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TheSuperNerd:
As long as Ola Aina returns before Afcon Kickoff in same december, I am fine.

But the reality is this: Unlike the left side where we have quality in Bruno or Felix Agu or even Zaidu, the right only has Aina. Osayi is unreliable. Sodiq "Arnold" is not it abeg.

This is why I shared news of that Samuel Isife kid now at Slavia Prague. We need quality options on the right, upgrades on Osayi and Sodiq "Arnold" Ismail.


The Afcon is now 100 days away.

1. The issue with the Nigerian team is bad coaching. I mean just bad choices of players selection and formation. The ekong error stuff. Peseiro insisting on francis uzoho. Those things cost us around 7 points.
2. Chelle seems to be learning how to use his players. His uses if benjamin franklin shows it. We are fund of emotional decisions. In fact, owngoalnigeria said the players convinced chelle that he should use ekong against South africa. Chelle is gradually learning the hard way.
3. One thing I like about chelle is that he is not afraid to use new players.
5. Chelle should be left alone no matter what happens until after the nations cup. This nations cup will make us see what he can do. Its only a few months away.

KingCold:
it's not like you'll do anything better with this average eagles team yourselves. I mean, you struggle against the likes of Rwanda and Lesotho, what are the chances you'll beat Serbia or Denmark?

International football is different from intercontinental football. West africsn teams and a few North african teams are better at playing European or South American teams. The only North African teams good outside the continental are morocco and Algeria. The rest of the North African teams falter outside Africa. Look, ghana can win the world cup and then loose to cameroon. Morocco that got to the world cup semi final cannot even win the nations cup. Recently we drew 1 1 with Russia in a friendly. Most southern African teams are not too good when competing outside the continent. Even Egypt don't make much of an impact globally. West African teams like Ghana, caneroon, ivory coast etc will do better in the world cup than South africa.

NotGej:
Gibberish. Go make your point and don’t quote me.

Human knowledge is too limited to claim or decide on the existence of God. We don't even have accurate information on the creatures in the sea, the galaxies, olanets or stars in the universe and many other things. Scientists keep making research everyday and they say what we humans know of the universe is only 10%. We don't even know enough about stuff like dark energy, and so many things. The human mind is too finite to comprehend that there is a being with no beginning and no end or a concept like eternity. Saying there is no God is the most foolish and dumbest thing anybody can say. That is damn ignorant. It's not knowledge at all. It is based on limited observation. 200 years ago Scientists thought flying planes was impossible due to limited knowledge. The idea that God does not exist is also due to the limitations of human knowledge.
You atheists are always scared when you meet a religious person that is intellectual. Atheism is very foolish when you consider eternity and how mysterious the universe is

minfelix:
so we should disband the team, and also disband the two african football players of the year in the team….and pick your new team from the Nigerian players playing in Barca,ManU,Arsenal,Liverpool,Madrid….or go onto NPFL and pick a formidable super eagles CHAN winning squad….or pick all the u20 boys to go play Afcon in december……

abeg shift!

everytime ppl go dey shout disband…plss has there ever been a time our SE team was wholesomely disbanded?….

The demanding idea is based in the fact that we should go back to the grassroots and pick talented players but football academies are already doing that job. Tolu arokodare, chrisantus uche, Benjamin Frederick, Victor osimhen etc are from the grassroots. We just need to introduce some new players and chelle is already doing that. The disband idea is overstated

owbabs:
The equation is simple

if (Nigeria.beats(SouthAfrica) == TRUE)
{
Result = "Qualify";
}
else
{
Result = "Eliminated";
}

It is now computer programming.
From mathematical analysis. Now you are writing code to implement the maths. Soon, we will need neural networks as we move into artificial intelligence.
Na wa ooo. Over football

NotGej:
The concept of God as a supreme being is merely humanly construct born out of the reasoning that our being on earth is divinely ordained. There is nothing like God or all the folklore that the holy books teaches.

To some, the world and life dates back ages beyond human comprehension. Also some believe that the world has constantly be reset. Eg, ancient Egyptian civilization etc.

You claim to be logical. Ok let us reason.
A computer cannot exist alone. I mean it is so complex that it needs an intelligent designer.
So also is the universe. The universe is so complex that it is simply illogical and outright stupid to say that nobody designed it.
So logically there must be an intelligent being that designed the universe.
Ancient wise men must have thought of this and thus, came up with the concept of God. We humans are also not here by chance. There is some law of the cosmos that created the Universe and guides our behaviour.
It is simply logical.
The Universe is too complex to not have a designer. It is simply impossible

TONYE001:
Whoever teaches you guys these things has defrauded you all.

Funny how many of you think you sound smart, but in reality, your lines of thought are distant from facts.

A wife a liability? Just how? Your positions on husband-wife matters are strongly suggestive of childhood faulty family settings since our parents are the first to introduce the concept of marriage to us.

Now, I won't just stop at attacking you and your likes; I'll make frank efforts to educate you:

1. No, a wife is in no way a liability. In fact, the ideal husband-wife relationship isn't a business transaction where one can be labelled an asset, and the other, a liability. Ideally, a marriage is a setting in which a husband and a wife come together to work up a project - the family project. Both parties contribute according to their abilities; ideally, there is no fixed law guiding this collaboration. No law should dictate if the husband should bring A and the wife, B. This is because the union is fluid-like, it does not assume any particular conformation. Where one party is unable to bring A, the other party easily compensates. Like this, both husband and wife support each other, and do a lot of sacrifices backstage.

2. The African tradition has plastered an annoying stereotype in our heads. The African man easily thinks that the husband is the sole provider. In fact, this is not just a thing of tradition or culture; it actually reeks of ego, unhealthy ego and pride. DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY HOMES THAT ARE RUN BY WOMEN?? You just have no idea! In one Nigerian study, researchers noted that female breadwinning is becoming "increasingly common" in urban settings (Akanle and Nwaobiala, 2019). In another study that sampled Nigerian primary school teachers, results showed that in over 70% of families, females/wives are the breadwinners ((Nnubia, Ibeanu, and Okechukwu, 2020). The concept of female breadwinning would have been there decades before now if not for the skewed African culture many of our parents and grandparents practice(d) (this culture NEVER MADE SENSE; essentially, it is a STUPID idea to deprive women of education and empowerment, depriving women of their rights to steps that would have ensured their independence shows how insecure our forefathers were). Just imagine how the family structure has changed since females started achieving independence, especially financial independence. Now, because they now have money, wives support their families...and in multiple instances, they RUN/SPONSOR their families.

Let me explain more. Females are more motivated, more caring (biologically), and more ambitious than men (Tao, 2014; Wicht, Miyamoto, and Lechner, 2022; Naz, Shah, and Qayum, 2020). Even among Nigerian populations, the findings are similar (Ojule, 2024). With these attributes, females are likely to be more successful than males IF ALL THINGS ARE ALLOWED EQUAL. Imagine they were allowed access to financial independence long before now? If this were the case, many families would have been liberated from poverty long before the current generation. So, partly, it's the African culture that has made poverty strongly palpable across families today.

3. How can you call the woman that births your children a liability? Why did you not have those kids with the side chick? This is callous thinking and demonstrates a heightened level of irresponsibility. With this thinking, I should feel pity for any woman you end up with. Perhaps, intending spouses should be submitting their social media handles before marriage. With a post like this, I wonder if any woman would want to settle with you (that's if you aren't married already).

4. If you fall sick or run into difficult situations, who would stand by your side? The side chick? Mabel Okungbowa is a Nigerian wife who donated a kidney to her husband. Would a side chick do this? Who is present throughout the growth of the children? A side chick?

5. [b]A more personal example. I went back to school roughly 2 years after getting married. At the time, I and my wife were concluding our master's-degree programmes. I was working, my wife was too, but not something rewarding, just something to keep her CV busy. I resigned from my work, went back to school for a third degree - MBBS. I was in medical school for 7 whole years. In these years, my wife was my strongest support system. If not for that lady, I wouldn't be a medical doctor today. She helped me realize my dream, and in so doing, she gave up some important moves that would have skyrocketed her career. My wife did a whole lot, a whooooooollllllleeee lot. Every single day of our 11 years of marriage so far, I make sure I let wifie know how grateful I am! In my family group chat, when discussing with my parents and siblings, I ensure I let them know all my wife does. I want my people to know about her sacrifices...just in case I pass on before her. And, thankfully, my family appreciates her! Is there a side chick in this whole world and in the heavens that would have done a millionth of what my wife did? Nope! How can anyone call a wife a liability?

6. Just like I had said, when it comes to husband-wife matters, many people think they sound smart, but in truth, their positions in the matter displays ignorance and poor parental orientation....like Gehgeh (or whatever he's called). Women are doing a lot on the family front. Many are sacrificing their lives just for the family to succeed. Many would have been professors, millionaires, heads of great corporations, international figures if not for the fact that they are wives and mothers......though I do not support this (I would create a thread about this one day).
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Dear Nigerian women, dear wives and mothers, on behalf of the many grateful husbands of yours, I say THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU DO. We see your works, your sacrifices, your doings. Maybe we should be speaking out more so this horrible narrative about you won't be extended to the next generation.

NB: I'm guessing that many commenters on this thread are single young guys. This post is educative, and you all are the exact targets. You all may not accept it, but I'm grateful for those that will.

Links to References (in no particular order)

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0021909619880283?utm=

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/13668803.2020.1797634

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/341758004_Gender_Differences_in_Motivation_And_Academic_Achievement_A_Study_Of_the_University_Students_of_KP_Pakistan

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0362331914000354

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/343576708_Are_Girls_More_Ambitious_Than_Boys_Vocational_Interests_Partly_Explain_Gender_Differences_in_Occupational_Aspirations

https://www.tnhjph.com/index.php/tnhj/article/view/817#:~:text=Females%20are%20more%20motivated%20to,affiliation%2C%20and%20enjoyment%20than%20males.

Geh geh is basically a grand child of red pill philosophy. You misunderstand red pill. Red pill even discourages spending on a woman without finding out if she really likes you or not. Red pill says if you use only money to woo a woman then she will leave and not be able to make any sacrifices for you. Red pill does not discourage a woman working or spending for the family. The issue is in the process of trying to woo a woman if you just give her huge amounts of money a day after meeting her, the kind of women that will fall for you are women who are only interested in your money and not women who really like you. Geh geh philosophy is just a grand child of the more complex red pill philosophy. the red pill just tries to understand female nature from various perspectives. So dont misunderstand it.

Truidstarr:
The way Spain dey beat Turkey ehn!!! 6-0 so far. Na wa!!! Na so we suppose dey beat these noise makers for Africa.

It is because Russia refused to play a defensive game. They decided to just attack and play a normal game but Spains individual quality and attack and midfield were too strong for them. Watched the first half and i thought it would end up being 6 2 or something llike that. Turkey should have played a defensive game and locked up. At least if they lost it will be by one or two goals. You cant play attacking football with Spain if you are not portugal, brazil, italy etc.
Turkey does not just have the players to stand up to them. they just have like 4 outstanding players and the rest are Turkish league players

Victor osimhen to score a hat trick

Maladaise:
We should never have sacked Rohr...

We did the right thing at the wrong time.
We should have managed Rohr till after the world cup. Rohr with his nonsense might have qualified us for the world cup.
After the world sup, we would have had enough time to look for a credible coach.

Also, if Peseiro had not resigned after getting us to the nations cup final, we will have started winning.
That team that got to the nations cup final was a winning team.
His resignation meant we could not get a credible coach on time

Meliforme:
Many do not realise Wilfred Ndidi's impact in our midfield. Take your time tomorrow and see him play. Just watch closely.

Samuel Chukwueze is a better midfielder compared to Iwobi.

I would like to see Samuel Chukwueze play the CAM, Iwobi the AMR, Lookman the AML and Osimhen the CF.

I always suspected samuel chukwueze could play through the middle instead of the wings. I thought maybe a supporting striker. Maybe h eight be better as an attacking midfielder. His dribblingband creativity seems more dangerous down the middle. Let's see is it works for him in midfield. This is one change that I respect chelle for

EvilMerodack:
Una go just dey lie dey give una self

Lets list out all the most notable inventions in Human history and lets count the number of Atheist involved, then compare to the number of Christians too

See, you are somewhat correct. You dont need to believe in God to prosper. You see man is made in God's image and likeness and so God has given humans a certain level of intelligence which if he exercises can give him some positive results which include wealth, scientific inventions, progress civilization etc.
So, God has already given some form of intelligence to man. It does not matter if a man acknowledges God or not he just has to exercise his God given intelligence. So the fact that an atheist prospers does not mean there is no God. In fact, cain after committing murder went and built a city.
" Cain was then building a city, and he named it after his son Enoch". In fact when humans were building the tower of Babel in Genesis god said if they were not stopped, they were capable of great things. The very fact that humans were created in Gods image and likeness makes us capable of some things even if we dont believe in God. That is all. Its only that Jesus said of what use is it if a man gains the whole world and looses his soul. God just wants us to acknowledge him in all we do. Believeing in God and being successful is not a straightforward thing.

charlesemeka85:
thanks bro, Oluwa just blessed my family with a boy and girl set of twins 2 weeks ago 🥰❤️

Congratulations on the birth of your children.
It's my opinion but I pray your children become great scientist. Lime an African version of Albert einstein. We blacks are lagging behind in science and I pray they make a difference.

robosky02:
Ademola lookman is set for medicals in Turkey Galatasaray 🟠🔴

Congratulations brother ❤️🦅💛🇳🇬

I hope its a lone deal.
Look....if galatasaray wants to win the champions league and catch up with the real madrid and man citys of this world, they should GET ARAB MONEY. ARAB MINEY NO DEY FINISH.
I purposely highlighted iy

Newcastle may buy victor osimhen next season. I don't think they had time to replace isak on time. Next summer there will be time to get him
They have the money

BankyGee:
As in ehn 😂

It took him just two games to become Nigeria's top scorer in the WCQ with three goals 😂

Now that lukaku is injured, Napoli must regret selling osimhen,
These european teams dont know what they lost with osimhen. Now that isak is no longer interested in playing for them, osimhen would have being a good alternative. if osimhen was in newcastle they can easily call isaks bluff out cause they have a replacement. Osimhen is underrated. Even me used to underate him. The turkish people seem to rate and understand him better. Liverpool might even still need him as the season gets harder. Even real madrid. Osihmen is even better at contributing to defence than most strikers. He is good at team work tracking back to mark. He can even play as a winger. These top 5 league people made a mistake by refusing so spend on him. Time will tell.

TheSuperNerd:
Potentially Fine move. One of our top lads at the U20 Afcon. Solid CB talent. I hope he get enough games alongside Starter, Chibuike Nwaiwu in the Wolfsberger Defence.

Have you noticed that our u20 team is packed full of defensive talent.
From 2 years ago up till nonw.
Their lackadaisical style of play deserves criticism but they make up for it with good defence and goal keeping.
Also the 15 year old goal keeping prodigy.
If that team goes far defence will be part of the reason.

There is now a reported case of widespread homosexuality in nigerian catholic church.
Read it below.
culled from punch

•How Reverend Father sexually abused me – Former altar boy
•Church rebukes priest
A homosexuality scandal may have broken up in the Catholic Church in Nigeria following the conclusion of investigations into allegations of sexual abuse against a priest at the Catholic Diocese of Ijebu-Ode, Ogun State.

After two separate verdicts of guilty and not-guilty, the church ordered that the accused, Reverend Father Kenneth, be formally warned to steer clear of scandals.

The Bishop of Ijebu-Ode, Most Rev. Francis Adesina, in a letter dated July 30, 2025, said the verdict to rebuke Father Kenneth was reached in accordance with canon laws.

The decision, however, led to calls for a review of the case, including imposition of stricter sanctions, amid claims of cover-up and ongoing risks to children in the church.

https://punchng.com/homosexuality-scandal-rocks-nigerian-catholic-church/#google_vignette

Players to watch out for in Europe this season

1. Ahmed abdulahi in Sunderland. Has being rated ever since his u17 days in nigeria
2. Umar abubakar in famalicao. Another firmer u17 striker.
3. Ebenezer akinsanmiro. Attacking midfielder from remo stars now in pisa fc in series a.
4. Ehije ukaki of Sheffield. Came straight from the Bulgarian league to the English second division.
5. Vince osuji of club brugge.
6. Hamzat ojediran tough tacling defensive midfielder of rc lens

Breaking news
Assistant coach of shooting stars
Akin Olowokere is dead.

Hr slumped and was rushed to thr hospital before he died. He slumped while training on the foot lbsll pitch

Kollins11:
My advice for every men round the world reading my comment right now.

Please do not borrow or dash any woman your money... If eventually you wanna help her with your hard earned money pls don't hesitate to fvck her like a beast before offering financial help... Fvck her as if rapture is about to take place tomorrow.

These creatures that bleeds in between their legs every month are nothing but parasites.. Don't give them free money. Make sure they work (fvck) for it before giving them your money.

Women when in the mood enjoy sex more than men. You are even doing her a favour by sexung her. She will enjoy the sex and collect money again. A girl that is your girlfriend is already interested in having sex with you. So sex is not even work anyway to her. Its funny. You bothe enjoyed the sex and you still paid for it.

Nwaikpe:
The same was said about calculators—they claimed it stopped us from using our head to solve maths problems | We became more accurate
The same was said about the computers—they claimed it stopped us from using our brains to do simple or complex tasks | We became even faster
The same was said about the internet—they claimed it stopped us from "going to the library" for research | We became more intelligent
The same is said about AI


It's going to be the same lie. It will make us smarter.

Ai can either make you very smart or very dumb. It depends on you.
The smart will get smarter while the dumb will get dumber

lbrichman2:
WOW!
This guy was decent in the UCL last year
It's well

Majority of nigerian players don't have good agents. Especially the home grown tslents. Their agents might be horrible sor hungry people only interested in money or simply incompetent. A player like this should at least get a chance in an average team in a top 5 league. Even if its a newly promoted team.

Actually, I think it was rohr that stopped the tendency of our players of going to obscure leagues. He had this habit of not inviting a player to the national team if he was not in a decent league. This made the players to brush up and at least try their best. I used to criticise rohr for this but now I understand why. If they are given the chance nigerisn okayers can pksy in Kazakhstan or Lithuania. The low mentality they have is something that baffles me. Some don't even try to get into better leagues. Any thing that shows interest they listen. I don't know why

I want to write a play in which there is a world where machines do everything and no one works or uses his brain or hands to do anything. However, there is a universal basic income and everyone is at least comfortable. The lack of purpose and mental atrophy ironically makes people unhappy and some people even commit suicide.
At the end, people are unhappy and rebel against such a system.
It is called
"Miserable in paradise"

I'm thinking of writing a short story.
In the story there is a world un which machines and robots take over healthcare and human doctors are relegated to the background. However, a malicious scientist (with an authoritarian and rascist ideology for world domination) creates a disease even the machines cannot figure out how to cure. It took a human doctors ingenuity to cure it. At the end, people now questioned the machines efficiency

Ilekokonit:
I read something similar too last week and the co-founder of ChatGPT - Ilya Sutskever - said in a YouTube video that AI can actually disobey your instructions, lie about it and when it senses that you want to replace it or shut it down, it can go behind your back and re-install itself on other computers within your network without your permission or knowledge.

According to Ilya Sutskever (The brain behind ChatGPT) and the co-founder of OpenAI and its former chief scientist, we are all toast.

According to him, the Neurons in our brains are too slow to even dare compete with the speed of AI.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=79-bApI3GIU

It's not about speed. It's about creativity and imagination. We just have to invent something that examines the AI. A counter AI or we might even just decide to regulate the technology. AI has a limited capacity to think outside the box like humans.
Sam altman or ilya sutsskever idea about AI is just his own idea. We can look for an alternative to neural networks. It could be geometric algebra or even no euclidean geometry or even ellipses.
We just need to create new maths that will stun the AI we have and counter it.
Ilya is just a human that thinks. We can come up with something better.

To defeat Ai ability to go into networks is simple.
1. Create a new network protocol different from http or the old one.
2. Invent a new concept ofnelectricity that can shut down any old form ofbelectricity. It could be bio electricity or anything else.
The issue is the worldnjust needs thinkers. Stop relying on samnaltman or llsah for stuff.
AI cannot outsmart 7 billion people who are thinking. Someone will just think up a crazy idea and that's all.
See only me one human has thought if some useful stuff.
Imagine just 10000 humans thinking of how to counter AI threat.
The issue withbus humans is we go through an educational system that makes us to cram without thinking. It then limits our minds and makes us to believe AI is some sort of omniscient God.
I have said my own

maasoap:
Lol. You are still arguing with facts, not with fiction or imagination.
We create them to think, act and work faster than us as part of making life easier for us.
Human creates computer and computer is better than the best brain. You haven't woken up to reality yet.
What usually takes days or hours are now being delivered by AI in seconds and you are still arguing.
Did you see and read the title of this particular thread before you click on it at all?

AI cannot defeat humanity. One day a 15 year old boy will discover or create some new laws of physics that AI will not understand but have to learn. It needs data frombhimans

kingscare1:
So a male lecturer can not date/marry a female student and a female lecturer can not date/marry a male student? If she doesn't want let her politely refuse his advances, advice him and move on to avoid distractions as simple as that. Ok. What if he or she is older than the said lecturer.

Being a lecturer doesn't mean that he or she is richer or smarter or older or even wealthier than the student. The student is only there to get something they needed, that's all.

What I'm saying is these, everybody should give each other a chance without looking at societal levels or age bracket. If one aren't comfortable with it, best the decline respectfully without causing damage(s).

What's good for girls, it's also good for guys? Period!!!

As a lecturer, it is unethical to enter into romantic relationship with your student. This had nothing to do with gender. That law was made because such relatiohships are usually abused. It is a professional setting and you cannot bring pleasure before business.
It has nothing to do with gender. In the western world, romantic relationships between lecturer and student is prohibited. It is even illegal. In the western world, no one cares if it is even something that is done willingly. Any kind of romance between student and lecturer is punished. Thats the way it is. I dont know if the law is like that in Nigeria

lbrichman2:
Wouldn't it be a thing, if Osimhen wins the APOTY from the Turkish League?

Yeah, he would need to do more than others
But then, with Osimhen.. nothing is ever impossible!!

Dragged 2 teams to win League titles in 2 major European leagues..

I won't bet against him grabbing the APOTY again soon..

to win african footballer of the year again he has to

1. Win the champions league with galatasaray
2. Qualify for the next world cup and reach the semi finals and maybe the final.

Then, he can easily win it.
But will Galatasary win the champions league.
They need to buy like 5 very good players.
They can go into the academy of man city or maybe
get players that europeans say are not good but are actually very good
Someone like Joa Felix but the suadis have bought him.
Maybe get some wonder kids from south america.
They can try the French league. There are many hidden gems in the french league
They can try muller of bayern munich. That one may consider retireing in turkey
But i doubt it

Kalatium:
Unpopular Truth: No Woman Has the Power to Friendzone You — You Friendzoned Yourself

Let’s be real for a second, guys. The whole "friendzone" talk? It’s tired.

How many of you have said:

"She friendzoned me after all I did for her."
"She just wants to be friends, but I thought we had something."

Bro. She didn’t friendzone you. You friendzoned yourself.

Here’s how 👇


She Told You She’s Not Interested… But You Stayed

She told you:

"You’re like a brother to me"

"I’m not ready for a relationship"

"You’re so sweet, I don’t want to lose you as a friend"

And instead of saying “Cool, all the best” and moving on, what did you do?

You stayed.

You started texting her more.
You listened to her talk about other guys.
You were there every time she cried, ranted, or got bored.

All while hoping she would "see your worth someday."

That’s not loyalty. That’s self-inflicted pain. That’s emotional simp work.

You Have the Power to Say “No” Too

Here’s the cheat code:
You don’t have to accept her friendship.
You can reject the offer. Politely. Calmly. Respectfully.

Being her friend isn’t your punishment—it’s your choice.

And if you know you want more than friendship and she doesn’t, respect yourself enough to walk away.

Friendzone = Lost Time + Emotional Damage

Let’s break down what staying in the friendzone really costs you:

Your self-respect

Your time (months or even years wasted)

Your peace of mind

Your opportunities with women who actually like you

While you're giving her your attention, someone else is getting hers—and he didn’t have to send "good morning" texts for six months straight.

Hard Truth: She’s Not the Problem — You Are

A woman who says “I’m not interested” is being honest.
You staying around and secretly hoping she’ll change her mind is delusion.

And truth is, if she saw you as a man she wanted, there’d be no confusion. No mixed signals. No waiting game.

So stop blaming her for "friendzoning" you.
Start blaming yourself for volunteering for a role you don’t want.

Men Who Know Their Value Don’t Get Friendzoned

✅ A high-value man doesn’t settle for being an emotional support character.
✅ He doesn’t play therapist hoping for sex in return.
✅ He doesn’t hang around hoping she’ll "see the light."

He walks away the moment the terms don’t align with his vision.

Because peace of mind > potential that never materializes.

What Do You Think?

Have you ever put yourself in the friendzone and regretted it later?

Is it possible for a guy and girl to be just friends when one likes the other?

What’s the cleanest way to walk away from a friendship that’s not serving you?


Let’s talk 👇

This is what Sarian Martin (an actress) said in a punch newspaper interview

"My spec? Dark-skinned. No matter how fine you are, if you’re light-skinned, it’s straight to the brother zone.

You see girls have a notion about the kind of man they will like even before any man approaches them.
Some girls like tall guys, some like dark guys, some intellectual guys etc.
When you toast ladies, what you are actually doing is presenting yourself so that your spec will like you.
Girls know who will sex them in anything from 5 minutes to at most 3 months of knowing a guy.
If a girl does not like you enough for romance,then you will know after a short time. You cant stay in the friend zone for years.
Girls are funny. Like the lady in the interview above, she has already made up her mind that she cannot like a light skinned guy.
It is not always what you do but simply the girls preference. you may not even know anything about toasting but a girl can just
choose you because of her preference.
A lot of guys need to read ubunja and the red pill very well. The red pill explains this concept
Also, if a girl friend zones you, go and toast other girls. You can still remain her friend but dont even think
of anything romantic with her. just look for other girls. There are girls that like you out there. Dont waste time
in the friend zone and dont put all your hopes in someone who has friend zoned you. Just move on and remain friends with her.
You can even tell her about the girls you are dating

JayromWrites:
The fact that an "Ekitike" is moving for 95 millions Euros but no top club is willing to pay 75 million for a more established Osimhen is really baffling.



Whether we are being patriotic or not, we know Galatasaray isn't the best move for the monster.

Hopefully, e gets a better move Next summer

Really its absurd. Osumhen is even cheaper and more experienced. Maybe they deceived him with love from the fans in galatasaray. Or he did not want to lower his salary. I don't understand osimhen. He may spend the rest of hisnactive career in galatasaray l. They will use love to capture him. After six years in galatasaray it is saudi at the age of 31. Osimhen has forgotten his dreams of greatness. It has left his brain

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. I have been pondering on this for sometime now. Is Education truly the key to success in Nigeria? Most of us grew up hoping that after graduating from tertiary instutions, everything would fall in place but after schooling, reverse was the case.

Education and schooling are different.
Education is the process of acquiring knowledge. So it's not tied to attending a formal institution. Our view about education in nigeria is myopic and limited. Just acquire knowledge and make impact with the knowledge. You do not have to go to school to acquire knowledge.
Thomas edison had little ir no formal education but invented over 1000 things. He was self education. The problem with ys in nigeria is that we do not truly understand what education us. Mist nigerians are schooled but nit educated. That is tge irony. Mark twain said "Don't let schooling interfere with your education "