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emalekuo:
Still available?

MadCow1:
I could kiss you right now, but I don't want to be arrested for sexual harassment.

There is no justifiable excuse to remain in an abusive relationship.

Europija:
Hello all...My boyfriend started acting strange...I been together with him for 4 years n now he started calling me only at night from midnight n he doesnt pick my call when is day time...When i ask him why he do that he will give me some silly excuse like he was sleeping etc..Also he doesnt have a job n we live in different countries...I am thinking maybe he cheating me but why then he not sleeping with that girl? If he has woman he would also stay at night with her...right?What could it be??

ausboo:
I know majority of nairaland will castigate me for it. I had to open a new account to hide my person. I feel guilty but I can't help it because I love him. I met this guy between October/november last year. He told me he was married but i told him I can't date a married man. He then told me he wasn't happy in his marriage and that the marriage is yet to produce a child. Although his wife has had some miscarriages. He said he was thinking of leaving his wife.
I initially though he was joking and decided to have a bit of fun with him. I must confess he is a good spender. I started falling in love with him but part of me wasn't happy.
The issue now is that he has chased is wife out because of me and no more living together. I feel for this woman because the marriage is not up to 2years. He told me he was leaving the wife because he never loved her from the begining but he knows his wife loves him and he said she is diabolic. But i dont believe him. He is only trying to find a reason to leave. I did a background check on her. I found out she went to one of the private universities and she is cool and responsible. And sincerely she doesnt look like someone who will venture into that. If she was actually diabolic, she would have long tamed him from his excesses
I have been pleading on her behalf to go back to his wife which usually results to argument. This man confessed to me he was dating other women while married to her. And he wants to stop cheating that's why he needs a divorce to marry someone that he loves. It got me thinking, wouldn't he do the same to me because any man thats cheating, it usually takes the grace of God to stop cheating. But i can't help it. I love this guy or could it be because he has a good job and money. I don't mind him leaving his wife but my conscience is pricking me especially after I did a background check on her. I have tried to stop but i can't. I just dont want God to punish me for breaking up what he joined together. Am I alright?

herboshedhe:
You'll make a good counselor...Thumbs up

SLIDEwaxie:
If u roll ur 5k very well, u go knw say that pocket dey keep extra change in case u dey alaba, idumota, oshodi or any other thieving area for Lagos.

Also, if u roll 3k wella and u tell ur gf to search u say na only 500g u get, she no go found out.

Besides, if u wan visit chick and u no wan she run ur wallet see condom, u fit slide those types of long condom inside until show go sure.