!! QueeenKKfire: |
| Crime › Re: My Story As A Cult Member........initiation Phase Included... by PerfectMatchNG: 3:20pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
This brought tears into my eyes. DaBogu: |
| Romance › Re: Why Do Women Usually Fall In Love With Funny Men? by PerfectMatchNG: 3:14pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
| Crime › Re: My Story As A Cult Member........initiation Phase Included... by PerfectMatchNG: 2:20pm On Jun 26, 2020 |
Oga! We should encourage her to expose the ills of being a female cultist, do not discredit her story, it's hers. You should make corrections where necessary than discredit the story. Pascopele: 8 Likes |
| Crime › Re: My Story As A Cult Member........initiation Phase Included... by PerfectMatchNG: 3:27pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Role of Parents and Guardians Parents and guardians have a crucial role in preventing and stopping the recruitment of their children and wards by being active, attentive and watchful carers. Often there are signs to look out for when a child is about to be recruited, has joined, or would make a recruit that attracts gang coordinators. Wearing certain colours of handkerchiefs, bangles, buttons on school shirt or trousers, belts; smell of drugs on uniforms; tendencies to hide or hide things; use of phone to watch pornography; telling lies, stealing, stubbornness, disobedience, indiscipline, not studious, addiction to substance abuse, acts of bullying, anger issues, and other anti-social behaviours are often good pointers to watch out for. Parents must be decisive in nipping such acts, habits or behaviour in the bud. Parents must work on, and up their parenting skills. Inability to discipline an erring child or control a child, not with threat, intimidation or inflicting injury, but with tough love will prevent the child from thinking they can do bad and there will be no consequences for bad behaviour. Children must learn that there are consequences for bad behaviour and anti-social tendencies. When a child tells his or her parents they don’t need pocket money but are found using phones, watches, clothes, or any other items they as parents didn’t buy for them, fathers and mothers must worry and ask questions. If it means returning said gifts, confiscating or burning them, parents must do so to drive home a point: all gifts given must get their approval before they are accepted or used; if a child is not working, there’s no way he or she can have money, or buy himself or herself things. It raises the question of lies and stealing and this must be investigated thoroughly. |
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