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Family › Re: Happy Birthday To Nashville And Bukatyne! by pickabeau1: 8:51am On Oct 15, 2013
Nice one... live strong n prosper
Travel › Re: A Nairalander's Tale On His West African Tour by pickabeau1: 8:33pm On Oct 14, 2013
@Ed
Sorry for the experience
May you be restored in due time
Thank God your life was not tampered with
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by pickabeau1: 6:48pm On Oct 14, 2013
I was goin to post on cheny thread but it's being locked

This is what I meant to write

Cheny gats lotsa love
Whooooo...90 bay
Remember to whom much is given...much is expected

Take your baking lessons serious and when you've made it don't forget to help others

NL... good peoples
Family › Re: ............. by pickabeau1: 3:19pm On Oct 14, 2013
^ you can still decide not to marry
As long as you are true to yourself and not pushing it as a coping mechanism


It's a free world
Travel › Re: Canadian Federal Skilled Worker Program-timelines Here by pickabeau1: 12:53pm On Oct 14, 2013
Did u start reading from the beginning

What specific information do you need


borie4u: u guys are not helping new people at all with these discussion. Its seems this thread is for people who already have 90% info that is needed for this Canada Skilled Visa Thingy.
I was expecting info on
1.The form
2.How to fill the form.
3.How much you would need to complete this Visa.
4. What are those document u require to complete this visa.
5.Will there be Visa appearance for it.
and et al. Any infomation that any newbie will need to DIY. God bless
Romance › Re: Patriarchy - 'The Male Privilege' by pickabeau1: 12:48pm On Oct 14, 2013
bukatyne: Any man paying for women with no strings has nothing to use money for. If he has responsibilities, he will know how to spend.
i dey oooo

wish u the best

Live stong, long and prosper ...

I agree with you on this.. men need to be focussed now especially with harsh economic realities...
Romance › Re: Patriarchy - 'The Male Privilege' by pickabeau1: 12:33pm On Oct 14, 2013
bukatyne: 3. Be a woman to only your man: I do not understand ho[sup][/sup]w a lady can decide to be a 'woman' to every man she comes across. Don't get me wrong, I am not saying behave like a man; I am saying there are some special things reserved for my man/husband only. Am I a cook that any guy would just give me money to go to market and cook for him? Am I doing neighborhood wife that I am giving my male neighbors' food or do their laundry? What is that thing that you have reserved specially for your man? Just how I do not expect a man to be sleeping around or offering 'community service' for all the ladies are giving all the ladies money or whatever, I do not expect women to do same. I feel happy knowing that there are some special things only my man/husband will know about me and vice versa.

In your place of work, you are colleagues and relate with the guys as such. I find it irritating when a lady is harassing a man to buy lunch or other freebies... seriously? You work, I work, you earn your salary and same here so what's up with the 'I never chop attitude?' Yes, it is harassing because the poor guy might have something to use his money for and because he doesn't want to be labeled as 'stingy, not man enough' or whatever, he begins to calculate how to dodge or pay for market he didn't buy.

Some female posters are even talking of bills on this thread; is it only you and your guy that has to bother about your bills? What has been a man got to do with paying of random bills? if the men did not exist, how would we settle our bills?

in your neighborhood, you are neighbors and please keep it at that. Be a good neighbor but don't turn yourself to a 'free' wife. I remember when I was an exco back in school and I was washing the plates after a function. One of my lecturers asked if I did it because I was a woman and I told him that I did it because it was my office and my duty. If my office/duty requires I sweep, I will do so but sorry I will not do it because I am a woman and it is 'expected' of me.
I like the bolded...

Unfortunately you speak for a very very low minority of women
the majority will come here and form e-warrior, spouting spiel but will never use their own money for anything...
You work with someone earning same money yet she still tells u to buy gifts for her///

Leeching off everyone,... neighbourhood wife lol
Family › Re: Why Are Married Men Never Contented With Their Wives? by pickabeau1: 12:04pm On Oct 14, 2013
Humans including women are insatiable - law of economics


PS why is an old topic resurfacing its head
Family › Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by pickabeau1: 10:17am On Oct 14, 2013
[quote author=2s£xy]Yes. May be you could further explain so as to help the house.[/quote]Someone comes to NL to say another person is dead and i say i dont fully believe it...
If you choose to believe it, its your call
Family › Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by pickabeau1: 10:11am On Oct 14, 2013
[quote author=2s£xy]Why do you feel so?[/quote]Feel what


That the story may not be true? or that ivyblue is back as soraya?
Family › Re: Her Dad Is Attracted To Her - What Should She Do by pickabeau1: 9:17am On Oct 14, 2013
I'm finding it difficult to believe this story

A 19 year old woman

Where is the mum

Where is the psychologist/psychiatrist based

Waiting for kanwulia the halotti to dish out her usual tirade undecided
Travel › Re: A Nairalander's Tale On His West African Tour by pickabeau1: 9:12am On Oct 14, 2013
Thanks for your post
Please can you give more information on exactly what we need to be cautious about



edwonderz: Bienvenue mon grand frère monsieur Tonye. Tu es très drôle.
I never knew you are also a writer... So talented!!
Nice adventure. Please call me I lost your number.

Dear nairalanders, please always be careful and vigilant at every border if you are traveling by road to another country especially if you have to sleep there at night. We had a bitter experience 3days ago at the Ghana/Togo border upon our return to Lagos from Abijan. We lost all our valuables to robbers and that wasn't funny at all.
Note: I + other passengers = we
Family › Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by pickabeau1: 8:37am On Oct 14, 2013
@babyosisi

There is no evidence that that suicide story is true re ivybluw

I believe she is still on nl masquerading
Christianity Etc › Re: What Part Of The Bible Has Been Twisted By People For Selfish Gains? by pickabeau1: 7:24am On Oct 14, 2013
pro01: No chance. They prefer to submit to their bosses, sugar daddies, patrons, pastors, and so on - rather than to their boyfriends or husbands. The concept of 'independent woman' in Nigeria means being dependent on other men in order to be independent from the legitimate man in the woman's life, for shakara purposes.
Weird but you may have a point
Family › Re: What Were The Hurdles And Challenges You Faced Before Getting Married?!!!!!!!!!! by pickabeau1: 11:11pm On Oct 13, 2013
Cosmass: where will I live as in?
Does ur fiance. have a place of his own
Family › Re: Should Men Get Paternity Leave? by pickabeau1: 8:47pm On Oct 13, 2013
byvan: Pickabeau,atleast even the most irresponsible mother will spend some time with the baby during her leave or are you talking about"operation dump babies into trash cans"kind of irresponsibility?
Some women. Are junkies
Family › Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by pickabeau1: 8:38pm On Oct 13, 2013
Again abuses..... where are the MODS
this thread is supposed to be a sanctuary


Royal Roy, Tgirl.....abegii where una dey
Family › Re: Should Men Get Paternity Leave? by pickabeau1: 1:21pm On Oct 13, 2013
Lol at byvan
She can't change

Yes at topic
Just as you have irresponsible fathers ou have irresponsible mothers too
Business › Re: Western Union Discontinued At Gtbank Plc by pickabeau1: 1:07pm On Oct 13, 2013
docjuli: What reason was given for the suspension
I did not ask on western union
You can call on 08029002900
Family › Re: What Were The Hurdles And Challenges You Faced Before Getting Married?!!!!!!!!!! by pickabeau1: 9:48am On Oct 13, 2013
Where. Will you live post wedding
Career › Re: Did You Recently Quit Your Job For Another One? Let Us Share Experiences by pickabeau1: 9:37am On Oct 13, 2013
anitank: If I hear...


It wasn't necessary going back to beg, it's a let down on urself. And even if they took u back, they would never have respect for u again and will definitely use u more. Stay positive honey and believe something better is coming ur way. Hopefully Etisalat will still call u.

But come to think of it, this Etisalat recruitment no de finish nihuh?
I hope she gets a break soon
Romance › Re: Patriarchy - 'The Male Privilege' by pickabeau1: 9:20am On Oct 13, 2013
Is there a prior beef that has led to this gang up

Caruj maybe you should step down for now...

I'm still yet to see their points but the insults are not helping matters
Travel › Re: A Nairalander's Tale On His West African Tour by pickabeau1: 9:00am On Oct 13, 2013
Lovely thread n I liked the description of your coursemates


More......
Romance › Re: Patriarchy - 'The Male Privilege' by pickabeau1: 8:25am On Oct 13, 2013
As expected these threads descend into muck
Two Hardline points of view
Sports › Re: FORMULA ONE (F1 2013) Official Thread For 2013 Season by pickabeau1: 7:41am On Oct 13, 2013
Massa vexing... Gutierrez gat skills
Sports › Re: FORMULA ONE (F1 2013) Official Thread For 2013 Season by pickabeau1: 7:29am On Oct 13, 2013
Alonso n vettel stay out... Webber vs grosjean
vettel pits in 3
Family › Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by pickabeau1: 7:20am On Oct 13, 2013
kenyattamoore: Thankyou everybody , no thankyou to babyosisi tongue
I am busy and miserable, I am not going to lie I miss him but I know it still early it wil pass very soon
Those feelings of nostalgia are expected because of the long time together...memories etc bla bla bla
YOU HAVE TO MOVE FORWARD

get your education back on track
Take time off any relationship so u don't rebound

Aluta......please can you speak to Kenya or her friend to just encourage her
Sports › Re: FORMULA ONE (F1 2013) Official Thread For 2013 Season by pickabeau1: 7:11am On Oct 13, 2013
SV poor start....


Should be interesting


Let me go n watch

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