Celebrities › Re: Bbnaija Mercy Spotted Hanging Out Wit Alleged New Boyfriend, Singer Willie In UK by Phenomenal16(f): 6:56pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Everrest9: She no get eyaes at all. ...money don't av eyes |
Romance › Re: Girls And Virginity by Phenomenal16(f): 1:27pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
franklinfresh7: Are you a girl, above 23, a virgin and have had a boyfriend? If you have been raped, I still include you as a virgin. So signify let me pray for you, so that you will continue to keep it because I know that it has not been easy ..brother I I said it i |
Celebrities › Re: Nikita Pearl Waligwa Dead At 15 by Phenomenal16(f): 1:10pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Chaiiii Life is vanity |
Celebrities › Re: Ini Edo Shares Valentine's Day Picture by Phenomenal16(f): 12:20pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
slowbreeze: I just lost respect for this babe. .After using jazz to break the home of that Anambra big boy ;and making him pursue the mother of his triplets;she was finally dumped.. From a Reliable source. ..hmmm |
Romance › Re: Women, Age Is Not Just A Number, Stop Deceiving Yourself by Phenomenal16(f): 12:07pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
2rez: MVP: Most Valuable person/personality. ..thanks dearest |
Romance › Re: Women, Age Is Not Just A Number, Stop Deceiving Yourself by Phenomenal16(f): 11:14am On Feb 15, 2020 |
Pls what's the meaning of "u r the real MVP" |
Romance › Re: Why We Rushed To Have Our Wedding — Kano Serving Corps Members Who Got Married by Phenomenal16(f): 10:56am On Feb 15, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: Here’s the rest of the article. No need to click:
You’re from Nasarawa State, what tribe are you?
Muhammad: I am Afo from Nasarawa Local Government Area, Nasarawa. I studied History at Nasarawa State University, where I earned BA degree. My elder brother earlier married from the Yoruba community. I am the second person within our family to marry outside my tribe.
How old are you?
Muhammad: I’m 28 years old. I did not plan to get married during my service year. It was God’s plan for us to get married.
You are from Niger State, what tribe are you?
Hauwa: I am Nupe; a proud one for that matter.
How did you meet Hauwa?
Muhammad: We met at NYSC kitchen when we were in camp. We just clicked when we first met; it was love at first sight! We were both struggling to be served lunch. But the moment I saw her, I fell in love with her. However, I did not realise that it would culminate into marriage so soon. It’s God’s work.
What really attracted you to her?
Muhammad: Her simplicity and beauty were the things that attracted me to her. Also, when we started the relationship, I discovered how kind and caring she is, and those are the attributes I have always wanted in any woman that will be my life partner.
What qualities of his attracted you to Muhammad?
Hauwa: He is religious, intelligent, simple, generous, wonderful and caring. He is simply the best (man) I have ever come across. I like him because he is amiable, caring and friendly. These attributes of his attracted me to him.
How did Muhammad Musa show interest in you?
Hauwa: It was an amazing moment. When we first met, we clicked on the spot. It was love at first sight. I did not accept (to date him) that same week; it was two weeks later that I accepted.
So you initially play hard to get…
Hauwa: Yes, of course. I did because as a woman, it is our pride to prove difficult before eventually succumbing (to propositions).
What made you to accept his proposal?
Hauwa: He is just too natural and real, that was why I accepted his proposal.
You met in camp and already getting married, why did you not wait till after service year?
Muhammad: Time, they say, is of essence, and marriage is an institution ordained by God, who is the owner of our lives. I rely on this to hasten the marriage, instead of waiting for the end of our service year. I felt if I waited much longer than now, I might change my mind and start a fresh relationship with someone else who may not be right for me. So, I hastened the marriage because I felt it was an opportunity I could not afford to miss.
How long was your courtship?
Muhammad: Our courtship lasted for 10 months.
Some people believe courtship should last longer than that, how would you react to that?
Muhammad: It’s not how long the courtship lasts that matters but how well it is. What is more important is to understand each other’s behaviour, rather than a long-term courtship to understand each other.
Why are you so sure she is the right one for you?
Muhammad: During our three-week orientation, I discovered she has good character, which she demonstrated during our courtship. I also investigated and discovered that she inherited her good character from her family; she has a good family background.
What are the other things you love about her?
Muhammad: I do not only love her, my passion for her developed further when I discovered she was religious, intelligent, simple, kind, hospitable, loving and caring. I was convinced that when we start having children, she will inculcate such attributes in our children.
When you told your parents that you planned to get married to a lady you met in camp, what were their reactions?
Muhammad: My parents’ reactions were not only positive; they were also supportive of the idea. They both agreed that as long as we love each other and agree to live together in peace and tolerate each other for the rest of our lives, they were in support.
How did you tell your parents you found the man you would marry in camp and would want to get married now?
Hauwa: It was an uphill task to speak out to my parents but I later summoned courage to inform them. I told them point blank that my feelings towards him were becoming too natural and real.
And how did they react?
Hauwa: My mum was so happy about it but my dad objected to it at first for reasons best known to him. Thank God, he later accepted so as not to hurt my feelings because he believes that my happiness should come first.
How do you plan to handle the financial responsibilities that come with marriage?
Muhammad: I’m an artisan, with specialty in tiling floors.
What are your plans to handle your financial responsibilities?
Hauwa: I am serving my nation for now as a youth corps member. At the end of my service year, I will grab any opportunity that comes my way, so as to reduce the burden on the shoulders of my husband.
Some people believe it is better for a couple to start working before getting married but both of you are still corps members…
Muhammad: We will continue to do our best and allow Almighty God to provide our daily bread and needs.
What made you trust him?
Hauwa: If you meet your Mr Right, you don’t need to be told. Aside from that, his simplicity and calmness made me to truly love him. He is simply the best for me.
Some people believe that courtship should be longer, how would you react to that?
Hauwa: It’s not how far but how well. All you need in courtship is not about the duration but how well you understand each other. We were friends for few days and when we became lovers, it became so overwhelming and amazing. Everything became so interesting as my world reached its destination.
Did you receive any support for the wedding?
Muhammad: Yes, especially from my family and friends. They rallied round to ensure the success of the wedding. The NYSC band graced the unique occasion, during which they played concordant tunes to add colour to the historic wedding. NYSC members and our parents also attended the occasion to demonstrate their support for the marriage. ..hahaha,,,,,mad oo |
Romance › Re: Take A Picture Of Your Valentine Gift And Drop It Here by Phenomenal16(f): 3:55am On Feb 15, 2020 |
I don't like this thread Maybe because I didn't get a gift But seriously I don't like it I av to say my mind.runs *out of thread* |
Celebrities › Re: Video: Mercy Aigbe Gives Advice To Sidechicks Dating Married Men (see Reactions) by Phenomenal16(f): 3:49am On Feb 15, 2020 |
Liliyann: Loud it mama 
Your main guy will want you to look good for him, wear designers and wouldn't want to drop real cash!!  Most married men finds solace in the arms of their side chick, they are 100% what they can't find at home!! As long as we all know our role, I'm not against it! If your happiness is with a married man, I see no reason you shouldn't pursue it  ..that means u r a side chick The one that will deal with u is still in primary two |
Celebrities › Re: Zubby Michael & Mercy Johnson At A Cinema In Onitsha Mall- PICTURES by Phenomenal16(f): 3:46am On Feb 15, 2020 |
Plead: She is and I’m quite surprised.... she’s always pregnant,smh.
Trophy wife ,maybe? .will u keep quiet As if she's not married Is it ur pregnancy abi she bi ur wife ni |
Romance › Re: Take A Picture Of Your Valentine Gift And Drop It Here by Phenomenal16(f): 5:04pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
successful35: The way some guys go take creat heart break valentine for romance section by weekend dey make me laugh. ...I dey tell u How come we r thinking d same thing |
Romance › Re: Girl Scammed Me On Valentine by Phenomenal16(f): 4:48pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
Akinowon123: I just me this girl two weeks ago and I already liked her. I made my intentions known to her that I like her and we can be friends, because I believe from friendship we can take it to the next stage.
So, two days ago I asked her how Val will be and she told me she doesn't know the plan yet. I said if she would be free, we can go out. Immediately I said this, she told me she's not going anywhere and she will be available.
Fast forward to today. She told me she's ready around 12pm and I got the address of where she was. I met her with her friend, I immediately asked what's up with the friend. She told me she was going to somewhere else and we are heading towards her direction so we can all enter the same cab. Not long as I made attempt to stop a bus or bike, the friend waved us good bye that she is no more following us. We got to the eatery and I ordered food to be eaten but the girl said she won't be able to eat there that it should be packed. So mine too was packed, I told her we should head to my house so we can chill and enjoy what Val has in-store for us.
Immediately, she came up with a excuse that her friend will be waiting for her as they are going somewhere. I was disturbed and told her ' does that mean u will leave me just like that' . She left with the ordered food for both of us still with me and promise to come to my place. About 1 hour later she called and I gave her the address to my house.
5 minutes after she entered the room, she told me she won't stay long that her dad as been asking about her where about. I separated the food and drinks with other stuffs I bought and gave her her part. Few minutes later she stood up to leave, that was how she left for good.
I don't know if I am a mumu man for doing this or it's normal and I should give her time. Not like I wanted to sleep with her but just been together sharing memories and getting to know each other more better was my plan but I supposed she just acted smart to get what she wanted
What do u think guys?? ..hehehe Odi egwu |
Romance › Re: Girl Scammed Me On Valentine by Phenomenal16(f): 4:45pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
Akinowon123: I just me this girl two weeks ago and I already liked her. I made my intentions known to her that I like her and we can be friends, because I believe from friendship we can take it to the next stage.
So, two days ago I asked her how Val will be and she told me she doesn't know the plan yet. I said if she would be free, we can go out. Immediately I said this, she told me she's not going anywhere and she will be available.
Fast forward to today. She told me she's ready around 12pm and I got the address of where she was. I met her with her friend, I immediately asked what's up with the friend. She told me she was going to somewhere else and we are heading towards her direction so we can all enter the same cab. Not long as I made attempt to stop a bus or bike, the friend waved us good bye that she is no more following us. We got to the eatery and I ordered food to be eaten but the girl said she won't be able to eat there that it should be packed. So mine too was packed, I told her we should head to my house so we can chill and enjoy what Val has in-store for us.
Immediately, she came up with a excuse that her friend will be waiting for her as they are going somewhere. I was disturbed and told her ' does that mean u will leave me just like that' . She left with the ordered food for both of us still with me and promise to come to my place. About 1 hour later she called and I gave her the address to my house.
5 minutes after she entered the room, she told me she won't stay long that her dad as been asking about her where about. I separated the food and drinks with other stuffs I bought and gave her her part. Few minutes later she stood up to leave, that was how she left for good.
I don't know if I am a mumu man for doing this or it's normal and I should give her time. Not like I wanted to sleep with her but just been together sharing memories and getting to know each other more better was my plan but I supposed she just acted smart to get what she wanted
What do u think guys?? ..nah them |
Romance › Re: Val Time Out Was Fun And Worth The While. by Phenomenal16(f): 4:44pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
AshiraWealthy: Yeah!!! I'm back!
I had fun.... Had a lot to eat and drink..... Was gifted cash...and..... Yes! I enjoyed every bit of it.
So Val continues tomorrow with shopping and shopping and more shopping.... Life is sweet with Christ at the center of it all.
Thank you Jesus. ..u r back Ahhh....so soon.. Uwa megbede is berra |
Celebrities › Re: It’s A Sin If Your Partner Moans During Sex - Newly Married Man Says(see Here) by Phenomenal16(f): 10:39am On Feb 13, 2020 |
Mechanical sex...too bad M sorry for wifey |
Celebrities › Re: Desmond Elliot, Fred Amata, Segun Arinze, Bimbo Akintola Visit Ned Nwoko by Phenomenal16(f): 9:29pm On Feb 12, 2020 |
Still on this malaria ishhhh Malaria av really suffered.. Next is lassa |
Family › Re: . by Phenomenal16(f): 9:27pm On Feb 12, 2020 |
cutegentility: I had this friend and we are both coders. She is into back end technology while I'm into front end development. We happened to meet at the same group but we are of different country. She is based in the UK while I'm a Nigerian. We have been having conversations for close to 5 months but there is a kind of disagreement in the group which made me to accuse her because I felt she was wrong. I exited the group - but she still come to me, trying to explain things to me but my excessive anger made me to loose my sanity.
In short, we stop communication. At the end of the day; she was innocent but the deeds are done. She blocked me because I never listened to her explanations and she really felt hurt.
I try to reconcile but all to no avail. I called her line, it seems she added my number to voice mail. I mail and text her some apology letter but no response from her.
What should I do? Should I keep apologizing or I should move on with life?
Please advise a brother!!!!! ..m very happy for her She escaped a tym bomb |
Romance › Re: How Do I Get Her Back??? by Phenomenal16(f): 12:12pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
luminouz: I'm fine o...
Val is around the corner,where u taking me to?  ..lol Are u in Enugu |
Romance › Re: How Do I Get Her Back??? by Phenomenal16(f): 6:55pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
luminouz: Enugu babe,how far? ..m gud n u? |
Romance › Re: How Do I Get Her Back??? by Phenomenal16(f): 4:41pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
luminouz: You can't! She dumped ur black ass. Why would you wanna go back?
Move on and stop all these death throes horse neighing.
There are other girls na!!!! 
These NL males just taya person. ...aww "Black ass" |
Romance › Re: Marriage Overrated, Not An Achievement, Says Mercy Aigbe by Phenomenal16(f): 4:53pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
U mean urs Mine will be celebrated |
Celebrities › Re: Many Guys Are Bi-sexual- Bobrisky by Phenomenal16(f): 5:36pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
CaizzyStylez: Do you believe most Nigerian guys are bi-sexual but stay in marriages to cover up their secrets? Internet sensation and cross dresser, Bobrisky reveals on his IG page that most Nigerian guys are liars and hypocrites who jump into marriages to cover secrets of them being bi-sexual.
Bob who said most homes would break if the Nigerian Government approves same sex marriages, also revealed that maturity made some people keep their secrets knowing fully well of what most guys sexually desire most.
In a post some hours ago, the cross dresser said;
Nigerians are hypocrites �����. We know them but because we are so mature we won’t cast anybody. Just do your thing and don’t castigate no one. Live your life and stay outta of trouble. PERIOD !!!!
Source: https://soundgist.com/many-guys-are-bi-sexual-bobrisky/ ..if u r not gay how come u take know This guy is a gay Seriously time will tell |
Romance › Re: My Valentine's Gifts For My Girlfriend Are Finally Here. Come And See by Phenomenal16(f): 5:30pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Victoronah1: Everyone is beautiful in their own way. More pix. ..op is that ur finger......y is looking that way |
Romance › Re: Can We Now Say Virgins Are Good Girls And Wife Materials? by Phenomenal16(f): 5:27pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Apart from being raped,,sexually abused,,,,,and all forms of sexyal harassment.... Being a virgin especially from 20 upwards is not easy... It takes character n discipline to keep one Some call it inexperience... I laff cos I know personally a lot of my frnd... Who are intact ......yet very beautiful.... Let's be guided ..is not easy
Even though that being a virgin shouldn't make one proud..
Anygal that's shouting about her virginity is no longer a virgin
When u see a real V ...she hardly talk About it...without some level of trust
Marriage goes beyond That anyway.....
Being a virgin is still gud
Peace |
Romance › Re: Everywoman Deserves An Orgasm You Must Give Her. by Phenomenal16(f): 1:57pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
duruZed: You that hàve updated yours must you climb the mountain and shout that you are a super-woman and man slayer. updater my foot. ..I hope u av what to eat... This can only be coming from a hungry niggar...kpele |
Romance › Re: Chocolate Skin by Phenomenal16(f): 10:53am On Feb 08, 2020 |
[quote author=MYSTIC19 post=86459657][/quote]..they do But finding original can be a herculean task....n buying imitation can make a fair person dark |
Romance › Re: Chocolate Skin by Phenomenal16(f): 10:51am On Feb 08, 2020 |
iamgprince: abeg can you name the price of some of this creams ..long rich is 2200....Revlon is quite big is around 1200 I dont know for the rest Long Rich is small about 200mls |
Celebrities › Re: Share An Encounter You Had With A Celebrity by Phenomenal16(f): 8:49pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
JasonScoolari: Are you a travel consultant? ...be honest Are u lying |
Celebrities › Re: Share An Encounter You Had With A Celebrity by Phenomenal16(f): 8:43pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
iyke926: Lol. The greetings would have been from afar. He is also a jovial man, have seen him in Enugu around Garikki. ..osuofias hotel is close to gariki mkt |
Celebrities › Re: Share An Encounter You Had With A Celebrity by Phenomenal16(f): 8:40pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
JasonScoolari: Van Vicker at Eko hotels, he was invited for the AKWABA market September 2018, NANTA and IATA members will understand.
Patience Ozorkwor was fun to be with when I met her at Asaba, in her words directed to me; "Young thespian, you'll go places.
Tonto Dikeh, the late J.T Tom West, John Obi Mikel, Jim Iyke, Bovi, Ebuka Uchendu and Olu Jacobs.
Then, the GOAT himself, M.I at Erigga's show December last year, dude was so humble and he called me back stage.
Well, I am also Celebrated too.... I remember how one beautiful Nairalander saw me at Signatious Hotel at Warri and she was so excited. It was a beautiful experience. ..hmmmmmmmmmmm.... Hmmmmmmmmmm |
Celebrities › Re: Share An Encounter You Had With A Celebrity by Phenomenal16(f): 8:37pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
pweeryambre: NKEM,OWOH, at roban stores Enugu, he just stepped out of a tinted car and a handful of people gathered and were hailing him, one man even started spraying him naira notes but nkem owo was staring at me. i just stood there and stared at him back for a while and the little crowd started to turn to look at me, then i left. it was awkward though. ..he will surprised.. U ain't hailing him u know I trust my Enugu brethren..... Some fit they clothe clean him car smh |
Romance › Re: Chocolate Skin by Phenomenal16(f): 8:34pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
[quote author=MYSTIC19 post=86459657][/quote]..they do Just DAT imitation is everywhere |