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She should go along with his plan, but suggest another venue and giving reasons. She should hire like four thugs to accompany her, as soon as the man arrives, the ball is in her court.

Slowpokes

Chai bloggers have come again with their stories. The lady has low self-esteem, besides, it doesn't matter what gender of baby she had, the fact remains that her husband already has a child out of wedlock and she knew about it before she got married to him. Did she think he would abandon the child if she had another son for him? If she did then she's very selfish

Before you leave you need to first consider the standard of living in Uyo, can you afford to pay rent with your meagre income? I suggest you look for another female who you can manage with until you earn enough to live on your own(if you are considering moving out). The truth is, even if your income is small you still need to contribute something financially, if not you will continue to receive insult. You can decide to pay for monthly gas or light bill every month, just contribute and you will notice a difference in his attitude. As for the name calling, tthis may be a sign of frustration on his part, just ignore it for now.

Those men calling may actually be her friends but as a married woman she needs to be more open about her friendships with the opposite sex if she is truly innocent. Stop being aggressive about it, as this will make her even more secretive. You need to sit her down and talk to her, if she doesn't change, involve her parents, or anyone else she respects.

lopsoj:
maybe it's happening, their media is not just publishing it.

Trust me it's not happening there, Ghana is relatively safe for all.

ronald4lif:
Stop displaying your ignorance. A wife is not a possession or some sexual tool. Any forceful and non-consensual sex is rape, whether it's your wife or not.

I had to check your location cause i suspected you were not based in Nigeria. Please excuse his ignorance, it comes with the territory.

Aromas:
And I hope you're not referring to TemiTemi's fada

The people i am referring to know themselves

lopsoj:
Many husband have been sentenced to prison for rape, they have carnal knowledge of their female child from the age of 3 years old up to 15 years. When you ask them why they do such, some say that is their destiny or it is the hand work of the devil. Recently, a man caught raping his 3 years old daughter said he was depressed and these is because he lack finacial support, lost is job and his respect amongs his friends, made him so depressed that he didn't know when he rape his own daughter.
The case of rape is now high that men rape young girls, guys rape old women, husband rape his wife; against her will. This calls for serious concern. How true is it that depression make a man to rape his daughter, is it also depression that made young boys to gang rape a teenage girl?

Are some men not depressed in Ghana? Why don't we hear stories of rape from there. The issue is women and girls are devalued here.

@OP, congrats, 60K job is a good start!

This is an abomination

But how true are all these stories we keep hearing? It seems bloggers just come up with all these lies to drive traffic to their blogs.

She's possessed for real

Vagabonds

God bless you for this.

Great!

Livestock farming

When will African leaders learn? These foreigners will only use us for their own benefit

Pmb's over friendliness with Western media is a clear sign of inferiority complex

While you all are laughing, she may actually find someone nice due to this display of self-confidence

If the man is 73, how old is his daughter? Sometimes these stories seem too bogus for my liking

Thank God for a life well spent

Rest in peace papa, you don try.

I am sure you've considered apprenticeship, or haven't you? Find a good tailor/fashion designer you can learn from in your area. Relocating is not advisable considering you are learning a skill and may not be paid.

Big scam, if you like yourself, just ignore.

FriedPlantain:
I have always known how to handle cars since I was a kid and I remember excitingly telling my dad my love for vehicles and why I would love to pursue a career as a truck driver or car washer in the future.

My dad didn't say a word, next thing I know, I was already at church for special deliverance.

Fast forward to 2015, I'm now a successful business man, selling and buying plantain in large quantities.
You can ask about me anywhere in Mushin Olosha, I'm popularly known as Baba Ologede.

It's all about the money

Nothing has changed about the perception of children in our society, teenage pregnancy is still on the rise, this new fad called "Baby mamma" is encouraging polygamy and single parenthood, i don't think it's dropping @all rather it should be increasing.

Millet juice

I am shocked at the comments here, hello?! Are u all for real? First of, the story seems unreal

Let's pray he will be found

10 - 0

Man- u

MrsPhyno:
LOL I know u na

U see ordinary post like: Flood dey for Edo State or Trailer Drop Ontop Babe for Unilag

Pidggin now go say: Buhari where is the change? Eh? APC any comment?

Mrs.Phyno jus go laugh sotey tears dey drop from her eyes

Mrsphyno I dey eat, I no wan laff choke abeg

MrsPhyno:
Actually me too
My older sister used to freak about that my mentality lol the whole "what about ur genes and ur bloodline etc" but for me I don't mind it. Once again, great minds

Ah I've been around. Schoolish. people dey talk to me outside NL so I no dey come to this dry place again U self have been scarce it's lonely here without ur anti APC commentary

Genes ko jeans ni, I have heard all that too, but I just ignore abeg it's my life

lol quite busy now too, but am still around. You have many admirers to keep you entertained don't abandon them now

My Anti-APC comments abi