Career / Re: My Boss Exploits Me. by Pineapp: 7:55am On Feb 22, 2016 |
Working for a family friend is like allowing a handshake extend to the elbow. He'd give you double of insults. |
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Attends London Fashion Week (Photos) by Pineapp: 10:18pm On Feb 21, 2016 |
She's looking good. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Is It Right For A Girl To Bring Out Money For Wedding... by Pineapp: 11:13pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
Marriage is meant for a man and a woman ,not a baby boy and a girl 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: You Won't Believe This Is Olajumoke On The Runway (Photo) by Pineapp: 10:36pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
ITbomb: I think her breast has fallen real bad She has two kids Stop being stupid 79 Likes |
Family / Re: Teenagers And Unclad Pictures On The Internet: Are Parents Sparing The rod? by Pineapp: 8:55am On Feb 19, 2016 |
Acidosis: Some parents are actually clueless. They don't know how to take care of themselves, let alone, the children they bring into the world.
And btw, these things mostly happen to teenagers who were mentored through the instrumentality of TRACE, HIP TV, E!, among others.
And please! Don't ever try to correct a derailing daughter; you'd certainly get a dirty slap from her mother for refusing to "mind your business."
We are in the era of "mind your business" It's sickening 1 Like |
Family / Re: Teenagers And Unclad Pictures On The Internet: Are Parents Sparing The rod? by Pineapp: 7:29am On Feb 19, 2016 |
This has got to be an interesting topic Cococandy Kanwuliajara Abeg show face o |
Family / Teenagers And Unclad Pictures On The Internet: Are Parents Sparing The rod? by Pineapp: 12:25pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Let's talk about this development of teenagers having no shame in snapping and going forward to uploading their nudes online. Are parents no longer doing what they are supposed to??
Let's hear your view. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Wonders! See What I Got From First Bank Atm This Morning. (picture) by Pineapp: 12:14pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
You were simply given back the kind of money you go to deposit |
Celebrities / Re: Photo: Please Who Wore It Better by Pineapp: 12:12pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
The bike man behind the mad man close to the mad woman |
Nairaland / General / Re: Please, How Hot Is It In Your Area? by Pineapp: 10:30pm On Feb 17, 2016 |
It's terrible Just had the 4th bath since I got back from work. |
Family / Re: How I Almost Lost It With My Cousin (Sister) by Pineapp: 10:13pm On Feb 17, 2016 |
You are high on pepsi 3 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Ini Edo Signs New Deal,Unveiled As Brand Ambassador Of Slimtea Nigeria(photos) by Pineapp: 10:06pm On Feb 17, 2016 |
Very soon I will no longer smile like this to the bank. It'll change to Ride on Ini. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: (photo)how We View Paid Employment Vs. Entrepreneurship by Pineapp: 9:50pm On Feb 17, 2016 |
It is so because,going to school--->graduating and getting a job is like the perfect ritual for a whole lot of people....
Because you don't get people that want to be patient for the private business to yield,rather they prefer to work and invest in someone else's already made business and get "paid". 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: How Would You React If Your Wife Deny You Sex? by Pineapp: 9:49pm On Feb 17, 2016 |
3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Pineapp: 7:25am On Feb 17, 2016 |
You don't know her in the first place. You are not sure you know her enough yet. You are not even sure there are no more secrets. |
Romance / Re: Photo: This How Someone Valentine Went by Pineapp: 9:50pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Hmmmmm |
Family / Re: I Am Losing My Mind Right Now by Pineapp: 9:43pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Expensive eyedrops up there. Xalatan alone costs 5000. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Help Me! by Pineapp: 9:39pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Kelvin3028: Pls I need some good samaritan who can give me 15,000. I lend d money to my mum and she hasn't return it bt i have to take it with me to work tomorrow or I'll be sacked or embarassed. Pls, dis is nt scam. I am desperate dats why I came here Don't forget to upload a picture when either of the two is happening 11 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Denrele Pays Tribute To Goldie; Bows Down At Her Grave by Pineapp: 3:21pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
He is mad but not insane At least he is wearing both iro and wrapper |
Family / Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by Pineapp: 12:24pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Is your husband material up to 27 yards?? 20 Likes |
Romance / Re: What She Got For Me As Valentine Gift by Pineapp: 7:01pm On Feb 14, 2016 |
See wife material 92 yards |
Romance / Re: Everyone Is Asking Me To Get Married By Force. by Pineapp: 11:00am On Feb 14, 2016 |
MsGlobalwonder: stale lines... yadayada I bet you weren't taught sarcasm. Swerve biko |
Religion / Re: Godly Lyrics to Wordly Beats by Pineapp: 10:57am On Feb 14, 2016 |
How do you define"worldly beat" God gives talent. Someone who has that talent of making up different sounds has done it. Some people who can sing has sang a song in a way that it aligns with the sounds. One of the singer chose to say " I'm going to heaven",in his song. The other decided that"shake your waist", is his own lyrics. So...... |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice by Pineapp: 9:40am On Feb 14, 2016 |
No child is a curse. Accept your fate
Na say you give girl belle make your username be deafandumb? |
Romance / Re: Everyone Is Asking Me To Get Married By Force. by Pineapp: 9:32am On Feb 14, 2016 |
You are presently in the part of the world where a married woman is seen as a blessed,a progressive and a responsible woman and your family only wants that for you. At 26 you are not considering marriage Issorait. They think that in 9 years time,you'll start jumping from Shiloh to synagogue. From crusade to mountains and the prayer point will be," father locate the bone of my bone and catapult him to me" 5 Likes |
Jokes Etc / Re: Hilarious: Checkout This Job Seeker Application Letter by Pineapp: 8:30am On Feb 14, 2016 |
Osun weed |
Health / Re: Any Professional Doctor In The House, Please Help by Pineapp: 4:46pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
corpROYAL:
Thank you so much Doctor, l really appreciate your care and concern. I didn't notice on time that my question has been answer since. I have bought those drugs since yesternight and they are perfectly working. I was surprise when l ask for the price of In ZINNAT 500mg it was #2500. I think it has the highest price out of the drugs. Perhaps what are the causes of this so as to correct this ?
Thank you once again, you are a Professional Doctor indeed and you have a very good heart. Please keep it up. How do l pay for this service lol? I'm not a medical doctor. More of a pharmacy person. You are welcome |
Family / Re: Am In A Fix by Pineapp: 4:31pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
The first few years of marriage could be all temptations. But in this case,I'd say run for your life like insects running away from Mortein 1 Like |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Woman Hides Stolen Money In Her Vagina (Photo) by Pineapp: 3:44pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
And person go still put him pistol inside the hole Bad luck 2 Likes |
Health / Re: Any Professional Doctor In The House, Please Help by Pineapp: 3:01pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
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Career / Re: Kindly Advice: Working Without Knowing My Salary. by Pineapp: 12:27pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
Treash: Helo Nairalanders. Please am a bit confused. I just started working wit a new law firm somewhere around Ikeja two wks ago. I dont really av issues wit the working condition coz I quite understnd Lagos working atmosphere. I reside at Joju, after Sango Otta, and I must resume work by 9am,dats if court is not sitting, else I must leave home by 5am to beat the traffic. To cut the long story short, ever since I started, my new boss never called me to discuss the terms of payment with me. Though he's a family friend, but how can I work frm morning till night and I wouldnt knw how much my salary is?? I try to exercise patience coz I first thought it wasnt formal to start asking for salary matter. He always want me to be at work puntually but I cant cope again. D transport and accomodation is draining; transport alone is #800 daily and am sick of this. Them suppose bring you out for assembly ground flog the bejesus out of you. Because he is a family friend doesn't mean the handshake should extend to the elbow. Ask him the necessary questions an employee should ask about which includes knowing what the salary is like. Abi you dey look him face Don't worry. Na month end you go know say you be charity worker |
Family / Re: Please Help: Was Caught Right In The Act, What Do I Do? Wife Must Not Hear This by Pineapp: 10:32am On Feb 11, 2016 |
bcomputer101: When she said this, I knew she was joking because although she didn’t say much about herself, anyone who is familiar with the soft sell magazines and social media will know her well and I know she has no need of our small money. I didn’t hear anything from her again until after about three months. I was out of the country with my family on holidays the day she called. She asked me to help a young man who needed a soft loan. I told her I was out of the country on vacation, but referred her to someone who can help. She told me the person can wait and that I should let her know when I return from vacation. My wife asked me about my conversation with her and asked me to be careful. She said she wasn’t careful about her, but I shrugged her away because I felt she was just being a woman. When I returned to the country, I called her and she came over with the young man who wanted the loan. Since she was standing surety for him, his loan was processed quickly and to appreciate she invited me for her birthday celebrations. I told her I will be coming with my wife, but she insisted that I should come alone. At this level, I should have applied caution; I made up my mind not to go, but eventually, I went because I convinced myself that I won’t stay too long, but when I got there, I met something else. She had already made an elaborate arrangement for me and sincerely, it was not like an open party that I expected. It was just few of us, her friends and few men of my age. Though, I enjoyed the party, but before I left, I was able to pick what her intention was. I was uncomfortable with it and made up my mind that I won’t fall into her trap. Maybe the mistake I made was not telling my wife. We hardly keep things from each other. I told her I was attending my client’s party, although I didn’t mention her name, so when I returned home and she asked me how it all went, I couldn’t tell her the truth, I had to lie. The lies were my biggest undoing. Because I couldn’t open up to tell my wife especially when other things began to happen. Sincerely, I cannot say I knew when our friendship became a relationship. She would invite me for lunch and sometimes I stopped over at her place after work. I started keeping late nights and stopped attending mid-week services in church. Whenever my wife raised this, I had a readymade answer and it was always work pressure. She is not the type of woman who complains or makes issues. Another thing which buttressed my excuses was the fact that my partner at a time was ill and had to go abroad for treatment. At this time, I actually worked late, but Madam K was readily available, with food drinks to take care of me. Because my job entails travelling, I had an avenue for good excuses; I would sometimes leave my home and stay in a hotel with her or sometimes sleep over in her house. All the while, I knew what I was doing was wrong, but I couldn’t help myself. Every time I went out with her or slept at her place, I feel so guilty. It became so bad that she started taking me to see her spiritual leaders, Imams and people who pray for her. In fact, there was a time she introduced mPPo a native doctor from her village in Ijebu. She introduced me to a lot of things which ordinarily I wouldn’t have been involved in. I couldn’t tell anyone these, talk less of my wife. I knew I was going too deep into it and that I should stop, but I couldn’t stop. At a level, my wife quarreled with me, but eventually she relaxed and started praying for me. Something however, happened there weeks ago, which opened my eyes and that is why I am seeking help. Madam K, told me that we would be attending a burial party in Kogi her home state. I agreed to go with her because I never thought that in my wildest dreams would I meet anyone I knew there. The very day I left home after telling my wife that I had to attend a conference, her elder sister came in from the United States of America to attend her friend’s dad’s burial in Nigeria. She said she asked her to come along, but she gave an excuse that she had to stay at home because I travelled out of town. I didn’t know my sister-in-laws were attending the same party. Thank God my wife didn’t come with them. Her elder sister came to the party with two other younger ones and even the one who stays with us. It wasn’t an issue of telling lies, the party was in full swing and the musician; one of the popular ones was playing and calling my name and praising me as Madam K’s husband. It was really a show of shame. We were just coming from the dance floor, when I came face-to-face with my sister-in-laws. They were going to the dance floor. The first thing that came from my youngest sister-in-law was that, “so uncle it is you”. I would have loved the ground to open and swallow me. I greeted them and hurried away. I became distablised, but couldn’t leave the party. I would have left, if I had the opportunity, but Madam K didn’t allow me. She noticed the change in my behaviour and asked what happened; I told her I had a headache. My sister-in-laws left the party before us; they came over to our table to greet us. I eventually learnt that the woman who was being buried was Madam K’s aunt who raised her.. I hurried home the following day thinking I was going to meet hell at home, but my wife didn’t say a word. She welcomed me home normally and later asked what was wrong with me. I told her I had malaria and she suggested I go to the hospital. Two days after, she called to tell me that her sister was at home. Fortunately, I had to attend a church meeting so I couldn’t see her. I prayed that she would have gone before I returned home and God granted my request. But when I got home, I noticed that my wife’s countenance had changed. Her sister who stays with us also refused to meet my eyes. I don’t know if they had told my wife, but she has not asked me anything. Please, what do I do? Should I ask her and how do I get out of Madam K’s claws? I need your counsel, please.
source: http://tribuneonlineng.com/caught-right-in-the-act-what-do-i-do kkk |