naice:
I find myself facing a difficult situation in my marriage and would greatly appreciate your insights and advice. The issue at hand revolves around my wife's unwillingness to listen to me. I'm at a loss as to why she behaves this way, and it's starting to take a toll on our relationship.

To provide some context, my wife has a strong-headed personality, which often leads to conflicts between us. No matter how gently I communicate my concerns or requests, she seems to disregard them and even does the opposite. This behavior frustrates me and leaves me questioning our compatibility.

One possible explanation I've considered is her background as an orphan. She lost her parents at a young age and had to take on the responsibility of caring for herself and her siblings. While I understand the challenges she faced, it seems like her self-reliance has translated into a resistance to accepting input or guidance from others, including me.

At this point, I have contemplated divorce, but there's a significant factor holding me back: our children. I love them deeply and cannot bear the thought of being separated from them. As much as her strong-headedness affects me, I firmly believe that domestic violence is never an option.

I'm reaching out to this community for reasonable opinions and advice on how to navigate this situation. Have any of you experienced a similar dynamic in your relationships? How did you cope with a spouse who doesn't listen? Are there effective strategies to foster better communication and understanding in such circumstances?

Thank you in advance for your support and guidance. Your insights will be invaluable in helping me make an informed decision about the future of my marriage."

Just agree to whatever she says. She will soon realise that are right later

AndrewTate:
I wanna know too...

Each situation defers, until you get into it

Imagine

questionanswer:
Hi everyone,

My father happened to be the first son of my grandfather who automatically inherit his lands and other properties.

My father just died and since I'm the first son of my father. Which means I'm automatically inherit and in charge of those inheritance.

Now my uncles are all ganging up against me. These guys not allowing me to do the burial of my father who passed away for a while now.

They keep giving different excuses on why the burial will not hold.

They gang up and cancel the burial i fixed previously and I lost everything. All what I spent for the burial arrangements was wasted.

I really want to charge them for this.

They are using the influence that if they are not in support the burial will not hold.

These uncles has really fustrate me and I keep spending money and wasting my precious time traveling back to the village for series of meetings just to please them.

Yet they're not approving my burying my father. Not like they are giving me any money for the burial. I'm the one handling it yet they no gree.

They said i cannot inherit the grandfather and my father's properties..so I cannot do my father burial. And these are for their own selfish motives.

The Kingsman and the king supports me and has cautious the uncles to desease from such. But yet they still persist.

I have tried to make peace and peace with them as family concern but yet they are all still ganging up. And wow to fustrate me.

Now my patience has ruined out. I'm in mood for actions now.

I want to take matters higher than the community level with them now.

I'm thinking of taking them to court now. But I don't know the process.

I'm seeking the right direction I can take to solve such an issue.

Thank you so much �

I have read people's comments and advice given on the matter you posted above. I will advise you as follow.
1. Was all your grandfather's properties bequeathed to your father alone or shared among your father and his brother. If the answer is no, you need to find out if your father didn't tell you before his death.

2. You need to be careful in power tussle with your uncles. Don't be used as scape goat with matter relating to Land issue. Your live is more important than any properties you can think of. It's when you are alive and healthy you can fight over properties, especially unmoveable ones like Land and building.
3. Be at peace with your uncles and discuss amicably with them on when they want you to bury your father, by that way, you won't be waiting money unnecessarily on planning and yet it will be cancelled.

questionanswer:
Hi everyone,

My father happened to be the first son of my grandfather who automatically inherit his lands and other properties.

My father just died and since I'm the first son of my father. Which means I'm automatically inherit and in charge of those inheritance.

Now my uncles are all ganging up against me. These guys not allowing me to do the burial of my father who passed away for a while now.

They keep giving different excuses on why the burial will not hold.

They gang up and cancel the burial i fixed previously and I lost everything. All what I spent for the burial arrangements was wasted.

I really want to charge them for this.

They are using the influence that if they are not in support the burial will not hold.

These uncles has really fustrate me and I keep spending money and wasting my precious time traveling back to the village for series of meetings just to please them.

Yet they're not approving my burying my father. Not like they are giving me any money for the burial. I'm the one handling it yet they no gree.

They said i cannot inherit the grandfather and my father's properties..so I cannot do my father burial. And these are for their own selfish motives.

The Kingsman and the king supports me and has cautious the uncles to desease from such. But yet they still persist.

I have tried to make peace and peace with them as family concern but yet they are all still ganging up. And wow to fustrate me.

Now my patience has ruined out. I'm in mood for actions now.

I want to take matters higher than the community level with them now.

I'm thinking of taking them to court now. But I don't know the process.

I'm seeking the right direction I can take to solve such an issue.

Thank you so much �

I have read people's comments and advice given on the matter you posted above. I will advise you as follow.
1. Was all your grandfather's properties bequeathed to your father alone or shared among your father and his brother. If the answer is no, you need to find out if your father didn't tell you before his death.

2. You need to be careful in power tussle with your uncles. Don't be used as scape goat with matter relating to Land issue. Your live is more important than any properties you can think of. It's when you are alive and healthy you can fight over properties, especially unmoveable ones like Land and building.
3. Be at peace with your uncles and discuss amicably with them on when they want you to bury your father, by that way, you won't be waiting money unnecessarily on planning and yet it will be cancelled.

4.

Aizen123:
Please I need advice. I lost my Dad over 2 months now and he hasn't been buried due to the pandemic. My Uncle's are all in Lagos and can't come back.

So after the lockdown was over we decided to go to the village.. On getting I discovered that his shop was open and all the money going into the first Uncle (first son) account.. So I called my uncle because he told me it was locked and he was saying did he need my permission before to open the shop and i decided to just control myself because i like peace and i decided to go to the house in the village...

On getting there I called my uncle and he told me the keys are with them in Lagos ... That it was waybilled and i said ok and went back with my brother and sister.

Fast forward today... I got a call from someone in the village that my Dad's burial death has been fixed and i was wowed because as the first son i haven't been told yet by my uncle's. So right now i am about acting but i need advice.

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just be prayerful

okomile:
Garri no dey sell for dollar
I don't need it

Hmmm

Lexoma:

At least you should have some sense to see where I said the sit at home was for the old and the ones with weak immune system and health issues. But sense no gree let you get

Abi oooo

Good move

Nice move

Kingpee2:
Why una wan kill this man by force ?

seeking people attentions

enemyofprogress:
Rubbish


Just Because I Don't go to Church regularly, doesn't mean I don't know that Adam killed Goliath.�

Hopefully