Romance › Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by Philosopher1979: 4:24pm On Apr 18, 2025 |
rosalieene: Most times, parents are to blame. There is no young girl that purposely want to lock herself up unless the extreme introverts. Back then, I had always been an indoor person and still is one because of home training. I could be indoors for weeks except when I am going to church, market etc. But now, I try to go out. Now am home to spend time with family before going back... Just last night, I had a big argument with my mum, she said I am lost! She doesn't know me anymore..... Says I go out and come back anytime and she can't trust me. Hian! Like seriously? I cannot go out in peace again ni. When has going out to hangout spots and seeing friends become a crime? They just want me to be indoors from morning till night. Its shameful as to how I would go out and be hurrying to leave so that darkness would not meet me but trust Lagos holdup, you would definitely get home when darkness sets in. So my point is, if you check out, most Nigerian parents are part and parcel of this problem all because they want their daughters to be good girls. Anyway, its all good. If you can't train your children well, who will? The real issue is poor social skills. In an effort to make a child a good boy or girl some Nigerian parents shut down the social life if their children. These kind of children when they grow up do not k iw hiw to relate with people, have few friends and are socially awkward. Also, we don't listen to our children and this affects their self confidence. These problems spill over into getting married to a good man or woman. Poor social skills, inability to express oneself confidently etc |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 10:53pm On Apr 10, 2025 |
Tchinaidi: Just finished watching our afcon qualifiers against Libya a d I can tell you for free that Cerezo is by far a better coach than chelle.He understands the boys better and play them in their areas of strength.The super eagle teams plays the kind of football we are known under Cerezo.A lot of people will beg to differ because of our loss to rwanda.Our full squad weren't on display because we had already qualified.Cerezo was trying to experiment with the game.I bet you with cerezo as team coach we would have beaten zim with a better style of play.Chelle am afraid does not understand our style of play and may not get it right for along time to come. Yeah you are right. Chelle has to listen to eguavin if he wants to succeed. The issue is eguavon should have been retained after the failed world cup qualifiers against Ghana. That would have given him enough time to mould the team. Also, he should have succeeded peseiro and not the inexperience finidi. I also noticed eguavon actually learn from peseiro. In his mashes he went from 3 4 3 to 4 3 3 and other formations. Thirdly chele does not understand our players he badly needs eguavon. I believe he will be humble enough to learn from him. |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 4:13am On Apr 05, 2025 |
Joezinho: This Kanu's slander is really getting outta hand.
No Nigerian player is as good as Nwankwo Kanu. Not just about his skills but his brilliance on the ball and the kind of goals he scores. I remember numerous occasions where Naija will be needing a goal, and once you saw Papilo jogging you Know penalty don come. It was a script that played out countless times.Kanu was Naija's Joker then. Football then was traditional and not statistical like it's now. Impacting and influencing a game then was what great players do and not necessarily goals. A player might dribble 4 defenders, destroy a defence and then pass the ball into the penalty box. The player he passed to might now pass to the striker to score. The most effective player was the player who dribbled and created the chance or space but statistics may not show it. There are players like that. Kanu is like that. Remember his pass to utaka that made us defeat cameroon. Statistics can be limiting. There are many matches we would not have won if not for kanu |
Romance › Re: Do Not Marry From A Poor Home When You Finally Make It. by Philosopher1979: 7:54pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
visaclick: Yet they want 2face to settle for broke annie, does these people even know what it means to be a woman from the asama family, that family is so wealthy and powerful that even a security man to asama is probably twice as rich as tuface yet all they have to say was “yen yen annie is cute” to hell with her cuteness we are talking about status here.
For your architectural and structural drawings, send me a pm or WhatsApp me via my profile. This is why you should not blame some women fro marrying because of money. If wimen marry because of money, you should not blame them as you are saying a man should choose money over love. If a woman dumps her broke boyfriend and marries a millionaire dint blame her. Love cannot buy a house or put food on the table |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 2:37am On Apr 01, 2025 |
Tchinaidi: The Truth must be told.Iwobi may be the only creative player this generation of eagle have.Kelechi can also play the role of attacking midfield hence he should recalled back to the squad.Uche no doubt can play the advanced role but then again he is very slow on ball movement and doesn't not have the required experience for a tournament like Afcon. Ebenezer akinsanmiro says high Also victor eletu may get a teM in the summer |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 12:32am On Mar 30, 2025 |
I complained about this to meta ai and it added this to it
You're suggesting that the Nigerian football team's past successes, particularly the 1994 "Golden Generation," may be limiting their current aspirations and mindset. This phenomenon is often referred to as the "curse of past success" or "success-induced complacency."
The Psychology of Past Success Research in psychology suggests that past successes can indeed create a psychological barrier, making it challenging for individuals or teams to strive for even greater achievements. This can be attributed to various factors, such as:
- *Complacency*: Becoming too comfortable with past successes and lacking the motivation to push beyond them. - *Fear of failure*: Being hesitant to take risks or try new approaches due to the fear of not meeting or exceeding past achievements. - *Mental ceiling*: Unconsciously setting a mental limit on what is possible, based on past successes.
Breaking the Psychological Barrier To overcome this barrier, it's essential to recognize and challenge these limiting mindsets. This can involve:
- *Reframing past successes*: Viewing past achievements as a foundation for future growth, rather than a ceiling. - *Setting new goals*: Establishing ambitious targets that encourage innovation and progress. - *Embracing a growth mindset*: Fostering a culture that values learning, experimentation, and continuous improvement.
Victor Osimhen's Achievement As you mentioned, Victor Osimhen's achievement of winning the African Footballer of the Year award is an excellent example of breaking through this psychological barrier. His success demonstrates that Nigerian footballers can still achieve great things and excel on the international stage. |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 12:21am On Mar 30, 2025 |
daveP: 442 na virus to this SE. There's some obsession with it that is attached to the 1994 set that runs admin today. I dunno. E dey bkock road i no go lie. We need to evolve beyond 4 4 2 as soon as possible. Then the 1994 set can be a stumbling block. It can be a psychological barrier. It is as if we think we cannot achieve more than them. We seem to believe getting to the semi finals of the world cup or wining 3 successive editions of the nations cup is impossible. We are not thinking of achieving more than that generation. We see their achievements as the limit. That is mythical, unscientific and very weird. It's as if we see getting to the second round of the world cup as mythical and impossible to surpass. One football commentator said nigeria getting to the final of the world cup was unrealistic. I'm happy morocco which does not do well in the nations cup proved us wrong. The 94 set is a stumbling block and not an inspiration and this is the tragedy. We need to make our history and forget about 94. We can do better. There are psychological barriers that need to be broken. It's funny and sad. At least victor osimhen and ademola lookman broke the barrier by winning african footballer of the year. Some people before osimhens time might believe we can't win african footballer of the year because the gods of 94 cannot be surparssed |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 10:55pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
Moniter0: A player like Iwobi has no replacement at the moment. He shouldn't have been substituted in the last game except for injury. His passing game would have ensured the SE retained some possession, and also stoping the Zimbabweans from going all out when they had the ball because of the fear of a quick and sleek counter-attack from Iwobi. Everything changed when Iwobi was substituted.
There won't be a creative spark from the SE if Iwobi is benched and that will leave the defense with some more pressure to deal with because if you're not attacking then you're defending. So if iwobi is injured or rendered impotent, then Nigerian team will be defeated. Please let us try other alternatives to iwobi in our friendlies. Ebenezer akinsanmiro, olawoyin in Turkey, victor eletu or other options. See our opponents are watching us. So if south africa wants to defeat us, they will mark iwobi out of the game and that is all. We need to try other options in friendlies l. The funny thing us one can even play with 2 playmakers at the same time. Just let us try them in friendlies. I keep saying that opposition teams are better coaches than us. Most of our coaches do not sound too intelligent. Our tactics are just too predictable for any intelligent opposition coach to counter. God please give our coaches wisdom |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 9:45am On Mar 29, 2025 |
Kog45: Ekong build from the back? Our coaches do not appear to be toonintelligent. Just do a 3 man centre back and let olisah ndah build from back with 2 other defenders behind him. Uche and inyeka in midfield. Try akinsanmiro as an attacking midfielder. Try it in a friendly Our coaches should pray to God for wisdom. Wisdom of the way to use our players us the main problem of our team. Almight God please give our coaches Wisdom as you gave Solomon. The sat we get a ciach who understands us we will achieve great things. The coach of zimbabwe should be our coach. Our opponents see our weaknesses while we don't. Instead of tactics we keep talking of leagues the player is playing in. God almighty give our coaches Wisdom the way you gave solomon. God pkease |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 5:40am On Mar 27, 2025 |
Amedino99: I don't think there has ever been a match we didn't create enough chances to win comfortably throughout this campaign. Even under finidi I'm sure we created enough chances to win those matches. It's more annoying that osimhen is our highest goal scorer despite the fact that he has only played 2 out of 6 games. Our problem is not the defense, formation, chance creation or midfield combination. It's how to freaking put the ball inside the net. Sometimes I can't believe how we much chances we miss in these matches. This is why I said our national team still needs ighalo. He is the one who has the ability to convert chances. He is nit nervous like the other players and his experience counts a lot. This is not about living in the past or not giving young players a chance. Ihmghalo has the nerve to convert these chances our forwards keep missing. He can come in as a sub and score. His finishing is still needed. I have said my own |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 9:54pm On Mar 26, 2025 |
TheSuperNerd: You no go join ke? See now....
Christantus Uche leads all U21s in duels won across all the European Top 5 leagues. Powerhouse!!! I have not watched him.olay. but from what I read. Maybe he can be for our midfield what osimhen is to our attack. He should be invited and made tonokay the June friendlies. He onyeka and akinsanmiro in midfield should pkay a complete match. Let's see what happens |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 2:07pm On Mar 26, 2025 |
Dannyxy: SA, ZIM, CAR, BENIN, and all the other teams that have won or drawn us, are not good enough to beat us, but over the years Nigerian Super Eagles have lost that fear factor. Nigeria has players to dominate Africa, it’s not a fluke that we produce two African best back to back, it’s not a fluke we have players breaking records for their clubs and winning things, we have one of, if not the best set of players in Africa.
But what is the issue? let’s look in-depth and forget emotions of “our players are this or that”, last Afcon, Nigeria players played only 60% of their capacity and got to the finals of the Afcon, meaning this team is underperforming overwhelmingly when it comes to qualifiers especially home games. Our F.A needs to sit up, get things rightly, stop pressuring or picking players for the coach, all this nonsense technical committee should hands off and let the coach work, we need to get a stadium in a state with the best weather all year round, and play to our home advantage, a state that has good weather, will see our players always not gassing out, we need a a lot psychological boosting for our players, we need to make Nigeria a fortress again, remind them what it means to fight till the end, and if any player is being complacent and not bringing Osimhen energy from the first blast, scrap him out, when you wear the national team jersey you are a soldier carrying the smiles and hope of 200 million people, let them play their heart out and loose, one day we will get right, but I don’t see a Nigeria team with their head in the game fighting and playing like warriors loosing to any bloody team in Africa, talk less of this little team, this issue is whole-sum and we need to get the players working, no amount lamentations will solve it, but practical approach.
Let’s see this boys fight till the last minute, and play to their strengths, let me see which South Africa will escape. Maybe they should hire a psychologist for the Super Eagles. Kanu once said our players have a psychological problem. They seem scared and unmotivated fir success. Success is psychological and inspirational. Also, the team needs a mature tactician. An intelligent coach who knows how to use the players and a motivational person. Psychologically, these boys are nit ready to play. I'm not talking of talent. Just their mind set. They are not mentality monsters. Tom saintfelt shouldnhave being hired. He has more experience for African football. We had the chance but blew it. They seem like manchester united. Just living on past glory. Some good players but just mediocre results |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 5:13am On Mar 26, 2025 |
TheSuperNerd: Chellechukwu messed that one up.
He should have brought in Alhassan and Onyedika both to increase our midfield numbers alongside Iwobi and to keep the tempo up in the final third keeping Zim on the backfoot.
We bring in Onyedika for Iwobi while leaving an Ndidi on the pitch. Nothing changed much... Still a 2 man midfield and only subbing out an attack minded technically blessed midfielder for a defensive minded technically blessed midfielder.
Chelle should have gone to 3 in the middle. Well, we are not going to the World Cup.
SA will lose their 3 pts vs Lesotho and we will still not get near them. Shame. I think the issue is that most of our coaches are so carried away with our attacking prowess that they fail to pay attention to our midfield and defence till it is too late. We don't even need stars in midfield or defence. Just players who do the basic thongs right. Frank onyeka just runs and marks well and it is OK. We even have at least decent midfielders but every time it us attract, attack. In our friendly let us see what ebenezer akinsanmiro can do in place of iwobi. Another issue us that experiments should be left for friendlies. Our coaches don't try new things in friendlies. |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 11:31pm On Mar 25, 2025 |
Jerrymanta: I even doubt we will qualify for 2030 world cup sef...while other African teams including the minnows and dark horses are getting better in football, we seem to be stagnating...we don't have a good youth system anymore, at least back in the days we used to churn out several talents from our U17-U23 teams, now we are so bad at the youth level that we haven't been to am Olympic tournament in how many years now? Where will the next Osimhen, Mikel Obi, Chinedu Obasi etc come from?
It's not looking good for us my guy, maybe our women will make us happy a bit, but you see this Super Eagles under this NFF? forget it...it's not getting to get any better. I see the likes of Osimhen, Iwobi, Lookman etc actually taking a long break from international football or retiring to focus on their clubs at this point. As per youth football, we are very okay. List. Ebenezer akinsanmiro Kperogi Otisanya in Brazil Vincent osuji in genk Daniel daga Victor eletu Hafiz umar Babatunde akinsola Dennis in turkey Many others Football academies have taken care of our youth football. People just like sating our youth football is not good because we have bad afministrators. Our grassroots football is buzzing and active. A lot of people don't follow Nigerian football. They just shout and complain everytime we loose. |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 5:50pm On Mar 25, 2025 |
Diavolo: I won't call it abysmal. Just subpar. Putting the players in their best position and going with a simpler formation that they understand will make it a lot better. National teams have barely 4 training sessions in between matches,that's too little time to try to implement something very drastic and complicated. For now a simple 4 3 3 will be good for our team. Just get three midfielders and three forwards. That way, our midfield will not be lean. |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 4:05pm On Mar 25, 2025 |
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Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 2:53pm On Mar 25, 2025 |
AndSunGorilla: OGN is predicting the same lineup as we fielded against Rwanda. I feel Aina was shackled in his rôle though. Don't know why Éric isn't impressed with Bruno. The reason why aina is playing as a left back is what I dint understand. Then why cukwueze as a midfielder in a midfield diamond. I doubt if chukwueze can play that role well. |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 2:29pm On Mar 24, 2025 |
Joebie: We have moved away from overcautiousness and i think its a good thing that Chelle is ready to move players around. We didnt play badly at all, though Osimhen's return was a huge factor in the win We need natural midfielders like ebenezer akinsanmiro, chrisantus uche for this his diamond formation. They should be tried in the friendlies in June. Akinsanmiro is a rookie but we should see what he does un the friendly. Using chukwueze as a midfielder in a diamond 4 4 2 is not proper. Lts see what akinsanmiro can do. Uche too in midfield. There is also onechhu ogbelu in Tunisia. |
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Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 9:42am On Mar 19, 2025 |
minfelix: its always difficult beating teams that park the bus though anywhere in the world Barca, Bayern, Argentina Portugal have all tasted this sour football from opponents, so these kinda of opponents tight defenses will always need their defense to be opened by a solo brilliant effort of one of the team member…thats why everyone need to keep fighting from the blast of the whistle - i remember Argentina sweating to unlock Iran defense till die mins before the solo effort Messi could find a winning goal in 2014 WC
- i remember Nigeria sweating hard to unlock Tanzania, until a brilliant solo effort from Iheanacho came and open them
even Portugal vs Morocco, Ronaldo sweat tire nothing came out At the bolded, you said we need creative players that can score impossible goals from any angle. One of the few players who can do that in the Super Eagles is Sadiq Umar. He has all these impossible goals in his locker. I know a lot of people here dont rate him but every player has his strengths. Creativity and technicality is one of his strengths. Another creative magical player is Chidera Ejuke. Samuel Chukwueze is also capable of magic but he is not consistent. |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 2:38pm On Mar 16, 2025 |
PinkNature: What does it mean when we say every man should find his purpose?
Does it mean looking inward to discover your passion and following it? In the year 2025. A new form of mathematics called relational set theory will be developed. The theory will impact mathematics, computer science and other areas. It will be developed in nigeria. I am working on a new form of maths that might chsnge the world. I'm intruiged because I believe that universities and intellectuals round the world will embrace it and i will be called the african einstein. Learn from this. Your purpose is an idea you are consumed by that you think will impact humanity. Big dreams like mine. What you are passionate about. That will be more important than mere pussy or sex. Now that is what your purpose it. I pray I succeed anyway |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 4:00pm On Mar 15, 2025 |
AndSunGorilla: I think the academies are already doing à lot in this regard because they want to make money. However, the downside is, they are too much in a haste to make money and ship out players prématurely and to wrong places. If there can be à good framework to ensure players are not been shipped out to wrong places for pitance, perhaps we can better harness the talents we have. The notion that we don't develop talent is overrated. In the last 3 years these players have come to the fore. 1. Babatunde akinsola 2. Ebenezer akinsanmiro 3. Hamzat ojediran 4. Victor orakpo 5. Hafeez umar 6. Gift orban who was discovered I nigeria 7. Daniel daga 8. Victor eletu 9. A certain midfielder named Dennis in the Turkish league. We are not bad as per discovering players. It's not as bad as people make it out to be. At least something tangible is going on. Ot could be better but we are trying. As you said they should not be too much in a hurry to leave for obscure leagues. Anyway, I learnt victor udoh May make his debut for Southampton this week |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 6:46pm On Mar 13, 2025 |
zoboizee: Lauren in his playing days never played the same position for club & country. Yet was very effective for both Arsenal & Cameroon in the role he was deployed to play. When a player is talented it is not hard to see. Seeing Uche and saying that he's not playing as a midfielder for club is not an excuse, Uche is versatile and it is obvious to see. Our football leaders are too short-sighted and transactional. Yeah uche is one of those players who can play I'm multiple positions. He sometimes even plays midfield for his club. By the June friendlies, he will be in the team. It's a matter of time. It's like saying firmino is a forward and can't olay midfield or ronaldinho is a winger. There are many platers who play more than one position.beven kalu uche for nigeria |
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Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 12:39am On Mar 12, 2025 |
TheSuperNerd: In the first leg, it was Alisson. In the second leg, it is DONNARUMMA. GKs are huge determinants in Game outcomes.
But overall, PSG deserves it. Liverpool escaped them in the first leg but couldn't escape them in the 2nd leg.
The better team qualifies and SALAH WAS KEPT QUIET IN BOTH GAMES. Nuno Mendes deserves his flowers. 1. Osimhen in psg will be simply wonderful. 2. Psg has finally evolved tge winning mentality needed to win the champions league. To win this kind of competition, uou need courage, persistence mire than sheer talent. You might even play badly and win. Psg now have that winning mentality. |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 2:17pm On Mar 11, 2025 |
Careente7: I was walking down the road with a girlfriend then she asked me why I was walking close to the gutter that she was supposed to walk close to the gutter while I walk by her right because of moving vehicles. She said it wasn’t proper for a lady to walk close to the road when walking with a guy. I asked if I was Superman or if I couldn’t get hit by a car. She was surprised I asked cos according to her no guy had ever asked her that question. Then I realized the kind of guys she’s been with. But who even brought that law? It’s been messing with a lot of men(young boys to be precised). We need the gospel
No comment; next question Men are created by mother nature to protect and care for women. Let there be a war and the men will have to risk things while the women will be protected. This occurs because they are the gender that gives birth to children. From pure evolutionary terms, men are dispensable as one man can impregenate 100 women but if women die out, the tribe can go extinct. In the bible in the book of judges chapter 20, the tribe of Benjamin was nearly wiped out because no women were left. They had to look for women. If only one man is left with 100 women the tribe cannot go extinct but it may go extinct if it is the other way round. It may sound harsh but we are the disposable sex even though we are stringer and maybe smarter. Women have the privilege of being valued just for existing. Also this is whynancient cultures Place emphasis on the fertility of women. In fact in African culture, a barren woman is not safe in her holusbands house. It has its advantages and disadvantages. We men have provider and protection instincts from mother nature. Women might exploit us for this bit it is the way it is |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 11:21pm On Mar 07, 2025 |
Pukkalolo: The problem isn’t that he’s unqualified to speak on female nature.
The real issue is that many of his redpill “game” messages, along with those of some other guys here, are Westernized and not tailored to African or Nigerian men.
What do I mean by "Westernized"?
Please read open mindedly and slowly. This is will help you understand the reality of seduction or "game" in Nigeria
Most guys study redpill and game concepts written by men in the U.S. and the U.K., then blindly copy-paste them here. Worse, they try applying them to Naija or West African women without realizing that culture matters in seduction.
When I first set out to truly understand women and build my confidence, I approached a large number of them: both in public and within my social circles. And if there’s one thing I can say with certainty, it’s this:
Westernized "game" doesn’t really work here.
Culture and environment shape the way people think and behave—including in seduction. How you attract and seduce a Nigerian woman is different from how you do it with an American woman.
Most guys don’t realize this. That’s why, despite consuming all the redpill and "game" advice, something still isn’t clicking.
America and Nigeria are two different worlds. In America, parents don’t flog their kids because their culture frowns upon it.
In Nigeria, most of us got flogged by our parents while growing up.
That’s culture for you.
Likewise, what works on a London girl won’t necessarily work on an Afghan girl because they were raised differently.
In America, couples openly kiss and make out in public: it’s normal there.
In Nigeria, public displays of affection are rare because our culture doesn’t encourage it. That’s why Western redpill “game” that works on American women won’t necessarily work on Naija women.
I’ve gone sexual with quite a number of Naija girls, so I’m speaking from experience. I know the missing piece in most Naija guys’ “game.” The problem with Westernized game advice is that it’s heavily focused on attraction.
A lot of Naija guys think, “If she’s attracted to me, she’ll sleep with me.”
Well, that might work in America, where an attractive woman might directly sleep with you just because she’s attracted. That’s why typical “game” advice is tailored to Western women.
But Naija girls don’t think that way. At least, not from my personal experience—unless she’s a shameless slut.
Notice the keyword: "shameless."
A lot of Naija girls are sluts, but they aren’t shameless about it. They are low-key. That’s why they won’t act on their attraction and just give a guy sex like that.
Guys have told me, “Pukka, you’re right. This girl seems attracted to me, but she won’t have sex with me.”
My response is:
She’s a Naija girl: she’s ashamed of her attraction for you.
Your job is to make her feel shameless about it. Or more accurately, make her feel sexually comfortable with the idea of sleeping with you. A lot of Naija girls are attracted to you, but they hide it. You might think she’s just doing shakara, but no—she’s just ashamed of her attraction.
Your goal as a man is simple:
Make her feel comfortable being attracted to you or make her feel shameless about it. Most guys don’t do this; or worse, they don’t even know how. So they keep losing girls over and over again, despite consuming all this redpill content.
The few legit players and pimps I know get sex—not because of attraction—but because they understand that attraction alone isn't what get them the pussy.
Some guys who roll with me initially assume that I’m just a natural with women: that I simply get stronger attraction from more women, which is why I sleep with them.
But that’s not true.
I’m not a good-looking guy, so I don’t rely on attraction. Instead, when I meet a girl with even the tiny attraction toward me, I build on that.
I make her feel shameless about her attraction and create a sense of comfort around sex. Because I know that her shamelessness and comfort toward sex—not attraction—is what’s going to get me laid. Basically, I know how to give off a non-judgmental vibe around women.
The Harsh Truth About Attraction in Nigeria
If you’re relying purely on attraction to get laid in Nigeria, you’ll need to approach over 50 to even 100-200 women (or more) before one agrees to sleep with you based solely on attraction. Most Naija women don’t sleep with men just because they’re attracted to them.
That’s why a lot of Naija girls, directly or indirectly, demand money or financial gifts before going sexual. Because that money or gift acts as a substitute for the sexual comfortableness you failed to create in them.
On the other hand, most legit players and pimps often get sex for free—not because they’re rich or good-looking, but because they know how to make a woman feel shameless or comfortable about sleeping with them.
Final Thoughts
At the end of the day, a lot of redpill posts on this thread are just copy-paste material from Western sources.
I can tell that many of the guys posting this stuff don’t have real experience with women. They just regurgitate Western redpill theories without adapting them to their own naija reality. You are right. Even a Nigerian girl that sleeps around will hide it. She will not want to be seen as a slut. Ubunja even said one has to be quiet about it when you get sexual with a nigerian girl. Girls appreciate it a lot if you get sexual with them but you don't let anyone know or act judgmental. IOn the other hand, the Western world is too tolerant. Society needs a little conservatism to stem the tide of certain excesses. Its gotten to the point where stuff like beastiality, trans genders, lgbtq, even maryong a tree or incest I'd being tolerated or seen as an alternative lifestyle. Those things are not healthy and are psychologically damaging. We should be glad we live in a society where a girl cannot sleep with 50 men and then brag about it and say she feels empowered. At least it makes girls decent enough for marriage even if it is hypocritical. At least it lowers wirish tendencies in women. |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 11:07pm On Mar 07, 2025 |
TheSuperNerd: Vince Osuji today for Club Brugge NXT away at RFC Seraing in Belgium.
90mins played. 142 touches. 1 chance created. 113 accurate passes (88% passing accuracy) 9 clearances 2 interceptions 1 tackle. 1 last man tackle 2/3 ground duels won 6/8 aerial duels won 4/11 accurate long balls
His 113 accurate passes out of 128 passes attempted was the highest in the game. Mega-involved in the play. Maybe he can play in midfield. Like some libero. Will like him under a guardiola like coach |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 1:28am On Mar 05, 2025 |
yinkeys: Nigerian politicians never learn Don’t be surprised if we don’t qualify S/Africa football is better run, forget about big names the game is a team sport A prepared & properly trained group with team chemistry would beat us any day I don't understand. If we qualify fir tge world cup and di well in the competition, the politicians will have more money to steal. From a selfish point of view it will be better for us to get to the semi final of the 2026 world cup. Then nigerian football will attract more money that can be stolen These our politicians are so shout sighted that they are even cheating themselves. World Cup qualifiers will end in 8 months time. The short sightedness and greed bothers on a psychological problem. So how much money will they steal if we don't qualify for the world cup |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Philosopher1979: 10:22pm On Mar 01, 2025 |
TheGoodJoe: Frightening complete. His ability was superhuman.
I remember a game he wanted to take a free kick. The ball was too far from goal. When the referee turned, Nasri moved the ball closer. Yaya Toure collected the ball, moved it even more farther from the goal. Then scored it with a scorching curler. He was a delight to watch. Okochavis far better. Okochas ability to control thr midfield is far ahead. Yayactkurevis a product of modern footballs hatred of flair. He is just effective that's all. Okochs eill collect the midfield from this your yaya toure. I don't see much about him compared to okocha. You will say tkure was more successful in Europe but European football is sometimes just tactics and team work. Which dribble did toure invent. I don't send yaya toure at all. Yaya what. Just a tall, effective player that's all. He did not bring beauty to football. No innovative technique, no anything |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 12:11pm On Mar 01, 2025 |
JESHAL007: Vagina power is the power a woman has over men that is rooted in men's weakness for her vagina. Men HATE AND RESENT that power. Because it is exploitative - it preys on men's weakness and lack of self control by making them act stupid for the benefit of women. This is why stuff like pick up artistry, cold approach, how to get sex from women easily is good. Vagina won't have powerbover you if female sexuality is accessible to you. A man who can get girls easily can't be controlled by vagina anymore this us why I don't tonally croticize lessons on how to get laid. If a man fund's it difficult to get laid or even any form of female attention, vagina can easily control him. |
Celebrities › Re: 'Burna Boy Slept With Me For Lambo' – Sophia Egbueje Cries Out by Philosopher1979: 6:03pm On Feb 28, 2025 |
It simply shows she us s high class prostitute. Most of these social media girls are whores |