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Pukkalolo:
The bolded is wrong, actually.

Women cheat for various reasons. Lack of sex game can be one of the reasons, but it's not the major reason.

Look bro, I'm not doubting the fact that having sex game is vital, but it not the major weakness or problem of modern Men.

If lack of sex game was the major problem in the dating for guy, a redpill thread like this won't even be needed.

If lack of sex game was the major problem in dating for guys—then dating coaches or relationship coaches or even marriage counselors or redpill books won't be needed.

The problem most men experience with women is bigger than simply lacking "sex game"


A guy lack sex game, okay—but at least, he got laid. He's far ahead of many guys.

Many guys can't even get laid to save their life.

Men guys are still virgins in their late 20s...

A lot of Men are not getting even sex, talk more of having a sex game.

You still don't get my point?

If men are not getting laid, how come single mothers are on the increase and most girls are not even virgins. And adultery among women is on the increase with paternity fraud.
It's a question. Is it only a small percentage of men that have constant access to female sexuality while the others get crumbs. If so why.
Sounds like what ubunja used to say

RedpillAdviser:
women know that what they want from men (money) they can't survive without, but what men want from women (sex) men can survive without. Women know that what women want from men (money) women can't masturbate and get, but what men want from women (sex) men can masturbate and get. Because what women want from men is a real thing, but what men want from women is simply a feeling. You can create a feeling from nothing but you can't create a real thing from nothing.

And the day men fully realize this is the day the Pussy Cartel will cease to exist.


But as long as men continue to walk in ignorance women are the only winners in this Game, because women get paid while men simply get laid. Women walk away with money, men walk away with mere memories.

Most bad boys are aware of this situation. It's only simps that are not aware that a lot of women only have sex to offer but then sex is not necessary to exist. Bad Boys treat women as if they are not important.

Chrisantus uche in la liga team of the week and la liga team of the month.
We have to get this guy to the national team. His trajectory shows good potential

VinnyBaba:
Truly the way Yorubas insulted the Sultan of sokoto was highly Disrespectful.

Every Muslim and northerner has right to be offended.

Bcus tinibu is in Aso Rock, some Y0rubas are now very Proud and pompous.

The Day Abokis will DEAL with Y0rubas in this country, that 1966 own of Igbos will be a child's play.

The only reason nigeria exists is because yoruba have not seceeded. If yoruba secretes and breaks away nigeria will end within 6 months. We are the only tribe keeping Nigeria together. Left to an igbo man the idea of Nigeria is overrated.
If you genocide yoruba in the North, we yorubas will leave and igbo will be happy to leave. Try your genocide and say bye bye to Nigeria

drealcivilceno:
Who told you that?

Do you know what "teach" or "tutor" means?

1. There are online video tutorials that teach concepts in a better way.
2. Of as a lecturer or teacher you don't teach well, online video tutorials will render you useless.
3. Yes the internet and AI will render some Nigerian lecturers useless. Especially those lecturers that don't come to class and just sell hand outs. It's a question of time

elyte89:
Anyway not surprised ..aside osimhen dt has d elite mentality,a typical home grown Nigeria breed will always go for money …

Its a typical african black mans problem
A black man does not want to set records or break new grounds. He just wants to be rich.
If you ask a black man why he wants to study medicine, he will say because of money and the profession is lucrative in the western world
A white man will say he wants to discover the cure for an incurable disease or even find out a way to cure blindness or grow biological legs.
That is why most of the theories in science and education are not created by Africans. We dont pioneer things. A black man just wants to eat.
It is a subtle difference that you will not immediately notice but it is there.
Africans that set records have some foreign influence. Maybe they schooled abroad. A Nigerian that stays all his or her life in Nigeria wont break any record. He or she will just look for a way to be rich and that is all.
With a new generation that mentality is changing but that is the general mind set of an African

emmaodet:
Even those female ancestors, many regretted marrying poor men or men within their class. It was just that hypergamy was put in check during their time with religion and tradition. Now, those institutions are failing.
In one hot argument with my dad, my mum vowed never to allow her daughter marry a teacher or civil servant due to what she passed through suffering with my dad.
My mother-in-law also once said if she was as clever and wiser then like now, she wouldn't have married my father-in-law because then, better men with good jobs and career wanted her but she was naive and followed LOVE.
Have had 2 or 3 women say something similar too.

The modern day woman is a little different. Even if she marries the rich man, she may not stay faithfull to him
and end up commiting paternity fraud with her poor boyfriend.
You have forgotten that the modern woman is not circumcissed and therefore enjoys sex and is in fact hyper sexualised.
She is also emotionally tied to her poor boyfriend. It was easy for our fore mothers to be faithful as they were virgins before going
to their husbands house. The modern woman cant get over her past boy friends and their dick.
So this there marrying a rich man has a lot of comma and insincerity.
It only makes alpha bleeps beta pays possible.

Joebie:
please expatiate on the bolded.

Awoniyi has been injured since around March next year. He just came back from injury around November. Another player us benching him and gradually, he is getting back to form. His lack of game time is an issue but his coach still support him.
Saduq umar got a season long injury. When he came back, he started struggling with game time. He us now in valencia from real sociedadad. Again, he is trying to get back in form.
They are good players but they need time to get back in form.
Don't you follow Nigerian players

TheSuperNerd:
SE callup next. He debuts for the NT later this 2025.

Let us try and get carney chukwuemeka now. He can guarantee us 10 to 15 years of good football on that midfield.
He does not even have to play. Just invite him to a friendly and let him play 10 minutes. He seems like one of those players that might end up in big clubs. His ceiling his high. If all goes well the worst that can happen to him is an average team in a top 5 league. If he really fillfills his potential, it is big teams like Liverpool, Barcelona etc. We can still get him now that he is just comming up. The future will decide things but let us throw our hat in the ring now

TheGoodJoe:
Why not start Dessers?

Well congrats Manchester United.

Dessers should be in the Super Eagles. I don't know why they keep ignoring him. Awoniyi just getting back to form umar also just getting back to form, onuachu struggles with the Super Eagles. Moffi injured till march. Dessers deserves a chance. Hubba.
Chubs akpom should also be in the Super eagles

BascoVanVeli:
Why would we need him as a winger when he is already our left back

chukwueze is too inconsistent in that left wing. I know dele bashiru can play as a right winger but onyeamachi will be a nice option in the wings at times

Can bruno onyeamechi play as a right winger. I know he can play as a support striker but I want to knownif he can be a right winger.
He can play on the right for nigeria.

Smartb0y:
Attraction for women for the most part is psychological.

Women seek strong character attributes from men in order to be attracted to such a man.

The weak man would term a woman as money lovers because they got manipulated and exploited easily with minimal effort

Women don't have the muscle to beat a man into submission, figuratively speaking of course,what they have is the cunning to beat you as a man into submission.

A man in such a state is called a SIMP.

A man who has lost touch with nature,a lost deer being ravaged by merciless wild cats.

If she's not genuinely interested in you,which one concern you as a man,you go your way ,she goes her way.
No love lost
No passing blame

At this stage,you understand yourself as man who knows there's no gain in dealing with such women.
You understand the game,how social preference works.

This understanding makes you stand out from countless men.
The conditioning by society nowadays is for men to be submissive to women.

When you go against it,it creates a mystery around you, and yes women love mystery.

Like fish to a bait, they'll come knocking.

Something is always chasing something in this thing we call life.

Chase your purpose,women will chase you.
Chase women, who will chase your purpose

The first, you're putting in little or no effort to get women.
The second you're maxing out effort to get women... effort you should be directing to something meaningful and productive that'll add value to your life.

Sometimes men are their own undoing.
They don't even understand themselves,so they look for the next best thing to blame
Women!

The issue with using red pill to skills to get women is that
even if the woman does not fall for you, you do not waste your MEAT (money, energy, attention, time).
BLue pilled men loose a lot of money for women. It might even get to the stage that even if you get a woman with money,
it can be a waste of time. Imagine someone spending half his monthly income for months trying to get a girl.
the girl gives him sex but then cheats on him within 3 months and he is hurt. It sounds like a big waste of time for pussy.

Also, a man needs to discover God's purpose for his life or at least his passion and pursue it.
I am busy now. I am trying to complete my phd, get a research grant worth millions, i even had to refuse a writers residency because of my phd. i am even mentoring some teenagers on how to write crime fiction.

Wasting my time on some random girl is the last thing on my mind.
Simping makes you to waste your money and time on something which even if you get is not worth it. Its only worth it if you get her pregnant and she has a child from you. At least, you have a descendant to carry out your name. It sounds harsh but its true. A woman who does not love you enough to have a child for you is not to be taken seriously. It may not be true all the time but at least as a man make it one of your parameters.
Genuine desire makes you not to waste your time. The i dont give a Bleep attitude may sound cruel but you escape being exploited by girls. Stuff like just asking for sex on the first data may sound cruel but at least you put yourself at an advantageous position as she cannot just exploit you. Life is too short to spend it trying to please some random girl that can dump you at anytime.
Have a nice day everybody. Just chase your purpose and everything will fall in line

Samueltemi337:
Uche balling against Barcelona

How was his perfomance

bisqit:
Fenerbache beat Man U home and away from your so called competitive league that man city is bullying everybody. Mumu

I don't undestand you. For osimhen to be rated he needs to go back to a top 5 league. The Turkish league is not as good as any top 5 league. Scoring 40 goals a season in a league that is not un the top 5 will not get you as much rating as 27 goals in the la liga. That is just the fact. All world class players have to prove themselves in the top 5 leagues. As per fernabache beating Liverpool or man United. It can happen but how many Turkish teams have won the champions league. To win another african footballer of the year and be a true legend he needs to go back to a top 5 league.
Arsenal, manu needs his services and as per Liverpool he can still be the best there but arsenal and manu badly need strikers. He should not turn to those players that just stay in obscure leagues and are not rated. It happened to this nigerian player in trbzinspor anthony nwakaeme. He never played in a top 5 league so his achievements by global standards are questionable.
Osimhen has every chance to play in a top 5 league and he should move this summer or it might get too late.

Subzerooo:
Other African countries are leaving us behind smh, when was the last time we had such a deal

1. Ebenezer Akinsanmiro went from Remo Stars to inter milan. He is now on loan at sampdoria
2. Victor Eletu from Nigeria has been in ac milan youth team since 14. May be loaned out this season
3. Daniel Daga is only 18 this year and in norway. Big teams like ac milan and liverpool are watching him
4. There is one olowoporoky boy some scandinavian teams and other big teams are watching.
5. one boy from ojodu fc (I have forgotten his name) once trailed at chelsea but he is not in the French league
7. A 21 year old Chrisantus Uche is already in getafe first team and has played 20 matches
8. Benjamin Federicks is already in the youth team of Brendford fc at 18 or 19
There are others like that in modest clubs.
Our youth football and academies are doing a lot of work. Dont worry our grasroot football is at lease decent and effective.
Maybe you dont monitor our grassroots football. Its really vibrant and productive

Subzerooo:
I still think 3-5-2 or 3-4-1-2 is our best formation given that it gives protection to our CCB Ekong, it actually fits Bassey who is best at LCB, Ola Aina and Bruno do best as flying wing backs, Iwobi is relieved of defensive responsibilities and can create at the top of the midfield three, and Lookman can dribble into the penalty box while Osimhen holds up the ball up front

Our coach needs to work on our ability to pkay with 2 central defenders. Playing with 3 Centre backs limits our options in midfield and attack. Are our defenders so poor that they can't okay with 2 centre backs. I don't understand.

Maybe igbo ogbu should be tried in defence. As per calvin bassey if he does not play well in a 2 man centre back, then he is limited. The issue is a lot of people here will say bassey is better than ogbu because he is in a better league but formation and tactics trump league. Players like omeruo, igbo ohbu may be better than bassey in a 2 man centre back but anyone who reasons like this will be deemed foolish.

M7even:
As good as your argument is, it bears some self contradiction.
The western ideology itself is driven by certain philosophical principles of libertarianism. Liberty meaning freedom. This idea has shaped them for many years and has helped them maintain a status of hegemony over every other race or group be it African, Asian as regards to Chinese or Indian or middle east as regards to Islamic driven ideologies.

Liberal ideas operates as capitalism at the economic side. A principle of open market , the idea that let the people choose what they want. And the government acts a regulator. A free hand market.

Liberal ideas operates under the guise of globalization, through technology as well as open borders we are able to move from one place to the other share ideas and values that helps improve our lifestyle.

The Western world has over the centuries driven this principle across the rest of the world , because this has been the principle through which it used to acquire its wealth.

Today, there are many growing concerns about this principle or ideology, as the western nations have recognized that an aspect of this Liberian ideology doesn't suit well with them. Hence, we are having demagogues who go about telling them that they cannot open their borders to foreigners again because these foreigners are sometimes religious extremist, economic migrant who reshape their own cultural identity. This is why we have Trump locking up borders, why we have UK voting BREXIT, and why we have other European nations asking Islamic faithfuls to return back to their original nation.

The western world is sold on its on interest , and as such interest takes on different changes in time and generation so will their demands change.

Have you wondered why it doesn't think about limiting its export of finished goods to third world countries, but rather it thinks about limiting immigrants from third world countries?

They preach openness of borders. But now certain political far right parties will rather see to a controlled and limited number of migration.

When you talk about protection of cultural identity, the western world says cultural identity doesn't help globalization, should this answer be limited to only third world countries ? Why is it that when third world nations immigrants move there they no longer think about globalization and liberalism..

France you mention are the face of European identity with Liberalism. That's why you see many blacks there. This is because that's essentially France's cultural ideology. That you are french is by orientation first before colour. This is different from racism on the other hand. That you look down on one race or don't approve of it doesn't mean you cannot be white french and look down on a black frenchman.
Self preservation is good, but is there any problem with the African man be it a Yoruba man or Zulu or Ashanti man living with his family in Europe and holding on to his African values in relation to his family. Or is it the Chinese or Indian man with his traditional values, or the Arab man with his Islamic values. this are simple values to relate and tolerate. And this is the beauty of a multicultural society. When does this multiculturalism become a problem, is it through the media propaganda we are witnessing these days about how bad migrants have now become.

[quote author=M7even post=133738560]As good as your argument is, it bears some self contradiction.
The western ideology itself is driven by certain philosophical principles of libertarianism. Liberty meaning freedom. This idea has shaped them for many years and has helped them maintain a status of hegemony over every other race or group be it African, Asian as regards to Chinese or Indian or middle east as regards to Islamic driven ideologies.

Liberal ideas operates as capitalism at the economic side. A principle of open market , the idea that let the people choose what they want. And the government acts a regulator. A free hand market.

Liberal ideas operates under the guise of globalization, through technology as well as open borders we are able to move from one place to the other share ideas and values that helps improve our lifestyle.

The Western world has over the centuries driven this principle across the rest of the world , because this has been the principle through which it used to acquire its wealth.

Today, there are many growing concerns about this principle or ideology, as the western nations have recognized that an aspect of this Liberian ideology doesn't suit well with them. Hence, we are having demagogues who

1. Multiculturalism has its limits. Not every culture can adapt. Americans and Europeans are breeding home grown Islamic terrorists who want to impose some Islamic agenda on them. Not every immigrant assimilated and immigrants from the arab/Muslim world want to dominate with their culture. Also, some communist are trying to turn America unto a Muslim country because they won't assimilate. OK imagine s3nging an Arab america soldier to fight against hezbollah. Such a person might betry America.
This is why liberalism has limits and conservatives are fighting back. The western world cannot loose its identity I the name of liberalism. That is suicide. The easiest way to defeat a people is to make them loose their identity.
2. The western world brought this upon themselves with stuff like thale atlantic slave trade. Even the poverty in Africa is created by forming countries with strange borders. Nigeria is just a white man's invention. This poverty is making people migrate to the western world from Africa

elyte89:
Ok

He has the westerhoof vibes

Napoleon55:
Modified.

20 Most skillful Nigeria players

1.Jay Jay Okocha
2.Kanu Nwakwor
3.Christien Obodo
4.Musa Yahaya
5.John Utaka
6.Rabiu Ibrahim
7.Chidi Ordia
8.Etim Esim
9.Samson Siasia
10.Osaze Odemwingie

Completing the top 20,
In no particular order are:

11.Samuel Chukwueze
12.Victor Boniface
13.Solomon Okoronkwo
14.Pius Ikedia
15.Chinedu Ogbuke
16.James Obiora
17.Ikechukwu Uche
18.Moses Simon
19.Friday Ekpo
20.Ademola Lookman

Chidera ejuke should be in that list. He is just as skillfully if not mote skillfully then samuel chukwueze. Maybe you forgot

It is because you ate loving and caring by nature. It is just an aura. Besides most people's heart is full of hatred, wickedness and foolishness. It seems yours is full of wisdom snd beauty. Or at least it is perceived like that

atalanta interested in Timo Anjorin

Let us get Timo Amjorin now before it is too late.
Let us try and cap him this year. He does not even have to be in the main team yet.
If he goes to bigger clubs England may cap him and that will be the end.
We need more midfielders and there is nothing like too much of a good thing.
Players get injured, loose form, face disciplinary issues etc.
We need players from foreign born, local leagues, north african league, top 5 european leagues everywhere
let us get him now. England are not paying any attention to him now

She should do dna test. Maybe she is fro a tribe in Nigeria. She looks african anyway. Despite hundreds of years, her African essence shines through.
Blood is thicker than water

Tom saintfelt could have been better. We hesitated when he was free and now we lost him to another country.
Well let us wish Eric Chelle tge best

Creation
Purpose
Change

jayAjoku:
When I tell you people men are the problem some clowns will want to argue , below is a picture of the credit alert a woman on twitter received just because one man wanted to get her attention, Men will keep inflating the egos of women with acts like this and then wonder why women are disrespectful, when you keep treating these women like they are the prize they will have no option than to see themselves that way.

I can't believe it.
Is that not 1 million naira.
Wow. Just to have sex or us it love with a woman.
ABA Maybe it is a lie and the oerson just made it up. 1 million just to get a strangers attention.
Dangote sef no dey spend like rgat on top woman.
I refuse to believe its true

Samueltemi337:
Did Arsenal tell you they want him?
Or players can just transfer to any club they like?

Arsenal will be interested in him. It's obvious. They have had some interest in the past. Even last summer they showed some interest. Will be easy to get since price is now reasonable

Oganigwe:
Seems Osimhen really loves Galatasaray which is all good and sweet, but I seriously hope he isn't getting too comfortable in the Turkish league cause he will seriously downplay his quality if he wants to stay there.

Arsenal will be good for osimhen. He should go for arsenal in the summer

AndSunGorilla:
Those numbers are definitely poor. Not sure he has earned any rights to be compared with Yaya yet. Is he really the midfield messiah we need?

How he plays and his underlying stats are what's important. I have not even seen him molly. So let's wait and see

Pidginwhisper:
Orban to Hoffenheim. Guy is gradually turning journey man. Being thrown around like pingpong. I hope he clicks here

He 100% will click I seriously trust this boy. Lyon did not just give him playing time. The boy has goals written all over him

Kog45:
Philosopher1979 this is not you abi na Xmas booze 😄.....the only issue with eagles is just to get midfield working and you see us in WC

OK oo. You will see when push comes to shove that we cannot just rely on only a certain group of players. Our opponents might just mark out iwobi, osimhen and lookman and we will need an x factor from the bench. Matches are won from the bench with a player with a different style of play.
Our opponents predict us easily. Last year with these stars we kept struggling against minnows. We shall see. Coaching.tactics is important.
A player with a different style of play will confuse the opponents. If I was the coach I will have a joker no one expect to cause havoc.
We are too predictable as a team.
By the nations cup final ivory coast figured out our midfield as too thin and just capitalised on it. So if nwabili gets injured what is next. If iwobi and dele bashiru get injured what is next.
Aribo is better as a forward but you play him in midfield.
On and on. Football is played on the field and not just talking.

So maduka okoye is better than nwabili.
How are you sure sodiq awujoola does not have anything to offer.
He playes in Egypt. Egypt has gotten to many nations cup finals and won it with players in the Egyptian league.
Morocco used players from the moroccan league in their march to the world cup semi final. The guybthat assisted morocco's goal against Portugal is from themoriccan league. By logic any good player we have in such leagues may be good enough.
Do you know mohammed about rita. I don't 5hink players in Europe are better than him
We shall see. Is it not the same football we are watching

2025 THE YEAR OF SUNDA MBA

to qualify for the world cup we should not rely 100% on the usual suspects. We should try very young players, players outside the top 5 leagues of Europe, okayers in good african leagues ets. Players like sodiq awijoola in Egypt, ebenezer akinsanmiro, xhuba akpom will help us.
Injuries, loss of form and disciplinary issues may affect our main players performance. We may need someone like sodiq awujola to score two goals that will make us defeat South africa in johannesburg. Experienced players like ighalo should not be left out and okayers from the Nigerian league.
This is why I called it the year if Sunday mbah. Some underrated player may be the one that will help us like Sunday mbah did in 2013.
Also, football is about tac5ics and what a player does and fits into the system. All these talk of stars are overrated.
As per league, a very good player in the South african league ir Northern leagues in Africa may be better than a player in anaverag3 team in the top 5 leagues of Europe.
Also, tactics trumps player quality sometimes. OK Chelsea keeps buying players but how many trophies have they won recently.
So this is the way to go.
I have said my own