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Assuming your story is true, i dont see any trademark condemnation of the ladies in the tale

If it was flipped around..... hmmm

SAMBARRY:
you have every right from heaven and earth to believe whatever you want to believe however me I have said my own. Lobatan.

Awesome animation
Sound effects
The screeching sounds..
Soundtrack

Though the themes are not clear

SIM has an african american style(hair) but looks like mercy johnson
The male dude looks AA also

3cycle:
Ermmm pictures or

if u post urs.. i will

passionate88:
I think it is necessary... But there are some girls that don't even know their mobile phone number but know their 3 account numbers..

They even know the NUBAN , sort code, branch code offhand/off by heart

Daily News.. interesting views you have here

So you believe after mediation, divorce is better than letting her submit the money

Hypothethical case here

DailyNews:
if she's being irresponsible with her income, caution her! If she continues to sqaunder it, stop giving her money and let her use her own money to take care of herself. If that doesn't solve it, call her family's attention! If that one fails, then divorce her, simple!!

Making a mandate that your wife must submit her salary every month is insane! Except both of u makes it compulsory that u guys will be submitting your salaries to be deposited in a joint-account that requires u guys' individual signatures to withdraw money.

slimmy05:
They will comfortably spread their legs like umbrella and moan like a bi.t.ch and see nothing wrong in that in a relationship, suddenly cooking becomes a taboo. Fish brains

LOL......




That thread was so funny

Sex is now less stressful than cooking for your man

UjSizzle:
Lol! Did you read the things on that list? Heh guys really want super women


And yes, very literal diapers. At least the OP just described men as big cuddly babies

I read it and while some of it may look overboard however why don't you ladies identify the specific point you find offensive and discuss it

Even kachisbarbie agreed with the points though she agrees its a bit rigid.

Why attack the op personality instead or dealing with his post

slimmy05:
look at this thief. You'll know a locust when you see one. Only folks from broke background will wish for this. Parasites.

I wonder why u responded to the poster
She cannot cook for the same man who will keep her but can offer her punny

You know it's a strange world when girls prefer to offer sex to their boyfriends or fiancé rather than cook food in his house saying it could lead to abuse.

LOL

Sapiosexual22:
If i only know how she's faring, at least it will be a head-start. But she's all silent. No words, response or calls.

Because she sees u as the devil and the killer of her only potential joy

UjSizzle:
.........don't forget to change his diapers regularly

Is this literal or

I thought you were advocating a blend of traditional values with a modern tint

Sapiosexual22:
My bad. My issues are as follows;

1. We are not well financed enough to take care of a baby.
2. I am not psychologically ready to want to have a kid now especially not outside wedlock.
3. I am as good as dead with my family getting to hear about it.
Why bring to life a kid/possibly kids we can't afford to provide with things they want and you have to start going to sister's to get them things.

You need to discuss with this woman
It will be difficult to convince her to abort.. so maybe you should strike that option out

I believe she will be ready to even take care of that child on her own

Well... i get your fears and concerns,, but you have to man up

Ilekokonit:
I don't know if women realise that men (not wimp's) are territorial by nature and are not monogamous by nature, so if you want a relationship that will last, don't give him an excuse to revert back to wanting his freedom by deliberately turning yourself into his adversary.

Deep.....

Sapiosexual22:
my exact fear

Not maam
So what is your own issue with the whole matter

Why do u want to abort

How much

HarvardGrad:
I have some USD to sell. Bank to bank transfer only(both ways). Post here if interested

that may be the only opportunity for her to have a chilld

Congratulations daddy!

Ilekokonit:
And yet the Oyinbo man you are copying his ways refuses to marry you and if they ever date you, they date the exceptionally attractive ones amongst you as a trophy babe and a lot of times for sexual curiosity and experimentation plus the additional bragging rights to their friends at the pub.

Evil.....

Is it any wonder that there is an epidemic of ageing never married single feminist African women with grey hairs ALL OVER the globe but they are still so hard of hearing that they REPEATEDLY mismanage their relationships with African men with this their unrepentant stubbornness.

How can you be the woman and at the same time want to be the man in a relationship

Carry on and when menopause and the unavoidable effects of ageing sets in all round, your eye go clear.

LOL....
Upper cut

thanks Gboliwe

I vote for
Rozzay

Jennimma

Temigracie

MarthaK

NABSPRADA

Rokiatu

AFRICANAPPLE

Cupidora

FIDIRA

OMOLOLA1

ANNYPIE

MAUREENSYLVIA

Your mum has done well

youve done well

What u need to do now

- excel in your studies and graduate with good grades
- Be circumspect in your marital choice so your kids dont experience the same thing
- Dont neglect your mum in her old age

My dear
im ok

im above average height...

3cycle:
Atleast average would do.
Don't you sometimes wish you were a bit taller?

3cycle:
I think you guys should support your sister's decision not to marry a man nkpudarish in nature allow her to bless a tall guy with her shape so she can atleast have kids average in height.
It isn't all about being married but having peace of mind. Nawao

I trust you..
You will not disappoint


Howver do you know that the product of that union may not be necessarily tall

kibi:
laugh....nope else twould have been posted at the joke column...

Even the joke section will be child's play by the time your friend's marriage is dissected

its her choice

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3cycle

You sef

3cycle:
Ofcourse some of them are world leaders but 3cycle said she cnt do a short man, how is that an issue for someone else?

Nawao...
Are you same as pickabeau @op?

kibi:
i never said i had all the facts...truth be told i didnt ask so i would give her any advice....i just was puzzled at why a squable wuld be settled with such a condition.

Since you dont have ALL the facts..but you have displayed a friend's marital issue online, i wonder what your motive is.
I guess we can all laugh at your friends expense.

Why do u think being implicated for a crime a man did not commit is sweet

kibi:
i just spoke with a friend of mine who has been having marital challenges and she says the hubby has given her a condition for their make up - submit your salary to me at the end of every month.
i really dont like being in the middle of marital squables cos i wouldnt want anyone in mine so i told her to pray and talk it out with her husband though it did get me thinking, whats the rationale behind that condition...for men in the house who do this please enlighten me cos i dont support it.

You don't have ALL the facts of your friends marriage yet you come online to selectively post things to assassinate her husband character.


Such a 'good' friend you are.



He is a caveman

Let her divorce him.

Are u happy

Detroit Man Is Not the Father, but Court Says He Owes $30,000 in Child Support 



Carnell Alexander didn’t father a child. The child’s mother and a paternity test both indicate that he isn’t the child’s father, yet a court is still demanding that Alexander pay some $30,000 in back child support.  

 
A Detroit man is facing a choice given him by the state of Michigan. The first option is to pay $30,000 in back child support for a child that is not his. His second option? Go to prison.
But wait, it gets worse. Everything and everyone involved in this story—including a paternity test, the child's mother and the court that has given Carnell Alexander the two options—recognize that the baby isn't his.

"I feel like I'm standing in front of a brick wall with nowhere to go," Alexander told Detroit news station WXYZ.
Alexander told the news station that he learned about a paternity case against him in the early '90s after a police officer called him a deadbeat dad during a traffic stop. The officer also informed him that there was a warrant out for his arrest for unpaid child support.
"I knew I didn't have a child, so I was kind of blown back," Alexander told the news station.


Alexander has been fighting since then to clear his name, with little success. Here is how the story unfolds: The state claims that in 1987 Alexander fathered a baby. The state also claims that it sent several notices to an address on file and that Alexander ignored those notices. Alexander says that he never got the notices because they were sent to an address where he no longer lived. When he heard about the child, he went to court.
"And when you were telling them in court—'That it was not my child'—they told me it was too late to get a DNA test," Alexander told the news station.


At the time, Alexander didn't know the location of the woman who claimed he was the father of the child, and with only sporadic work, lacking a full-time job, he had no money.
He eventually ran into a friend who knew where the woman was, and they got a DNA test. The test proved that Alexander had a 0.00 percent probability of being the child's father. According to the woman, the child's actual father was also in the child's life.

Story should end here, right?
Wrong.
Alexander took all this information to the court, but the judge was unfazed.
"Case closed. I gotta pay for the baby," Alexander told WXYZ.
According to news station, the court hinged its decision on a summons that was reportedly delivered to Alexander's father's house informing him about the paternity case. The process server for the court turned in a document claiming that Alexander was served a summons but refused to sign it.
"I wasn't there. I couldn't refuse to sign," Alexander told the news station.
WXYZ investigated Alexander's claims and found that on the day the server claimed he signed the document, Alexander was a guest of the Michigan Department of Corrections, serving time for a crime he committed as a young man.
So how did all this happen?


Well, years ago, the woman, Alexander's ex, had a baby. She didn't know who the father was, but she knew she needed help caring for the child. A caseworker told her that she had to name the father when she filed papers seeking government assistance.
"That was the only way I could get assistance," the woman, who didn't want to give her name, told the news station. She said she had no idea that the state would go after Alexander for child support.
"Everything is my fault that I put him through," she said.
She even asked to court to forgive his debt, and it did, but only the portion that was to be awarded to her. Alexander still owes around $30,000, according to WXYZ.
Alexander is refusing to pay and is being threatened with jail time.
"We know this is not my child, so let's do what we need to do, what's right," said Alexander.

http://www.theroot.com/articles/culture/2014/10/detroit_man_is_not_the_father_but_court_says_he_owes_30k_in_child_support.html


You can still be implicated by a woman to pay child support

Interesting

Aitee1:
I agree to disagree with u! religion is a western scam!!! Why can't we stick to our custom and tradition the way we do retain our forefathers names must we copy??

If u check well all these ruling misleading religions originated from.the west.

Meaning we are still being colonized by them one way or the other...they reason over there and send down directives for us here and we foolishly follow without making use of our thinkinv faculties.

If we were to hold onto our tradition and customs I doubt if things wld have been these WILD!!!

All our women want now is equality cos that's what the west shoved down their throat forgeting that it their norm.

I don't get your point at all

sexybash:
I noticed that mostimes the most hard working African good wives die before their husband because they carry around so much anger and hate while keeping it in the family
I pity them though

Male mortality is higher than female
Use facts and stop spewing

3cycle:
Short guys have complex issues most times.
With the way the defend short ppl eh I have no choice but to ask how shotall are you?

Hmmm......

By naija standards I'm not short


But by basketball standards I am

praise4055:
thanks

hahhahaha shortie and shawtie hahaha i don't know where to belong to, all i know is that am 5ft4

Lol.......nothing like a shawtie...I tell u