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My heart goes out to you and I pray you find strength in these trying times

Please go for an alternate test to confirm also

also is there a general hospital in akure
The personnel there may also be able to help with NGOs who are on ground with network of ARV drugs etc

It is well with you

Ijogz K: Who cares,I was never a fan of the whole idea all along.

It's like stealing our own people.

you are right but have u considered our leaders are stealing us also...

Hundreds are people get missing in questionable circumstances daily

25Calibre: Me? Computer Science

Why?

Sorry it was for the lady before you...

Keep up the good work

Lerin: Mine is not physical abuse but get so tensed and makes me look worthless cos I have no job,though I try my best to fill in the gaps from what I get from the pure water biz I do,and some petty things, I know that all this will change the moment I get something more tangible to do. I am a graduate of accouting and stay in Portharcourt,pls anyone who can help me with a Job should please assist cos the trauma I go tru from his attitude towards can't be explained. PLS FELLOW NAIRALANDERS help me so I can have the fulfilment of marriage. Thanks.

please what is your major

Go to this website and register your email http://getnaijajob..com/

They send daily updates on available jobs

Also go through the career/jobs section here on NL
Some people still get jobs though its not what it used to be
The mods there are also doing a great job

It is well with you

https://www.nairaland.com/jobs

https://www.nairaland.com/1152799/job-library-2013

https://www.nairaland.com/1102153/unadvertised-vacancies

wearing old clothes of a pastor....

How is this different from applying substances such as frankincense to one's face in the name of garnering favour

Its occultic in my opinion

debrief08: Its not logical to a sane rational mind but they tell them not to think just obey.

I had a junior worker come to work on a day when we had international partners coming in wearing a faded man shirt. I called her aside and told her she was not well dressed and asked that she go home and change into something more appropirate, I was thinking she spent the night at a mans place and had nothing else to wear.
I was shocked when she insisted she wouldn't change it, as her Pastor had brought his old clothes auctioned them and asked them to wear it for favour during the week. Ha, she was meant to make a presentation and in her mind what better way to get favor than wearing Pastors Old faded shirt during her presentation with international partners.

I had to use all the diplomacy in my arsenal to convince her that she will be wonderful with or without the shirt.
She finally agreed but was feeling a little uneasy, my dear, I am officially regarded as satan to some people, the rate of brain washing is crazy.

Even water is bottled and sold as holy water and you have people who will not drink any other water and even baff in "Holy water" for interviews, instead of just reading and being coherent, interview questions are followed by some Pastors quote.

Please rather than keeping quiet , I endorse more victims to come out as long as it does not become an avenue for gender bashing

Our systems will encourage victims to stay in abusive environments rather than help

Ladies, who are more prone to this phsyical abuse based on their weaker phsyciality,should try and know their fiances. I am aware some males are also abused this way

Also don't become financially encumbered to anyone because you want to do family centric

I have friends who did it; no issues because the man is faithful and is considerate putting the wives' needs above theirs.

Some people are tied now because they can't start over on their own.

wow... we learn everyday

Noted... good you take it on the chin then

I just made an observation based on certain posts but lets leave it for now...

Have a nice weekend ahead

debrief08: Please, I doubt anyone "had it in for me", especially Ile, We agree more than we disagree and this is simply one of those times we disagree, I doubt she has anything against me, she simply stated her displeasure for a statement I made.

@ Ile, my point on this is that you and Coogar may simply never agree, I am yet to see any thread where after loads of arguement Coogar has said "Ile is right".
This thread is for abused women, as much as most times I enjoy your debates with Coogar I really think you guys shouldn't do that here.

Just another day in the family section

The more things change, the more they stay the same...

beautiful afican queen

Ngodigha: Destination Alaigbo.
For those who want to turn Igbo culture upside down, may you all perish unsong.

correct

You see should the asians..

They are at home with their culture and modern ish

In afrika, we call it backward yet we are not even as developed as the asians

jidegirl12: You dey mind them (Nigerian women especially) ?

Anybody except the Queen and her family is a 'commoner' but our own dey rubbish their own culture in name of 21st century.

**It's either you are for it or against it.... No need foaming from two sides of your mouth.

Ish

Nice post

unmask: why are you guys commenting rubbish like your pastors don't do worse?

Some churches say wearing trousers is a sin

some say its not

some say speaking in tongues is compulsory

some say its not

some charge a fee for teaching u d word of God in the name of bible school

some make it free

some say mast-ur-bation is a sin

some say its not

some say divorce is a sin

some say its not

some say sleeping with your church member and calling it another level of grace is a sin

some say its not....as long as you will respond at the right time

some say living together without being married is a sin

some say its not


different pastors, different interpretations, same bible


LIVE WITH IT!!!!!

Sepp B says he wants to bring the world cup to countries not in the traditional circuit...

But they could have given it to Australia who are a sporting country

It was pure kickback tinz

ifyalways: I guess the church,OP and even the parents have moved on and left it for God,He knows the best.

I wonder how the church,members and general public would have reacted if one of daddy GO's shoes got missing during the convention . . .
Hmmmn

U are deliciously wicked... lol

Money talks... bullcrap walks

na wa,,, the Family Fighters are here,,, remains Eniyan .......


#Runs out....

Morally wrong,.. Legally right

Whitney houston's daughter is poking her adopted brother
sowhats new under the sun

UEFA seems to have endorsed the qatar winter world cup

Uefa's 54 member associations have given their backing to moving the Qatar World Cup in 2022 to winter.
"What has come out of this meeting is that the World Cup cannot be played in Qatar in the summer," said Britain's Fifa vice-president Jim Boyce.
"Everyone was certainly in agreement about that."
Boyce added that the debate was now regarding whether it would be played in January 2022 or November and December of that year.
The British associations want to ensure their festive fixtures are protected for their domestic league seasons, while Uefa favour January so that it would not impact on the Champions League.
But Boyce, who is also president of the Irish Football Association, says the associations do not want Fifa to rush that decision.
"There is still nine years to go and people feel Fifa should sit down with all the major stakeholders and come up with a solution that would cause the minimum disruption to football.
"There is plenty of time to do that in my opinion, and hopefully football will be the winner."
The developments come after a meeting between the associations in Dubrovnik, Croatia.
Fifa's executive committee is expected to agree in principle to move the World Cup to the winter at its meeting in Zurich which begins on 3 October.

http://m.bbc.co.uk/sport/football/24160879

swag queen: My dad is ok with any decision i take. My mum says forgive,forget and stay!

Then you have the tools to make a decision

Seperate for a season..Rebuild your life

Take it one day at a time

Dont be hasty..

Send your cv to Nashville... he may be able to help

swag queen: Practised a bit but only corporate practise.but after our marriage,i moved from my place. I've started reconnecting with my contacts though.

Please do that

Being empowered is crucial to cast off the net of oppression

What is the decision of your parents?

she can obtain a legal divorce due to abandonment

I feel so pained for what you have and are going through

Please send debrief08 a pm she is an informal counsellor of sorts based on her experiences

It is well with you

swag queen: I sure will....

@debrief,vanitty and bellong,thanks for your support.

@kulyie,my prayer is that nobody experiences the kind of pain most of us go through in the name of marriage.

@swaggaqueen

Why don't you share your story first

@cooly cooly .. How bodi

Where you don dey

Hope work bam

Interesting..

Wish her a fulfilling day dami
She will live long, strong and prosper

Morning y'all

People dey

yellowpawpaw: If I were the guy, I will back off. Love will not make me to marry a gal that hates her root. That's how we will give birth to children that will equaly hate mine eventually.
Mcheeew to Abuja marriage. So fake.

U have a point