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RomanceRe: Why Is It Harder For Men To Forgive Infidelity? by pleep(m): 12:18am On May 02, 2013
[quote author=Nuzo']1. Male ego----------------------60percent.

2. Culture-----------------------10 percent

3. Religion----------------------10 percent

4. Betrayal-----------------------7 percent

5. Less attachment to his kids----3 percent[/quote]comming from the guy whos GF cheated on him 16 times.
CultureRe: Congratulations To All The Kids Who Were Born In The 1930's 40's, 50's, 60s,70s by pleep(m): 4:18pm On May 01, 2013
hehe nice.
CultureRe: Somali Military History by pleep(m): 4:16pm On May 01, 2013
CAMEROONPRIDE: I guess in the mansa muss thread, the one about east African esp Somalian being enslaved by Chinese
OH HELL YEA grin

ill post it in a second. i gotta study rite now
Jobs/VacanciesRe: What Course Would You Not Advise Anyone To Study? by pleep(m): 4:14pm On May 01, 2013
AcCOuNTiiNG.... iT WiLL DRiiVE U CrAYzeeee

dOnt TAke Acc if yOu dON't wAn't tO enD UP LiiKe Meeee<EEEEEEE>eeee
CultureRe: Somali Military History by pleep(m): 4:11pm On May 01, 2013
Ou est il?
RomanceRe: 5 Crude Facts About Ladies by pleep(m): 4:10pm On May 01, 2013
@ number 4, trying the same thing over and over is the mark of insanity

everyone tells nice guys to stop being push-overs but you never listen. Dat one na your onn fault!
RomanceRe: 5 Crude Facts About Ladies by pleep(m): 4:08pm On May 01, 2013
carefreewannabe: Be more specific on no 3.
lesbain relationships. need i say more?

the domestic violence rate is almost 10 times higher than in hetero couples.
CultureRe: Somali Military History by pleep(m): 4:07pm On May 01, 2013
grin somalia9 is getting trolled all over the forum

hes the cultre sections biggest joke now
CultureRe: Somali Military History by pleep(m): 4:05pm On May 01, 2013
oooga oooga booooo hoo hooo hooo

w/e kiddo
RomanceRe: Toast A Girl/boy In 10 Words. by pleep(m): 4:03pm On May 01, 2013
^ Thats the point, say something like that in a thick breathy accent and she will think is they sexiest thing in the word

Vraimant seduisant!
RomanceRe: Why Is It Harder For Men To Forgive Infidelity? by pleep(m): 4:01pm On May 01, 2013
I'm sick of ppl blabbering on about the "male ego" as if the female ego isnt three time as big.... who chases who, remember?

ppl r so dumb sha
RomanceRe: Why Is It Harder For Men To Forgive Infidelity? by pleep(m): 4:00pm On May 01, 2013
Ok @ everyone who wants to know the scientific answer to this question. This is a post i made from a while ago.. and after it is the source from research done at the university of texas.

pleep:
Cheating hurts men more because of different instincts. This is not only about ego and self confidence bla bla bla, its about "who is the real father of my child." That is something males have to deal with but women don't. And so we evolved to have a deep seated tik that women don't have

You ever wonder why many women can tolerate polygamy but almost no man can? its because we are wired differently

You cant argue with evolutionary biology... cheating effects men more, just accept it.

We pay the "bride price" so its not so much to ask.
Differences in mating strategies in the different sexes

http://homepage.psy.utexas.edu/homepage/group/busslab/pdffiles/evolution_of_human_mating_2007.pdf

"Mating is close to the engine of the evolutionary process—differential reproductive success. As descendants of
reproductively successful ancestors, modern humans have inherited the mating strategies that led to our ancestor’s
success. These strategies include long-term committed mating (e.g., marriage), short-term mating (e.g., a brief
intimate encounter), extra-pair mating (e.g., infidelity), mate poaching (luring another person’s mate), and mate
guarding (effort devoted to keeping a mate). Since men and women historically confronted different adaptive
problems in the mating domain, the sexes differ profoundly in evolved psychology of mating solutions. These
psychological sex differences include possessing distinct mate preferences, dissimilar desires for short-term
mating, and distinct triggers that evoke intimate jealousy.
This article reviews empirical evidence supporting
evolution-based hypotheses about these mating strategies. The study of human mating is one of the true “success
stories” of evolutionary psychology."

Key word: the bolded. "men and women posses different triggers for intimate jealousy" Read the whole journal if you want to know more

....lol
CultureRe: Somali Military History by pleep(m): 7:01am On May 01, 2013
boo hoo hooo.
CultureRe: Somali Military History by pleep(m): 6:32am On May 01, 2013
who cares

RomanceRe: 5 Crude Facts About Ladies by pleep(m): 6:30am On May 01, 2013
[quote author=mondi_cheeks]undecided women don't simply cheat on someone because they admired another man's bigger butt. How is that sacrificial[/quote]Women will cheat on him because the other man had a bigger wallet

Sooooooo much better.

Most ladies are dumb sha wink
RomanceRe: Question For The Guys: Why Is It Harder For Men To Forgive Infidelity? by pleep(m): 2:29am On May 01, 2013
go to sleep lol wink
RomanceRe: Question For The Guys: Why Is It Harder For Men To Forgive Infidelity? by pleep(m): 2:08am On May 01, 2013
Ok @ everyone who wants to know the scientific answer to this question. This is a post i made from a while ago.. and after it is the source from research done at the university of texas.

pleep: Cheating hurts men more because of different instincts. This is not only about ego and self confidence bla bla bla, its about "who is the real father of my child." That is something males have to deal with but women don't. And so we evolved to have a deep seated tik that women don't have

You ever wonder why many women can tolerate polygamy but almost no man can? its because we are wired differently

You cant argue with evolutionary biology... cheating effects men more, just accept it.

We pay the "bride price" so its not so much to ask.
Differences in mating strategies in the different sexes

http://homepage.psy.utexas.edu/homepage/group/busslab/pdffiles/evolution_of_human_mating_2007.pdf

"Mating is close to the engine of the evolutionary process—differential reproductive success. As descendants of
reproductively successful ancestors, modern humans have inherited the mating strategies that led to our ancestor’s
success. These strategies include long-term committed mating (e.g., marriage), short-term mating (e.g., a brief
intimate encounter), extra-pair mating (e.g., infidelity), mate poaching (luring another person’s mate), and mate
guarding (effort devoted to keeping a mate). Since men and women historically confronted different adaptive
problems in the mating domain, the sexes differ profoundly in evolved psychology of mating solutions. These
psychological sex differences include possessing distinct mate preferences, dissimilar desires for short-term
mating,
and distinct triggers that evoke intimate jealousy. This article reviews empirical evidence supporting
evolution-based hypotheses about these mating strategies. The study of human mating is one of the true “success
stories” of evolutionary psychology."

Key word: the bolded. "men and women posses different triggers for intimate jealousy" Read the whole journal if you want to know more

....lol wink
RomanceRe: Question For The Guys: Why Is It Harder For Men To Forgive Infidelity? by pleep(m):
like seriously yall. I dont care if you believe me or not, im just posting the facts of the matter for people who want real information.

and yes... "it" is a trait shared by monkeys and many other mammals
CultureRe: Unclad Girls, Flood The Set With Unclad Girls Joor - My Arguable opinion by pleep(m): 1:50am On May 01, 2013
when i clicked this thread and saw no "unclad girls" i didnt bother to read srry undecided
RomanceRe: Question For The Guys: Why Is It Harder For Men To Forgive Infidelity? by pleep(m): 1:45am On May 01, 2013
This is because of evolutionary biology.... ill post a link

but basically males have the insinctive fear of accidentally raising another guys child and that is what causes the more extreme reaction to infedelity.
CultureRe: Beautiful Black Babies! by pleep(m): 1:40am On May 01, 2013
what does "semuhle" mean.. is that some kinda jewish word or is it a south african language?
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Change Their Mind? by pleep(m): 1:39am On May 01, 2013
iheneme: Almost every lady you come across has a great picture of her dream man; tall, handsome, intelligent, comfortable, etc. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that, if you ask me. But have you noticed that most of these ladies end up married to men almost opposite their spec? I remember my former colleague. She's tall, light skinned, beautiful and well educated. And her dreams about her future husband was as tall as she is. Barely one year after she got a new job with one of the telecomm operators, she got married to a short Akwa Ibom guy (no offence intended). From what I gathered this guy is barely comfortable. Instances like this abound. Please why do you think ladies change their mind at the last minute?
lol #fail
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Change Their Mind? by pleep(m): 1:38am On May 01, 2013
alutacontinua: Because the whole tall, dark and handsome thing is fantasy. You get to meet someone that is short, fair and ugly but treats you right. You start thinking maybe that is all that matters, i would not chop the TDH. Besides, most nigerian guys are ugly anyways undecided...so, if every lady wants to marry a 'TDH' guy, naija guys go tey for bachelorhood.

No be me talk am oo
shocked
CultureRe: Beautiful Black Babies! by pleep(m): 1:34am On May 01, 2013
[quote author=*Semuhle*Baby*]But why are you so concerned about this lady huh If she wants to have 10 kids with 10 different men then that is her business.[/quote]Long story. wink
CultureRe: Beautiful Black Babies! by pleep(m): 1:34am On May 01, 2013
the one at the top looks like micky mouse
CultureRe: Beautiful Black Babies! by pleep(m): 1:33am On May 01, 2013
but anyway lol....

cute babies, nice thread onila grin
CultureRe: Beautiful Black Babies! by pleep(m): 1:30am On May 01, 2013
Some of them even have mulitple kids with different men.

mondi-cheeks even said that she has 6 kids and 7 baby daddys... huh how is that possible? did the sperm of 2 men mix inside her uterus?
CultureRe: Beautiful Black Babies! by pleep(m): 1:27am On May 01, 2013
90% of the time its there fault... atleast here in the U.S

If you are not married to a person when you have kids with them, you should not be surprised when you end up a single mother. Its common sense
CultureRe: Beautiful Black Babies! by pleep(m): 1:22am On May 01, 2013
shes a single mother with a grand total of 6 kids

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