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Cool....


So all this hard women things na just online formings.....


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edwife:
ahahaha ,you crazy...

Anyone who knows me,will tell you i don't do physical....especially not with the other woman,no no no....

As for my man,make him straight and narrow,depends on where....

Truth is if it is once,i will overlook and ready for a clean start,but that's all i can promise....

Yes he should... thats the best

You ladies are keeping quiet but always making veiled threats.. Only sheun has said her one clearly

Playing it cool online eh??[ meanwhileyou guys love una hubby

I put it t you,... u will raise fire and brimstone on that womans head

Then deal with hubby and make him straight and narrow

edwife:
Nooo,he should just keep it in his trouser next time.....

@bolded ahahahah

You don't wanna know,do you?

At least you won't hear it from me.....

It is tellin when the mothers of tomorrow dont even know of the great African Empires

Kanem Bornu
Oyo
Benin
Mali
Ashanti
Zulu
Egypt
Ethiopia


it is doubly sad when they look down on africa and deify everything western
The same west that pillaged the New World and slaughtered millions of Red Indians
The same west that facilitated a system of slaveryacross Africa

Lawdy Lawd.... if you dont know where you are coming from... how can you know your destination - Exodus


Damn... the west has won even before the bell rang

Exactly.. you did not nag
You were quiet
He is scared you are going to murder him in sleep or poison

Mind games can be risky



At bolded... that is the meatof this thread
What will u do... when u dont want to play cool

handcuffs?

edwife:
What will he be tired of?I did not disturb or nag him did i?So what will he be tired of?

And if he choose to go back in her arms,does it not say something? HE DOES NOT WANT YOU ANYMORE.... simple....

Question is,will I be meeting him often in that scenario?and will i always play cool all the time?....NO....

Differents situations call for different measures.....

Bravo!

bukatyne:
Again, there is no love without correction.

If (God forbid evil ) my husband starts behaving like a tout in his work place or quarrelling with all his colleagues and our neighbors, is it not my duty to correct him?

That was one of the problems I had with Tiwa's husband: what husband does not complain when his wife dresses like an harlot? One who does not care about the marriage. If he saw a future with her, would not caution her for posterity sake?

I will have reservations about a spouse that cannot correct me when I am wrong because the Bible says 'Iron sharpenth Iron'. Infact, we both see ourselves as a representative of the family which cautions us in our conduct outside and ambassadors of Christ which helps us caution our conduct towards each other

bukatyne:
That's what I typed in my earlier post.

@bolded: There is a difference between dealing with adults (your wife/husband) and kids. If a husband/wife does not like something the spouse has done, he/she ought to tell the spouse in love and they settle it.

Can you expand the correction you mean?

I agree with you on the approach to his wife

Ok.... i understand you.. mind games work BUT not on everyone and definitelt not everytime

The question is how effective will the mind games be?

The issue is there festering

what if he gets tired and calls your bluff and runs to the arms of the other woman

edwife:
Lol,pickabeau that's will not be a good day for him,not physically though i am not a violent person......

But he will surely remember that day ,you know what they say about quiet people....

I won't even talk about it at first,maybe for a week or so....

Mind game is wicked...

dein77:
Pro 27.5 Open rebuke is better than secret love.............The open rebuke to a person's fault( sin) is done out of love, which thereafter covers the person's wrongdoing.
It doesn't mean publicly correcting a person with a condescending view.

So correcting the person is good just not publicly?
Is that love too

The idea of love one gets around these parts is one of an easy, fuzzy, hubby let me do what i want type

bukatyne:
Love covereth all sins: when you love someone, you will not lie against the person, steal from him or her etc. Remember Jesus summed all the commandments to 'love the Lord with all your heart, all your soul and with all your might & love your neighbor as yourself'
You also have to look at the contextually meaning; I sometimes read all the chapter or topic to grasp what a particular verse is saying.
@ Open rebuke is better than secret love: hmm...

What is the contextual meaning to you

Good


He was lucky he did the right thing..lol

sheunfemix:
well let's say d man ruined his own home cos I believe u true man sud know his worth and value that of his wife. He sud also respect her enough to know that no other women is better than she is. But they are back together and d woman is now the 'oga' cos he works in her schl as headmaster she is a very strong woman too cos she is has adopted two of his mistresses kids.

As for that yeye girl dat called me her case na yaba left own. I told my man about the call and it was funny to him. I dint call her back or pick her calls again. But the next time we saw, I just ignored her. She is an half caste obviously finer. Told my boyfriend then now husband to choose and he choose me lucky him

edwife.. can u be specific
What will he come out to meet IF such happened..IT WILL NOT

edwife:
And what makes you think he is coming to a peaceful home ,i repeat i have no business with what the woman thinks,but what my man thinks.....
And trust me,he will be too scared to come back home....

Kimoni:
But these ppl are not bf and gf now? Ok, maybe moral pov.

Abeg, it haff do for me on this olosho thread jawe. Let me make way for those who wish to continue to advise the OP.

note though that not everyone buys into morality

No wahala...

Interesting perpsective

I like what u said on love and submission being directly proportional so i will ask you what kind of love are you talking of

Remember love has two dimensions

Pro 27.5 Open rebuke is better than secret love


Pro 10.12b Love covereth all sins


bukatyne,... i will like your comments also

dein77:
I have been keenly watching from the sidelines, and have read arguments and counter-arguments. I cant give an answer that will be acceptable to both sides. All I can say is that, from my experience as a married man, the more LOVE I show to my wife, the more SUBMISSIVE she becomes.

Your point of view has merits just like the other school of thought

The only snag with your pov is if the girl has more connections/power than you

At bolded... was it the mistresses who ruined the home or the man who did it

So what happened after she called u

sheunfemix:
na mouth I get o. But rily[b] I've seen mistresses Ruin homes[/b] cos the wives are quite. Wen I was in secondary schl our landlord was made nothing cos of all this yeye girls. He worked in American Embassy and was always travelling around but the last tym I saw him, I pitied him. Now his wife is d one feeding him. I will use all d connections I have to finish d woman o >: a girl called me one tym to tell me she was in love with my man and she was crying... I did nothing

well done for your labour of love

Gboliwe

sheunfemix:
I'll defiantly give any lady that messes with my man more than a few biitch slapping!! Here in Nigeria especially, a cheating man is left alone but if the wife cheats she is tagged as a wh0re. I'm not saying any of d parties sud cheat but a lot of customs and beliefs always put women @ d receiving end. The lady will get it big time! I won't do street or fist fighting, naa I'm more dan dat but I'll screw her up in worse ways and I'll fight dirty

All i see here na voking...
Can you be more specific

I dont get your angle

Are u saying uve never hooked up with ur bf in a friends place OR your friend hooked up with her bf in your place

Except u are coming from a moral point of view

Kimoni:
Pb, the moment the OP agreed to let out a room in his house, he has become a party to the contract. Olosho no care about who get house ooo, that one is between the OP and his uncle. At least all she is asking for now is just her fee showing she is not interested in the laptop.

MadCow1:
Seeing as we both agree on Death Note.. Is there any other Anime that compares to it?

Hmmm.... on the intellect level... No Game No Life

Im enjoying Sword Art Online s2.. not found time for season 1

Good u agree u were not facing the issue

What will you call someone who takes a property of another's without the person's consent?

A helper?

If the phockee was cheated of her olosho funds let her face the phocker... simple

Kimoni:
Agreed I did, but that's because you called out only the girl by calling her a criminal and I was wondering if she was the only guilty party.

I no dey put mouth for olosho biz o, infact, I want the uncle's eyes that has turned red to drip blood before they find a solution to the problem, next time, he will think twice before cheating on his fiancee and setting a bad example to his nephew though I pity the OP small, but he will learn how to evade such request next time.

DeathNote.. EPIC


I have the paperback 10 volumes, had the the films at one point too and the anime...


Lighto!.. Misa Misa

MadCow1:
Thanks Fam..
You dont need to wait for Naruto to End.. Start with Death Note.. Its not as Long as Naruto, infact it has ended but It would grip you from start to Finish..
The Story of Yagami Light & L..
Two Geniuses go head to head.. Intellectually stimulating and contains less jutsus..

bukatyne:
Hi pickabeau1,

What issues did you want us to discuss?

Wlell.. you are the OP and can provide themes we discuss on

The last thrust was on trust between partners

Nothing further on my side

NL Ladies... supporting ladies causes without any cause from 1960

oweniwe:
my dear.... Its pathetic.... Rather than condemming d gal, it is me that they are abusing....

They dont even see anything wrong with d gal stealing the laptop and asking for 30k.... They're hailing her for "smart. "

the same people saying the man who was caught for rape should have been well beaten and have his balls hanged on this thread on d front page www.nairaland.com/1970643/man-beaten-molesting-oau-ife-student ... Are the same people screaming blue murder that am advocating jungle justice.

If male armed robbers are beaten and Stripped, it serves them right, they should be castrated, balls cut off, he should be hanged with his prieck..........

If its female armed robbers that are stripped, na jungle justice, the people are primitive, they're peverts, africa is backward, bla bla bla.

Someone doing a project had his laptop stolen by a gal..... They blame and abuse the person who is doing his bits to help..... And praise the thief.

Thats nigerians for you.

And thats why i stopped commenting on the thread.

Thanks very much for your support. I do appreciate

You are not dealing with the issue but rather dealing wth personalities


As you have stated the issue is between the girl and the uncle. Let her deal with the uncle and not the OP


At the bolded, i hope u know that the data on a laptop is mostly always more valuable than the hardware

Kimoni:
Pb, abeg forget that thing the uncle that brought an olosho to his nephew's house when he has a fiancée is not just a criminal but a shameless one at that.

The girl is a criminal...but then, oloshos' always get their pay somehow, innit?

The nephew that allows his house to be used as "room"(note how he said they took a room in his opening post) by his uncle and his olosho(he def knew who she was) is also

OP, did you say ur uncle does not have 30k But he can carry prostitites? See why I believe he never paid the girl? And why would he leave a stranger at home with you especially when there was no action btw them as planned? Who believes that kind of shitty story?

Abeg let him give you the money for another laptop or better still, get the money and give to ur friend to get himself another laptop. You have no biz with the girl IMO.

dayum... im lost

see e-lynching by the ladies of NL


oweniwe do what u have to do and get your laptop and dont come online to discuss

WHen u have it, let us know you have it.. simple


this girl is a criminal and lashed out of wickedness punishing an innocent party when she did not perform her service?

even if u have the money,wasting the money on this chic is not an option

I wonder why the issue is nowto make fun of the guy for not having 30k

Does 1 Naira grow on trees

bal2012002:
hello house.

Sent you an email

damiso:
Happy wedding anniversary and Birthday Bellong many more years of Gods love peace and joy on your life and in your home..

****let me quickly vamoose before Mr Pickabeau comes to chase me as i no be 'boy' na Bellong I come greet o*****

You be honorary member Na

You discuss topical issues, football all join

freecocoa:
Just checking.

OK

freecocoa:
You do believe in 'live and let live' right?

Yes....

I don't see how I showed otherwise

freecocoa:
Fine then leave atheism out of it, suicide is the topic here not atheism.



From my earlier post, I think it's clear where I stand, I don't know what lies beyond so I can't say.

OK...so you can't say there is an afterlife but can't say there isn't either.

I get why suicide to you will be bravery

Cool.

edwife:
Pickabeau that was not literally, i am not just talking about this thread,but a lot has been happening in family section these days...

It's like a gender's war... i am talking about people who always read meaning to posts....

Can't we just disagree without going personal?

OK....wanted to be sure it was not this thread

On your point...I agree ....ideally points should be made without personality

alutacontinua:
Another episode don happen?
I find it difficult to even keep up these days
Too much series to deal with....

Toooooo much

I am doing falling skies, agents of shield and resurrection

Grimm s4 just started
Dominion s2 soon

Finished strain, last ship


Am counting down to start The Walking Dead(from.season 1)


Toooooo many series

Skye; you did not answer the question. You skirted it

Coulson: its a difference I'm comfortable with.but if you continue to question my authority you and I are going to have a very different conversation.one you will NOT be comfortable with


Classic!


Agent Moss is badass

That scientist is crazy.....having orgãsms at the thought of massacring millions with d obelisk

I don't get that anyway but what I know is there is a a general trend of attacking people's families on this section


Discussions are getiing personal and who knows why

Have fun

I have agents of shield to catchup on

alutacontinua:
That's the concept.....
He says it in such a way that everybody is supposed to believe he's just talking mildly.....only his targeted audience understands him. I really dunno how to colour words (maybe I have to start learning from the best ).


Anyways, if my words seem harsh, I apologize! It's never my intention to hurt anybody...maybe make them realize they don't have the monopoly of sly use of words but not to HURT!