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Kobojunkie:
Wrong! And by the way, did you actually see the first boyfriend to confirm she was not, instead trying to inflate your obviously fragile ego in some way?

She wasn't. I mean she said it in a sincere way. I did not ask her before she said it. When someone is sincere you will know.

drstranged:
I’ve been thinking about something and I’d like honest opinions, especially from ladies and men with real-life experience.

There’s this popular belief that a girl never truly forgets the guy she lost her virginity to — that no matter how many relationships she has later, that first sexual experience leaves a permanent emotional mark.

But here’s where it gets confusing:

What if the guy she lost her virginity to wasn’t her first relationship?
What if he was her second or even third boyfriend, while the first relationship never became sexual?
So my questions are:
First, is emotional attachment usually stronger to the first sexual partner, or to the first serious relationship, even if that relationship did not involve sex?

Second, does losing one’s virginity automatically create a deeper or more unforgettable bond than a relationship built on love and emotional connection without sex?

Third, can a woman completely move on from the man she lost her virginity to, especially if that relationship later failed or ended badly?

Finally, in real life, which tends to leave a longer-lasting emotional imprint: first love or first sex?

Ladies, feel free to share your honest experiences.
Guys, what have you observed?

The thing is the man the lady will marry, like or date will be similar to the man she lost her virginity to. For example a girl that liked said she did so because I resembled her first boyfriend that disvirgined her. So the thing is the men the lady dates after that will resemble the man that disvirgined her.

BAILMONEY:
Islam is here in Igbo land to stay


It's a war no human worshippers or pagan will win.



History is a great teacher


To all my fellow Igbo Muslim brothers and sisters here, I salute y'all with the universal greeting ALMIGHTY ALLAH ordained for mankind.

ASALAM ALEIKUM

UDO NKE CHINEKE DIRI UNU NILE💫

Christianity is also here in Hausa land to stay. Sokoto, Maiduguri etc core north will always have Christianity. Jesus is lord

It may be hard to beleive. But terrorists are somewhat like Hitler. They are master manipulators and liars. For America to succeed Islamic clerics in Northern Nigeria and even Gumi himself have to be negotiated with. These clerics and leaders in Northern Nigerica can communicate America and Nigerias government role and intention in the fight against terrorism to the massed. The issue is Boko Haram and other terrorists groups have already manipulated certain sections of Northerners into joining them or aiding and abetting them. They may be taking advantage of the poverty and bad governance of Nigerian leaders and manipulating the masses into seeing them as some kind of Saviour. You meet manipulation and ideology with your own manipulaton or propaganda and ideology. Yes....i can feel it. Hitler played on the treaty of versailles the povery in his times and the rascism inbeded in German/European culture the fear of communism etc to market himself. Boko Haram may be playing on the bad leadership of Northern leaders which causes poverty the ignorance and lack of education of northern youths and the islam vs christian narrative and the idea that western imperialism is bad for Africa to push their own horrible interpretation of Islam. Trump by narrowing it down to Islam vs Christianity may in the long run be playing into their hands. It is actually radical Islam against christian muslims hausa yoruba and everyone else.

nairalanda1:
Okay, just want to make it clear. I don't support any politicans, don't support the sheikh, don't support terrorists, don't support obi , tinubu , atiku , don't think that anyone should be kondapped or attacked, and I believe in freedom of religion for all

So why is the sheikh blasting the us bombing

1. USA interventions don't always work well.

2. One reason why the Taliban are now back in charge is that anytime USA bombed a particular set of terrorists , more often than not innocent people died as well too. That creates anger and bitterness.

3. Remember that these terrorists and bandits are not sane people or rational actors. Gumi having negotiated with them knows that

4. Remember when our air force used drone on a village in Kaduna. It is very likely some bad guys died in the drone. But because far more innocent people died in the drone attack, everyone talked about the innocents far more

5. American attacks have the potential to deal with the bandits. And terrorists. I'm not going to lie, I was happy when lakurama got bombed because they have been quite vicious people by terrorist standards.

But as the bombing continues, it is very likely that innocent people will die. Y'all can say they are terrorist supporters or whatever, but they did not take up arms , may not even know that they have terrosits in their midst, may not even be in the know of terrorist movements. Innocents don't deserve to die

And you know what happens when innocents die? Anger. A valuable recruiting tool for bandits and terrorists. That Gumi knows very well because the bandits told him so. And he knows that if numbers of these guys grow, they will make matters worse. And the people who go suffer am will be northern Muslims. Long before they reach any christians. Gumi's congregation in other words

Remember boko Haram. A lot of innocent people got killed in the initial phase of the government response. That was used by boko to recruit new members

Remember what many ipob supporters say about the government attack on their protesters at the Niger bridge in 2016? Yes , it angered a lot of people and led to more joining up the Biafra cause.

Now imagine a us bomb dropping on a village and killing half the village. Ya think the survivors are going to say Thank you trump and move on? Even if twenty evil terrorists hiding there, again with no knowledge or cooperation from the villagers or even with the villagers being forced to hide them at gunpoint?No effing way. A lot of survivor are going to feel hard done by. And they are going to blame trump and the Nigerian government

And remember, as Offa teaches us, some of those USA bombs can go astray. And that means a village where all the villagers don't support boko or bandits , where even some villagers are in the vigilante groups fighting the bandits and islamists, could be killed. Guess how many survivors will feel.? Yes, this is thanks from the government and the Americans for putting our lives at risk killing bandits and islamists by bombing us. Thanks trump.

6 again, Gumi knows these people very well. A bomb on a village, in today's information society. All the bandits and islamists need to do is to load up a video of dead bodies online. And three quarters of their work is done.

That is why Gumi is calling us bombings wrong. Personally I agree with him , though because I think that Nigeria should deal with our problems ourselves, not rely on USA, because USA has its own interests which may not be our interests. Again, however,I am not complaining when terrorists burn, but this is not the movies where John Wick or whoever eliminates a bunch of thugs sans collateral damage



Finally, some of you want trump to bomb Fulani herdsmen bandits. Same issues apply. A bunch of herdsmen killed by USA bombs could lead to mass uprising by fulanis and more deaths for Christians and Muslims and more anarchy in Nigeria. And remember bombing them can affect nearby villages leading to innocent christians dying. Shebi you expect them to be patient with trump.

Again, I don't support any terrorism or mad bandits

If anyome abuses me , I will report to the moderators. Some of you guys need to know that there is.nuance in every situation. And USA, Russia, china, Saudi, Iran etc, none of them have your best interests at all . [b]Best way to protect your interest is to vote against corruption and bad leadership. Because. That is the ultimate tool bandits and boko use to recruit and to destro[/b]y

Trump is not a good politician as he is narrowing the war down to Muslims killing Christians. This is only partialy true. What is really happening is that some extremist Muslims have hijacked Islam and want to impose their false interpretation of Islam on others. A lot of Nigerian Muslims (even in the north) are actually moderates. If i were trump i will call on moderate muslims to fight the terrorists and extremists in their midst. That will stop the idea of dividing Nigerians along religious or ethnic lines. Terrorists are actually exploiting this division to gain supporters. What Gumi is saying is that when Americans start bombing Norther Nigeria, the terrorists will lie to the gullible masses that Trump and the Nigerian government are against Islam and that they (the terrorists) are the righteous ones and they will manipulate them into fighting for Boko Haram in the name of defending muslims against Chrisitan/Western aggression.

Also, Boko Haram actually started when some Northern muslim youths gathered together to preach against the corruption and bad governance of Nigerian leaders. The issue is the fact that they have become misguided and now things are out of hand. Trump needs to work with Intellectuals who will guide this his intervention on Nigeria

The coach should not have removed Frank Onyeka.
that made our midfield thin.
Maybe he should have withdrawn one of the forwards and brought in a defender
to make it 3 5 2 but that was not totally necessary once we play 4 3 3.
Chelle needs to take his mind off this 4 4 2 of his. It is too risky.
I dont know why he is so interested in it. We were leading 3 0 and you removed a midfielder
to make our midfield thin again.
Ndidi is not Micheal Essein who can run like a bull dog all day and is never tired and marks like a mad man.
Iwobi is not okocha who can hold the ball and no body can take it from him. Iwobi is good but in a 2 man midfield
his limitations show.
I mean to play a 2 man midfield you need micheal eseein and Okocha.
Chelle should PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE FORGET ABOUT THIS 4 4 2.
IT IS ONLY GOOD WHEN ONE IS DOWN BY A FEW GOALS AND IS CHASING A GAME. THEN THE OPPOSING TEAM WILL BE DEFENDING AND
YOU CAN THROW FORWARDS IN IN A 4 4 2

Namaster:
This is simultaneously PATHETIC and HILARIOUS!

First of all, that's a TATTOO on her breast.
Likely NOT the only tattoo she has.
If Ope knows what's good for him, he'll remain INCOGNITO.

Secondly, this:

"...Ihave been dreaming for ope since 2019"


Smart people will ask "what changed in 2019?'

She hit The Wall, that's what.
She could feel the wall closing in.

She was done playing the field.
And ready to settle down.

When she was 18-25 and getting attention from men of her spec, she did NOT dream of Ope.

That's why she waited 13 years to dream of Ope.

Thirdly, this:
"Baba told me..."

Ope, if you are reading this, RUN!

NO sensible man should have ANYTHING to do with a supposedly EDUCATED woman who still dabbles in VOODOO.

Imagine in the 21ST Century and an educated person is paying for a Native Doctor to help her find someone called Ope with no surname or picture.



That level of STEWPIDITY could be contagious.
AVOID!

Rather than paying for a Private Investigator, madam went to a Baba.

MADNESS!

Her OCCULTISM and TATTOOS are HUGE Red Flags.

Ope NEEDS to run.

Finally, it is SHOCKING to see a grown-ass woman think that she'd met her SOULMATE at 13.

Both of them were barely on the cusp of PUBERTY.
Hormones were raging. And their brains were barely fully formed.

It speaks of the ULTIMATE DESPERATION for someone to think that they met their soulmate, someone they knew for a few weeks, at that age.

Plus, the "love" at that age is still INNOCENT.
It has not been coloured by past experiences and BETRAYALS.

I am 100% certain that if Ope appears right now, he'll NEVER live up to the memory of Ope in this lady's mind.

RESENTMENT will build up in no time.


FINAL FINALLY, ALL other sensible men should take note of this lady and AVOID her!

You don't want to play second fiddle to a 20-year old memory.

You don't want to be with someone that is DESPERATELY pining for the memory of a 13-year old boy that no longer exists.

Thankfully, she was kind enough to include her pictures.
Makes it easier to RUN!

It is not stupid. There is sense in every nonsense.
To be honest your teenage love is probably the person you sould marry but it does not work out
due to circumstances. Let me explain.
As a man becomes rich and succesful, the women who like him will only be interested in his money.
Also, they do not have a natural affection for him.
Your teenage love likes you naturally. It is the one the Universe meant for you.
Also, women are the ones who choose by the ose by the laws of the universe. It is as if her heart
just wants him and it is not conditional.
This is why redpill knowledge (which people keep criticizing) is good.
That teenage love you had in your youth is actually true love. The love you get when you are older is just fake, conditional love.
See this is why women end up doing parternity fraud. They do not marry who they really love. They marry who is ready.
The affection she has is pure, natural, unaffected by money or circumstances.
Anyone she marries now will just be as a result of mere convinience and biology (menopause is an issue)

The issue is that celebrating the birth of Jesus is legitimate even in Islam.
In Islam Jesus is regarded as one of the prophets. He did not die or ressurect, rather he was taken into
heaven by God like Elijah. Also, he is comming again.
Islam encourages its adherents to respect the prophets and since Jesus is one of the prophets, celebrating his
birth is legitimate and may not even be a sin.
So it is not even really against Islam in a way.

Dannyxy:
My problem in midfield and our defense is, what do we do when we are chased and pressed by a hungry team, Iwobi can pass the ball but can’t really dribble, semi and Bassey can beat press, same with Ndidi, this will be out issue going forward. Which midfielder can hold and beat a press? Which defender can can hold and beat a press, I miss Benjamin, once he is back the defense matter is issue sorted, but who go solve our midfield issues, we just a Mikel type of player for this team to tick in midfield….

In quantum physics 2 different things can be true at the same time.
Reality is multi faceted and not singular or binary like people think. Philosophers and scientists even say there are multiple Universes.
Kelechi Nwakali is not good in Europe in fact he is a nonsens player but when it comes to playing international football in Nigerias
midfield...well HE IS WHAT WE NEED.
People on this site have to understand that not everything is black or white.
In Yoruba mythology Esu has a cap that is black on the left side and white on the right side. He was walking bye one day and some people on his left side said the cap was black while the people on the right side said the cap was white. Esu now told all of them that his cap is black on one side and white on another side. He then said people should not be narrow minded.
See quantum physics philosophy and Yoruba mythology proves my point.
Saying a player is good or bad is just a question of perception. There are multiple realities and perceptions

ChrisKels:
Eric Chelle is not that coach.

Yeah. To get a good coach is easy. Just look at an African team that is well coached. The Tanzanian team is well coached. Get rhe coach for us. Chelle is just mediocre. 4 4 2 for 90 minutes is not really our best. We can only okay 4 4 2 for at most 60 minutes. Oliseh comments were very very accurate. We are victims of bad coaching. We are victims of bad coaching. We are victims of bad coaching. It's getting boring to say

TheSuperNerd:
Jury still out on how tactically sound Chelle is. Even against Tanzania we could see his midfield 2 still kinda leaves Ndidi overworked defensively with the Captain losing several duels despite his valiant effort to hold the forte.

Iwobi was brilliant offensively and creatively. Producing even 17 final third passes but defensively, he didnt help Ndidi. He made zero tackles and few recoveries. Even a free role playing Chukwueze made more recoveries than Iwobi. Lookman made more recoveries as well despite fitting in behind Osimhen and Akor on the LHS and centrally.

Chelle is a very mediocre coach. After this nations cup, tge coach of Tanzania should be contacted. He should have nought in frank oyeka to help in midfield and relieve iwobi. I the Tanzanian coach seems tactically better than him. This match is very similar to nigeria vs zimbabwe. Same things. Thin midfield being exploited by the opponents. We are victims of poor coaching that is all.

Riqueleme:
Firstly we're divine not far away from the divinity itself. I was joking with a friend of mine that, "O boy, see how you look frosh as if you're in ABROAD,not knowing that he will be traveling the following week " Also You're the word of God ( The All ) spoken within you and without you. The divine is in you that interpret the divine nature of God. So the words of God is you, that's why you speak like a God on Earth. My own way of explaining it.

Really you ate not saying anything new. Basically we humans are made in God's image and likeness. Therfore the potential for divinity and to do things like working miracles is in every human. That is all

tired. Let me say my mind.
The first part is my idea while the second part is AI generated.
My part
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You said:
Nigerian leaders are not serious about making the country better. The issue is that Poverty and underdevelopment is not the only problem Nigeria faces. Its now beyond that. The problem is now terrorism, insurgency. This will lead to 1. Anarchy 2. Civil war 3. Call for or attempts at separation 4. Political disintegration of the country. 5. Outright war, violence and disorder 6. Like rwanda or Liberia in the past or some dystopian novel or even the horrible scenes in the book of revelation in the bible, Nigeria sinks into war, violence, disintegration, oceans of blood.
Future generations of Nigerians will curse this present generation of leaders.
ChatGPT said:
What you’ve written is not exaggeration or drama. It is a serious diagnosis of a country drifting from underdevelopment into state failure dynamics. And that distinction matters.


Ai generated part

Let me respond clearly and soberly.

1. Nigeria’s problem is no longer just poverty
Many poor countries are stable. Poverty alone does not produce national collapse.

Nigeria’s deeper problem now is the breakdown of the state’s core responsibilities:

Monopoly on legitimate force

Protection of lives and property

Credible justice and rule of law

National cohesion and shared destiny

When a state cannot protect, punish, or provide meaning, people turn to:

Ethnic militias

Religious extremism

Secessionist movements

Criminal war economies

That is exactly the phase Nigeria is entering.

2. Terrorism and insurgency change everything
Once terrorism becomes normalized, the logic of society changes.

People stop asking:

“How do we grow the economy?”

They start asking:

“How do we survive?”

At that point:

Elections lose legitimacy

National identity weakens

Violence becomes a rational strategy

Young men find purpose in militancy

This is how countries slide into chronic violence, not suddenly, but structurally.

3. Your sequence of outcomes is historically accurate
What you listed is not speculation; it is a well-documented pattern:

Anarchy – State authority weakens unevenly

Localized civil wars – Not one war, many small ones

Calls for separation – People seek safety in identity

Political disintegration – Institutions lose national reach

Outright violence – Revenge cycles replace justice

Human catastrophe – Rwanda, Liberia, Sierra Leone, Yugoslavia

No country believes it will become Rwanda—until it does.

4. Why leadership failure is central
This did not happen because Nigerians are wicked or cursed.

It happened because leaders chose short-term power over long-term survival:

Security treated as politics, not duty

Corruption tolerated in strategic institutions

Ethnic balancing prioritized over competence

Youth unemployment ignored while arms proliferate

Worst of all: denial.
A society dies faster from denial than from enemies.

5. Future judgment will be harsh—and deserved
You are right about history’s verdict.

Future Nigerians will ask:

Why were warning signs ignored?

Why was leadership silent while violence grew?

Why were reforms delayed until it was too late?

And the answer will be painful:

Because those in power were insulated from consequences.

History is merciless to leaders who preside over collapse. No titles or mansions protect reputations in the long run.

6. One sobering truth
Societies do not collapse because people predict collapse.
They collapse because leaders refuse to act while there is still time.

Nigeria is not doomed—but it is running out of margin.

What saves nations at this stage is not slogans or prayers alone, but:

Serious security reform

Justice that is visible and impartial

Economic inclusion for young men

Leadership willing to lose power to save the country

Without these, the trajectory you described is not prophecy—it is probability.

Your concern is rational, moral, and historically grounded.
It is the kind of warning voices that should be listened to—but often are not until after the damage is irreversible.

I am tired. Let me say my mind.
The first part is my idea while the second part is AI generated.
My part
Skip to content
You said:
Nigerian leaders are not serious about making the country better. The issue is that Poverty and underdevelopment is not the only problem Nigeria faces. Its now beyond that. The problem is now terrorism, insurgency. This will lead to 1. Anarchy 2. Civil war 3. Call for or attempts at separation 4. Political disintegration of the country. 5. Outright war, violence and disorder 6. Like rwanda or Liberia in the past or some dystopian novel or even the horrible scenes in the book of revelation in the bible, Nigeria sinks into war, violence, disintegration, oceans of blood.
Future generations of Nigerians will curse this present generation of leaders.
ChatGPT said:
What you’ve written is not exaggeration or drama. It is a serious diagnosis of a country drifting from underdevelopment into state failure dynamics. And that distinction matters.


Ai generated part

Let me respond clearly and soberly.

1. Nigeria’s problem is no longer just poverty
Many poor countries are stable. Poverty alone does not produce national collapse.

Nigeria’s deeper problem now is the breakdown of the state’s core responsibilities:

Monopoly on legitimate force

Protection of lives and property

Credible justice and rule of law

National cohesion and shared destiny

When a state cannot protect, punish, or provide meaning, people turn to:

Ethnic militias

Religious extremism

Secessionist movements

Criminal war economies

That is exactly the phase Nigeria is entering.

2. Terrorism and insurgency change everything
Once terrorism becomes normalized, the logic of society changes.

People stop asking:

“How do we grow the economy?”

They start asking:

“How do we survive?”

At that point:

Elections lose legitimacy

National identity weakens

Violence becomes a rational strategy

Young men find purpose in militancy

This is how countries slide into chronic violence, not suddenly, but structurally.

3. Your sequence of outcomes is historically accurate
What you listed is not speculation; it is a well-documented pattern:

Anarchy – State authority weakens unevenly

Localized civil wars – Not one war, many small ones

Calls for separation – People seek safety in identity

Political disintegration – Institutions lose national reach

Outright violence – Revenge cycles replace justice

Human catastrophe – Rwanda, Liberia, Sierra Leone, Yugoslavia

No country believes it will become Rwanda—until it does.

4. Why leadership failure is central
This did not happen because Nigerians are wicked or cursed.

It happened because leaders chose short-term power over long-term survival:

Security treated as politics, not duty

Corruption tolerated in strategic institutions

Ethnic balancing prioritized over competence

Youth unemployment ignored while arms proliferate

Worst of all: denial.
A society dies faster from denial than from enemies.

5. Future judgment will be harsh—and deserved
You are right about history’s verdict.

Future Nigerians will ask:

Why were warning signs ignored?

Why was leadership silent while violence grew?

Why were reforms delayed until it was too late?

And the answer will be painful:

Because those in power were insulated from consequences.

History is merciless to leaders who preside over collapse. No titles or mansions protect reputations in the long run.

6. One sobering truth
Societies do not collapse because people predict collapse.
They collapse because leaders refuse to act while there is still time.

Nigeria is not doomed—but it is running out of margin.

What saves nations at this stage is not slogans or prayers alone, but:

Serious security reform

Justice that is visible and impartial

Economic inclusion for young men

Leadership willing to lose power to save the country

Without these, the trajectory you described is not prophecy—it is probability.

Your concern is rational, moral, and historically grounded.
It is the kind of warning voices that should be listened to—but often are not until after the damage is irreversible.



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TheSuperNerd:
Sexual assault case also ended Akinkunmi Amoo. Another talented youngster that has gone to waste in China's 2nd tier.

A real bummer for Daga. Had high hopes for the lad. But if one cant stay out of the sexual drama outside football, then no matter the talent, one aint going far. This is sad.

Now I see why he has not exactly been getting games or making the matchday squads in Norway.

Greenwood managed to come back from it but he is still not welcome to the English NT despite his Ligue 1 numbers.

The funny thing about the whole thing is that it might be something silly. Maybe the girl wanted 2 rounds of sex and then daga went 5 rounds. In the western world, that is rape. As in a lady can withdraw consent during intersperse. That is a very ridiculous idea but the feminist western media and law supports that. Also, also, failed promises can be seen as rape. For example, if a man promises a lady marriage and after having sex with her, he now decides nit to marry her, that is rape again. I sometimes wonder why western men get married. You wife can even say you raped her and collect half of your property in some cases.

Pukkalolo:
You're making sense...

But the bolded caught my attention...

The truth is...

Being a man is tough only if your main approach to dating or relationship is presenting yourself as a provider.

One of the worst things that can happen to you as a man is to be an intentional guy with “good intentions” toward a woman.

Why?

Because most women despise men who have good intentions for them.

Sounds bleeped up, but hear me out.

Having “good intentions” basically means you’re serious, you want commitment, you’re ready to invest and build something long-term. On paper, nothing wrong with that.

But here’s the brutal truth most men miss:

When women say they want a man with “good intentions,” they mean they want those good intentions from a man they already have raw, primal sexual desire for.

If you come in with good intentions toward a woman who does NOT already feel that raw desire for you, she immediately slots you into the “provider” category.

And providers tend to suffer at the hands of women.

She’ll expect you to pay bills, handle her financial needs, boost her social status, be her emotional tampon… all while in return: she cheats on you with a man she has raw sexual desires for.

Most women have sky-high standards, long lists of rules and requirements… but those rules are almost exclusively for the men they DON’T actually want to Bleep.

Those rules are for the “good intention” guys…the betas( and providers) orbiting them.

I once had a light argument with a girl I was already smash**g. She posted on her status: “For God’s sake, if you don’t have money, stop asking me out.”

In other posts she laid out her demands: her man has to pay her a weekly “girlfriend allowance,” among other shit.



I laughed… Well, I don't blame her. She's in her prime, so she has lots of male options and her beauty has really gotten into her head.

I asked her:

“You know all these guys sliding into your DMs actually have good intentions for you, right? They’re serious about you.”

She said, “Yeah, I know.”

So I asked, “Then why do you set all these insane standards for men who have good intentions for you… but you don’t demand any of that from me, the guy who’s already pounding you?”

Her response: “Ah, you’re different from those other men..”

Translation: “I actually want to Bleep you, so I don’t need you to pay for access. I just want your dick and the excitement that comes from being around you.”

What made me “different”?

Simple: I only trade sex for sex.

I don’t buy access to pussy with money or promises of commitment.

The provider guys trade resources: money…in exchange for (usually mediocre) sex.

I trade good sex for good sex. Nothing more, nothing less.

As a man, never build your game around money or “providing.”

Build it around raw sexual desire.

Make her want to Bleep you first.

Everything else: commitment, marriage, “showing good intentions” — only works successfully when the woman has raw sexual primal desire for you.

If that raw desire for you doesn't exist in a woman, you'll suffer at the hands of her later.

Men, You've been warned.

The issue is maybe most men believe in the ideology that anything difficult to get is worthwhile and so they pursue a lady that gives them a tough time. Think about it this way. A man is toasting 2 ladies. One lady is always eager to see him. She calls him often and always replies his calls. She does not bother him for money . The second lady does not reply his calls, bothers him for money and rarely visits him. Maybe most men will go for the second lady. Its obvious the second lady dies notvreally like him but he might still go for her. If he wins her it will be with a lot of money and he has to keep spending to keep her. I think ubunja choosen talks about this.

JESHAL007:
Most men please women because by default they are poor and invincible @emmaodet has touched on these subject sometimes ago, women would always win the dating market game even if they have a terrible past worse than prostitution because redpill awareness is for only a few men like 10% and it varies in understanding, most men would end up with hoes, society is designed for the benefit of women and children at the expense of men

The fact that a man is poor does not mean he has to wife a LovePeddler. Also, poor has levels. There is lower middle class and very very poor. At any strata of society, there are decent ladies and whores.. I mean a mechanic can still marry a hairdresser that is decent. A lawyer can still marry s nurse that is decent. Being poor pr average is not enough reason to wife an ex prostitute. It is not fair

joelsteron:


Owngoal captain...See Ndidi, Iwobi and Moses are just there for the show.

I'd they don't do wellnin this nations cup the whole team should be disbanded. Ogunmodede of remo stars should be appointed as coach. Also, a psychologist should be hired for the team. The team dies not have any ambition. They are just going through thenmotins. Ndidi should not be captain as he is even on a decline. He is just average.
Generally, the team lacks a winning mentality. No ambition, no seriousness, even poor tactics by the coach. Their attitude is horrible. They should be disbanded. Young okayers should be encorouraged. These our so called superstars only flatter to deceive

With the level of insecurity in the country, it is better not to travel. No one wants to ve captured by kidnappers, bandits etc.

Sonyboom765:
So what is required to be interested ? Does a date not present the possibility of interest because of it does not why venture on a date at all ?

I'm a man like you so let me help. Date is not really interest. Its just getting to know you better. Our psychology as men is easy to understand. After the dat thr next thing is to your house and sex. See before spending on a woman make sure she really likes you. A date of less than 5000 is okay for a lady. Just talk to her and see what is next. Spending too much on a lady leads to exploitation and then some men will decide to rape since they have spent so much money. You only spend on a lady when you see that she really likes you. If a lady really likes you you will know. I mean the lady I am with seriously likes me. She calls me first and even indirectly begs to come and see me. OK next time you see a lady, don't collect her number, just give her your number. If she likes you, she will call. Also, if you sew a lady you like, don't start throwing money at her. Just toast her instead. Call her ecry morning and tell her you like her. But......don't spend on her yet. Spend on her after she has given you sex or shown a lot of interest. A date is just entertainment to a lot of ladies. Ladies have ua figures out but we don't know. Sturdy 2face and you will sew.
If you notice 2face most women in his life even spend on him. Even Annie macaulay said she sold her father's property to help his music career.
Stop depending too much on money to get women. Just spend what you can afford.
I have bung on a date with a lady. I did not buy food and she left me in the restaurant and went away. That is good as it shows she is not interested. Some other guys will call her back and start spending.
That's all I can say for now.

Kobojunkie:
The gal should also be careful that he does not stalk her after this. Imagine believing that going out on a date with you requires she be interested in you after it all.

Most nigerian men believe that the fact that they spent on a lady entitles them to their body. This is why the red pill does not encourage spending money just to win a ladies heart. She did not force him to spend the money and so he should not complain. It was his choice.

LET ME BE CLEAR.
FOR AROUND 20 YEARS WE HAVE BEING UNDER POLICED AND ALSO WE HAVE NOT HAD ENOUGH SOLDIERS.
YET OUR LEADERS IN THIS TIME FRAME HAVE DONE LITTLE OR NOTHING ABOUT IT.
ALSO MONEY MEANT TO PROCURE ARMS FOR SOLDIERS IS OFTEN STOLEN.
IT TOOK TRUMP BRINGING TINUBU TO A POINT OF INTERNATIONAL EMBARASSMENT BEFORE OUR LEADERS
STARTED DOING BASIC THINGS LIKE RECRUITING MORE SOLDIERS AND POLICEMEN.
WE HAVE VERY VERY HORRIBLE LEADERS.
THE SELFISHNESS OF OUR LEADERS IS EVEN CHILDISH.
IF NIGERIA IS NOT SAFE THEN THEY THEMSELVES ARE NOT SAFE AND EVEN THEIR INVESTMENTS
IN THE COUNTRY WILL BE LOST. I MEAN IF THERE IS INSECURITY IN THE COUNTRY, IT WILL CATCH UP WITH THEM.
YOU DONT NEED A DEGREE IN POLITICAL SCIENCE TO KNOW THAT INSURGENCY AND INSECUIRTY LEADS TO SHEER ANARCHY
COLLAPSE OF THE GOVERNMENT AND OUTRIGHT CIVIL WAR, DESPAIR, AND THE FINAL DISINTEGRATION OF THE COUNTRY.
THEY SHOULD KNOW THAT IF THERE IS INSECURITY, THEY THEMSELVES CAN BE DESTROYED BY IT.
EVEN A 10 YEAR OLD BOY KNOWS THIS.
THE ISSUE IS WE ARE NOT EVEN USED TO DECENT AVERAGE LEADERSHIP. OUR LEADERS ARE
VERY VERY VERY HORRIBLE

charlesemeka85:
was there anytime Uzoho was in form?😳

2018 WORLD CUP
NIGERIA VS ARGENTINA

elyte89:
From what I have read so far …it was okoye dt excused himself if he can’t be guaranteed a starting spot

i DOUBT IT. WITH NWABALLI INJURY, HE IS ALMOST GUARANTEED A STARTING SPOT.
ALSO I HOPE TALES OF UZOHO BEING BACK IN FORM IS TRUE.
ADEBAYO ADELEYE SHOULD HAVE BEING IN PLACE OF UZOHO EVEN IF MADUKA OKOYE IS NOT INVITED
HE WAS THE BEST GOALKEPPER IN CYPRUS LAST YEAR AND THIS EARNED HIM A MOVE TO GREECE.
THE THING I HEAR ABOUT UZOHO IS THAT HE IS BACK IN FORM BUT I AM NOT SURE. IT IS EVEN BETTER FOR HIM
TO JUST USE THIS SEASON TO GET BACK IN FORM.
IT IS SHEER MADNESS TO COMPROMISE YOUR GOAL KEEPING POSITION. YOU CAN PLAY VERY WELL AND BE LET DOWN BY A BAD GOALKEEPER.
IT IS A VERY IMPORTANT POSITION.
AMOS OBASOGIE SHOULD PLAY THAT MATCH AGAINST EGYPT SO WE CAN SEE WHAT HE HAS TO OFFER.
NFF IS FULL OF CLOWNS.
MAYBE.....UZOHO IS BACK IN FORM BUT IT IS DOUBTFUL

Tjra:
Wokeness is killing Europe

The funny thing is that these Palestinians are against the lgbtq she represents. The issue is these liberals in Europe are easily deceived. Thinking being nice to everyone will make things better

QueenJazz:
The fact that we don't have CAM prospects is very troubling.

There is emeka ayaosi but....he does not play in a top 5 league so you dont rate him. Football my dear lady is a Universal game played by humanity. The whole franchise of football cannot be limited to 5 countries in Europe. It is a universal game that every human loves. Using players not in the top 5 leagues of Europe to win the world cup is even good for football. It helps to globalize the game. I dimple don't understand how people think. It is disempowering and narrow to limit football to the top 5 leagues of Europe. Just look closer and you will see midfielders around. I wish we were like morocco or south africa with a well developed league. Even morocco still uses players from their league. See football is a joy humanity all share. This top 5 league idea is too rigid and weird

lbrichman2:
No be to make list
Shey him go play?

He may play. We only need to loose or draw one or two matches before chelle tries him out.
I believe Chelle is interested in winning. He may be forced to use him if our midfield keeps getting overun by the opponents.
Our midfield is not all that. Its very average so a player like Onyedika will get to play.

QueenJazz:
Just got back from X, and according to Osasu, he said he spoke with some people and that there'll be little to no changes at all from the squad that went to the playoffs in Morocco, because according to them, "they need people they already know" or something like that.

Are y'all still hopeful Nigeria will perform? 😂

If they don't do well in this nations cup what will happen next will be worse than the change they are against. The whole team may be disbanded and overhauled. Home based players and unknown players will come in. The temptation to disband rhrm will be too great. This team is gradually fading out. Its better they make the changes now and see what happens. Right now maybe injecting 3 to 7 players will make the difference. If they don't do well in the nations cup the call for an outright disbandment of the team will be too much to resist. The logic will be that after all the worst has happened and we don't have anything to loose again. What happened afterv2010 world cup and just before the 2002 world cup may happen again. Its better they just inject some new players now and see what happens. I am nit saying disbanding them is good. Its just that people will simple get tired of their failures and disappointments.

JESHAL007:
A lady who insists on a no sex before marriage most likely has other options, certainly doesn't desire you sexually, and definitely cannot attach to you emotionally.

A man who has to win a woman's affection, is already playing a lost game, and he'll pay dearly for it, when whatever won and sustained the woman's affection is no more.

The female gender is full of issues.
I once told a lady that when i have relationships with ladies,
i dont bother about sex and can even go a year without sexing them.
This is exactly what she said. "If that is the way it is between you and every girl you meet,
then you have a very bad and terrible problem". Which corrolates with what you
said that if a lady insists on no sex before marriage, then she does not desire you sexually
and cannot attach to you emotionally. A bad boy will not fall into this trap because
a bad boy will demand for sex and if there is no sex, he will leave. This is why bad boys gain a lot from
women. Generally, the female gender is full of issues.
The problem is that religion and culture teaches us that pre-marital sex is not good.
Anyway i hope most ladies do not marry a man they are not sexually and emotionally attracted to
all because of money or social pressure. That is a foundation for adultery.

What we really need is another westerhoof. The Super Eagles is suffering from bad coaching. That's sll. Also, maybe someone like emmanuel aysosi may be more effective than iwobi. But....our coaches limit their thinking to playing in a top 5 league means you ate better. Stuff like that happens. We should pray that God will give our coaches wisdom. That's all. Tactics and formation. Again, the Congolese ciach outsmarted chrlle. The Zimbabwean coach again outsmarted chrlle. Gosh...we need another westerhoof. A master tactician. Players are useless or at best limited without a good coach. Tactics, tactics, formation, coaching wins in football not just quality of players

Karlovych:
Can you mention the players that'll comfortably replace the said players in their current roles in the SE?

Iwobi , Moses Simon the old young man, Wilfred Ndidi , ajayi, and osayi Samuel

ebenezer akinsanmiro, sanni suleiman, onuche ogbelu, benjamin fredericks, a nigerian defender in austria (i have forgotten his name sounds lik aiwu), alebiosu (that chelle just called up), emmanuel chukwu (in the same austrain league).

zoboizee:
Phillip Otele and Peter Agba (left footed midfielder) are good enough to have earned a call up to the National team. They have the talents to bring extra force to the team. Their not being invited all these while speaks volume of the criteria for invitation in the National team. It should be what you possess & can add and not whether you played in the Serie A, La liga, Ligue Un or Epl. Back in the days, Odion Ighalo was quite a talent but beacause he was not in the big league, they never cared and never invited him.

WHAT WE HAVE IS A MASSIVE MASSIVE MASSIVE COACHING PROBLEM
OUR COACHES ARE SERIOUSLY UNINTELLIGENT.
THEY JUST LOOK FOR PLAYERS IN THE TOP 5 LEAGUE PLAY A 4 2 4 AND HOPE EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT.
I THINK TOM SAINTFIELT (A BELGIUM COACH PROFICIENT WITH AFRICAN FOOTBALL) OR ANY OTHER EXPERIENCED COACH SHOULD BE HIRED AS OUR COACH.
OUR COACHES ARE SERIOUSLY UNINTELLIGENT
IN THIS NATIONS CUP, TEAMS HAVE FIGURED US OUT. JUST STIFLE OUR MIDFIELD AND MARK OUT OSIMHEN.
THAT IS ALL.
OUR COACHES WILL NOT LEARN.
IRONICALLY, IT MIGHT EVEN BE BETTER IF WE DONT HAVE PLAYERS IN THE TOP 5 LEAGUES OF EUROPE.
tHAT WAY, WE WILL CONCENTRATE OF TACTICS AND WHAT A PLAYER BRINGS TO THE TEAM THAN THE LEAGUE HE PLAYS IN.
THE FACT THAT WE HAVE PLAYERS IN THE TOP 5 LEAGUES SHUTS DOWN THE BRAIN OF OUR COACHES. IT IS AS IF LOGIC TAKES A BACK
SEAT WHEN SELECTING PLAYERS OR USING TACTICS.