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nwaribe: I tried to go back but the MD refused. I'm still pleading with him to take me back bt I knw he'll use me if I eventually go back to dat job. I'm already thinking of learning a skill.

Be encouraged
Something better will come your way

Take that skill seriously and perfect yourself in it

^^ schooled

I just called GTconnect and the officer told me it does not affect dom accounts and funds transfer

Damn.. This is bad

So what are your fall back scenarios


Can you resume where you were working

nwaribe: My Dear, we where suppose to collect d letter on dat day they asked us to come (according to dem). So unfair. I wish I could sue them.

Cooly cooly igbo detector

This is so unfair

Did you get an offer letter which was signed and returned

nwaribe: I quit my job to start working with etisalat; following d resumptiom mail they sent me. They (etisalat) sent a mail again that d resumption has been postponed till further notice. Now I'm jobless. #sosad#.

^^
Lets not derail this beautiful thread

^^Yes.. why would u think otherwise

It worked well for my kid

But let her see a doc in my experience they always say leave it alone

It does not always have to be a negative thing to marry a woman who has a higher social status than you

If they love each other and the woman is of a humble meek spirit, it may work

Submit it
If you don't buy the ticket you can't win the lottery

There have been two intriguing debates today on gender roles viz-a-viz fiscal responsibility

Traditionally

Case 1

If a man summons you to his abode, he is supposed to be responsible for you as he is the one who initiates or will benefit from the encounter

Basically a woman should at least not be worse off

This is not a trip to silverbird but actually a 6hr trip with flight to cost at least 1200 usd so it's not beans

If she is the principled type she may need to stay in a hotel or with a friend
So extra costs

Looking at about 2000 usd - not a small sum

Case 2
It is expected that a man caters for a woman whetjer she has a career or not especially if she is not working as she is working in the home taking care of the home front


Personally:

Hold on till feb when he is chanced. You will know what to do then

I still await the day true equality will be practised
I dream of a day when there would be nothing wrong in a woman paying her way if she feels the cause is worth it

A day when there should be nothing wrong in having house husbands and bills will be footed without fuss

A day women will open car doors for men when they drive

A day when women take you out and pay for your dinner bill

A world of equality

no problem

tellwisdom: Have you returned the money he squandered?? Cos that's my concern

Are you the brother

I endorse this action but I think she needs to have a secret account for major capex

bellong: Sister, christianity does not stop us from doing what is necessary and right. Infact, it strengthens us to do the right thing. Bible says, a man that cannot provide for his household is worse than an infidel. Suffice it to say that you are an accomplice in his laziness.

The solution is simple and straightforward. Though he will shout and make noise but you must stand your ground. He that does not work should not eat. Go to your bank, tell them to disable your ATM since he knows your salary, opening a secret account may not do. Once he can't withdraw from the ATM, tell him you can't continue to feed his lazy layabouts...

Worst case scenario if you can't do the above, open an account for him and transfer what you can afford monthly to the account. If he finishes it in a day, its his problem. Put him on a monthly stipend if that is what he wants...

But if you really want him to be delivered from laziness, block all avenues and access he has to your money and stand your ground in not giving a dime. Marriage is a symbiotic relationship and not parasitic.

Hahahaha...

Still don't know how all these arguments affect the price of fish

WackyJ1: You, in and of yourself is and are boring

Yawn...

Ela is in my opinion a form of eczema

Babycenter will recommend seeing a doctor.

Some will say do nothing

We tried an antifungal cream

Funbact A with shea butter

We stopped Sudocream as it could also lead to dryness

At the END of the clandestine meeting TIME the man died due to pokey pokey THINGS

Poor man

Wooo..

Byvan congrats to you and your family for this occasion

Wish him many more years

It is well

Rest well and bask in motherhood

I respect the other cultures for how they espouse diversity and still are true to their roots

Jlo, ricky martin,pit bull are bilingual
You still hear italian in some parts of new york
There's a version of dutch-german in some parts of pennyslvania

The dutch learn english in addition to their own lingo

Malays speak malay, some learn chinese and then english

We are ashamed of our language and it's not only in the diaspora
Even here in the cities, some are proud of their kids not knowing their native language

They would typically ask for statements of either 3, 6 months or covering between 3 to 6 months or not at all

So in my opinion I would say prepare for half a year, no sudden large withdrawals or deposits which can be suspicious.

pro

good skin
the nose is ok - using the caucausian standard of noses is racist imo
high sense of confidence
fresh figure

con

the pouting

you are a beautiful lady..
dont let anyone tell you otherwise

kimco: I did oo. Rapmike asked of it i told him aba it.

I dnt understand the gbadun world lol.

Nice one.. Fate zero is Straight and direct

I'm in ep 23 - kiritsugu vs kirei

Gbadun means like


I will watch fate stay night after

rapmike: Yea, 2 much talk and 2 little action

TOO MUCH TALK

@deols

Was it a gift or a loan to dangote from dantata

I don't know of any but what kind of milk are you giving your girl

Briefly;

A congo once shined can be shined at some future time

OR


A pokee once poked in the past can always be poked in the future by the poker

yellowpawpaw: This is d second time I'm seeing this in one week.
Pls what is okafor's law?

davrod: Thanks guys for the advise. Over my dead body will I accept her back my only priority remain my 1st son but I can see signs of my baby mama wanting to atleast start intimate relationship with me which am avoiding and am praying to God to help me avoid it for the rest of my life. Nobody is above temptation OR mistake but God willing I will avoid getting intimate with her.

When you poke her, dont open a thread ooo

I am married but have another child by my baby mamma of 1

The epl footballers are already rich jaawe


Blessing Okagbare, the athletes and the local footballers need this largesse

kenyattamoore: Babyosisi why don't you use English? From what I understand some of you think my situation is something to laugh about. This is not funny at all!! I know you are a grown up please act as one.
I am in my friend place now , I know some of you will not believe , look for a way to prove later but my word should be enaf. I am tired and very emotions now, I need to rest.

This is good news,,,, Ignore.. I believe she was playing a reverse psychology stunt on you
A lot of people were losing hope you would follow through...

If this is so.... take this as the first step to gaining your life back
We are rooting for you!

Just thought of this song... not really a britney fan though


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AJWtLf4-WWs

Also this clip from a film i love Enough starring JLo... the decking of that guy was tight.. taek-won-do!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TdHmT_ZmhFE

It is not your right to demand for anything you did not work for
It is only a privilege

kulyie: ose jare i am recuperating sha.thank God for everything though

take care did not know

it is well