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Wetin dey do this Osimehn. Abi Dey don use juju nack am when e visit Naija?

ChronicGp:
Putin take the fight to them since they want to fight by proxy

No gree

You be mum*. Na ur type Dey rush US VISA

I want to be single and child free forever.

Why exactly do you want to marry? This is the problem with marriages this days. People are marrying because society says they are getting too old to be single. With all this signs of incompatibility you still want to enter the marriage? I am surprised a man is sending this post. What exactly is making you rush into marriage?

Miracle112:
Hello Nlanders..
please I need advice on whether to relocate abroad or stay and invest in Nigeria .
I just graduated from the university and I’ll turn 28 in a few months time.
I come from a very poor family, I sponsored myself through the university as matter of fact I am the first graduate in the family.
I am here to seek advice from experts and enlightened nairalanders.
I have over 50m in real estate and I intend to sell 50% of my properties to raise funds for an online marketplace i intend to launch in Nigeria but I’m having a double mind as there’s no 100% guarantee that the business will succeed…
Since I just graduated from the university, should I rather use 25m to relocate abroad and further my studies or stay in Nigeria and invest the 25m ?
I don’t want to regret selling my properties to relocate abroad for studies.. I don’t even know if 25m would be enough to further my studies in any first world countries since I’ll have no support from family.

So my people, should I japa for studies with 25m or stay an invest in my fatherland?

For those wondering how I made over 50m as a fresh graduate. I didn’t make the money in 1 day or 1 month. I do land banking, crypto trading and farming.

Don't sell properties o. Do you need 25m to relocate? I would have said grow the 50m to 100m first and then japa but every day the value of the
Naira erodes.

Lanre1st:
Your eye see well my brother, it from frying pan to fire.

African politicians will always want to die in power and they never give youths a good atmosphere to govern, Only youth can do what George Weah did as JEG did for Buhari. But when Buhari came in with his change agenda what changed? But more worse. I tell people, George Weah may not do better but they will see heal with this Old baba that is living with health support, a case study of Jonathan and Buhari. All these old power drunk politicians will use propaganda to spoil youths in power to drop the helm of the nation’s. But if it’s those Old politicians they can never leave it easily, they will manipulate anything possible to remain in power.

For Africa to grow we still need to ensure that our leaders are youths not old cargoes, don’t let us fall for Old politicians propaganda it’s not a way forward

Exactly, if it was this old man in power he would never have conceded defeat. In fact, he would have made sure there was no free and fair election. George Weah might have been a bad president but he did a very good thing by conceding. A power drunk person would never have done that.

MisfitHPG:
do you know how many Months salary that is to the average man in Nigeria?my friend works with UBA,he is paid 50k/month thats his 4 month salary,then light bill is 8k,feeding,house rent transport then he is left with nothing,but if you earn like 4k pounds,you'd fare much better

As a gateman or what?

tonystark007:
you can imagine nations using taxpayer money to build weapons of mass destruction instead of utilizing it for important things, most government will rather fund wars than help their poor citizens.
it seems we humans were made to be stupid and insensitive

I laugh when people say this. Don't you know that sometimes you don't go looking for war but war comes to you? Money for the military is in the budget and agriculture, electricity etc is also in the budget. On Earth there will always be conflict. Know this and know peace.

“They won’t give us time to rest. Nobody cares about our health at work. Even when you’re sick, they will tell you to bring a medical report before asking you to go and treat yourself. You work many shifts a day. They won’t approve annual leave for us. Tell me how officers won’t continue to drop dead. It’s sad we keep losing officers to avoidable circumstances,” some officers told our correspondent in Lagos »


So they know this and will be harassing citizens. They never see anything. More bites to come.

Good explanation. I didn't vote Tinubu but i have noticed journalism this days is about sensationalism. Even if Obi had entered the opposition would have criticized every single spending and made it seem he was spending for his personal benefit. The only issue is that the budget as usual would have been inflated. People will make money from it etc instead of buying 2022 Toyota they will buy 2019 version and pocket the change.

The issue is Nigerians are suffering in economic hardship and all these billions billions being called here and there will just annoy the poor more because with all the perks going to this politicians they are still greedy for more.

Take a look at Wike? When is enough enough? On top all the money he already has he doesn't want to let go.

After this war, Netanyahu's career is over. He will forever be remembered as the person in power during this security blunder. What a pity. Time for another fresh face.

yeldey:
Similar scenerio happened to someone I know.

He lost his job during Covid.

Wife left him to go back to her parent house.

He got another job same day the wife left.

Wife came back but the marriage never remained the same.

He abandoned the wife and left for Canada lol.

Sweet revenge.

Lol. That's why it is advisable women are financially independent before and during marriage. It is only when the woman no get money the man go feel say going to Canada na revenge.

preshpraiz:
It's 2.47 am here but I can't sleep, I hardly sleep these days.

My whole world is crumbling.
I have been a regular guest here for awhile now but had to register this morning, I need somewhere to pour out my heart, somewhere to dump my frustrations.

I came from a good, not so rich home but my parents were so hardworking.I had a good moral upbringing, went to tertiary institution and graduated with good grades.

While in school, I never had a boy friend though I had a lot of "chykers", never went clubbing, didn't socialize much.

Few months to the end of my NYSC, I met my husband. We got talking and boom, I fell in love with him. He is my ideal man....he doesn't drink nor smoke, gentle and soft spoken.

He wasn't earning much but it didn't bother me. I believe in working hard and growing with my man.

Now my regrets...
* The "angel" I married has refused to get a job after losing the last one during COVID 19.

He said he can never work in a private company again. His target is multinationals.

I encouraged him to pick up a job with private company while hoping for a bigger fish at least to support in taking care of the needs at home but he said no.

I'm left with taking care of our 3 kids, feeding, school fees and virtually every need at home. All he does is press phone, gamble and sleep.

Now our rent is due, no money.
I married as a virgin, married for love and not money, work my ass off, doing so many side hustle to shoulder the expenses at home. I'm tired. I regret all these.

When I see my "unserious" classmates on social media and sometimes offline, I weep. See them living large. I thought all the sacrifices I made way back will pay off now.
I have made up my mind that if he doesn't fix the rent, I will move back to my parent's house.

Kindly feel free to advise or bash me. Tankio

Move back to your parents house please. Men are usually unserious because they know women will do anything to maintain the facade of a happy marriage and retain the Mrs title.

It's so unfortunate that you have three children for this man and you are now financially responsible for all of them. God will strengthen you.

Marriage is a scam. Everyone reveals their true colours after wedding is concluded.

Shinjawest:
I know those are isreal Muslims...

We know their plans

If they misbehave they should be killed too....

We don't want terrorists in our world

God bless Israel

God bless those who hate islamic terrorists...

God bless you my brother. In every conflict there will be traitors. The only fault of the Prime minister is allowing Hamas to attack. The Heads of the Israeli intelligence should step down after this war.

delpee:
I watched a video on Tiktok detailing how there have been attempts to settle this matter 5 times over the years by splitting the land to two so Palestine has it's nation. Unfortunately, each time it's Palestine that disagrees because all they want is the nonexistence of Israel which isn't possible. It seems they're ably supported by Iran/Hezbollah while Egypt has been a mediator.

And yet some fools are saying Israel has more Muslims than Christians. If Israel was a Muslim country there won't be this much hatred towards them from Palestine and Muslims around the world.

Even the Ayatollah of Iran has called for the total destruction of Israel so many times.

Thank God for the division in Islam caused by the Sunni and Shires issue unless Saudi Arabia would have been supporting Iran in their madness.

FreeStuffsNG:
They already did. It's Day 6 and Isreal is yet to snatch victory and death is defeating both sides every day.

With the rhetorics of PM Netanyahu, you would have thought wiping away Gaza would take 3 days and Hamas would have been roundly defeated by now. Hamas is so tiny against Israel by all standards yet Isreal is seriously struggling to defeat them. They destroyed Gaza yet all we see are destroyed houses so where is Hamas?

Wetin this wan dey talk? Terrorists organisations are HYDRA. They cannot be destroyed only suppressed and pushed back. Na Israel i blame wey sleep allow them attack in the first place.

RichestMinds:
1 SAMUEL 15:3

Now go and smite Amalek and utterly destroy all that they have, and spare them not; but slay both man and woman, infant and suckling, ox and sheep, camel and ass."

This verse above is found in the bible and can never be found in the Quran.

God Bless Palestine

Woe onto Israel and its Supporters.

Christians are followers of Christ who came in the new testament and he preached peace even saying people should turn the other cheek. But your prophet carried a sword and spread the so called religion of peace through conquer. That is why violence is in you people's blood like a virus.

Felix6:
Your mind is highly fixated on antiquity mosaics. Same way you were meant to believe Adolf Hitler is worst person [/b]to have ever lived because he killed Whites.
Or[b] Idi Amin was a tyrant.
How about sadam hussein weapons of mass destruction? Or the "terrorist gaddafi" wake up boy.

Lol. Even Ugandans acknowledge Idi Amin's tyranny and the whole world know how evil Hitler was so what are you even saying guy?!!!

Hope Israel never forgets this lesson. You can never be friends with Terrorists or these religious extremists. Palestines hate you. Be prepared for forever war. Religion of peace members are always prepared to fight till the last day cos their prophet was once a soldier and the religion was founded on violence.

Israel should have never been caught sleeping.

Israel needs to wipe out Palestine once and for all. You don't allow your enemy space to breathe or breed. Wipe them out.

Sprints3:
nope na she win true true mercy ain't got fans like that outside naija... Her sympathy game pages way for baye.. Mercy was passive in this show...

Mercy was passive. Ike with that clothes saga gave Baye the win.

Gen Zs Dey vex. Ilebaye don win.

chocboi78:
People no longer marry because they’re in love.
Women marry who is ready financially and men marry just because they feel it’s time to hence no bond shared.
Also women tend to loose shape and beauty due to the rigors of child birth and also exhibit a drop in hygiene level.
Lastly , some men are generally promiscuous. They discuss round a table full of beer with the their bottle of beers and discuss how many girls they’ve conquered and use em to keep scores.

This is the honest truth. I see some testimonies from women who have been praying to settle down. Then all of a sudden someone proposes, maybe an old friend or someone they just met, and in three months they are married. Did you marry him because of love or because you are running out of time? Did he marry her because of love or because he feels it is time to settle down and birth the next generation? That’s why inability to conceive can destroy a marriage in Nigeria. If you never marry at a certain âge in this society you are a failure. If you don marry and you never conceive after some time you be failure. So people unknowingly imprison themselves because of society. However, men are lucky. Society has given them the power to cheat and not be held accountable so for a short time they can be free from the marital prison while the woman is shackled with taking care of the children and having to be a good wife and mother.

Jewessgratitud3:
Everyone is just beating about the bush even though the reason is obvious.

Once a woman starts having kids, she loses her attractiveness as a result of all the body changes that come with child birth. This puts the man off or gradually makes him lose interest in her especially when he still sees young girls with perky breasts, plumper and firmer bodies out there. This is the whole truth.

A married man used to disturb me some time ago and I'll always shun him. One day he saw one small fine girl that came around and told me to him talk to the girl and I asked him what of your wife and he said " that one na condemn property now" .. chai!!! Laugh wan finish me that day. This is a man with 5 kids o.

And not all women have money to go for breast lift, vaginal rejuvenation surgery etc. Childbirth is really hard on a woman. A godfearing man who loves his wife will not cheat. He will see beyond the physical.

bukatyne:
The fundamental question is 'was there love before the kids came'? 'Why did they get married in the first place?' etc.

Then you would have your answer.

They got married to further their lineage. Most people marry nowadays because society demands it.

Rolings:
Yes
But does he have to do that with Dictatorships?
This is one of the problems of universal adoption of democracy.
Mugabe warned that Africans should develop African democracy.....the type of democracy that is suitable for Africans is quite different from the type that will work in Europe or Asia.
For instance....he posited that Africans are used to having kings and a king only got replaced at death or abdication....so African leaders shouldn't be limited to two or three terms.....but should be allowed to rule for life or very long.
But Western democracies won't have any of it....it's either you practice democracy the western way or not.
All over Europe there are still Monarchies in place and the governments of those countries are subjected to the throne. All Rishi and his government does will still have to be endorsed by King Charles.....who is deceiving who

But from Singapore to Rwanda we have seen that for there to be development in Africa or Asia it isn't the same process as in Europe.

If we want to talk as democrats ...... We shouldn't regard Lee Kwan Yu or Paul Kagame....they are dictators.

See talk. So a man should be allowed to rule for life as a president? Lol. Even the King of England rules for life as a ceremonial head. He has no say in Government. So Africans should adopt Presidency for life? If Mugabe truly said this he must have been on drugs. Power drunk people always look for excuses to hold on to power. There is nothing wrong with democracy only that African leaders do not want to abide by the principle of it. Rule for two terms of 4yrs each and get the f*ck out of there. People like Kagame are making democracy look bad because he has changed the constitution for his personal interest and there is no way there won't be voter suppression or apathy. Same with Uganda. Presidents trying to rule for life. Democracy on the surface but not in principle.

blaise26abj:
“He must commit suicide ooh” ! So emotional😁😁 . He is guilty of bullying , harassment etc . Are you a judge or the IPO of the case ?

Okay how about you lot should commit suicide for not acting when he cried out.

Una just like bandwagon, jungle justice . Una are not different from those that lynched the Aluu 4

We have noted your point, Counsel to the defendant.

clydecarson:
Is it that you are blind to see what's happening and what led to these protest...I don't have time for your stupid questions if you choose to be blind bartemoeus to the happenings then it's your business.

Some people are foolish or they are living in a cave. Imagine asking which evidence. Mtchew.

Listening to "Ask about me" by Mohbad just makes me feel down. One part he was like "please don't step on me". Naira Marley and Sam Larry stepped on this boy and kept on stepping. God o! Why did you place this Star in a family of unfortunate parents who couldn't even take care of this special gift. Chai. A Shining Star lost prematurely.

I always say this. If God and the stories in the bible are real it might have been better for Jesus not to die for our sins. Let us all live in old testament. Judgement should be swift and instant. God, I'm so pained.

TheFreshVanilla:
Moral crimes (aka crimes against morality). Acts that go against society's norms or moral code. Examples include prostitution, selling or possessing illegal drugs and openly encouraging fraudulent acts. Those are what your role model Naira Marley represent. Dude, is a bad influence.

Please stop responding to that guy. Seems he is a Troll on drugs.

blaise26abj:
Nigerians can be very emotional sha . Jungle justice just dey our blood .
So many things could have led to that young man’s death . Let them investigate and find him guilty first. Cancelling him is just jungle, social media justice .

PS - I don’t like him or his music ( same guy said he wanted to have a three.some with a mom and her daughter) but in my opinion about this matter , he is being judged unfairly .
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Judged unfairly?? There are video evidences of harrasment and tweets from the victim before his death. There was even documentary of Naira Marley speaking on his gangster life in Peckham.

Supporters of evil will always jump through hoops to defend rubbish.