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TheSuperNerd:
Chellechukwu messed that one up.

He should have brought in Alhassan and Onyedika both to increase our midfield numbers alongside Iwobi and to keep the tempo up in the final third keeping Zim on the backfoot.

We bring in Onyedika for Iwobi while leaving an Ndidi on the pitch. Nothing changed much... Still a 2 man midfield and only subbing out an attack minded technically blessed midfielder for a defensive minded technically blessed midfielder.

Chelle should have gone to 3 in the middle. Well, we are not going to the World Cup.

SA will lose their 3 pts vs Lesotho and we will still not get near them. Shame.

I think the issue is that most of our coaches are so carried away with our attacking prowess that they fail to pay attention to our midfield and defence till it is too late.
We don't even need stars in midfield or defence. Just players who do the basic thongs right. Frank onyeka just runs and marks well and it is OK. We even have at least decent midfielders but every time it us attract, attack.
In our friendly let us see what ebenezer akinsanmiro can do in place of iwobi. Another issue us that experiments should be left for friendlies. Our coaches don't try new things in friendlies.

Jerrymanta:
I even doubt we will qualify for 2030 world cup sef...while other African teams including the minnows and dark horses are getting better in football, we seem to be stagnating...we don't have a good youth system anymore, at least back in the days we used to churn out several talents from our U17-U23 teams, now we are so bad at the youth level that we haven't been to am Olympic tournament in how many years now? Where will the next Osimhen, Mikel Obi, Chinedu Obasi etc come from?

It's not looking good for us my guy, maybe our women will make us happy a bit, but you see this Super Eagles under this NFF? forget it...it's not getting to get any better. I see the likes of Osimhen, Iwobi, Lookman etc actually taking a long break from international football or retiring to focus on their clubs at this point.

As per youth football, we are very okay. List.
Ebenezer akinsanmiro
Kperogi
Otisanya in Brazil
Vincent osuji in genk
Daniel daga
Victor eletu
Hafiz umar
Babatunde akinsola
Dennis in turkey
Many others
Football academies have taken care of our youth football.
People just like sating our youth football is not good because we have bad afministrators. Our grassroots football is buzzing and active.
A lot of people don't follow Nigerian football. They just shout and complain everytime we loose.

Diavolo:
I won't call it abysmal. Just subpar. Putting the players in their best position and going with a simpler formation that they understand will make it a lot better. National teams have barely 4 training sessions in between matches,that's too little time to try to implement something very drastic and complicated.

For now a simple 4 3 3 will be good for our team. Just get three midfielders and three forwards. That way, our midfield will not be lean.

Read a gosl.com report that says chukwueze can play midfield. I personally disagree anyway. This is the quotation.

"With the ability to use his right foot more than competently too, Chukwueze is able to operate on either wing – as well as through the middle in an attacking midfield role".

This is the site
https://www.goal.com/en-ng/news/who-is-samuel-chukwueze-the-barcelona-destroying-nigerian-wonderkid-linked-to-arsenal/g7h4kqicdt1nbaf5g99vzwh

AndSunGorilla:
OGN is predicting the same lineup as we fielded against Rwanda. I feel Aina was shackled in his rôle though. Don't know why Éric isn't impressed with Bruno.

The reason why aina is playing as a left back is what I dint understand. Then why cukwueze as a midfielder in a midfield diamond. I doubt if chukwueze can play that role well.

Joebie:
We have moved away from overcautiousness and i think its a good thing that Chelle is ready to move players around. We didnt play badly at all, though Osimhen's return was a huge factor in the win

We need natural midfielders like ebenezer akinsanmiro, chrisantus uche for this his diamond formation. They should be tried in the friendlies in June.
Akinsanmiro is a rookie but we should see what he does un the friendly. Using chukwueze as a midfielder in a diamond 4 4 2 is not proper. Lts see what akinsanmiro can do. Uche too in midfield. There is also onechhu ogbelu in Tunisia.

minfelix:
its always difficult beating teams that park the bus though anywhere in the world
Barca, Bayern, Argentina Portugal have all tasted this sour football from opponents, so these kinda of opponents tight defenses will always need their defense to be opened by a solo brilliant effort of one of the team member…thats why everyone need to keep fighting from the blast of the whistle
- i remember Argentina sweating to unlock Iran defense till die mins before the solo effort Messi could find a winning goal in 2014 WC

- i remember Nigeria sweating hard to unlock Tanzania, until a brilliant solo effort from Iheanacho came and open them

even Portugal vs Morocco, Ronaldo sweat tire nothing came out

At the bolded, you said we need creative players that can score impossible goals from any angle.
One of the few players who can do that in the Super Eagles is Sadiq Umar.
He has all these impossible goals in his locker.
I know a lot of people here dont rate him but every player has his strengths.
Creativity and technicality is one of his strengths.
Another creative magical player is Chidera Ejuke.
Samuel Chukwueze is also capable of magic but he is not consistent.

PinkNature:
What does it mean when we say every man should find his purpose?

Does it mean looking inward to discover your passion and following it?

In the year 2025. A new form of mathematics called relational set theory will be developed. The theory will impact mathematics, computer science and other areas. It will be developed in nigeria.

I am working on a new form of maths that might chsnge the world.
I'm intruiged because I believe that universities and intellectuals round the world will embrace it and i will be called the african einstein.
Learn from this. Your purpose is an idea you are consumed by that you think will impact humanity. Big dreams like mine. What you are passionate about. That will be more important than mere pussy or sex.

Now that is what your purpose it. I pray I succeed anyway

AndSunGorilla:
I think the academies are already doing à lot in this regard because they want to make money. However, the downside is, they are too much in a haste to make money and ship out players prématurely and to wrong places. If there can be à good framework to ensure players are not been shipped out to wrong places for pitance, perhaps we can better harness the talents we have.

The notion that we don't develop talent is overrated. In the last 3 years these players have come to the fore.
1. Babatunde akinsola
2. Ebenezer akinsanmiro
3. Hamzat ojediran
4. Victor orakpo
5. Hafeez umar
6. Gift orban who was discovered I nigeria
7. Daniel daga
8. Victor eletu
9. A certain midfielder named Dennis in the Turkish league.
We are not bad as per discovering players. It's not as bad as people make it out to be. At least something tangible is going on. Ot could be better but we are trying. As you said they should not be too much in a hurry to leave for obscure leagues.
Anyway, I learnt victor udoh May make his debut for Southampton this week

zoboizee:
Lauren in his playing days never played the same position for club & country. Yet was very effective for both Arsenal & Cameroon in the role he was deployed to play. When a player is talented it is not hard to see. Seeing Uche and saying that he's not playing as a midfielder for club is not an excuse, Uche is versatile and it is obvious to see. Our football leaders are too short-sighted and transactional.

Yeah uche is one of those players who can play I'm multiple positions. He sometimes even plays midfield for his club.
By the June friendlies, he will be in the team. It's a matter of time. It's like saying firmino is a forward and can't olay midfield or ronaldinho is a winger. There are many platers who play more than one position.beven kalu uche for nigeria

TheSuperNerd:
In the first leg, it was Alisson. In the second leg, it is DONNARUMMA. GKs are huge determinants in Game outcomes.

But overall, PSG deserves it. Liverpool escaped them in the first leg but couldn't escape them in the 2nd leg.

The better team qualifies and SALAH WAS KEPT QUIET IN BOTH GAMES. Nuno Mendes deserves his flowers.

1. Osimhen in psg will be simply wonderful.
2. Psg has finally evolved tge winning mentality needed to win the champions league. To win this kind of competition, uou need courage, persistence mire than sheer talent. You might even play badly and win. Psg now have that winning mentality.

Careente7:
I was walking down the road with a girlfriend then she asked me why I was walking close to the gutter that she was supposed to walk close to the gutter while I walk by her right because of moving vehicles. She said it wasn’t proper for a lady to walk close to the road when walking with a guy. I asked if I was Superman or if I couldn’t get hit by a car. She was surprised I asked cos according to her no guy had ever asked her that question. Then I realized the kind of guys she’s been with. But who even brought that law? It’s been messing with a lot of men(young boys to be precised). We need the gospel



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Men are created by mother nature to protect and care for women. Let there be a war and the men will have to risk things while the women will be protected. This occurs because they are the gender that gives birth to children. From pure evolutionary terms, men are dispensable as one man can impregenate 100 women but if women die out, the tribe can go extinct.
In the bible in the book of judges chapter 20, the tribe of Benjamin was nearly wiped out because no women were left. They had to look for women.
If only one man is left with 100 women the tribe cannot go extinct but it may go extinct if it is the other way round.
It may sound harsh but we are the disposable sex even though we are stringer and maybe smarter. Women have the privilege of being valued just for existing.
Also this is whynancient cultures Place emphasis on the fertility of women. In fact in African culture, a barren woman is not safe in her holusbands house.
It has its advantages and disadvantages. We men have provider and protection instincts from mother nature. Women might exploit us for this bit it is the way it is

Pukkalolo:
The problem isn’t that he’s unqualified to speak on female nature.

The real issue is that many of his redpill “game” messages, along with those of some other guys here, are Westernized and not tailored to African or Nigerian men.

What do I mean by "Westernized"?

Please read open mindedly and slowly. This is will help you understand the reality of seduction or "game" in Nigeria

Most guys study redpill and game concepts written by men in the U.S. and the U.K., then blindly copy-paste them here. Worse, they try applying them to Naija or West African women without realizing that culture matters in seduction.

When I first set out to truly understand women and build my confidence, I approached a large number of them: both in public and within my social circles. And if there’s one thing I can say with certainty, it’s this:

Westernized "game" doesn’t really work here.

Culture and environment shape the way people think and behave—including in seduction. How you attract and seduce a Nigerian woman is different from how you do it with an American woman.

Most guys don’t realize this. That’s why, despite consuming all the redpill and "game" advice, something still isn’t clicking.

America and Nigeria are two different worlds.
In America, parents don’t flog their kids because their culture frowns upon it.

In Nigeria, most of us got flogged by our parents while growing up.

That’s culture for you.

Likewise, what works on a London girl won’t necessarily work on an Afghan girl because they were raised differently.

In America, couples openly kiss and make out in public: it’s normal there.

In Nigeria, public displays of affection are rare because our culture doesn’t encourage it.
That’s why Western redpill “game” that works on American women won’t necessarily work on Naija women.


I’ve gone sexual with quite a number of Naija girls, so I’m speaking from experience. I know the missing piece in most Naija guys’ “game.”
The problem with Westernized game advice is that it’s heavily focused on attraction.

A lot of Naija guys think, “If she’s attracted to me, she’ll sleep with me.”

Well, that might work in America, where an attractive woman might directly sleep with you just because she’s attracted. That’s why typical “game” advice is tailored to Western women.

But Naija girls don’t think that way. At least, not from my personal experience—unless she’s a shameless slut.

Notice the keyword: "shameless."

A lot of Naija girls are sluts, but they aren’t shameless about it. They are low-key. That’s why they won’t act on their attraction and just give a guy sex like that.


Guys have told me, “Pukka, you’re right. This girl seems attracted to me, but she won’t have sex with me.”

My response is:

She’s a Naija girl: she’s ashamed of her attraction for you.

Your job is to make her feel shameless about it. Or more accurately, make her feel sexually comfortable with the idea of sleeping with you.
A lot of Naija girls are attracted to you, but they hide it. You might think she’s just doing shakara, but no—she’s just ashamed of her attraction.

Your goal as a man is simple:

Make her feel comfortable being attracted to you or make her feel shameless about it.
Most guys don’t do this; or worse, they don’t even know how. So they keep losing girls over and over again, despite consuming all this redpill content.

The few legit players and pimps I know get sex—not because of attraction—but because they understand that attraction alone isn't what get them the pussy.


Some guys who roll with me initially assume that I’m just a natural with women: that I simply get stronger attraction from more women, which is why I sleep with them.

But that’s not true.

I’m not a good-looking guy, so I don’t rely on attraction. Instead, when I meet a girl with even the tiny attraction toward me, I build on that.

I make her feel shameless about her attraction and create a sense of comfort around sex.
Because I know that her shamelessness and comfort toward sex—not attraction—is what’s going to get me laid. Basically, I know how to give off a non-judgmental vibe around women.

The Harsh Truth About Attraction in Nigeria

If you’re relying purely on attraction to get laid in Nigeria, you’ll need to approach over 50 to even 100-200 women (or more) before one agrees to sleep with you based solely on attraction.
Most Naija women don’t sleep with men just because they’re attracted to them.

That’s why a lot of Naija girls, directly or indirectly, demand money or financial gifts before going sexual. Because that money or gift acts as a substitute for the sexual comfortableness you failed to create in them.

On the other hand, most legit players and pimps often get sex for free—not because they’re rich or good-looking, but because they know how to make a woman feel shameless or comfortable about sleeping with them.

Final Thoughts

At the end of the day, a lot of redpill posts on this thread are just copy-paste material from Western sources.

I can tell that many of the guys posting this stuff don’t have real experience with women. They just regurgitate Western redpill theories without adapting them to their own naija reality.

You are right. Even a Nigerian girl that sleeps around will hide it. She will not want to be seen as a slut. Ubunja even said one has to be quiet about it when you get sexual with a nigerian girl. Girls appreciate it a lot if you get sexual with them but you don't let anyone know or act judgmental.
IOn the other hand, the Western world is too tolerant. Society needs a little conservatism to stem the tide of certain excesses. Its gotten to the point where stuff like beastiality, trans genders, lgbtq, even maryong a tree or incest I'd being tolerated or seen as an alternative lifestyle. Those things are not healthy and are psychologically damaging.
We should be glad we live in a society where a girl cannot sleep with 50 men and then brag about it and say she feels empowered. At least it makes girls decent enough for marriage even if it is hypocritical. At least it lowers wirish tendencies in women.

TheSuperNerd:
Vince Osuji today for Club Brugge NXT away at RFC Seraing in Belgium.

90mins played.
142 touches.
1 chance created.
113 accurate passes (88% passing accuracy)
9 clearances
2 interceptions
1 tackle.
1 last man tackle
2/3 ground duels won
6/8 aerial duels won
4/11 accurate long balls


His 113 accurate passes out of 128 passes attempted was the highest in the game. Mega-involved in the play.

Maybe he can play in midfield. Like some libero. Will like him under a guardiola like coach

yinkeys:
Nigerian politicians never learn
Don’t be surprised if we don’t qualify
S/Africa football is better run, forget about big names the game is a team sport
A prepared & properly trained group with team chemistry would beat us any day

I don't understand. If we qualify fir tge world cup and di well in the competition, the politicians will have more money to steal. From a selfish point of view it will be better for us to get to the semi final of the 2026 world cup. Then nigerian football will attract more money that can be stolen
These our politicians are so shout sighted that they are even cheating themselves. World Cup qualifiers will end in 8 months time. The short sightedness and greed bothers on a psychological problem.
So how much money will they steal if we don't qualify for the world cup

TheGoodJoe:
Frightening complete. His ability was superhuman.

I remember a game he wanted to take a free kick. The ball was too far from goal. When the referee turned, Nasri moved the ball closer. Yaya Toure collected the ball, moved it even more farther from the goal. Then scored it with a scorching curler. He was a delight to watch.

Okochavis far better. Okochas ability to control thr midfield is far ahead. Yayactkurevis a product of modern footballs hatred of flair. He is just effective that's all. Okochs eill collect the midfield from this your yaya toure. I don't see much about him compared to okocha. You will say tkure was more successful in Europe but European football is sometimes just tactics and team work. Which dribble did toure invent. I don't send yaya toure at all. Yaya what. Just a tall, effective player that's all. He did not bring beauty to football. No innovative technique, no anything

JESHAL007:
Vagina power is the power a woman has over men that is rooted in men's weakness for her vagina. Men HATE AND RESENT that power. Because it is exploitative - it preys on men's weakness and lack of self control by making them act stupid for the benefit of women.

This is why stuff like pick up artistry, cold approach, how to get sex from women easily is good. Vagina won't have powerbover you if female sexuality is accessible to you. A man who can get girls easily can't be controlled by vagina anymore this us why I don't tonally croticize lessons on how to get laid. If a man fund's it difficult to get laid or even any form of female attention, vagina can easily control him.

It simply shows she us s high class prostitute. Most of these social media girls are whores

Football is a funny game. Is nwabali of nigeria and south african league better than onana of Manchester united. To be honest nwabali looks better if you watch him play. Judging European based players as better is only right 75% of the time and it even depends on the circumstances. Getting to Europe depends on exposure, having a good agent etc. Mohammed aboutrika, segun odegbami, etc great african players that did not play in Europe might be better than some European based players. Football like life us subjective and is not in black and white. Stuff happens. We even have a winger called ajayi that has won everything will al ahlibif Egypt. I can say with all confidence that a good african league like psl, moroccan league etc is better than any league outside the top 20 of Europe. Fir leagues ranked 10 to 20, a good african league might be on the same level or even better.
That's how life works. I know people will disagree but life is not this simole. Beside, if we all thoughtbthe same way life will be boring and unproressive

Angelfrost:
A.I is the future, whether we like it or not...!

How you use it will underscore your level of intelligence or lack of.

There is absolutely nothing wrong in using artificial intelligence to make your learning smoother, faster, more convenient and understandable.

I honestly wish I had AI back in my undergraduate days... It would have been awesome.


The sole issue remains the mental laziness of "copy and paste".

Artificial intelligence and online tutorials may render some lazy nigerian lecturers redundant or maje them irrelevant.

They are really selling their feminist/lgbtq agenda. A black lesbian woman (Cynthia Erivo) is now playing the role of Jesus christ in a Broadway show. They just want inclusively everytime. So God is now a woman. I get the feminist ideology.

irumole1975:
This thread has finally die a natural death. Very soon, this guy go get tired too and stop posting rubbish just like his predecessors and men can rest knowing fully well we can simp and let our women control us without measure as long as püsșy is guaranteed

The thread cannot die because simping leads to suffering. Simping leads to paternity fraud, disappointment, heartbreak pussy scarcity and all sorts of problems.
The issue with simping is that men who simp will become emotionally abused, financially exploited and dumped and will come and complain and talking will start again.
It's hard to get a woman by simping. Simping is a very ineffective strategy for getting women. By the time a red pill guy has 7 girlfriends with a little money, a simp might spend close to a million naira on one useless olosho in disguise who is cheating on him. Simping is hard, laborious and wicked on men.
Women are very wicked and hard on simps but soft in red pilled men. That's the way it works.

Gerrard59:
You made strong points here. However, with the present alpha male gospel that's preached on social media, I want to believe a growing number of young Nigerian men are now aware of the inner strengths they have especially as their income status increases. It will take time tho and maybe na why some if not most of these men begin to "explore" immediately they get married because the attraction will now be more than they expected. It's something (immense and intense attraction from women) they've never experienced.

I don't know but I'm nit eben a ladies man. I'm only 49 percent red pilled but I have experienced some level of genuine attraction from eomen. In my university days 2 ladies asked me out but I refused. Is it that most guys don't even have the chance to refuse ladies. Also, a lady is attracted to me and complaining that I am ignoring her. Getting genuine attraction from women is not as hard as guys make it. You don't have to be as rich as dangote, as handsome as ronaldo, or as I telligent as eunstein. Just be a little red pilled and be confident and you will meet your type of girl. Maybe I'm wrong but I think a lot of guys still get genuine attraction from ladies.
It's not that hard I think. I'm socially clumsy and don't dress too well but yet stillness genuine attraction from women. Just look for choosing signs and you will see it. I have been with ladies who can't control themselves when I'm around and just take off their pants. It's easy.
Why this inability to generate genuine attraction from women.

Bannedlargejr:
Man utd, Chelsea and arsenal needs a striker and his release clause is 75 Million. Oya nature do your thing

Arsenal is best. Many is unsettled. Chelsea is a little better but also not too good.
At arsenal, he will replicate his napoli feat and fire them to a first league title after so many years. The team is okay. Just needs a few good players over the summer.

Samueltemi337:
No player has more Ligue 1 assists than Moses Simon this season.

Moses simon deserves a big club. If he was in ac milan, he will be more impactful than chukwueze. I used to underrated him but from the time of eguavon at afcon I saw how good he could be.
Yes moses Simon deserves to be given a chance in a big club. He does simple things the right way

Sadiq Umar scores.

Stepout23:
I remember a story I heard some years ago from a friend whose younger cousin graduated from one of the federal universities in Nigeria. When she graduated, her family celebrated, took pictures, and danced. She graduated with a second-class upper, so it calls for celebration because it is believed that her chance of getting a job was high. But a few months later, reality hit hard.

She couldn’t find a job. Her parents supported her for a while, but they couldn't do much because they have other of her siblings in school too. Rather, they were expecting her contribution to the family already since she has graduated. She didn’t know how to budget her little savings. She had no idea how to start a business or even write a proper CV.

One day, she came to my friend, who happened to be her cousin, crying, “Aunty, nobody told me it would be like this.” 💔

When she narrated her story to me, that’s when it hit me. Schools prepared us for exams, but not for real life.

As Nigerian parents, we work hard to give our children the best education, but is school enough? In today’s world, our children need more than just math and English. They need real-life skills that schools don’t teach.

Here are 10 important lessons your child MUST learn to succeed in the real world:

1️⃣ Financial literacy 💰 (How to budget, save, and invest)

2️⃣ Digital literacy 📱 (How to stay safe online)

3️⃣ Emotional intelligence 🧠 (Managing feelings and relationships)

4️⃣ Critical thinking 🤔 (How to analyze information and make smart decisions)

5️⃣ Entrepreneurship 📈 (How to start and manage a business)

6️⃣ Problem-solving 🛠️ (Handling challenges in real life)

7️⃣ Self-discipline 📆 (Managing time and responsibilities)

8️⃣ Negotiation skills 🤝 (How to get what you deserve)

9️⃣ Coding & technology skills 💻 (The future of work is digital!)

🔟 Self-defense & safety awareness[b][/b] 🛡️ (Protecting oneself in any situation)

💡 If schools won’t teach these, who will? As parents, let’s make sure our children don’t face life unprepared.

What do you wish you had learned earlier? Let’s discuss in this thread! ⬇️

Mathematics teaches
1. Critical or analytical thinking
2. Problem solving.
Verbal and quantitative reasoning teaches us how to think creatively.
Physics and chemistry teaches us how to invent things with our knowledge of science.
THE REAL PROBLEM IS THAT EDUCATION HAS BEEN LIMITED TO READING TO PASS EXAMS AND NOT APPLYING WHAT YOU READ TO REALITY OR GENERALLY JUST READING FIR CURIOSITY AND SELF DEVELOPMENT.
education has been misunderstood.

Pukkalolo:
Part 2:

Years ago, I used to believe that because I was "ugly," no girl would ever want me.

Then I watched a dating game show that completely shifted my perspective.

It was a YouTube show where five guys competed for the affection of a beautiful woman. (I’ve tried finding the video again, but no luck. Still, this show was the first thing that gave me real confidence that I could pull chicks…despite not having a fine face.)

In the show, the winner goes home with the woman and receive a cash prize along with other benefits.

The woman interacted with all five contestants, asked them questions, and slowly eliminated three of them…leaving only two finalists.

This is where things got intense.

One of them was tall, handsome, and cool: the type of guy most guys assume always wins with women.

The other guy was Just a normal looking guy.

The tall, handsome guy was more attractive. Even the judges of the show openly rooted for him to win. And to add salt to injury, the woman was clearly attracted to him.

So, at this point, we all thought the game was over.

Then something unexpected happened.

The show tested the two men by putting them in different real-life scenarios with the woman to see how they acted around her.

Scene 1: At the Bar

She sat with Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy and asked if he was a heavy drinker.

He confidently replied, "I drink, but I always control myself. I never let myself go too far. I have self-discipline."

The woman smiled and complimented him, "Wow, that’s really cool. I like that."

Attraction increased. No surprise.

Then, she sat with Mr. Normal Looking Guy and asked the same question.

He laughed and said, "I used to be a heavy drinker. One time, I got so drunk, I fell into a gutter on my way home."

She burst out laughing. Then he added, "That’s when I realized I needed to start drinking responsibly."

Then he playfully asked her, "What about you? Have you ever gotten drunk and accidentally kissed a dwarf at a bar before?"

She giggled, playfully hit his shoulder, and kept laughing.

Here’s what I noticed:

She wasn't initially attracted to Mr. Normal Guy, but she was slowly picking up interest in him.

Why?

Because Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy acted too perfect for her. He seemed like the guy who never messed up…which made her feel insecure around him.

Meanwhile, Mr. Normal Guy made her feel comfortable, relaxed, and playful.

She felt she could be vulnerable around him without being judged.

Scene 2: At the Pool

In the swimming pool, Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy was showing off his swimming skills, teaching her how to swim like a pro.

She was attracted, but at the same time, she felt insecure around him. Without realizing it, he was actually pushing her out of state…because he seemed too perfect for her.

But In the swimming pool with Mr. Normal Guy, he whispered in her ear and said,

"Hey, if you ever feel like peeing in the water, do it… Don’t worry, I won’t tell anyone."

She laughed and said, "You’re crazy!"

Now, that was a silly and weird statement… but it worked. He put her in a certain “state”

Because subconsciously, she interpreted it as:

"This guy isn’t going to judge me. He’s not like society or like Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy, who might think less of me if I make a mistake."

And here’s the kicker:

In her feminine mind, she probably thought, "If I ever decide to sleep with this Mr Normal Guy, he won’t judge me or think I’m a slut."


Again, Mr. Normal Guy unintentionally put her in a “state” where she felt she could be vulnerable around him.


When it was time for her to choose…

She said she was more attracted to Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy.

But then…

She chose Mr. Normal Guy. Right there on the show, she even kissed Mr Normal Guy.

The judges were shocked.

"Unbelievable! Are you kidding me?" they exclaimed.

Everyone assumed Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy would win…even the woman herself admitted she didn’t know why she picked Mr. Normal Guy.

But as I got more experience with women, I wasn’t surprised.

No one noticed that Mr. Normal Guy had been putting her in the right "state" the entire time—with his unfiltered, and judgment-free vibe.

Meanwhile, Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy—despite being more attractive— had unintentionally made her feel out of state. So he went home alone that night.

Here's the The Takeaway:

You might say, "That doesn’t make sense. Why would she choose Mr. Normal Guy over Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy?"

Well, let me tell you something…

I’ve known tall, handsome guys who struggle to get laid.

And I’ve known average-to-ugly guys who are pulling women like crazy.

I even have a friend who is super handsome…girls constantly give him choosing signals, flirt with him, and make it clear they’re interested.

Yet, he rarely bleeps them.

Meanwhile, I’m not considered good-looking, but I’ve been able to consistently pull beautiful chicks.

Why?

Because I understand how to put women in the right state of mind.


As a man, Never allow your looks or height any disadvantages limit you.

You might be ugly or short physically, but you can build a tall and handsome mindset.


Your mindset is your greatest weapon.

This isn’t just about dating.

Whether it’s career, finances, or any other area of life—as a man, the biggest thing limiting your success is your mindset.

Master that, and everything else follows.

The idea that women only find 20 percent of men who are rich and or handsome attractive is disempowering and defeatist. It leads to
1. Inferiority complex or low self esteem
2. Pedastalizing women
3. Inceldoom. I think this ideology produces incels.
4. It even sounds like it goes beyond sex to lacking enough self confidence to relate with people and be successful in life.
One cannot be so harsh on oneself.
How can you tell a young man that 50 percent of the world population. (Which are women) somewhat think he is unattractive and inferior. Its very very disempowerong. Its not even about sex but the lack of self confidence, poor relational skills and unhappiness it will bring into someone's life. People should stop preaching this idea to young men.
It may be true to some extent but it does not help anybody. It just lives people disempowered.

If only men are in the world.
1. There will be too many wars violence and bloodshed. Masculine energy is too violent.
2. Maybe the world would have ended with another third world war that will result in a nuclear war.
3. Feminine energy may be responsible for the relative peace we have.

Women may have their faults but we need them around.
Nazi Germany was too masculine and see the result.
It was the wickedness of the Patriarchy that led to 2 world wars. After the second World War, feminism rose to make the world a little softer and kinder

Amedino99:
https://punchng.com/caf-snubs-eaglets-in-final-u-17-afcon-slots/. Final hopes dashed

Caf will be sanctioned of they are reported to fifa
It is simply irrational to have 12 teams in a tournament in which 10 teams qualify.
Nff should simply report caf to fifa.
If teams from the west african zone protest, fifa will sanction them. This is simply cheating and blatant stupidity