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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 11:13am On May 17 |
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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 11:10am On May 17 |
Smartb0y: Paternity fraud will expose all that nonsense. Honestly there is something wrong with this gender on a general level. I sometimes I don't blame bad boys for maltreatingbthem. They seem superficial, childish, selfish and average. They've served the bad boy that maltreatment them as they can be narcissistic 12 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 12:35am On May 17 |
Uptheante: The idea that high class women can't marry low is overrated. It depends on how low and it also depends on many factors. A high class woman approaching menopause can marry low. Then poverty depends on entrepreneurial ability and intelligence not just inherited wealth. A man who is intelligent and good in business can marry a high class woman and turn 5 million to 50 million naira. Eg I have a book that publishers are interested in. In fact they are thinking of making it into a movie. If I get a rich girl that puts money into it, it can make millions and then why not marry me. Ideas create lasting wealth. The founder of Mercedes benz was intelligent but poor but his wife bought into his invention and created lasting wealth with Mercedes benz. Wealth us created with the brain and not just inherited money alone. There is looks hypergamy, intelll8gence hypergamy even penis hypergamy. Things aren't this simple. Rich ladies too need sex and emotional connection. In fact a rich lazy girl just has to marry a poor but Hardworking man and use his brain to make money and not work anymore Real life is not this simplistic. Mohammed the prophet of Islam married a rich widow when she was 25. Women and men are human beings with emotions and intelligence. Just relate well with women and everything will be fine Don't u just get it. Intelligence creates wealth not money alone. I think mko abiola first wife was from a well to do family while he was poor. 16 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 7:33pm On May 14 |
olamoses75: From redpill tutorials 1. She does not love him and is only marrying him for his money. Money is the only reaso why she is with him 2. She has another man somewhere that is sexing her. 3. If she marries him she will commit paternity fraud and still be sleeping with the man she really loves. 3. The red pill is a life saver and an emancipator 4. Women sometimes marry for financial security and not for love and it is dangerous. 5. He should lie to her that he does not have any money again and see what she does again 11 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 8:24pm On May 12 |
olamoses75: There is something wrong with that gender. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 3:29pm On May 12 |
This is from the horses mouth. I mean a woman said this about simps. Let me add. Its easy for a simp to rape a lady because they spend so much money and effort. Imagine a guy who sends a girl he barely knows 500,000 naira. The girl asks for more and after spending close to a million naira the girl comes to his house but says she doesn't want srx as she us not yet hus girlfriend. He could get angry and rape her. So simping could lead to rape accusations. Putting so much money and effort into a woman leads to desperation anger and confusion. Open in app lanre Babajide Decoding Whether He’s Simping or Sincerely Pursuing You Despite their similarities, being pursued and being simped for couldn’t be more different. Sabrina Haynes The Savanna Post Sabrina Haynes · Follow Published in The Savanna Post 5 min read · Oct 7, 2023 Listen Share More We’ll be honest: We, as women, really enjoy being pursued. We like knowing that the guy we’ve had our eye on is interested. We love feeling like the object of someone’s affection. We enjoy the thought of him deciding to ask us out, planning a romantic date, and opening a door for us. More than anything, we like to be pursued because it lets us know that we’re special, chosen, and sought after. But maybe you’ve experienced a guy who was a little too eager to get on our radar, a bit on the desperate side for even a modicum of attention from us, to the point where it was a turn-off. There’s quite a fine line between being wooed and being groveled for — a world of difference between being chased after and being begged for. After all, we all want a guy who’s willing to pursue us, charm us, and win us over, but a simp? That’s not for us. Hang on, what even is a simp? What Is a Simp? Simply put, a simp is a person who goes way above and beyond to impress, flatter, and placate someone they like, practically treating them like royalty. However, this treatment is one-sided, unreciprocated by their crush. When a guy is simping for a girl, he might shower her with compliments, buy her random gifts, send sweet texts, pay for her meals, bend over backward to impress her, or remain too available to her. But wait… Some of that sounds like…normal flirting. So what’s the difference between a guy who’s pursuing you and a guy who’s simping for you? He’ll Leave a Little to Your Imagination A guy who’s simping for a girl will give her the complete boyfriend treatment, all without getting any sign of interest, commitment, or reciprocation from her. She won’t ever have to wonder what it’d be like to have him as her boyfriend because he’s already acting like it. A guy who’s pursuing you will leave you wanting more attention, the kind he only offers to his girlfriend. But when a guy is simply pursuing you, he’ll want to leave a little bit to your imagination. He’ll show you affection and give you special treatment, but he’ll withhold just enough that you’ll be left wanting more attention from him — attention that he only offers to someone he’s officially dating. He Won’t Be Afraid of Boundaries The number one sign of a guy who’s simping is his lack of boundaries. If the object of his affection tells him to jump, he’ll ask how high. There’s nothing he won’t do to be in her good graces, even if everyone else around him is discouraging his behavior or he’s borderline embarrassing himself or she’s openly dating other guys. There is essentially nothing she could do wrong in his eyes. But for a guy who’s pursuing you? Of course, being in your good graces is also a priority of his, but not at the sake of his boundaries, dignity, and self-respect. He might go out of his way to surprise you with your favorite iced coffee or always make sure to send a cute “good morning” text, but he won’t let someone walk all over him. And you’ll be capable of doing something wrong in his eyes (which, by the way, is the sign of a healthy guy). He’ll Let You Hit the Ball Back A guy who’s simping for a girl will be in a completely one-sided relationship, giving her all the affection, attention, and adoration he can muster, thinking this will get her to finally realize that it’s been him all along. But he’ll do all of this without even waiting for her to show interest back or give him a reason to show her this kind of treatment. A huge part of the courting process is like a dance, with one person making a move, and the other moving in kind. When a guy is chasing with you, he’ll be waiting for you to hit the ball back — to be the one to text first sometimes, or to initiate a hand-hold, or to offer him evidence that his efforts aren’t in vain. He’ll Want To Be Impressed Too A simping guy will go above and beyond to impress the girl he’s hoping to win over. He’ll constantly be talking himself up, making his job sound more important than it is, or dress to the high nines just for her. He’ll do all of this without ever wanting to be impressed himself. A guy who’s pursuing you will want to know that you’re a catch as well. But when it comes to dating, guys aren’t the only ones who should impress, and a guy who’s simply pursuing you will know that. He’ll obviously talk his best game on the first few dates, wanting to set himself apart from any other guys who might want your attention. But he’ll be waiting for you to impress him, too — to tell him about your aspirations, lifestyle, job, or anything else. He’ll want to know that you’re a catch as well. He Won’t Feel Entitled To Anything Perhaps the worst part of a simping guy is that underneath all of the compliments, the free meals, the friendship, and the hangouts, he’ll feel entitled to more from his crush, even if she’s never shown any signs of interest. He’ll secretly believe that if he jumps through enough hoops, she’ll have to date him eventually. Every “kind” act of his comes with an ulterior motive. Obviously, if a guy is pursuing you, he’s hoping the relationship will grow into something more. The difference is that because his pursuit isn’t totally one-sided, he won’t feel entitled to commitment or intimacy — he’s simply exploring whether a relationship between the two of you is in the cards. The motive behind his kindness is to see where the relationship can go, not to build up brownie points that he’ll one day use against you. While simping and pursuing can have some overlap, they ultimately couldn’t be more different in how they’re executed, how they come across, and their intentions. Relationships Love Dating Dating Advice For Women -- 1 Sabrina Haynes The Savanna Post Follow Written by Sabrina Haynes 296 Followers · Writer for The Savanna Post Am a relationship blogger and so grateful to be sharing my world with you Culled from https://medium.com/the-savanna-post/decoding-whether-hes-simping-or-sincerely-pursuing-you-d7ef57bfa813 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 2:43pm On May 12 |
Karlifate: U see if you discover your purpose, destiny and talent in life you won't simp for any girl. Great men live for their dreams and not pussy. If you understand how unique you are you won't put any lady or person on a pedestal in the first place. Zuckerberg invented Facebook, Newton discover gravity, Bill Gates became the world richest man, victor osimhen great footballer. If you ate pursuing your passion and you feel important women will look like feaces shit to you. In fact you will be so arrogant that they will complain that you are proud. Imagine working on a cure for cancer and a girl is wasting your time. If you understand your destiny you might slap her. I n fact, you are doi g her a favour by Bern around her for sex or anything. Time is precious men. It's not only about sex but saying what is on your mind. Just say whatever. I like philosophy and I can tell any woman around me that the universe is vibrating without caring if she likes it or not. She us not the queen of England or sime goddess. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 6:11pm On May 11 |
Ericmaestrooffi: Stuff happens. Women are funny. The seduction may come from her. She might fall in love with you and try to seduce you. It happened to me before. Can u resist it when she tries to seduce you. Don't underrated female sexuality. Living with you could make her develop feelings for you. If u can resist at that stage then let her stay bit it's better you dont 4 Likes |
Music/Radio / Re: Top 5 Nigerian Musicians Who Are In A Class Of Their Own By King0g by Philosopher1979: 2:50pm On May 11 |
tosyne2much: How about majek fashek. Guy was in a league of his own |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 4:18pm On May 10 |
heartofcity12: Most Nigerian men need a dating coach tha T will guise them on how to Interact with women. Simps plenty. A dating coach does many things. Your body language, your dress eense, your belief system, self confidence, social skills etc. Even personal self development in business and career. It all comes together I. The dating scene. I know most of us men won't agree but we need it. We nigerians including me are not used to seeing psychologists but we need it. Men need counselling and we should not shy away from it. You have to believe your are special before other people do. He believes the girl is more special than h8m and is putting her on a pedestal. As a man you have to discover your greatness and move with it. You only appreciate people who appreciate you. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Sports / Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2025 And 2026 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 12:59am On May 09 |
komekn: Shortly after winning african player if th year last year, osimhen did a fantastic assist in a match for napoli. In thr nations cup last group match osimhen made a defence splitting pass from midfield but the player he passed to was offside. U font watch osimhens game. His technicality and all round game will get him into arsenal and Liverpool easily. The way he keeps centre backs busy is even good as the wingers and midfielders will find space to operate. U are saying pure nonsense. The only weakness I. His game is offside awareness and his finishing has to improve. U hVe been saying this stuff for sometime. OK look at the penalty he eon against south africa in afcon. Also there was a season he won more penalties than a lot of other forwards in Europe. Mr liar he can play even in Barcelona. Just work on his offside that's akl 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 9:14am On May 06 |
Rizzputin: Young man you are harnessing sexual energy which us a basic crude but powerful energy of the universe, humanity and human relations. Its present in every human being. Thats all. I'm not good in the details anyway. However, try and encourage youths to go into something that will develop them. Entrepreneurial skills, intellectual development etc. No be everything be sex. Woman etc. We all know sex is innate to everybody male or female. But then, there is more to life than having sex. Teach young men more useful things. How to be succesful and respected in society. How to harness your talents etc 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 7:17pm On May 05 |
heartofcity12: This is the tragedy with the female gender. You are supposed to enter into long term relationships or marriage with the person you love. It's heart breaking and tragic to marry a man you don't love probably for money, social acceptance or other selfish reasons. I mean this is someone you will grow old with. Its tragic of them. With this mindset it's easy for them to commit adultery since the love is not sincere. No wonder paternity fraud is on the rise. 19 Likes 8 Shares |
Sports / Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2025 And 2026 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 6:51pm On May 05 |
TheSuperNerd: By the way have u noticed chukwueze has improved in his last 5 matches. If he goes on like this he will be established in ac milan One thing about him is that at his best his underlying stats are good. Things like short creating actions. Defence splitting passed attacking sequence contributions etc. Also I think the competition at ac milan is bringing out the best in him. He either plays well or gets benched. That's the way to motivate him 3 Likes 1 Share |
Sports / Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2025 And 2026 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 6:41pm On May 05 |
TheSuperNerd: He is like a modern day samson siasia. Very skilfully and creative forward 7 Likes 1 Share |
Sports / Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2025 And 2026 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 6:32pm On May 05 |
SAMUEL chukwueze with an assist for ac milan He is gradually improving 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 5:48pm On May 05 |
heartofcity12: I don't understand. Why do they now complain when their husband or lovers cheat on them. This confused gender seems to enjoy cheating husbands. So a man that cheats on them is now attractive. No wonder bad boys treat them badly. They seem to like bad boys and are somewhat narcissistic in attitude. There is something wrong with this gender. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 12:53am On May 01 |
Dizzyyish: Someone said it that women have the tendency not to evolve beyond their sexuality. It traps them and underdevelops their mind. If we men understood that girls are people like us with problems we will not place them on the pedestal simps place them 19 Likes 4 Shares |
Sports / Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2025 And 2026 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 5:17pm On Apr 29 |
From my findings finidi believes in possession football and his teams create a lot of chances. Thus he will do well. I read about his tactics. Will post more later. Remember he was a coach in spain |
Romance / Re: African Languages And Cultures Need To Be Eliminated Immediately by Philosopher1979: 2:41pm On Apr 28 |
Afrobasic: Eliminating african cultures is mental slavery. Neo colonialism, expoilation, inferiority complex and stupid mentality. That's what they tell us anyway. That we are inferior and don't have a history and you are confirming it. They deceived our ancestors with a mirror. In anotherc30 years they will tell us to have sex with animals in the name of lgbtq woke feminism ideology. What is needed is an Afro centric modern ideology and not this copy copy inferiority complex nonsense. The Chinese, Arabs and Indians just adopt they don't copy. I watched a documentary in which a Chinese man made a scientific discovery and he was saying it in Chinese and the Europeans translated it into Englus. We need an Afro-centric philosophy. EMMANCIPATE YOURSELF FROM MENTAL SLAVERY BOB MARLEY SAID SO |
Religion / Re: Pregnant Man In Kid's TV And Dolls: Are They Now Coming After Our Kids?(Photos) by Philosopher1979: 2:20pm On Apr 28 |
kingxsamz: Our kids live in a social world and not in heaven. They will be influenced. Their friends will do it. A lot of people in the younger generation are already tolerant of lgbtq |
Religion / Re: Pregnant Man In Kid's TV And Dolls: Are They Now Coming After Our Kids?(Photos) by Philosopher1979: 2:18pm On Apr 28 |
chisupport: This is Africa's biggest problem. In fact that us the truth |
Religion / Re: Pregnant Man In Kid's TV And Dolls: Are They Now Coming After Our Kids?(Photos) by Philosopher1979: 2:13pm On Apr 28 |
jesusjnr2020: Men you are slow. They have been planning it for 30 years. There are big university academicians, business men, artists etc backing the lgbtq agenda. Since the 80s or maybe the 69s. They are targeting the next generation. It is a strategy and they are very intentional. We Africans just copy anything like Robots. They have a well detailed plan. They even use psychological strategies |
Sports / Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2025 And 2026 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 2:02pm On Apr 28 |
TheSuperNerd: How about fisayo dele-bashiru |
Romance / Re: Men After Sex This Is What You Realize by Philosopher1979: 10:56pm On Apr 27 |
Freshtruth: The vagina breast etc of a woman is just full of flesh, blood and excreta. Its just blood and flesh. Its not worth the stress. I wonder why we men are so carried away. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: African Languages And Cultures Need To Be Eliminated Immediately by Philosopher1979: 10:21am On Apr 26 |
RickyJesus: You thoughts are not well developed. I will help you 1. The issue is that African culture is Animistic. Animism is the belief that the world consists of spirits that is why we sometimes attribute everything to witchcraft. 2. There is still some knowledge in African culture. For example the ifa oracle is a mathematical system. Also our ancient herbalists have discovered a lot of useful herbs scientists are working on. 3. You have a point ad we are not a thinking race. If you observe the West thinks for us and we copy them blindly. We seem unable to evol6an ideology of our own. From solar technology to nudity they do all the thinking for us. 4. As per language some science textbooks have been written in yoruba, igbo and other African languages. That deepness of thought will be created when textbooks are written I. AFRICAN languages. 5. There are some deep thoughts in African culture like Arodon which means nothing in yoruba or umodoye which means knowledge turns into understanding. 6. Nice try. Generally we Africans are very shallow minded and lack deep thinkers. We just copy and paste the white man 7. Language is important in understanding history. When you wipe put language you wipe out thousands of years of history. That is a problem. 8. Africas past is full of a lot of useful knowledge if you see beyond the surface. OK what of the great Wall of Benin made by africsns that's technology 7. Nice try but there are better solutions to what u are saying 3 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Pays IT Expert To Wipe Sextape Off Internet ( Pic ) by Philosopher1979: 12:29pm On Apr 24 |
3kay945: https://www.repscan.com/en/about-us/ This company specialises in deleting online videos with their software. Also, if uploaded online it can be identified by the software and deleted again. It doesn't solve the problem 100% but at least it helps. The dark Web is still there |
Education / Re: FG Sets 18 Years As Minimum Entry Age Into Tertiary Institutions by Philosopher1979: 9:57pm On Apr 22 |
It should bev16 and not 18 Secondly, how about the case of prodigies and geniuses. Such people need special educational attention 8 Likes |
Sports / Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2025 And 2026 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 9:30pm On Apr 22 |
Chukwueze cross led to commotion in thebinter milan box 18 which led to a goal. He us actually playing well and contributing to the attack. He has really improved |
Sports / Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2025 And 2026 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 5:38pm On Apr 21 |
TheSuperNerd: So on this system there are 4 central midfielders if I may ask |
Romance / Re: Get The Latest Perfumes by Philosopher1979: 2:10pm On Apr 21 |
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Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Bring Strange Pregnancies To Their Husbands? by Philosopher1979: 3:03am On Apr 21 |
Quality20: Mist modern ladies are simy psychologically dogs. They ate too srxually promiscuous and her sex addicts. The problem is most men overrated and worship ladies because of their beauty and sexuality. Most ladies are sex slaves to their former boyfriends. |
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