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https://www.nairaland.com/1444825/abused-wives-girlfriends-only

The above thread was a sanctuary where people could share their feelings..alas it was derailed but it is still a good idea
Will It be reopened

This topic again......

Refer to the following threads

https://www.nairaland.com/1257382/what-wrong-taking-money-hubbys


https://www.nairaland.com/42446/woman-steal-husband

https://www.nairaland.com/593165/does-taking-money-husband-make

JustDamsel: Last weekend, i visited my aunty and while we are all spending time together, she came up with this argument with the husband: Is it right for a wife to pick up some petty cash from the husband's wallet to buy little items for household use without telling him first? The other day, while oga was present in the house, the wife picked N200 to buy some ingredients to cook and only told him after she had done so. Days after that, she did the same, to buy soap to wash cloths for the house. And the hubby insisted she should always tell him about that beforehand , once he's at home. If he's not, that 'd be a different thing. And that, it is not as if he would ask her not to, but it is a matter of respect. The wife on the other hand, refused to accept, arguing that nothing is wrong taking small change from her 'HUSBAND' to take care of little things without first telling him. Please, who do you think is being unreasonable here? Regards all

Evestar200: #team Garreth Bent,,,,where is my lovely Dimitar Bebatov?

Darren....How body

John terry was finished 2 years ago

See through ball for bent


Contact in the box on hazard though mild

The lights of Singapore!!!

Know you who love and Love who you Know

sweetcheecks: The Op mentioned Nigerian man in her clip unless you did not view it. I think you are the only lucky human being who can test sincerety, I guess your heart has never been broken and will never be broken becouse you chose to love someone. Lucky you, hence I am saying give more advice on how to avoid such. I am just saying blame portioning is out of place. I am sorry too if you do not get my issues with your blame statement.

get better,, yellow.. rest well and drink plenty of fluids

Damn.. just re heard this song from AGT Its an Idol song


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e9SIQx7PDZc

Home - Phil Phillips

^^^^ correct!

modextus: like seriously?? You never did?

Wanted saying the same thing but i felt it would have sounded harsh and i had a feeling that he might have thought of that to and would have come to a conclusion on his own.

Maybe you're not the nollywood type shaa.

Men.. its really twisted...

Lerin: Thanks. I already discussed working for free with my hubby @ least to gain experience but he disapproved it saying that it is penny wise pound foolish,that I will be taking transportation,sacrifice welfare of my family and @ the end of the month no returns,as per professional course,when he was disturbing me about it,I went to make enquiry and gave him the details,after then the whole issue entered voicemail,the church I attend is still developing to have workers to place on salary and hubby said he has no money now to set me up that is why am selling pure water with the compound I stay and also supply eggs.

Good. try and continue on your efforts
I used church because some churches have offices where you volunteer in thechurch
You may also consider even working in a school or teaching

Take heart

Interesting ...

So fathers and daughters are now cat and dog

Everyman wants to poke his own daughter

How many cases of inzest have you seen before you made that diabolical conclusion


Na wa..

Ama28: For me, I wouldn't really blame her as a mother. Its normal to try and defend your kids!
But since he was not caught in the act and there were no evidence of such, she would have handled the matter in-house. Moreover the case didn't go to court so why the publicity.

Mothers should not leave their daughters in the custody of their father alone.

Its wrong, yes this man didn't do this but we have seen worse cases than this!

They just need to sort the father out and keep begging for forgiveness!
Poor man!

Interesting spin on this thread

There's a more recent brouhaha..

Tawana Brawley

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tawana_Brawley_rape_allegations

Tawana Glenda Brawley (born 1972) is an African-American woman from Wappingers Falls, New York, who gained notoriety in 1987–88 for falsely accusing six white men of having raped her. The charges received widespread national attention because of her age (15), the persons accused (including police officers and a prosecuting attorney), and the shocking state in which Brawley was found after the rape (in a trash bag, with racial slurs written on her body and covered in feces). Brawley's accusations were given widespread media attention in part from the involvement of her advisers, including the Reverend Al Sharpton and attorneys Alton H. Maddox and C. Vernon Mason.[1] After hearing evidence, a grand jury concluded in October 1988 that Brawley had not been the victim of a forcible sexual assault and that she herself may have created the appearance of an attack.[2] The New York prosecutor whom Brawley had accused as one of her alleged assailants successfully sued Brawley and her three advisers for defamation.[3]

Brawley initially received considerable support from the African-American community.[4] Some scholars suggested that Brawley was victimized by biased reporting that adhered to racial stereotypes.[5][6] The mainstream media's coverage drew heated criticism from the African-American press and leaders for its treatment of the teenager.[7] The grand jury's conclusions decreased support for Brawley and her advisers. Brawley's family has maintained that the allegations were true..

bknight: I read an american version of this where the daughter confessed abt 30yrs later...d man had spent most of his life in prison.

Such a pity the man lost himself. Yet d eldest daughter isn't repentant

**suppose the tale is s real-life sexperience**

[quote author=soul_glo]Can you get some DNA from your uncle? You might be his child.[/quote]Deep.. i never thought of this

Wow.. such complications

Hmm.. Firstly you have to be positive or else you will be swallowed in unhappiness

Be thankful for everything around you


On the job search, you have already done well by putting yourself out there

Also don't believe everything is immamadu.. All my jobs have been even though I knew no one

I'm sure there are people too who know no one


Secondly, In your field you may need to further and get professionally qualified either ACCA or ICAN...

Also to get experience, you may need to beat the street or cold call offices even if it means working for free.
Employers always value new employees who already has a job or possesses verifiable referees.

you will need to discuss with your hubby esecially as it will lead to changes
But you may need to be firm

Also consider working in your church office.
An aunt of mine did this and through that she met people nd got better jobs

As i said, be positive and take it one day at a time

It is well

Lerin: I have registered with all the job sites,I always check the career section too. You know it is not easy getting a job as a married woman without MAN-NO-MAN syndrome. Am a graduate of accounting with knowledge of peachtree accounting with no experience yet cos I got married immediately after NYSC and becoming a nursing mother afterward with 2 kids but I want to give myself a break and get a job. That is why am putting it out incase there is anyone who can offer me a job,I currently stay in portharcourt,any job will do even if it is not my discipline,I am willing and ready to learn. PLS HELP ME.

Bros na so we see am ooo

Man must wack

miqos02: that crate of egg too dey expensive na, e no suppose pass 800

[size=20pt]Second Daughter na ........... Afrocandy
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PortHarcourtBoy: Una story sweet, oya make I assign cast

Papa na Olu Jacobs (e get professional's charisma)

Mama na Liz Benson (she get the swag)

Son na Nonso Diobi (e sabi get conscience)

First Daughter na Oge Okoye (she dey mad at times)

Second Daughter na ...........



Fill the blank space

stint: because the more lies you have told to cover a secret, the more lie you will have to tell to cover it.

Yes this is true but not that it will require a spiritualist to jog your memory about somethin you knew was a lie,...

something dey smell

More like Fable of Inzest

pDude: Nollywood movie called "Incestous Lie".

Grab your copy now!

^^^
mama jhyde how far?

Prinuo: @ swagqueen: Please get in touch with Amara Blessing Nwosu on Facebook. She was once a victim and runs an NGO for such. She'll help you.

Good job.. we need more of this....
Can you put up the name of the NGO

bennysucre: am no longer under her roof anymore. i know im an adult now buh it hurts each time i think about it. at the wedding ceremony of my elder, this same uncle acted as the father as our dad is no more. felt soooo outraged.

hmm.... unfortunate///
if your brother knew, he may not have allowed this to happen

Dont let your fathers memory be spoiled longer... stop him from doing your own...

I feel u bro

But move on...

Some of the prophecies are common sense if you go through them... nothing new

This is Nigeria.. of course there will be looting

Mandela, Tutu and Mugabe are old men and frail, of course death is around somewhere....

Na today dem begin repatriate naija people... even cotonou go soon join

OIL will be found.. i laff

Igbos should forget about presido... how na?

Aminu Tambuwal that is just in his first term should hope to become presido...i laff in glass ceiling

why will his baby mammas not blackmail Tuface.. na only Annie M fit enjoy better thing

Dangote will always have issues, he is extremely wealthy and that is why he will continually be rich

Abeg,.. someone else continue dissecting

1. House of Representative to lose some members to death, prayers needed

8. Molester will be on the prowl. Molesting women little children and even pregnant women. watch where your kids go..

10. South Africa to mourn a hero. They should pray for former South African president Dr Nelson Mandela and Arc-Bishop Desmond Tutu.

11. I see a Governor dying.

12. This year, the looting of National treasury will be on a massive scale.

14. Igbos should forget about presidency.

17. A yoruba movie actor to die surprisingly.

25. Auchi my hometown to pray against serious flood disaster.

26. A member of the United State of America’s senate house will die.

28. Alhaji Aliko Dangote will have issues.

29. Central Bank of Nigeria’s governor will be made an Emir, but he needs prayers.

30. MTN needs prayers.

33. Nigerian Music entertainer Tuface Idibia will face blackmail and scandal.

34. Hon. Aminu Tambuwal ( Speaker) should not contest for presidency. If he goes for governorship, he will win.

35. Dame patience Jonathan will have health issues unless prayers are made.

39. President Robert Mugabe, I see death around him, he needs prayers.

41. I see Traditional Rulers die.

43. Lots of Nigerians will be repatriated from African nations.

44. Oil will be found in a state

Pastor Kun: Arteta is back

Yay.. nice one... at least jack can rest

Wow.. this is the height of indiscetion by the mother in question ..

However you are an adult now, move on with your life

Confronting the issue may lead to more complications as you may still be under her roof

Get your own life on track

Well written tale.. very moving

You know the end but still you are drawn in..


My own is why did it take countless deliverance sessions before the daughters confessed

where?
I still buy my rice at 10,500
Bread is 300 for sliced bread
Eggs are a 1000 a crate
And my titus is 300 per single fish

You say it happened way back

Are you in your 20s or 30s

Some hate Harry Potter

Others hate Luke Skywalker

Others hate jack of titanic

Thats life...

@teen city

I went through your vid

Its sad considering what you went through.. but if as you said there is nothing new with visa marriage fraud, why did you still get involved

You are and were aware afrikans may be coming from a less financially endowed situation so some unscrupulous ones will do anything to get residence in the west.

Sorry you got played but how is this different from women who serially marry millionaires so they can a good payday when they are divorced

Wish you the best in your rehab... stick to what u know

Move on....




Know you who love and Love who you Know

people claim to hate twillight yet the film made billions at the box office

we were interested when rob and kristen broke up and made up

funny, aint it