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It might not be too clear to some people when they begin to navigate from friendship to another level. It never occurs to many people that they have drifted from the normal level of friendship.
So, this post will give you signs to know when you are no longer on the friendship zone.


1. YOU ARE AROUSED WHENEVER THEY COME AROUND

Holding handsThat sensation that comes in when you see someone you are attracted to is ” a no friendship feeling”. It depicts deep affection beyond the normal friendship level of agape love. Being sexually attracted to someone is not a sin but what matters is what you do with it. So when you get that feeling / emotion, get the signal.
You must have left the friendship level.

2. YOU HAVE KISSED/ MADE OUT

This one is clear. No need explaining further. Kissing is an intimate thing. If you kiss them often, you are no longer “just friends ”

3. YOU GET EASILY JEALOUS

Getting jealous can be a great sign especially when you’re unsure of that feeling.
If you often get that feeling of jealousy when you see them with someone else, my brother you’re more than just friends

4. YOU’RE EASILY EXCITED AROUND THEM

If you’re get easily excited when around them you might have left the friendship level.
You might even be in love already. We do not get that easily excited with all our friends but very few can lit the flame in our hearts and body.


5. YOU TALK ABOUT LOVE ALL THE TIME

friends, emotions, more, than, just, confused, touches, girls, boys, you, Have you ever noticed this ? When you’re around this girl and all you do is talk about love love love, or watch romantic movies, then you better watch it. You’re definitely falling for her.

6. YOU FEEL SO DIFFERENT ABOUT THEM.


You do not get the same feeling you get when you are with your other friends. The feeling seems so exceptional and exciting. So watch out for that.

7. YOU TALK ABOUT THEM A LOT.

They’re the first one you want to talk to in the morning and the last you want to speak with at night” After school, you just wanna talk about them to your mum or sister. You are energized when you hear their name. This is beyond the normal friendship level.

8. YOU CAN’T IMAGINE A DAY WITHOUT THEM.

A day without them might seem helpless. So you just wanna stick around them always.

9. YOU FEEL LEFT BEHIND WHEN YOU HAVEN’T SPOKEN FOR A WHILE.

There are times when we do not communicate with our friends for years and even when they call, you feel just good to hear from them. You don’t wanna blame anyone or anything. There are no sense of responsibilities. So watch out when you feel terrible when they do not call or come around.

10. YOU HAVE INTIMATE TOUCHES.

You have moved from quick hugs to kisses on the cheek, hugging for longer periods of time to flirtatious touching,”. You begin to notice that your physical habits even if it’s not sexual are beginning to change.
That’s a good sign too.


11. YOU THINK ABOUT THE FUTURE WITH THEM.

Seeing future prospects with them is beyond being just friends. Hope you got that.


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Sometimes ladies make the mistake of ignoring the one for them when they come around. Most times they feel he’s not the one for them and they turn around making wrong choices. Now they tend to meet someone that might mess them up and they run back complaining all men are the same. Its not so.

One has to be careful because not all signs are really signs. One can be deceived if not careful.

Being able to identify the ideal man for you takes some intuition and some study.

These guidelines will suit you best to weigh your options.

Tip 9 will shock you

TIP 1 THERE’S A DEEP COMPATIBILITY

Despite the gender factors ,you both do not have much issues conveying emotions and understanding each other. It flows, like a river. You don’t struggle to communicate. It will kill you if you stick with someone who you’re not compatible with.

TIP 2 YOU AGREE

ideal, know, love, one, right, man Two cannot walk together except they agree. It takes mutual understanding to agree on fundamental things of life. This doesn’t mean absence of quarrels but he will agree on things that are fundamental to your love life and future

TIP 3 HE WILL BE A PART OF YOUR FUTURE

If he’s the one, he’s interested in your goals and aspirations. He wants to be a part of your life. He’s not just there for his own sake but he tries to make sure you get to your peak and assist you evenly.

TIP 4 HE CAN WAIT


You know this definitely. If he’s interested in always getting your attention to the sexual aspect when he’s not married to you, he’s not the one. A man that loves you cherishes and respects you no matter what. It doesn’t mean the urges won’t come, it will but he waits for you. He leaves you with dignity.

TIP 5 YOU ARE YOURSELF AROUND HIM

If you are not yourself around this guy or you are always trying to please him, and you run in to make up each time he comes around, watch it, he might not be the one. You gotta be comfortable around him.

TIP 6 HE RESPECTS YOUR FAMILY/PARENTS

If this guy has no complete respect for your parents RUN! Even if he showers you with all the love, you will be at great risk. He shouldn’t joke with your family because they should mean to him as much as they mean to you.

TIP 7 HE LOVES YOU.

He doesn’t just love you but he wants to spur you to success. He loves you unconditionally despite the fact that you have some flaws. He’s love is deep. Check for 11love theories you think you know

Follow this link to continue 9 CLEAR SIGNS YOU HAVE FOUND YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND
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kazyhm:
is there anyone that has never cried before ?


What have you earned through crying before as an adult ?

Good, please dont stop crying

From the inferno at lagos last week

I learned that one man's mistake can take lives, make lives and change the world too

Being in love involves more than just emotion. Yes, you feel, but you don’t let emotions guide your love life. You let the principles of love fill you up and nourish people around you.

Here are 11 Love theories you need to know about love;


1.THERE IS NO LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT, BUT THERE CAN BE ATTRACTION AT FIRST SIGHT
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Most times I hear people say “it was love at first sight”. It’s not so. Love is so deep to be explained just by looking. If you ever had a butterfly feeling in your stomach when you first met this person, calm down, its an attraction. Do not get it twisted. An attraction can lead to the process of falling in love, yes, but the attraction is not to love.

2. INFATUATION IS NOT LOVE.

INFATUATION is the state of being carried away by the short-lived passion for someone or something. Why should it be love? It’s an irrational feeling that makes you think you are in love with someone. It makes you see someone so perfect. It makes you expect perfection even when it’s quite impossible.

The complicated thing about infatuation is that it comes as though it is love. It’s very far from love. Kill that feeling.


3.LOVE IS NOT DOMINEERING

Love does not seek to control. You don’t control someone you love. You don’t dominate their lives. Even when you both have issues, some people consciously start to keep malice or become unfriendly so that the other partner sees reasons why he/she was hurt. Now you make the person feel bad so they can return pleading for your love. That’s an indirect way people use to control people they claim to love these days. It’s a wrong way to handle situations.


4 .LOVE IS SELF CONTROLLED

When you love a person, you inhibit or restrain yourself from doing some certain things which you know can dampen the relationship. If you have the urge to hit her, you restrain because you love this person. If you are tempted to judge or curse your partner, you control it. If your sexual urges come up and it’s not the right time, you avoid giving in because you are truncating the value of your partner. That’s self-control. Keep it.

Folow link to finish up https://www.heartidotes.com/2018/06/01/11-love-theories-you-think-you-know/

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Bass123:
Guy you lied! I have been very good to my girlfriend but she still say bye �. She even told me she has a boyfriend even when I did not chase or abuse her. But I realize I was too damn good and gentle which in my next relationship oboy! I will have other side chicks because I found out that gals like competition which I respected this one for it but she dumped my sorry ass.
Give her heaven and earth � a gal that wants to leave will definitely leave just like mine.

Folo link nd finish post

kazyhm:
How does crying reduce tension ? has crying solve any problem in this life before ?

Men are not in anyway more emotional than women.....

In fact, as if you can give any crying man chance to be in charge of your affairs.....

Cry and find out

banjicom:
Don't mind the mumu guy let him keep writing rubbish, he thinks been a gentle man alone is enough 2 keep a lady. Can u imagine ur girlfriend breaking up with u and d only excuse she could give was that...u are too good for me.....u are not like other guys......2 days later u discovered she is back in a relationship with her ex bf who maltreatment and hurt her days and nights and u just sit down alone thinking where did i go wrong, i did everything to make her happy.

bro love na scam o.....if u know u know

She never loved u

Bass123:
Guy you lied! I have been very good to my girlfriend but she still say bye �. She even told me she has a boyfriend even when I did not chase or abuse her. But I realize I was too damn good and gentle which in my next relationship oboy! I will have other side chicks because I found out that gals like competition which I respected this one for it but she dumped my sorry ass.
Give her heaven and earth � a gal that wants to leave will definitely leave just like mine.

She never loved u. Painful truth
You dont generalize things with just a particular experience you had.. There are still good people out there.. And hurting someone else in future is a sign of emotional immaturity.

The simplest things of life are the deepest things. Most times it’s those Little things that matter the most.

There are so many things men might do to irritate their women.
Sometimes the men think it’s all her fault, but there’s more to it. Men might think they are doing their best but in reality, they are messing the whole thing up. It can come from the man without even having a clue and he begins to think women are quite complicated.

However,these 9 Secrets will guide you on the reasons she might leave you for another guy.



1. COMPARING HER WITH OTHER GIRLS.

She can totally hate you for this. Why should you be comparing her with others? If she ain’t unique, then why did you choose her?

If you love a chubby woman you go for her, and if you love a slim woman, stop telling her to add or reduce weight for you.

If you love average girls go for them, not after you’re tired you start telling her to grow tall for you.. NAWA O.. Read this to be sure you love her. 11 love theories you think you know

2. NOT BEING A GENTLE MAN.

This might be a secret I’m about to leak. Most times some smart ladies observe you to test your protective mechanism.

Ladies, ever walked with a guy on the road and he tells you to stay by the side of the road which isn’t close to the highway or where the cars are passing through? Now, that’s the kinda man every woman wants. One who is very observant and wants the best for her.

Some men just let the lady hang at the side of the road and they themselves stay inside. It could send lots of messages. Women consider these little things. You gotta protect her to keep her. She needs to trust you in those little things.

Follow link to continue https://www.heartidotes.com/2018/06/24/why-she-will-leave-you-for-another-man/

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Shortyy:
your surname is the first, then others follow. but in US, Your name before surname.

nothing like in usa and in Naija..english na anglish..so if the usa says its ur name..then it is..

We do not fall in love, we end up growing in love. Love is a gradual and slow process. It takes some beautiful stages to achieve a huge success in your love life.

Most people skip some stages and they might miss it. However, These beautiful stages will amaze you and assist your growth in love

Here are the 4 stages to grow in love.

1. FRIENDSHIP

This is the stage where most people fail it. Friendship is very important in love life. Most people like calling it a “friend zone” just to Go into a relationship Straight away. They keep deceiving themselves with the fact that being friends with her or him is a waste of effort.

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The factual truth is you cannot create a deep bond of intimacy with someone you are not friends with

There’s this mystical nature of friendship that we cannot comprehend. It’s so deep, deeper than any form of relationship between two people. Do not try to avoid this stage.

Friendship is the first stage that leads to the rest. You build it with one another. It’s in a friendship that things are exposed. He knows when you’re angry and she knows your flaws too. It’s so clear and you can’t hide it.

The reason most people fall out of love is that they skip this stage, they avoid it. This is the stage where you find who to can take the long walk of life with

Never avoid this stage if you want a successful love life.



2. THE LOVE – RELATIONSHIP STAGE


This is the second process of growing in love. Now this is where things between you guys start to become gradually intimate. It won’t be as deep as the intimacy in marriage but it’s a little bit above the friendship stage.

This stage looks very similar to that of friendship stage. They are quite alike and might have almost the same outputs.
One has to know when the both parties are in this stage because sometimes they might leave the friendship stage without even knowing and that’s when it’s not nice.

At this stage, you begin to ask questions and try to receive answers from them. Ask them out if they wanna date you. Ask them that question because that’s what determines if you both are serious for the future or not.

At this stage, people break in and out of their relationships several times.

Never assume about the dating thing, learn to ask. Ask her out! If you unconsciously started getting deeper with this person than normal, and you wanna get closer, ask them out and get into a real relationship with them To avoid unnecessary stories that touch the heart.

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jessca048:
sometimes I feel for men the society we live have conditioned and program them by saying real men don't cry.sometimes crying reduces the tension you are feeling. little wonder the life span of an average man is shorter than a woman's own cos there are too many bottled emotions

I swear my guy. God bless u

It’s been said that all men are logical while the ladies are emotional. If I were you, I wouldn’t agree with this because every human is an emotional being .I wrote this down to help men understand themselves better emotionally.

People who hide what they feel the most can appear stronger and firmer, but they tend to have more emotional depth than the others who express it all the time.
One who keeps something eating him deep inside for long will unleash more waves of emotions when he gets blown up! Or maybe when in love.

It’s really funny to say, but be more aware that men are more emotional than women. This might surprise you, but its factual.
Let me burst your bubbles today. Lol

These 7 symptoms/ signs will show you why men are more emotional than women.

1. THEY APPEAR STRONGER AND LESS FRAGILE


As I said earlier, people who appear stronger all the time are more fragile than those who show it all the time. It really takes some intuitive steps to know a man who is emotional. It’s not so difficult especially when he is in love with you or likes you.
Ladies see men as stiff creatures who do not have burdens with emotions, but I tell you, they do. They deeply yearn for love and acceptance too. Its no doubt.
Thats why you will see one military man that will just fall yakata for ground when he likes a girl..lool


2. THE FEEL IT MORE THAN THEY TALK ABOUT IT

Yes, they don’t talk about it when they are around people, but they actually feel it deeper than you think.
They don’t say these things out because customs and traditions have made men believe that they will appear weak if they talked about “feelings” , so they try to protect their ego.They are trained not to utter such emotional things because they are perceived to be feminine.


3.THEY EASILY GET ATTACHED

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A simple smile from a lady can easily make him think she’s into him and he immediately wants to try.Have you ever witnessed this? Maybe after lectures, you have this friend you always talk to, andyou guys get along, nothing much. You take him as a course mate or maybe a friend, but if you watch closely he pretends as though he’s not into you but sometimes not always, he admires you a lot .
It however, doesn’t take the time to get used to you. It might take a girl time but it doesn’t take men time. They would like you a lot but never say it. Until he maybe chats you up one day that he had this feeling for you for quite a long long time even in high school and you’re surprised.
You never even thought of having any thing emotional with him, but he already fell for you some years back and still has those feelings lingering. Sometimes, some might never ever tell you because he is afraid of the outcome, or maybe you’re gonna let him down. But their actions might do.

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[quote author=Faithway10 post=68275510]From: Amagitesblog


Nigerian novelist Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie has got lots of Nigerians talking with the comment she made when she appeared on “The Daily Show” with Trevor Noah on Wednesday.

She said she has trouble with men holding the door for women, because they think women are weak.

Singer Banky W has reacted.

https://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/06/banky-w-reacts-to-chimamandas-comment-on-men-holding-the-door-for-women.html

[/quote[08/06, 12:29 am] That's great..She's getting popular and making more cash
After all she wasn't legislating a law. She was replying to a question being asked to her by an interviewer
Banky wan to go viral...Lool...for him mind..adiichie no get his time���.. Person wee don't blow don' blow oooooo....Guy levels dey.. E no Izzy

OrestesDante:



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∆ Una don start with yeye lists again.

The person you have adrenaline for is collecting it somewhere.. You are just wasting your adrenaline... ∆


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ehya sorry if your gf or bf broke ur heart..inugo?

people mistake feelings of a strong attraction as love. Pecking and necking can increase a form of erotic love but that’s not genuine love.

There’s a very thin line between obsession and love….

SIGN #1 YOU TRUST THEM.

You cannot trust someone you don’t love and you cannot love someone you don’t trust. You can really talk to them about anything.And I do mean anything. You’re totally comfortable around him/her.

SIGN#2 YOU’RE IN LOVE WHEN YOU BECOME SELFLESS

You are deeply in love with someone when everything is no longer about you. You really want to please them because your heart is no longer just your own but its now shared. You think about their problem as though its yours.

SIGN#3 YOU’RE IN LOVE WHEN YOU WANT TO GIVE

Giving is a great sign of love. It triggers one into appreciating the other. You give someone something because you know they do need it not because you feel like.It has been in your heart because you cherish them. Giving doesn’t just involve material things but giving your time and listening ears is very deep and valuable for someone you love.

SIGN #4 YOU FIND YOURSELF ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT HIM/HER

You can’t help it. Someone says or does something that reminds you of him and before you even realize it you’re talking about him. Sometimes it can be involuntary.

SIGN #5 TWO MINUTES WITH THEM IS WORTH MORE THAN A WHOLE DAY WITHOUT HIM/HER

Any tiny interaction, even if he isn’t saying something romantic, makes your whole day. And it can leave you smiling inside for hours after.

SIGN#6 YOU HAVE MORE ENERGY

As you go through your day, you feel more alive and energetic, as if you have a constant adrenaline rush going through you.

You feel more productive, like you can take on the world every single day. Sometimes you might even loose appetite when they are around you and the hunger beeps on when they leave. Lol..how weird love can be.

SIGN #7 TRUE LOVE MOTIVATES POSITIVE BEHAVIOR

You wouldn’t wanna be a burden to someone you love. You will try to drop the bad attitudes since you know it will dampen your love life. Love really changes lotta things. I believe so, you too need to.

SIGN #8 YOU’RE IN LOVE WHEN YOU WANT TO SPUR YOUR PARTNER TO SUCCESS.

If you both just go on dates and telling each other sweet nothings, you’re definitely not in love. I’m not saying those things ain’t important to do but if your relationship lies on this , you’re not in love. Love is way too far from this. You motivate one another to become the best they can ever be.

SIGN #9 DISTANCE IS NOT A BARRIER WHEN YOU’RE IN LOVE.

NO matter how distant the person is, the love is there. There’s this bond/ intimacy that has been built. Now I am not saying long distant relationships are just the best but You must not be physical to bond heart to heart.You must not be physical to prove you are in love.There’s this loyalty regardless of how long you are separated. That’s why you can find someone still in love with the girl he broke up with 4 years ago. And you definitely think ” this guy is crazy” right?

SIGN #10 YOU’RE IN LOVE WHEN YOU’RE COMMITTED.

A lot of people shy away from commitments. They cannot take up responsibilities. Its not just about recognising your responsibilities but to be able to execute them too.

Finally, If you can recognise and carry out your responsibilities, then you are committed and ready to love at its best.

Feel free to add yours.
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chiommy123:
so true. you know my preacher will always say God never promised us a smooth journey but a safe landing.

sure.thanks

nanauju:
I can relate to all except number 2. Heartbreak is terrible mehn

Its well

I wrote this down to enable you understand why someone else might hurt you without knowing. There can be a lot of things that can trigger that.

Here are 6 stages you pass through when you are hurt

STAGE 1. Not accepting the truth

For instance, when one gets heartbroken in a relationship or in friendship, the person can pretend not to feel it for a while.

The person might just do away with it believing its not true or maybe its a dream or something unreal.

Someone who lost a loved one to death, a mother or a father or husband can just react to it in a way that it never happened. He or she might try to bear the pain for a while as though it never existed nor occurred.

STAGE 2. The nostalgic stage

Then, in this stage, the person feels home sick. Familiar memories begin to sprout out. And he or she begins to react in respect to what they feel. They get offended and might get angry too.

The hurt at this stage becomes unbearable and they can lash it out on anyone. A person from a broken home or a broken past can express oneself by such route.

Where we come from has a great way of affecting what we feel. But it takes self control and grace to pass through this phase.

STAGE 3. The frustration or blaming stage.

At this stage, the person becomes angry with everyone around him or her.They react in inhumane ways and begin to blame everyone for their problems. They forget those that helped them at this moment because they are deeply injured.


This is where he or she can actually hurt you without even having a clue that you’re hurt. At this stage, the person is in deep turmoil. A battle field is set and the person does not care anymore.

At some point, they might cut of the friendship they have with you.

STAGE 4. Weighing of options.

Here, they begin to search for a cure to their frustration. They now weigh options. ”Maybe if I do this , I feel better or maybe if I meet him, I feel good,”that’s how they think for a while.

Meanwhile, they now go out seeking for peace and contentment in the wrong place which they might never find.

STAGE 5. Accepting it’s part of life.

Having passed stage 4 and they find no remedy, they accept it’s their fate . a they begin to live with it. That’s why we find so much bitter people on our way to work, to church ,to school, etc.
They might end up hurting you if you let them.

STAGE 6. “The running to God stage”

This is the stage that most people in pain don’t get to. They either remain in stage 5 or they run to God. Some no longer believe in it because they have blamed God for everything.

In conclusion, this is the best stage one hurting can end with. Casting all your hurts to God so you have peace of mind knowing that the world is full of pain but that deep Joy within comes from God.

Thanks for your time.
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Having boundaries with the way you relate to the opposite sex is very crucial. Wit, out much ado, let me illustrate this with a short story. I was told a story of a girl who was a friend of a guy. This friendship grew for years. They both had an adventure together, study together and visited each other.

However, the girl was confused because of the way the guy hung around now and then. Nothing intimate was going on. Meanwhile, she decides to ask him what the friendship was all about. She asked, “ who am I to you”? The guy shuddered and replies, “ you are my good friend, and I take you like a sister”.

WOW! Wasn’t that surprising? From that day on, she kept him as a brother and a friend too. Nothing more or less.

Now, if she didn’t ask the question, she might end up emotionally attached to this guy and maybe finally get her heart broken.

WHAT TO DO

Have you read the short story above? If not go back to it.

It’s that simple. If a guy is always around you and you do not understand what he might want. If he acts as though he is more than a friend and acts so clingy, get a timeout and ask him the question “ who am I to you”?.Ask him to define the relationship. Whatever he says, stick to it. It’s that simple. No stress

Thanks for your time.
@lalasticlala


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ReneeNuttall:
Stop hyping this menstrual thingy.If u hype menstruation like this what will now happen during pregnancy? I'm a lady ok,i knw dat all women ain't same during their menstrual flow,but then mood swing isn't all that frustrating abeg.Its just a feeling that usually subsides in the shortest of time.No point playing music et al. We are the strongest of vessels mbok.

Thanks..most guys do complain that's why

If menstruation were not needful, then God wouldn’t put it in women. Fortunately, some women don’t feel pains, but some do. Sometimes it’s not just the pain that triggers it, but the hormones can have roles to play too. You do not understand what it feels like but read this.

Here are ways women react in their periods which you can relate to. However, these reactions are inevitably unavoidable. *smiles*
Here are ways women react in their periods which you can relate to

1.THE SOBBER REFLEXION

Not all women, but some women become very moody when in their periods. It seems as though the week is hell for her. She might not want to talk to you or maybe play as usual. She might even cancel a date.



*WHAT TO DO;

You can play soft music for her. All you need to do is to be calm knowing she’s passing through much pains and irritations.

You can continue with this post for better strategies.

https://www.heartidotes.com/2018/05/31/3-strange-ways-women-behave-in-their-periods-and-how-to-adapt-to-it-in-your-love-life/

I hear people say “women are complicated”. This might be due to the emotional configuration of the female gender. It’s however not so because what you do not understand as simple as it becomes complicated for you to handle as you neglect it.

Without the awareness that we are supposed to be different, men and women are at odds with each other. Becoming frustrated and angry with the opposite sex is easy.

Most times we think it’s either the men’s fault, not women’s, but it’s virtually the differences in our nature.

It takes maturity, discipline and understanding to carry each other along because we are both coming from different worlds.

I wrote down these few steps to enable men to handle their lover, wife or friend better if followed wisely.

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STEP 1. SHE IS EMOTIONAL, NOT LOGICAL

The fragile nature of a woman is the beauty of a woman. It was never a mistake. Men mistakenly expect women to think to communicate and react the way they do and women expect men to feel and communicate the way they do. That might look difficult, but it’s very possible.

Now, it takes a man of understanding to know how to handle a woman right. It’s not easy changing you’re emotional but it’s okay to know that it takes discipline to achieve some certain level of success you want in your love life or relationship with the opposite sex.

However, by merely cultivating that knowledge and attitude that women are, naturally emotional will help you handle her better. It will make things easier, even when you are a bit confused about the way she cries easily, yearns for attention and all the clumsy attitudes, Just remember she is emotional.

Whether a tomboy or tough boss lady, she is surely emotional, yes! So understand that.



STEP 2. LEARN TO LISTEN AND NOT HEAR

Listen with your heart, not your ears. Sometimes she comes back from work and maybe had a rough day, and she begins to talk and talk. Now, it doesn’t mean she’s loquacious. You think she talks too much, but it’s not so true..

Follow this link to continue
https://www.heartidotes.com/2018/05/31/step-by-step-secrets-to-handling-a-lady-you-love/

Toks2008:
*Don't get it twisted,this is not about bringing the women folks down but this is a mystery the world still finds very difficult to unravel.. *

I have heard this countless times from different ladies "I don't get along with women,“I prefer being friends with males than females,” or “I don’t have female friends because they’re too much drama.”

A lady walks into the room and sees a more attractive lady and she suddenly feels threatened and starts hating on the more attractive one even when she does not realize it...the older ladies just get fussy when they see younger ladies flaunt their freshness,the married lady suddenly feels she is more superior to the unmarried ones,the unmarried one is happy to hear about a crash in a friend's marriage and the same women who are ready to bring down the roof when they hear the words "Men are polygamous in nature" are the same women snatching each other's husbands,having an affair with married men and even getting married to married men.The wife and the husband's mum compete with each other.Put women in one room and you are certain to settle issues several times.

So i tend to wonder why the hypocrisy? what will happen if every lady approached by married men say NO?, Does it not just make logical sense if the second baby mama of 2baba or Wizkid stood their ground and asked these guys to go stay faithful to their first baby mamas? How convenient it is for some ladies to be so vague,heartless and hypocritical that the very act they cry out against are encouraged by them.

In my opinion,when we consider the heartaches,hurts and all the drama men create in women’s lives,i believe the male folk deserves all the hatred from he ladies but amazingly the women keep loving us. They’d rather hate a fellow woman, who has done nothing to them and this is one mystery no one may be able to unravel and this one question we may never be able to answer..WHY ARE WOMEN THEIR OWN WORST ENEMIES?

its no doubt. Women, our wahala is just too much. Swallow the bitter truth. we cant even live together without serious quarrels or malice. i wonder what the competition is all about. Our emotional nature might have side effects on us, but the men nko, dont they have feelings too? Me, i got no time for such jokes..

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