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edwife:
Oya pickabeau,mukina follow me


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Be patient..

Its just half time

edwife:
Pick my dear,it doesn't matter.....better leave that place on the table.

This is not the test maybe Chelsea or Southampton

Westham will fall

edwife:
Why is this place dry?

It's gunners.....

Better than your coach whining about medical staff

Ok.....we go again..

chrisley024:
Thierry Henry Speechless When Asked If Theo Walcott Can Play Forward for Arsenal

Haha haha

edwife:
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hmmmmm i will choose Bassett over her.

Note there is a ten year gap or so



Yet I will not take angela

edwife:
Tell me about it,very irritating.

Lol

edwife:
Woodard yes,she looks good for a woman in her 60s.

Yes...better than angela...in my opinion
So your choice was not a strong one..

edwife:
Spurs is useless!

They had so many opportunities to score,hian...

They were controlling and enjoying the game,then just dropped their energy level.

The. Own goal was comical

edwife:
I didn't say Jada or Berry because they are in their 40s

Was looking for women in their 50s....
Denzel is a cutie anyday any time...

Do u know alfre

bodashee:
*teary eyed*. The stupid premier league has started again

Yes!!

edwife:
Yes he does... She is 3 years older and she didn't take care of herself.Angela Basset is 54 and still looks hot.

Yea i figure

Angela basset...hmmm

If you said alfre goodard or jada


But denzel looks better

edwife:
There is no correlation with this case but was just trying to answer the post in the boys room showing cruise with his ex girlfriend.And if it was just for the age then he wouldn't have problems with younger women.

Lol you really like tv series....

I am not sure of your context about Tom Cruise

It was to sure the aging of people about the same age

Tom Cruise and the lady he acted with years ago

He looks better than she does...I'm sure you know that..lol

Yes I love series...

edwife:
You see that it depends on individuals?

Even Tom cruise as young as you think he is,which we all know that he went through surgery to keep (his mission impossible role) married two younger women and still they divorced him....

Manure is playing,are you watching?

Well there are issues in this particular marriage...abandonment etc

Tom is in his 50s....not a young man

What's the correlation between his divorces and this case?

The match is on but muted
I'm watching a TV series
Gotham

edwife:
cc pickabeau....

She is 39 years old and still want a good performer and going as far as divorcing her husband.

Yes.....

Men are now under pressure Lol

5minsmadness:
Wasn't getting any mention alerts despite being mentioned.

It's just been fixed though.

Thanks.

Interesting

Thats good

5minsmadness:
Help! My mentions are no longer working!

How

freecocoa:
NL is different from the real world, I've never even had to have that conversation with any bf before, it won't come up if you and your partner know/understand each other.

Thanks anyway.

Cool

freecocoa:
Lol.
I grew up with church na, look where I am today. The truth is that, the decision is not one you make for someone.

Yes..you r right

On the third one......I will wish u d best

freecocoa:
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1.Yea.

2.Yea

3.No

Your first two answers are surprising
Your last is not

Hmmm...

freecocoa:
Well, I don't really push for nonbelief, it is usually people, who try to 'preach' to me when they know my stance, though he doesn't do that anymore but I still have to chip in when the topic comes up na, except I'll never have to talk about religion or God anymore with him, which I doubt possible as he even loves to hear me talk,he always wants to know what I think about something.

Being blunt doesn't mean rude na and it's not as if I am always blunt, I just like to say it how I see it, with diplomacy ofcourse but all the same, I willi work on it.

Pls answer yes or no to these q

1.Will you support Bible education for the kids when they come

2.Will you support special prayers n fasts

3. Do you support the notion that the husband is the head of the family

freecocoa:
That wasn't even near harsh, you people always read me wrong.

I can and have in the past, I just haven't really been in that phase where 'forever' is so glaring, that's why it seems too much.

well... you may be right that we wrong-read you.. heck.. who knows

we can only interpret based on posts...y'know

Yes forever.... first thing you have to know is that a relationship is about compromise all the time
Because you dont live for yourself anymore
U always consider the impact of your actions on the next person

i dont know the fellow in question But if i were him
I will be continually saddened if my partner did not share the same belief i had AND actively did not support my belief

Note the word AND

Its one thing not to believe in God and keep it to yourself
its another thing to actively push for that nonbelief


On the issue of intelligence, bluntness can make someone feel bad even if well intentioned

have fun then....

keppyy:
Okayyy... I see Gotham is your baby tonight....

Cool Series shaaaaa....

I'm going to burn some caloriessss....*Ukkkwwwwwuuuuu*

freecocoa:
Abeg leave me alone, since when is falling in love stup1d, all I know is that anyone can get it wrong sometimes.

LOL.. u dont need to be harsh about it
I only asked to be sure

Yes logic and love dont mix and i respect you for accepting that the heart wants what it wants
It now behoves you to make compromises to make the relationship work

Can u do that

keppyy:
Pickabea, it's Friday!!!

Fellowship or club?

None o.... just indoor
want to start gotham

At the bolded

do you mean things like falling in love?

freecocoa:
That's the main reason why I am sceptical, granted the other things on the list might be childish but we all have had wishful thinking at some point, knowing when to grow up is important, so what if it takes a little push to do that? Like anyone is an island.

Even the most intelligent people do stup1d things sometimes, that's why we are human.

I must admit, as much as I've been insulted and insulted others on here, I am deeply hurt by TV01's words, not because I can't take insults but because this is too personal and seriously uncalled for and to think it's from someone I actually respected even though I don't agree with him on most things I'm taken aback for real.

And whatever I even posted is with the consent of the young man, who is also a nairalander.

edwife:
It was brutal for me because it felt more like tv was going personal rather than give his opinion based on her post.

I have always known her as an atheist but i was really (please forgive me here freecoco) frighten when i read her thread on religion section,i wanted to ask her some questions,i sensed rage.

I tried advising her on the relationship but after reading about their religious incompatibility and what she said about their arguments like her being intelligent and all that,i couldn't find the right words for her.

I must admit that it will be a very difficult union,at least Muslims believe in God(Allah) but as a Christian we believe that everything we do or surround ourselves with has to be somehow linked to God.Our health,job,dream,name it....so it will be an awkward situation for an atheist.

This is though.

In that case maybe there is more to that post than what i read
I read it to mean the inevitable clashes of belief systems

As you rightly noted, a chrislamic marriage will have issues.. though they belive in God
I even know of issues amongst Jehovah witnessess and other christian denominations so this one is in for a lot of debate and arguments right from the get go

edwife:
I wouldn't have said a word if i were you,i am someone who always mind my business and try not to get on someone's way.Beside,that Lagos scares me to death,in fact anywhere in Nigeria except Abuja.

@TV that was brutal.....

Sorry I could not help but come in

Is it really brutal

I was following snippets of the convo on the compatibility of a (born again?)/Christian who believes in God and a self professed atheist

How can two walk except they be agreed

An atheist will never respect someone who believes in a fairy tale and a pie in the sky God

So the kids will be torn between a fada who is trying to instill biblical principles in his God and a mother who holds such thoughts in comtempt

Why is the matter even up for discourse
It defies logic

bodashee:
That's why I mentioned that I would derail a bit o .

I see no derailment

bodashee:
Two options were open to me. I could have kept quiet and watched the guy jump the queue like everyone else, or spoke up like I did. I'm which you think would have been best? basically.

Speaking was the best even if it was futile

But I thought the issue was respect no?

Bodashee

Sorry I'm still looking for the question..lol

I will shed a tear with you

proudlysports:
Fingers crossed .....

IF Benz comes to Arsenal this summer, I think I'll shed a tear ... tears of joy