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Handsome at 70, may you live much longer Sir

Rubbish

Barney11:

your screen can not behold my grace and greatness,even my phone will overheat when typing all my achievements.it is a personal choice, pidggin.

It's my screen, I should tell you what it can withstand, not the other way around

5minsmadness:
Really?

I was taught on this forum that single parents raise children who are just as well-adjusted as children from a complete family. Hence you can divorce your partner at the drop of a hat, after-all its your happiness as a person that is important, damn what your children or anyone else thinks.
Maybe the girl was pretending to cry?




We come online and spew all kinds of rubbish and state foolish statistics when in truth we know what really happens in the world. Children need both thier parents to have a fulfilled life, take it or leave it. You are not fit to be a parent if you leave your marriage at the smallest inclination. This goes for both men and women. Your happiness as a parent is not paramount, you have a responsibility to your children, you are not a child in a candy store selfishly taking whatever sweet catches your fancy because "it is your life". Putting yourself first in life is selfish and foolish and immature and if everyone around you acted the same way, being selfish, the world would be a colder darker place.


Love is not meant to be kept to oneself. Love is meant to be shared. If you cannot forgive your partner, the one you married with pomp and pageantry, the one you claim to love with your whole heart, if you cannot forgive that one when he or she greviously sins against you, if you would rather destroy everything both of you have built by walking away, then your love has no value. Your declared love is useless and worthless. You are all mouth and no action.


It would have been better if you were never a parent.

100 likes for this post. It's better to have both parents especially if they are responsible individuals. It's quite self-fish for anyone to separate or divorce over issues that can be termed trivial. I don't think any sane person will support this

Although I think there should be a few cases of exceptions regarding separation (I am not in support of divorce). In the case of wife battery, incest or persistent adultery, both partners are better apart. I hope you are not supporting they remain together even at the risk of possible death?

The question is does separation or even divorce validate a parent abandoning his/her kid(s)?

My take

OP, sorry about your condition. I totally understand, please get this book "How to restore your God given self - image. It contains everything you need to get yourself back and more.

Jesus is the answer, try Him

These days anybody can wake up one day and decide to call himself pastor and no one objects to it. He will lead gullible people astray because he is not genuine

Real men and women of God cannot easily be found wanting in terms of morals

Why can't athiest talk about their religion without mentioning others?

Barney11:
Things started moving for me when I became an Atheist. it is so natural. my church is my heart and my pastor is golden rule and karma.

Pictures of you before and after

Insightful post.

Whoever is guilty of corruption should be disciplined but there should be no rationalizing of witch hunting unless we intend to mock ourselves.

PEJ has not been found guilty by a court of law so why all this media crucifixion

Haha EFCC has judged the case already?

Saw a teenage girl in agony, she was holding unto a bike-man and weeping bitterly. I thought it was the usual rude Okada-man and passenger strife so my friend and I ignored them

The girl seemed determined to create a scene as she shouted and wept bitterly. Because of the number of people that had started gathering around them, we had some time on our hands so we decided to move closer to get a better view

"What could this clean pretty looking teenager who was speaking impeccable English be doing with the scruffily dressed Okada man who couldn't explain himself for his lack of communication skills? " predictably, most onlookers must have been wondering about this too

Behold, we kept hearing "Daddy why, why did you abandon us, you don't know anything about us, you don't know our ages, you don't know my birthday, you were never there for me, daddy why?" she wept bitterly

"Is it my fault that you don't care about my mum, daddy why don't you care about us, why sir? " she asked in tears

Her sister soon joined in trying to restrain her because she wouldn't let her father go "Leave him let's go" it seemed like she was trying hard not to cry herself "You have finished secondary school we don't need him any more" she was saying to her sister. That was when we decided it was time to go(as we now knew what the commotion was all about)

Hmm, the emotional pain in that girl's heart cannot be put into words effectively. Obviously, she has been storing years of sadness before now, she couldn't contain it any longer so she must have planned to confront him without their mother's knowledge

If you are one of those who think you can abandon your kids because of your failed marriage or relationship, think again. Your kids need you in their lives regardless of what is going on between you and their mother

That girl is definitely scared for life now unless a miracle happens some how. The man didn't even care, all he wanted to do was leave the place as soon as he could and as we left there, I kept hearing her ask him "Daddy why?

True story.

Only if you don't pay transport to your office, your wife earns more than you, you delay childbearing for some time and you live in a free or low cost accommodation.

Oil is the main reason

This is clear, why can't EFCC invite her for questioning before selling their lies to the public. See how desperate EFCC are, is it possible for all companies involved to plead guilty?
Rubbish, quote me and remain ignored, nonsense.

DrRasheed:
please receive sense...
building community Bank has now become a national achievement.
credit to sanusi lamido that allow privatisation of banks.

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Chai, your case is beyond redemption

humilitypays:
I am not against woman leading America or any other nation as president, but I am only predicting what would happen.

If Clinton wins, there will be widespread insecurity and terrorism attacks all over the world. Terrorism will advance. Her government will favour migrants but the world will become more volatile in terms of insecurity.

If Trump wins, terrorism will reduce but US will become more difficult for migrants and non-Americans.

Hello, there is already widespread insecurity. Terrorism has increased all over the world. We are one of the victims. Fulani herdsmen and Boko Haram have rendered many refugees in their own country and killed thousands

ISIS has killed thousands in Western Europe. All your predictions may happen initially but it won't last. They will counter it, don't worry. Look at what is happening in France and Germany. There will close their borders when they see what migrants can do to them

Whatever the case, let's leave and let live. If God gives you the power to prophecy, you can use it to see and pray against things that are negative.

It is well, US is not Nigeria, when a president is not delivering what the masses want, they will definitely impeach him/her. It is well

Rest in peace

He is the Lord my healer!!!

Fake news

humilitypays:
the write-up doesn't need to be on the front page.

I also foresee danger in America. I have been seeing it in my dreams and I have been worried to write down something.

Americans must make wise decision in November.

Donald Trump isn't the best candidate but voting in Hillary Clinton as America's next president will bring lots of chaos in America and the world.

While I agree that Donald Trump is not the best candidate. God has made the way clear for a woman to assume the presidency of America.

Don't worry about doom, Americans can impeach a non-performing president but it won't happen this time. Just like God enabled Obama (a black) to rule well, He will also do the same for Hillary or Donald

I think what God is doing is speaking to the world through America. He is saying "Those things which you regard as unthinkable will happen and it will work out"

The era has come for acceptance, where people need to look beyond: male female, white, black, Hispanics, asians, arabs and so on. It is time for acceptance dear, nothing will happen when women will virtually rule the world
- US secretary general
- British prime minister
- German Chancellor
-US?

Let God decide.

humilitypays:
Agreed, President Goodluck didn't turn Nigeria around into a paradise that we all desire to witness.

Agreed, President Goodluck didn't handle the issue of security in the north-eastern Nigeria well; and of course no government in the whole world can single handedly fight and wipe out islamic terrorists without the honest and harmonious collaboration of the entire citizens- security operatives, civilians, religions/traditional leaders, politicians, youths, etc.

#Fact 1:
Nigeria has been under-developed since 1960; no border control, no reliable and correct citizen database (shame on all our past leaders we call our founding fathers- Tafa Belewa, Nnamdi Azikiwe, Obafemi Awolowo, Ahmadu Bello, et al, all of them didn't wished Nigeria well from beginning), no electronic surveillance cameras in all corners of the country like they have in countries like: USA, UK, Germany, France, Japan, China, Israel, Malaysia, etc...and we have lots of mountainous and forest areas in the north east Nigeria with no surveillance camera or well equipped border/forest security to safeguard those dangerous areas from being used as terrorist and deadly gang dens.

Now, we can't expect one government that's just 6 years old to wipe out all these odds when the country is already built on very bad foundation of corruption, tribalism, religious divide, materialism and selfish interest.

#Fact 2- Issue of Corruption & Goodluck's government:
Past Nigerian leaders prolonged corruption in Nigeria such that virtually every Nigerian citizen became a corruption agent and it was Obasanjo who would have curtailed this deadly scourge of national corruption from penetrating into the ordinary citizens when he took over from military in 1999, but he was too busy looting the Nigerian oil funds he failed to loot in 1976 and forgot to fight corruption sincerely which caused corruption to spread like harmattan fire in the whole Nigerian population, such that every Nigerian citizen radiates corruption in their various offices, businesses and daily lives.


Now, how do we expect a democratically elected president functioning in a democratic system of government to fight corruption like a military dictator (who have absolute power to do anything he wishes) when every action of a democratic president will first get approval from the upper/lower national house of assemblies and then judicial?

If Buhari wins come 2015, I promise Nigerians that Buhari will fail Nigerians woefully but then, I know Nigerians won't cry much as they are crying now since Buhari comes from a majority tribe and a very strong religious background that supports their own irrespective of the situation.

Why will Buhari fail as president if he wins in 2015


1. He will lead Nigeria this time as a democratically elected president and not as a military dictator: In 1983 when Buhari was the military head of state, he had absolute unopposed power to dictate things the way he wants it without challenge from any citizen or government arm. And having a strict ADC, late Idi-abgon also helped him.

Now, he is coming in as a democratically elected president, which means before he can pass any anti-corruption law, it must pass through senate and reps filled with corrupt senators and reps, and his anti-corruption bills may also require to pass through the judiciary for final abduction and implementation as a national law.

Again, he won't be the one to enforce these anti-corruption laws, it is another corrupt Nigerian official (judges, justices, policemen, et al) who is already corrupt and even if he sacks that one, the next one is corrupt too...

So what Nigeria needs first is national repentance from our corrupt way of life.

#Fact 3: APC is a corrupt party-
Buhari will not fight corruption in Nigeria if he wins because virtually 70% of past corrupt politicians in Nigeria have all decamped from PDP to APC and now chanting the new song: Change! Change! Sai Buhari!

Now I ask; have they changed? When and how! Just because they left PDP for selfish personal interest to join APC doesn't mean they have changed or are no longer corrupt!

How can Buhari come from a party made up of past corrupt politicians and Nigerians are here believing Buhari will fight corruption

Will Buhari jail Tinubu the most corrupt Nigerian politician of our time

Will Buhari jail Rotimi Amaechi

Will Buhari jail all the past corrupt PDP governors who are now APC party members for their selfish interest

Nigerians, don't be deceived, you don't sell dog to buy monkey: APC = PDP, expect no change come 2015 if Buhari wins so you won't be more heartbroken than you are now!

Boko Haram insurgents may reduce if Buhari wins, not because Buhari will do any special thing to stop Boko Haram if he wins, but because Boko Haram will drop their arms on their own because they will feel more at peace that they have someone from their belief now in power, just as Niger Delta militants laid down their arms when Yaradua/Goodluck assumed office.

I am not a supporter of PDP or APC, I am only waking Nigerians up ahead of time; don't expect too much from APC, they are just as corrupt as PDP and even more deadly than PDP!

I wished Buhari came as an independent candidate from no party, how I wished!

Its so unfortunate that our nation has been overrun by corruption such that every citizen lives and survives by corruption.

Now, how many Nigerians can swear with their life here that they haven't patronised, sympathised or assisted corruption no matter how small

Let's stop pointing fingers at those in leadership now and start now as youths to lead by example in wherever we are now!

APC is not clamoring for change to better Nigerians but change to better the elite members of the party- Tinubu and ther aggrieved northern politicians seeking desperately for a way to oust Goodluck Jonathan and continue their usual mass looting.

Let's shine our eyes and not be deceived by what people say pls.

I wonder why this post never made FP. If it was a story about unclad women or pythons you will see it on front page but an insightful post like this was left to wallow in oblivion

OP, you are a prophet indeed

APC =Failures

Notruthatall:
So I should leave them while their ego shoots up. . .well, besides what if they marry from another tribe?

And what if they don't? They senior you so which one is ego there. I advised you so that you can preserve your life, your own siblings cam harm you, I hope you now this.