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SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 12:21pm On Jun 03
semid4lyfe:
1. I do not think Zadok is that good.

2. The EPL is too much step up in quality from the Swedish league. He will face better and more experienced defenders, better managers, better game play, formations and tactics being deployed by teams to nullify his threat.

3. The guy was basically an amateur footballer in Nigeria about a year ago, and as is typical of home-based players still needs lots of things coached into and out of him.

4. I consider Sweden to EPL as too much of a leap. I'll have preferred Sweden ➡️ Belgium, Sweden ➡️ Netherlands, Sweden ➡️ France, Sweden ➡️ Germany, Sweden ➡️ Spain route for him to develop better as a footballer.

5. The EPL does not develop players. Its a perform or burst league. It will either make or mar him.

Still, as one of ours, I wish him the best and hope he performs well in the league.
This umpatianec. This impatience. It will work if he has a coach that is patient with him and he is shielded from the English media. He dies not acore or assist in 5 matches and the nest thing is to call him a flop. He needs a coach who will disagree with all that. By his second season, he will pickup. At the same time, the coach or staff will work in any weaknesses in his game. He is only 18 and so why the hurry. A lot of great players were just ok at that age. As long as the coaching staff stand by him he will be okay. He plays a bad game and the coach insists he played well and fields him in the next game.
Christianity EtcRe: Accelerate Conference Returns With Oyedepo, Jerry Eze, Nathaniel Bassey & More by Philosopher1979: 5:37pm On Jun 02
Judaskwaku:
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Please we Christians need to gather and pray about the insecurity in the country. This is very very very urgent. The Bible says what we bind on earth is bound in heaven. We should not wait till terrorists blow up redemption camp or their mainland bridge. We should pray now. We need to organize prayer conference for the nation. Please this is urgent
RomanceRe: How I Slept With A Confirm Princess Thinking She's A Runs Girl by Philosopher1979: 3:21pm On Jun 02
Kalulu44:
I swear, if you see Davido when he was hanging out with them Wande Coal and trying to break thru, you will think he comes from a poor home
A more vivid example. Ojukwu the leader of the igbo during the civil war. His father was one of the richest men in Nigeria.
He joined the Nigerian army just to discover himself and have his identity
RomanceRe: How I Slept With A Confirm Princess Thinking She's A Runs Girl by Philosopher1979: 2:37pm On Jun 02
Kalulu44:
Guy thank you. Was I expecting any of them to believe me? Bcus of what I saw when she was dressed in princess robe. I then rmbr the reason why she didn't want me to know her name or contacts.
I name everywhere the incidents happened and they're still doubting me.
Where that club is situated back then has been bought by Alaba big boys who now turn it into shopping center.
.
See I am just starting, in my 45yrs of existence. My life stories are much especially as a transporter who moves from one place to the other.
Things like this can happen.
When someone is born into affluence it can seem like a trap. I don't know how to say it. But your whole life is controlled and you don't get to discover yourself.
Even davido had to break from his parents and follow his music career
RomanceRe: “if You’re Already 30, Just Find A Man To Impregnate You” – Lady Shares Controve by Philosopher1979: 12:22am On Jun 02
Samantha125:
Not every single woman wants children... Many women nowadays are choosing themselves over marriage and children.
What you are saying is good but.....at least women should endeavour to have children in
order to avoid population decline. This has become a problem in the western world as
they dont give birth to children and their nation or race is aging and practically dying out.
See, if logically women dont give birth to children the human race will die out so the freedom of women
movement needs some ammendment before some races or even the human race goes extinct.
Now, mariage is not needed for children. Once women have money they can just find a man to impregenate them
and if he is stressing them out, tell the man to get out of their life.
that is the importance of you women. Female emmancipation in trying to tell women not to be interested in
having children is making nations go extinct. That is another problem on its own.

In Judges 21 in the bible a tribe of Israel ran out of women and they had to get women to give birth or else, they would have become extinct.
Following a tragic civil war, the tribe of Benjamin was nearly wiped out, leaving roughly 600 surviving men but no women. Because the other tribes of Israel had previously taken a vow not to let any Benjaminites marry their daughters, they scrambled to find wives for the men so the tribe would not face extinction.To solve this, Israelite forces destroyed the town of Jabesh-gilead for failing to join the war, sparing 400 young virgin women to be wives
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 10:47pm On May 29
TheSuperNerd:
ICYMI: Benjamin Frederick was listed for this Unity Cup and June international window by Eric Chelle but Brentford requested against it since Benjy only just returned and is set to join them for preseason ahead of 2026/27 EPL campaign...

https://x.com/i/status/2060268377772343520
Wait...I suspect benjy can play in midfield. He fundamentally has a footballing brain
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 6:31pm On May 24
soetanoreoluwa:
I'm so happy it favour my shooting star (3sc) we are going for Intercontinental. Up shooting!
Wow!!!! Continental football is coming back to ibadan. Winderful.
Remember when shooting got into African club final in 1996. Ajibade babalade and co
EducationRe: 15 Courses In Nigeria Where First Class Is Not Optional by Philosopher1979: 8:50pm On May 23
Eastcoastboy:
In an era where all man is trying to and are actually cashing out from content creation you're still underrating Mass Communication?

Na outdated curriculum I blame. See Tobe szn that studied Law is busy creating content likewise several other people.

Think oh!
Anything journalism is valuable.
Society will even collapse withoyt journalist.
See it's not just the knowledge it's the way you apply it and how things work out.
Even now Nigerians badly need historianns
EducationRe: 15 Courses In Nigeria Where First Class Is Not Optional by Philosopher1979: 8:43pm On May 23
SmartyPants:
Tell us more: which organization do you know that will hire a first-class public admin grad over a 2:1 lawyer or engineer? Shed some light on your reasoning please.
Well, it depends. If it is an engineering or IT firm the engineering graduate will be preferred. I mean that's a science job and do if mtn needs network engineers a 2 1 in engineering will be preferred. They need someone to do technological stuff for them. Get it. It is how what you know can be used by the organization not just the fact that you got first class
EducationRe: 15 Courses In Nigeria Where First Class Is Not Optional by Philosopher1979: 8:40pm On May 23
Namaster:
Saying a First Class in Sociology is SUPERIOR to a 2.1 in Law is DELUSIONAL.

The courses listed by the OP are some of the MOST USELESS courses anybody can study in Nigeria TODAY.
Regardless of what they graduate with.

IF you have kids, mentees or siblings looking for admission; this is a perfect list of courses to AVOID.

Unless their main target is POVERTY and UNEMPLOYMENT.

Also, getting a First Class Degree in English is almost IMPOSSIBLE.

I attended a School that's nearly 40 years old and they'd NEVER had a First Class Graduate in their English Department.
Well well.
With the way terrorists want to destroy the country political scientists are badly needed. Also psychologists. Most people don't even understand tsuch personality issues like introversion, extroversion etc. also the issue of not imparting knowledge well is solved by applying psychology to education. It's not just acquiring knowledge but how you use it.
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 2:09pm On May 23
TheSuperNerd:
Arthur Okonkwo picks his all-time Nigeria XI and I wont lie, it is a killer team that can do wonders on the world stage (think WC Final) and win back to back to back to back to back Afcons.

GK - Vincent Enyeama

LB - Elderson Echiejile
LCB - Calvin Bassey
RCB - William Troost Ekong
RB - Ola Aina

MF - John Obi Mikel
MF - Wilfred Ndidi
MF - JJ Okocha

LW - Ademola Lookman
RW - Victor Moses

CF - Victor Osimhen.


Not a bad "Gen Z" pick Arthur. grin Solid lineup.
Sunday oliseh for Wilfred ndidi.
Then Stephen keshi or taribo West for william trust ekong
Celestine babayaro for elderson ehjiejile
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 6:43am On May 23
TheSuperNerd:
JJ Okocha named among the Best "Streets wont forget" players in an EPL series on the Premier League Channel featuring Current EPL players (like Bassey) and coaches.

Watch from 5.28 to 7.02....


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zg2idZmoehc?si=kJXx_t8-VciCAug8
Maybe okocha was born in the wrong era. He played football in a time where tactical discipline, statistics and science and end product were becoming part of football. The strange thing about okocha is he will make teams like.
1. The 1970 world cup Brazilian tram.
2. The 1982 world cup Brazilian teams.
3. In fact, the Brazilian teams of the peel era.
4. The 1970s dutch national team.
5. Generally any European team they plays with flair before 1990.
He will get into such teams and be more appreciated than he was.
That it.
Okocha is perhaps the most skillful footballer Africa has ever produced. His skills match up to that of those great Brazilians like oele, jarzinho, yes as skillful as garincha.
Brazilians will love this style of play
RomanceRe: “He Started Making Moves At Me.” – Lady Recounts Awkward Moment With Male Friend by Philosopher1979: 9:53pm On May 22
voortrekker966:
Women can't be friends with men. When can you all understand this biological fact? You can't lock a goat inside a barn and expect the goat to be looking at the yams just like that.
I get you. The real issue is that we have highly advanced brains with a backward 10000 year old biology. So we may have advanced brains that tell us to just be friends with the opposite sex but our crude biological sex drive and mating instinct is still part of our biological makeup so that conflict is still there.
I hope you get it
CrimeRe: Oyo School Abduction: Enough Of Sermons, Condolences — NLC Tells Tinubu by Philosopher1979: 4:17am On May 22
Cutezt:
I am always amazed at the outcry and noise everywhere when 3 or 4 people are killed in the South, meanwhile, everyone have completely turned blind eyes to what is happening in the middle belt, like, it's normal to kill 20 people there, no big deal about it, life goes on, no noise, no outcry, nothing!

As I speak to you, there is almost no night that passes without gun duels in the villages of the middle belt between these Islamic terrorists and the villagers, with lives lost every single day, yesterday, it was in Riyom, tomorrow it will be somewhere else, there is no outcry at all, but just touch 2 people down south, all the unions, VIP and everyone will find their voice, you can't teach this.

The demon you overlooked cos it is 'far' from you, is slowly but surely creeping up on you down south, the only thing stopping them from being in Lagos yet is because there is almost no thick bush to hide, but when they find a solution (which they will) expect them in the coming years.

If you don't speak out on the happenings in the middle belt, it's just a matter of time before they are in your house.
I totally agree with you. We Yoruba, igbo and people in the southern part of Nigeria are not actively speaking out against terrorism. This is a very selfish and myopic attitude. If you tell people in the South to campaign against terrorism they won't care. It has not dawned on us in the South that terrorism is a matter of if and not when.
It's as if people in northern or central Nigeria that are dying are not human beings. The attitude is irritating
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 9:07pm On May 16
TheSuperNerd:
Ethiopia vs Morocco U17s @U17Afcon2026

HT Ethiopia leads 1-0 but truthfully it should be 2-0 coz the ref denied a clear penalty despite checking VAR and also left a moroccan player in the game despite what looks like a red card offence. Even at U17 level, officiating is this bad in favor of the hosts, Morocco... make dem just stop this rubbish naa abeg. Abeg!!!
I WISH MOROCCO A BAD WORLD CUP AND I AM NOT SUPPORTING THEM FOR THIS WORLD CUP.
SEE IF I AM SENEGAL I WILL NOT RETURN THAT TROPHY AND IN ANGER WONT MIND PULLING OUT OF CAF.
YES.
I WONT BLAME SENEGAL IF THEY PULLED OUT OF CAF.
MOROCCO NEEDS TO STOP HOLDING AFRICAN FOOTBALL TO RANSOM
JUST BECAUSE THEY HAVE MONEY.
MAYBE SOMEONE SHOULD REPORT THEM TO FIFA.
MAYBE LIKE A GROUP WITHIN CAF.
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 8:46pm On May 16
TheSuperNerd:
Nigeria's Sharpshooter in La Liga. 10 Goals.

Akor Jerome Adams 🔥
LA LIGA IS VERY VERY COMPETITIVE THIS SEASON.
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TEAM THAT IS 7TH AND THE TEAM THAT IS 19TH IS ONLY 8 POINTS.
ITS STUNNING.
I WAS STUNNED WHEN I SAW THE COMPETIION.
OUTSIDE REAL MADRID AND BARCA TOPPING THE LEAGUE FREQUENTLY
THE COMPETION IS INTENSE FOR THE OTHER PLACES.
ITS ACTUALLY MORE COMPETITIVE THAN I MYSELF THOUGHT
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 7:36pm On May 13
I'm
MetalJigsaw:
First of all, I have never masturbated in my life. I can't even imagine myself doing that nonsense.

If you believe you can never attract a woman, but only to chase them, then you're either ugly, a simp or even both

As for me, I work on my physique (gyming), my game, personality and grooming which works for me so well that beautiful women crave my attention. You seem like the opposite by the way.
In the first place there is nothing even important about women no matter how beautiful they are. They are at only useful for having children. Even the sex is overrated. So one does not even need women for anything. Even self esteem. Women are just normal human beings. So why should a man bother himself with female attention. It's nonsense jo
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 5:52pm On May 11
elyte89:
U think say na everybody go mumu like Nigeria 🇳🇬…next year afcon will be very tough with the countries are snatching top talents ..gone re those days when those countries rely heavily on their home grown talent,now tides have changed, even small countries like eswatini 🇸🇿 are recruiting players from abroad
With all the great talent morocco had they needed penalties to beat us. We are also trying to get our own foreign born. First not all of them will play for us. Secondly not all of them are that good or excellent. Some of them are just average. Also our home grown talents are coming up nicely. So I don't get it.
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 6:37pm On May 10
TheSuperNerd:
Damn it! Pep would be delighted but VAR is showing Raya may have been fouled. Wow. What a moment.
For the sake of God I want arsenal to win the league and the champions league this season. The question is do they have the mental strength. Yes the winning mentality. It's at this stage we sekerate the men from the boys. Arsenal need to develop the winning mentality every big team has. I believe.
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 6:24pm On May 10
Sadiq Umar scores the winning goal for Valencia today
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 10:20pm On May 09
Goke7:
Story 😂 same thing that has been said for how many years now, pay cut all the time Una no Dey tire?
I dont answer questions but i must answer this one.
Age is not exactly on his side.
He has made his money now.
LET HIM GO FOR THE RECORD.
GOING FOR THE RECORD IS TIME BOUND
IN 2 YEARS TIME HE WILL BE CLOSE TO 30.
LET HIM CREATE A NAME.
WHEN HE IS OLD HE WILL REGRET THIS OPPORTUNITY HE IS LOOSING
HE HAS THE CHANCE TO BECOME GREATER THAN SAMUEL ETO AND DROGBA.
YES GREATER. LET HIM GO TO REAL MADRID AND BREAK EVERY RECORD THERE
I WANT HIM TO BREAK SAMUEL ETOS RECORD IN SPAIN AND THIS IS HIS CHANCE
FOOTBALL AND SPORTS IN GENERAL IS AGE PERFOMANCE RELATED AND I BET YOU
HE WILL REGRET IT. THE CHANCE IS THERE
HE WILL BE AN UNFULFILLE MAN IF HE DOES NOT STRIKE WHEN THE IRON IS HOT.
LET HIM BREAK EVERY RECORD IN AFRICAN FOOTBALL
AND WHO KNOWS (MAYBE WORLD PLAYER OF THE YEAR)
THE SKY IS HIS LIMIT IF HE CAN SEE BEYOND THIS GALATASARAY LIKES ME THING.
MAURINHO IS GOING TO REAL MADRID AND IF HE ASKS FOR OSIMHEN HE SHOULD DO EVERYTHING
YES EVERYTHING TO GO.
MONEY COMES AND GOES BUT.......RECORDS ARE FOR ETERNITY
THE FIRST MAN THAT LANDED ON THE MOON (NEIL ARMSTRONG) HAS NOT BEEN FORGOTTEN
LET HIM WRITE HIS NAME ON THE SANDS OF TIME
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 9:05pm On May 09
See
SymphonyRad:
2x league winner and gets to score the title winning goal for the second one...great feats Osimhen but it's time to move on from Turkey already while your ceiling is still high.
If he does not leave turkey he will regret it for the rest of his life. It's urgent cause it's time bound because of his age. He needs to leave now and achieve something bigger. He should take a pay cut and go. Stay in a top 5 league for 5 to 8 years and then he can go wherever he likes. Time waits for no one.
RomanceRe: Males, What's The Most Meaningful Conversation You've Had With A Female? by Philosopher1979: 8:26am On May 09
badthinds:
I'm curious. As a guy, have you ever had a meaningful conversation with a female? As in she gave you real update that worked for you, or insights that truly changed you?

If you have, tell us, and also mention her nationality.
Yeah met an intelligent girl. We discuss philosophy, talk about Greek mythology, even the idea that the biblical God should not have a male gender. Very intelligent girl. We even discuss literature. Show her my poems and she likes it. We also talk about scientific inventions.
The issue with mist guys is that they have not met intelligent girls before. Maybe they meet girls that shake their yansh on social media.
Il be honest some girls are even more intelligent than men. Guys have just not met them.

See this girl
Motunrayo sanyaolu
Check out her name online.
That's not the girl I met. But I'm giving you an example of an intelligent girl
Poems For ReviewPoems On Micheal Jackson Biopiv by Philosopher1979(op): 4:03pm On May 08
On occasion of Micheal Jackson biopic

The crowd was happy..... They clapped..... Movie theatre full of people..... Billie jean rock with you......they sang
Time traveling....memories of his brightness......... Reminisces of wacko jacko..........
Crowd smiling at the movie........
Memories of the past collide......
With the present... Future and eternity....
As the biopic plays along.
Bringing the past into our hearts........
Jackson left us with many memories........
Which remains eternal in our hearts........
Cultural synthesis of global proportions.
Mixing together....to form a generational bomb......
Crossing boundaries of race, age and culture......
Jackson does not need a passport.......
To enter any country....
He lives on in our hearts...
And every mother tells her children the story.....
Once upon a time... Time, time......
A little boy from Indiana....changed the world.......
Not with guns or elections.....
But with his angelic voice.....
We are the world he sang....
Cause me and you are the world...
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 8:31am On May 06
kingphilip:
Nothing to concentrate on as they're in the final already which would be played after the league season is over. Unless you want to think they'll play safe in the league to conserve some energy for the UCL final
Yeah. Did not see that before writing. But...they should use all their energy to win the league. As per the champions League final. It's not talent but pure agidi just mentality and determination. Every team in the last 4 of the champions League is already talented. It's mentality that trumps talent. Just ability to perform within that 90 minutes or more. They should win the league if they can fight and not bottle things like they do in the past.
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 4:55am On May 06
But
TheSuperNerd:
Arsenal - 3 more games to be EPL Champions after 22 yrs.

Arsenal - UCL Final away from a 1st European Title.

2026 could finally be that year in Gunners History. For the EPL, I already foresaw them winning months earlier but recent setbacks were really frustrating and they are favored it is back in their hands again.

Arsenal fans Kwenu!! grin
Wait...Maybe arsenal should concentrate on the league. Champions League is nit talent alone. Dies arsenal have the mentality to win the champions League. That is the issue. The league itself takes mentality. Arsenal are not mentality mibsters. They should just win the league. Do they have that winning mentality. Don't care about talent. At this stage mentality and psychology trumps talent.
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 4:52am On May 06
TheSuperNerd:
Most UCL Semifinals starts by a teenager in History

Nwankwo Kanu - 4
Iker Casillas - 4
MLS - 3🆕️
About zadok yohanna. I have not seen him play. But an owngoalnigeria report was comparing him to a teenage Kanu. I don't believe them as iengosl exaggerates things. But how does this zadfick okay. Can he okay attacking midfield. Just tell me mire about his style if okay. Is he a pure winger. In my opinion he should go to france or Belgium and concentrate on development.
RomanceRe: When A Naija Babe Says “no Sex Till Marriage,” Here’s What Smart Guys Do by Philosopher1979:
Pukkalolo:
When she tells you “ no sex before marriage…”


There’s nothing inherently wrong with that statement. On the surface, it’s simply a woman expressing her boundaries, and that deserves basic respect.

But as a man, how you respond to it should be dependent on two critical questions:

#1. What kind of woman is saying it?

And

#2. Why is she saying it?



Let’s begin with… what kind of female is telling you that?

— Is she a virgin, or semi-virgin (no penetration but other activities)?

Or

— Has she already had sex in the past?
But unfortunately… In 2026 Nigeria, “almost” no woman above 19 years is still a virgin. In fact, many start sexual experiences way before 16.

And once a girl has had sex… even once...it is ruined. Her heart has lost its innocence.


I saw that Nairaland front-page post where the guy dropped this gem:


“If she says no sex before marriage, support it… but tell her it also means no sex with anybody else before marriage.”


I laughed so hard I nearly spilled my drink. Bro, whoever you are… bless your pure heart, but you’re one hell of a naive guy.


It sounds principled on the surface. But the reality is... Modern Naija women in 2026 are far less likely to actually keep to your little no sex with anybody else deal.


Here's why:

Modern women have ridiculously more sexual options than at any point in history. The kind of options and body counts most girls rack up? Only men who are A-list or B-list celebrities are playing in that league.


When she gets Hot for sex, she just scrolls through her hundreds of DMs or picks from the squad of guys hovering around her like vultures.


For most guys, when they get Hot for sex? Their options are usually porn videos and a lonely night of "handling business" till they sleep.


So when you agree to her “no sex before marriage,” understand this: she’s not making the same sacrifice you are.


The power dynamic is lopsided from start. She’s asking you to give up something that's already scarce for you, while she’s only “sacrificing” something she has in ridiculous abundance for her. That’s not equal sacrifice, bro… that’s a psychological setup.


Also, one dark truth about the female species:


Women wear different faces for different guys.


When she's around the street-wise, raw, scumbag, sexually experienced dudes… she lets her real naughty freaky nature breathe freely.


But when she's around the nice, gentlemanly, “intentional,” pedestalizing brother? She suddenly becomes Sister Mary: proper, wholesome, holy, sexually reserved wife-material.


She doesn’t want you “good & intentional” men to know she loves sex just as much as (sometimes more than) men do. So she puts on the perfect Virgin Mary act, hoping the good boys will commit.



Anyway… back to the topic.

The dark truth most men refuse to swallow:

A woman who truly wants you romantically will usually find a way to get sexual with you — even before marriage — if the attraction and connection are high enough.

That brings us to the real question:

Why is she telling you “no sex before marriage”?

It’s usually one of two realities:

#1. She’s not that attracted to you.
You’re the safe, stable provider backup while she quietly gets her sexual needs sorted elsewhere.

Or

#2. She’s genuinely into you, but she’s carrying shame, religious guilt around sex with a man who hasn't paid her bride price, or… most likely… she just doesn’t trust you enough yet. She’s scared you’ll smash and dash once you get it.

Both sound the same on the surface (“no sex before marriage”), but they’re worlds apart for your future.

#1 is straight manipulation dressed as virtue.

#2 is real desire for you but blocked by fear of being used, or guilt from her mum, pastor, or imam’s sermons.



So what's the real move?

When she drops the “no sex before marriage” line, don’t argue or simp. First, figure out if she’s actually in category #2: that is, she genuinely wants you but is blocked by fear, guilt, or past trauma.

The cleanest way to test it? Make her invest in you: real effort, helping out, and yes, even spending money on you.

From my own experience:

I was vibing with this babe, things moving smooth, then one evening she hit me with the “no sex before marriage bla bla.” I found it funny because it was my first time hearing that one. I didn’t argue, didn’t negotiate, didn’t simp. Just replied calmly: “I get you. I’m not rushing anything either. We’ll see how it develops naturally.”

Then I flipped the frame and made her pay[b] the toll[/b] to stay in my world… through real effort and financial investment.

Effort like: “Come through and help me with this: cook, organize, even review boring work documents…

If she resisted, I already knew she was a time-waster.

I ask for financial investment in different ways. For example… I once spotted a nice fancy shoe I liked and boldly told her to buy it for me. She laughed, said she no get money… then offered to pay half.

Throughout all her efforts and financial gifts, I never pushed for sex or seduced her hard. Why? Because her investment in me was doing the real seduction.

With time, she got comfortable. Touching started, lap sitting, kissing… everything.

That’s when I realized her “no sex before marriage” was never about holiness… she was just scared I’d use her body and dump her.



There’s more wisdom I could drop, but I’ll stop here:

Understand this: Her giving sex isn’t the only compatibility test. But refusing it *while* also refusing to invest in you? That’s not virtue, bro… that’s straight manipulation or exploitation.

Biggest red flag? You ask for even small financial investment and she hits you with:

“Are you not the man? Aren’t you supposed to be the one to provide and pay?”

My brother, run. You’re dealing with a woman who has zero genuine interest in you…just future problems wrapped in entitlement.

Here’s the harsh reality even your pastors won’t tell you:

If she’s not genuinely into you, or you’re incompatible on key things, waiting till marriage won’t magically fix shit.

Plenty men have waited, married, then regretted it bitterly when the bedroom turned cold and the sexual/romantic mismatch slapped them in the face: issues they should have discovered during courtship.
In defence of girls. The no sex before marriage thing is the way a girl tests if a guy really likes them or not. As in you get the sex and just leave. That's all. If a girl says no sex before marriage just say ok and that maybe in a few months she will change her mind. Then as a sharp guy get at least another lady you will be sexing and don't spend on her. Just stay around. She will or may reward your patience and give you sex. To her your sticking around shows you care beyond sex. But please and please don't spend on her and make sure you get sex somewhere else. That way you won't simp. Once a girl sees you are patient you may get sex. Most guys just leave immediately they hear no sex before marriage. It's a way girls get to see if a guy even likes them at all. It's their own way of testing stuff from a feminine point of view. It actually makes sense. As a man if I really like a girl I will be at least tolerant and considerate of the no sex before marriage. I will wait. But...I repeat get your sex elsewhere and don't spend much. Just spend when it's needed.
Then part of the reason for the simping is that most guys do not get sex from somewhere else while with the no sex before marriage girlfriend. You don't go into relationships for sexual security. That leads to simping. Get sex from somewhere else. So even if your girl does not give you sex, you don't spend on her and your sexual needs are satisfied somewhere else. You just keep looking at her.
The no sex before marriage is two things. It's either she does not like you at all or she wants to see if you will not just use and dump her.
Of course as you said mother nature made it easy for ladies to get sex. She does not even need guys in her phone
She just needs to dress seductively and walk down the road. I. Less than an hour someone parks a car and she hops in.

Our forefathers put shame mechanisms around female sexuality. No virginity, no marriage so women had to be chaste or the whole village will shame them. Modernity has moved beyond that. No one cares about virginity before marriage so a girl can get on with it anyhow.
See, ancient man knew it's too easy for women to get sex and female sexuality needs to be controlled. Modern man did away with that. Most guys are still operating with the ancient mindset in which it costs a girl even her life if she had sex before marriage.
Nowadays it cost her nothing. No one really cares anymore. So guys have to go beyond this ancient mindset. It's what maybe kills guys

These things have being said many times on red pill so repeating it is boring.
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 3:54pm On Apr 24
DeloitteNG:
It's really sad Uche Left Getafe to be a bench warmer at struggling crystal palace
I hope he finds his place back at Getafe
So many of our players make the wrong move all in the name of playing in the big league
From Aribo to Tolu
Just looked at how people have turned their backs on Tolu the same people that were happy he moved to Wolves
One is even saying he should go and find his level in Turkish league
The same Tolu just last year was saving us in the world cup qualifies
iF WE SET ASIDE FINANCIAL STRENGTH.
THE IRONY IS THAT SEVILLA IS FAR BETTER THAN THIS CRYSTAL PALACE
I THINK SEVILLA HAS WON EUROPA 7 TIMES.
ALSO ALL SORTS OF FAMOUS PLAYERS HAVE PLAYED FOR SEVILLA
CRYSTAL PALACE HAS A BETTER CURRENT FORM BUT IT IS JUST THERE.
SEVILLA IN A SENSE IS A BIG BOY CLUB.
THE LA LIGA IS AT THE SAME LEVEL AS THE PREMIER LEAGUE.
CRYSTAL PALACE JUST BOUGHT FOR FORM.
TECHNICALLY I EVEN THINK LA LIGA IS BETTER.
AS IN BEING TECHNICAL WITH THE BALL.
I DONT GET THE ENGLISH PREMIER LEAGUE THING.
RomanceRe: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Philosopher1979: 3:09am On Apr 24
Stephen2324:
Why does "VISIT ME" sounds like sex to many girls?!!
Because a lot of us guys have abused it. It has gotten to the point that guys believe the moment a lady visits them it is sex and if she refuses, they will for e her and rape her. A lot of ladies complain about this to me. I am a guy and I think a lot of men have to be criticized for this horrible attitude
SportsRe: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 2:44pm On Apr 23
TheSuperNerd:
Sani Suleiman still nurses a muscular injury so his awaited debut at RB Leipzig will wait till the summer's preseason ahead of the 2026/2027 season.

https://x.com/i/status/2047289965285974077
Onuche ogbelu should be invited for all our friendlies and play some matches for 90 minutes. They are friendlies and we have nothing to loose. He may be the solution to our midfield problems.
Here we go again. The idea that a player that is not in Europe is not as good as those not in Europe. Is okoya really better than nwabali. Most people here will say they don't agree and even mock onuche ogbelu.
Let us try him in a friendly and see what happens.
The history of Nigerian football is funny. At the end of the day it is someone or something we underrate that will save us
RomanceRe: Asking Random Girls For Phone Numbers On The Street; What's the chances? by Philosopher1979: 2:37am On Apr 14
Aww
Icareforyou:
Female nairalanders, please give your insight on the topic.
Share your experience or opinion.
Most women do not tell the truth when it comes to issues like this. They will tell you it is not possible and that no girl will give her number to someone in the road. However, a lot of ladies do the opposite.
I know it won't make sense to you and you will think I am saying rubish. But the world of romance is simply not logical. It's not 1 + 1 = 2.
It has its own weird logic. So if ladies say they can't give their number it is not really true.

See we are wired by thousands of years of human evolution but we have highly advanced brains.
The issue is when it comes to romance,our wiring or instinct as humans trumos logic. This is why romance is not logical. It's based on instinct and emotion rather than logic

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