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CFCfan:
^^
Longest time, Sir

Hey bro
How you doing...

Hows the practice treating you

I hope law is making a comeback after the news of bloat a while back

MizMyColi:

This your advocacy sef.
If they come, na you go run o.
I'm not sure you'd wanna go near

Its one of the fundamental aspects of feminism
I support it

damiso:

Pickabeau wetin you wan take am do for naija naa.

Useful as eye candy
I will have my morning coffee, afternoon coffee even evening
All join

mbulela:
It is still necessary. However distractions are too easy these days.

OK

5minsmadness:
How do you establish constant authority figures in a child without marriage?

I am only speaking based on the inherent rebellion you see enabled

Men are no more respected as heads of the family

Gays are in d mix

Women are questioning the institution

Single parenting has been glamorized

So what next

AjanleKoko:
The girls seem to have taken over the Boys Night Out Discussions

I tire

when are they coming to naija

Free the nip-ples

cc

crackhaus Timbuktou edwife damiso tearoses MizMyColi Nonso23 Kimoni

5minsmadness:
Re:hacked adultery site.

Sad. And the fact that many of them didn't even bother to hide their identities show the kind of trouble the marriage institution is in.

As long as people keep entering marriage with a self pleasure mindset instead of a spiritual one this kind of thing will continue. My opinion though.

Maybe we need to look at marriage again
Is it still necessary...

proudlysports:
Szczesny has been protected (thus far) because he's an academy product and also based on his 'young' age. However, he's now 25 and Ospina is just a year older.

The video I posted above was Szczesny at his best 5 years ago at age 20. I remember how I debated on this forum that he should be used instead of Almunia. I got my wish and he didn't disappoint. Sadly, he's failed to develop himself mentally and I believe that's his main problem. He still sees himself as young and unless he changes, he may not rise to be that great GK everyone wants him to be.

Jens Lehmann's brief stay with us some years back helped him. Hopefully this loan spell will help him too. I'll be watching out for him at Roma

I agree

damiso:
I don't get the leisure in shopping .. People will want to organise day out as say lets go to 'blue water' Ok if we are going to eat at the restaurants there or go see a movie but to walking around coming in and out of shops.. I don't get it

Always been like that I remember my friends used to wonder what kind of weirdo I was because after like 1 hour waking around (looking at stuff we could not afford at the time) I would have started frowning. By the second hour I am waiting outside the shops and a useless addition to any discussion because all you will be hearing is ' uhhhm it's nice just go and pay and let's go '

It's called retail therapy for a reason
You need it..lol

dexla:
I totally disagree that ' Masturbation only occurs with sexual thought about an opposite sex...'.
I'm surprised nobody thought of the fact that this guy could b gay or bisexual. he's obviously not deriving pleasure from her and possibly fantasizing about another man.

Had this gay friend in school. he was really good looking, i mean good height, cute face a damn fresh. girls would swarm our hostel to see this guy. when he finally had a gf she complained to us he wouldn't get intimate with her, after she tried persuading him he later told her he wanted to stay a virgin till marriage. in less than 6 months the ship was over.

Few yrs later he got married to a pretty lady. after 3yrs he left the marriage and went to the US. he later opened up to his friends via yahoo messenger that he was gay and was attracted to only men.

None of his friends knew this because he had so many girls around him. He's the most excited man in the world since Obama legalised gay marriage.

OP shld ask her husband if he wants a third party in there sex life. and if he doesn't mind anoda man .I bliv that's the only way u can know he's gay.

lol.....


na wa

dinachi:
My dear rotten pucci can totally mess up a sex mood.
I keep telling ladies to keep down there clean or risk a sexless relationahip. Many men are leaving
ladies because of this ailment. This days wicked ladies sent the curse of the rotten puccy to their rivals. The effect is usually devastating!

proudlysports:
Just to remind us of potential this guy has got

ttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=brPWeQIc4Eo

Unrealised so far

He has been given all the opportunity
Pros

Excellent shot stopper
Swagger and confident

Cons
Poor distribution of balls
Poor set piece ability
Cannot marshal his defence
Too loud

tearoses:
That Bicester; I heard that the stuff there are designer seconds/samples and the like. Dunno how far that true.

I also heard that TK max sell seconds too. I bought s RL bag not too long ago and the bag now looks like it was made in Aba. Thank God it was on half price sale or I will be crying into my eba salad right now

Lol.... I hear the same too

About TK Maxx..its basically the same items but sold at discounted prices

its best one goes into the store for that

edwife:
Lol they must be related to me.

I just love Westfield,after shopping i sit in the square watching hundreds of people walking around.

I sometimes do online but not always.I don't trust the quality...

I hear that westfield is nice though they were some knife attacks at some time in the past
Me online works for me

More on the Ashley Madison

As hackers threaten to reveal customer data from adultery website Ashley Madison, many users are racing to delete their accounts.
But for many of the married men and women signed up to the controversial site - which boasts one million users in the UK alone - it is business as usual, with their online profiles still intact.
FEMAIL registered its own account to see just what kind of man is willing to risk everything for an extra-marital affair - and why.
Browsing the list of 'available' men, it is perhaps surprising to see how many of the profile pictures are unedited close-ups.

After all, as users are informed when you register your details, you are far more likely to elicit a response if you post a picture of yourself. And the more candid the better.
The men stare brazenly into the camera, seemingly unconcerned that someone might recognise them and inform their other halves.
Others photographs are fuzzy and out of focus, or teasingly zoomed in on one feature - a pouty mouth or a hint of chiselled jaw. Meanwhile a few are wearing masks, either real of animated, like those found at a masquerade ball.
The profiles themselves are equally revealing. A 38-year-old attached man from London sets his limits as: Whatever Excites Me.
Detailing what he is looking for, he includes: submission, blindfolding, Tantric Sex, role-playing, threesomes and erotic movies.

The Pisces man pleads for someone who is 'good with your hands, open to experimentation', and 'likes to give MouthAction'.
He says: 'You only live once make the most out of it. Some love me, some hate me, but no one knows who I truly am.
'That's because I like to be a bit of mystery. Why don't you come try solve this mystery? I promise you there's a pretty sweet reward for doing so.'
He seems to acknowledge the moral debate surrounding the site, which promotes infidelity, when he says: 'This may seem odd on site like this but I'm a very caring guy. Your pleasure is just important as mine.'

He continued by promising he would never leave a girl 'unsatisfied' and would make sure she gets what she deserves.
Under the category 'what really turns me on', he asks for a 'disease free' woman with a high sex drive and a secret love nest - who also has a 'good sense of humour'.
Meanwhile a 40-year-old Indian man from London is looking for 'someone I can teach', who likes experimenting with intimacy gadgets and 'bubble bath for 2'.
The 6ft 4ins attached male adds: 'I'm a super nice, gentle guy with a relaxed style but looking for someone special to enjoy intimate time with...'

Another attached user, a 27-year-old music lover from London, openly admits he is not fulfilled in his current relationship.
He says: 'Current relationship lacks that spark - looking for a discreet fantasy...'
The 'muscular' man, who speaks three languages, lists many encounters he is open too, including dressing up; lingerie, sharing fantasies, spanking and sex talk.
His preferences include a professional woman who is 'well-groomed', has 'natural breasts' and 'good personal hygiene'.
He adds: 'Seeking the girl next door type - who's a freak in the sheets. Wicked desires only need apply.

'A bad bad dirty talkin' lady who can hold a conversation, who's not afraid of making herself the subject of a joke.'
He also asks for someone who is 'down for anything' - a 'coffee' or late-night meets' and reiterates that 'discretion is a must!'.


Additionally a 42-year-old 'fit' male from Surrey sets his limits at 'anything goes' and states that he is into exhibitionism and 'likes to be watched'.
The 6ft Sagittarius says: 'Just looking for some discreet and intimate fun to spice this life up. No hassles, just pleasure.'


Under the category, what I am looking for, he continues: 'Daring Rendezvous. A like-minded soul. Dirty and intelligent mind in a clean and needy body :-).'
A 39-year-old African American is also reasonably upfront about the difficulties he faces in his marriage.
He says: 'I am a busy professional working long hours and hardly get time to connect with my equally busy spouse.
The Aries, who is 'undecided about his limits', even offers a financial reward as an incentive, adding: 'I am looking for someone who is willing to offer good companionship for 2 hours a week in return for a financial gift. The ideal lady will be attractive and with a place not too far from central London. Is that too much to ask? :-)'


A 46-year-old man who works in media in London describes himself as 'sexually dominant' and promises to 'take control with the right woman. But of course only in a safe, sane and consensual way'.
He sells himself as having 'a dry sense of humour' and the ability to 'converse intelligently and playfull',.
Despite having a 'strong sex drive', he adds: 'That's not the only thing on my (broad) mind.'
He says: 'I am like all the best things - addictive and bad for you. I know what I want and usually get it, but I love the challenge of achieving my desires and testing my limits.
Signing off, the 'creative and imaginative alpha male', asks interested parties to drop him a line and 'let's see if we click'.

Ashley Madison, founded in 2001, also includes profiles of single men, who are presumably looking for some no-strings fun without the worry of commitment.

Many attached and unattached women have also created a profile in the hunt for some illicit excitement.

A 'curvy' 33-year-old woman from London has posted the welcome message: 'Can we skip to the good bit..?'
The attached female is looking for a guy who is 'smart, charming, hilarious and doesn't take things too seriously'.
She says: 'I won't waste your time. So please don't waste mine. I have a high pressure job and my down time is important to me.'

Describing herself as 'an independent, sharp, feminine, down to earth yet sassy woman', she continues: 'Assertiveness and an open mind is a must. Taller than me and you should know what moisturiser is! I am not looking for a push over, nor interested in spanking you...'

Meanwhile a 38-year-old from Brentwood, Essex admits the spark has gone out of her marriage.
She says: 'I'm married and happy but the passion has long gone. We are now just friends.'
The wife, who describes herself as 'shapely toned', says she likes good conversation, meals out and champagne.
She is looking for someone within a 20-mile radius with free time 'for exciting mutually exhilarating encounters!'
She adds that she would like 'exciting romance, passion,'flirtation and The REST'.

A 45-year-old attached woman from Edgware, Hertfordshire has set her welcome message to read: 'Oh well, what is there to lose.'
The 5ft 4ins attached female is looking for a 'tall, dark and handsome' 'Don Juan' and a 'hopeless romantic' to enjoy 'candle lit dinners' and 'long drives' with.
She says she is hoping to find that 'something important missing'.

While a 40-year-old Scorpio from London specifies she would like to meet one man for an affair.
She writes: 'I need both a mental and physical connection. Brains and stimulating conversation are as important as chemistry as I would prefer a longer term affair - with someone like-minded.'
The size 6-8 blonde says she doesn't want men to buy her underwear ('I can buy my own') and adds: 'All your own hair please if that doesn't sound too superficial.'
She continues: 'If you are not tall or dark or any of the above please don't waste my time or your money by sending me your photos or messages. I am looking for men who are 38 - 52 in age, no kids thanks, I am not Mrs Robinson.'

A single Australian woman, aged 30, and living in London, says she is open to 'sensual massage' and spanking'.
She continues: 'Looking to meet interesting guys without drama or complication. I just want to enjoy life and have some fun without the need of attachment. I'm easy going and very discreet.'

Joining the site is free for women and men, although a 99p charge per day will bump you up to the top of the search results. It has numerous options for members to send custom mail messages, initiate chat sessions, send priority messages and virtual gifts.
Those who are often on the road are also encouraged to join with the ‘Travelling Man’ and ‘Travelling woman’ option for those who want to browse while on the go.

The site even includes a panic setting that allows users to immediately flick to a neutral site - a potentially useful feature if a user's spouse or partner suddenly walks into the room.
The sleek-looking site, which claims to have 37 million users in 50 countries, is known for its advertising slogan 'Life is short. Have an affair'.
It allows married people interested in having an affair to access the profiles of other members who specify what they’re looking for, such as, ‘cyber affair/erotic chat, whatever excites me, anything goes or undecided.’

But now the secrets the business relies on - the names and contact details of clients who have used the site to arrange affairs they thought would be hidden forever, and even nude photos - could be made public.
The team of hackers - which calls itself the Impact Team - claims it has stolen the real names and addresses of many of its members, even those who have already left and asked for their accounts to be deleted.
The group, which says it is morally motivated, is threatening to publish the details unless the site is closed down by owner Canada-based Avid Life Media.
The site's reliance on secrecy is what has made the hack so potentially damaging.


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3169379/As-infidelity-site-Ashley-Madison-faces-security-breach-closer-look-members.html#ixzz3gdg3eMW5
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damiso:
I am the master online shopper .. Can't remember the last time I went 'shopping' oh ok I remember my mums last visit

I am not like most women ..I absolutely Haaaaaate trawling the shops or malls here me and my mum can so argue over it .nowadays sef she just carried her travel card jejely and find her way. punishment to me is walking round Oxford street.

Or taking a road trip to Bluewater
Some of my peeps go all the way to Bicester

prettythicksme:
something like dat cos i wonder y her husbanx choose to self service dan having sex with her.#who does dat?

Lol

Who knows

tearoses:
Thats me
All my Xmas shopping was done online last year
You can buy almost anything online now.

That's the way to go
More convenient and reject items are reducing daily
You can even zoom in to see the quality of the items

Nnemuka:
Nope.... i will remain a sane woman.

So be content with the gender God gave you and stop whining about what you can't do anything about

5minsmadness:


But seriously,

Most guys have issues explaining thier sexual inclinations to thier loved ones. And they are highly embarrassed to voice thier opinions on certain turnoffs for fear of offending thier spouse e. g:

Smelly pucci
Stinking armpits
Stinking hair
Body odour
Fat vajayjay
Multicoloured vajayjay
Excessively hairy vajayjay
Watery vajayjays
Wide ocean vajayjays
Puckered vajayjays
"borehole"vajayjays
Vajayjays with excess skin
Obese tummies with skin folds whose undersides are unwashed
Discharging pussi
Mouth odour
Dirty thighs
Rash infested buttocks
Stinking underwear
Stretch marks (though this one turns me on )
Etc.

Op, mishipsy, go through the list pls. Anything familiar?

Yes you are right
You don't want to further damage the esteem of your partner

You forgot to add no or low interest in sex

go and do sex change

Nnemuka:
most Nigerian men are the same...
Lets assume Toke was the one who cheated and got pregnant for another man while married to her husband, would he accept her apology plus the child belonging to another man?
would he pretend its ok just because she apologized?
Its easy for y'all to come here asking her to forgive a cheating man. smh

prettythicksme:
Do u have an infection?if yes dat is d reason**go for treatment**

you mean smell pucci?


cc: 5minsmadness dinachi

edwife:
Before nko?
I could spend 12 hours shopping especially if it's for a shoe or bag...

More grease to your elbow

Me I love online shopping

stay in my crib and do it there

You don't know which mall will be targeted by psychos

edwife:
Lol wicked.

But we women are wired to survive the stress somehow.I mean we go shopping for hours,wait in the queue just to get some items on sale.... the list is endless.

somehow...
U guys dey try sha

Yes, especially when Oga leaves it for the madam..lol

edwife:
Sure it can be,just stressing though.

crackhaus:
Resident brainwashed indeed

Any African who even remotely insinuates that whites/non-africans are more faithful is not only brainwashed but more importantly, lacking the most common of all common sense.

I honestly found nothing surprising about the number.

Lol

edwife:
Because many people tend to judge people who indulge in extra marital affairs,polygamy or so when we are unaware of the nuances of each of their stories, their marriages and their personal experiences. Never judge someone until you walk a mile in their shoes.
So we should be careful to what we say or advice we give to people,people are free to live a life that counters morality.
Adultery is a moral issue but more of a character issue.

Ok
I get you now

damiso:
That is so sad.

I laugh when I see on NL that White men and women are saints.

Oyinbo promiscuous dieeeee. So I kinda understand why marriage is not a a deterrent for that promiscuity. The only slight difference is they might not see anything wrong with divorcing when found out BUT even at that some of them still stay with philandering spouses.

Lol
A lot of people here are not so exposed coupled with the inferiority complex of their skin and race

edwife:
I have no idea,i just found it interesting i just had to post it.



ethics is how you treat people you don't know, you have absolutely no personal connection to them and never will whereas moral is what makes you a good husband,wife,daughter .....

Moral is subjective that's why different cultures and religions have different morals.Whether religious or not,everyone should be aware that we all have flaws one way or the other; If we choose to be merciless to someone who has done wrong, how then should we be treated when we do wrong?

Funny ..the quote was funny


I get the difference but I meant in this instance as regards ashley madison
Why did u raise it as a dilemma in this scenario

edwife:
Lagoland is just like Disneyland,you might need to get prepare for the queue.

During the holidays it's outrageous,you might spend the whole day there without even participating in most of the activities.

It can be fun

edwife:
Yea i got that part,was just saying the 37 M people are the one we know,other sites exist of course.Just to tell you that the number of married people seeking extra marital affairs is higher than we want to admit.

lol

This is what someone said and i quote:Just who says we're supposed to be monogamous ( some phony religious Arrow? ) turns out that recent scientific research demonstrates that the entire biological world is promiscuous. In fact the delusional human is the only monogamous creature variety (and genetic variance) is good for any species -- humans are inbreeding and will crash the species if they keep it up.
.

Does the person advocate for genetic compatibility aka inceest

For me,when you are in a relationship you can do what you want as long as you don't infringe on the right of the others.I think it is safer for the law to preside around ethics rather than morality.

Pls explain ethics vs morality

baba11:
Thank God for your life his nyansh... by the way,probably,it was your outward disposition that got him attracted to you in the first instance.


THE WAY YOU'RE DRESSED,IS THE WAY YOU'LL BE ADDRESSED!!!

corrected

Chidoks:
nooooo! i don't think so.it's you men! the bimbos are call girls!

Ok

edwife:
The liner in this saga is that the dating site has 37 million users.I don’t know about you, but that number just floored me Lol.
The website has been in existence since 2001;Whether the data has never been deleted-the point here is that 37 million married men,women are cheats.Well according to Ashley Madison itself, we Americans are the biggest cheaters in the world. We also have the highest 'divorce rate' in the world - with over 50% of marriages ending in divorce.. As reported by the BBC.
Knowing the internet business,i will say 30 millions are men,5 million faked female profile and 2 million genuine females(so to speak).
Ashley charged 19$ to delete a profile like most other sites do(except not all charges); Your identifying details will be deleted, but messages and pictures you've sent to others on the site behave like e-mail, and you can't get them back.
For big companies systems need to be designed with some kind of expiration indicator,in the absence of these indicators there's no way to identify which records can be safely deleted.(i am suspecting the hackers to be an inside job).
I bet divorce lawyers will be making orgasmic cash register sounds just about now. They are probably begging the hackers to stop all these teasing episodes and release the krakens.

No...37m people are registered on the site
There are other sites and channels

Hmmmmm...You are on to something
A lot of users will be cat fishes
Fake accounts


I am miffed with the 2 bit level of online security used by this site.

Yeah....Lawyers will make a killing

People will see more reasons not to marry

Vicious cycle

naijababe:
Divorce sef na two a penny. These are well educated folks o, all that divorce fear na for premiership footballers. It is so bad now that Aberdeen City Council offer free marriage counselling too. Stiff upper lip wo, dem pretend die.............all na boju boju


My son a huge Thomas the Tank Engine dan, we went to Thomasland last year and some of the rides na die! Today, I will not be going on some of them and would fear to let any of my clan go on them too

Lol..so awon britico know how to creep...

It will get to the point of why marry sef

I want to take the clan to Legoland
Will keep this Thomas land in view too

naijababe:
Sometime ignorance can land you in hot soup. So about two weeks ago, I got an email from this Ashley Madison being the doofus that I am I thought it was a head hunter I am usually quite wary of clicking links so I put the name in Google to see if the name would pop on Linkedin.............mehn, come see as fear catch me o. Anyway, for lack of better things to do, I navigated the website a bit lawd 'a' mercy oyinbos haff spoiled finish. Na I carry my fingers waka from the site. I nor wan see evil

@ 5minmadness, affairs are two a penny in the UK, I used work for a big multinational and every Xmas one affair starts, by February, the whole office knows and by April it would haff kpafukad There are occasssional ones leading to breakups and one in fact sadly led to suicide

Interesting...

So in the land of the stiff upper lippers, they still have time to do this
lol

it seems to be consensual too
Are they not scared of divorce destruction by the courts?

naijababe:
Freak accident lasan ni yen now. Reminds of Alton Towers, I dunno if I will ever get on those thrill rides again after the incident a few weeks ago

mehn.. I cant forget Oblivion and Nemesis
I thinkn some people lost their limbs in the last inceident
Even me I dey fear Alton now especially as I promised to take the kiddos there someday