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KarmaMod:
Well at least I now have an excuse anytime I'm asked to be a cosigner

and if you don already enter.The Bible gives you some tips on what to do.

Proverbs 6

1 My son, if you guarantee a loan for your neighbor or pledge yourself for a stranger with a handshake,
2 you are trapped by the words of your own mouth, caught by your own promise.

3 Do the following things, my son, so that you may free yourself, because you have fallen into your neighbor's hands: Humble yourself, and pester your neighbor.
4 Don't let your eyes rest or your eyelids close.

5 Free yourself like a gazelle from the hand of a hunter and like a bird from the hand of a hunter.


In order words give the person no sleep,call him constantly ,show up,call the authorities,keep hounding the "son of a gun" day in day out say you no want again until he lets you off

For the cheating husbands out there

"The lips of another man's wife may be as sweet as honey and her kisses as smooth as olive-oil, but when it is all over, she leaves you nothing but bitterness and pain. She will take you down to the world of the dead ; the road she walks is the road to death" (Proverbs 5:3)

davidylan*:
Proverbs 10:23 It is as sport to a fool to do mischief: but a man of understanding hath wisdom.

Proverbs 10:13 Wise words come from the lips of people with understanding,but those lacking sense will be beaten with a rod.

ROFL
I liked the koboko/bulala part

For the adulterers and fornicators in da house

"A man can hire a prostitute for the price of a loaf of bread, but adultery will cost him all he has" (Proverbs 6:26)

and for the over eaters amongst us.

"Never eat more honey than you need ; too much may make you vomit" (Proverbs 25:16)

A lot of Nigerians may need to hear this one.

"Don't take bribes and you will live longer" (Proverbs 15:27)

Do you know the book of proverbs in the Bible has so many wise sayings that applies to everyday life.
You may actually save yourself heartaches by heeding those words.
I just love the scriptures.
Do you know the Bible talks of being a surety for other people's loans and warns against such.

"Only a man with no sense would promise to be responsible for someone else's debts" (Proverbs 19:18)


"Don't promise to be responsible for someone else's debts. If you should be unable to pay, they will take away even your bed" (Proverbs 22:26)

Great words of wisdom.

Please share yours

huxley:
Where did I say Barker constitute atheism? Did I even imply this? Show me please?

Get it now, NOBODY BUT NOBODY constitute atheism.

And try and answer my question about what xianity is.

Is it by force?
must I answer any and every question posed by any and every one on nairaland.
abeg gerraway jo

high on paw paw
ROFL
that is funny

huxley:
Dawkins does not constitue atheism or make any claim to a moral high ground, as far as I know. Unlike the faith-head who are in the habit of claiming moral superiority. This is a very bad way to argue or debate. I and many atheist have been asking the Christians to define what Christianity is. But there fail to do so.

I could mention all the frauds amongst the Christian leaders from the Ted Haggard, Jim Swaggart, Oral Robertson, Popov, Bakers, etc, etc. Does that speak for Christianity?

And your Dan Barker does?
shifting standards eh?

Akinagirl:
Alright already. The location has nothing to do with the kind of person I am. Was just being stupid when I did that. I'm in a very serious relationship, hence my fiance. And this is my first pregnancy. Queen, I took offence, b/c you were just bad mouthing and being insultive instead of answering the question that I asked. So lets focus on the question that I asked and less on the location. I'm sorry I cursed you out, my apologies, was feeling a little overwhelmed and your post didn't help much. If you are indeed an expert Queen, then I think you should know how to talk to people professionally without putting your personal views in it. Whether I am a fornicator or not does not have to do wit the topic at hand. But thank you all for your replies anyway.
Cheers.

My apologies too sweetie.
I'm not an expert really at least not in field of grief counselling
I'm just a woman who believes in the sanctity of marriage and family.
I've never had a miscarriage so personally,I don't know what it feels like but I've had other losses in my life so I know what it is to hurt.
I am sorry for your loss.
and your doctor is right,it was not your fault.
a significant number of pregnancies,maybe a little under a third of all pregnancies undergo spontaneous abortions and most are due to some genetic defect in the fetus.
Majority of women who have had miscarriages go on to have healthy babies.
So medically the odds are in your favour.

Are you a Christian?
The only encouragement I can give is from the word of God.
"with God all things are possible"
If you live here in the USA there could be support groups in your area,check the phone book.Don't be ashamed to join.
Your doctor's office or insurance company could also help arrange for you to see a counsellor, don't be ahamed to use those services,that's what they are there for.
You'll learn ways to cope with such tragedies and have listening ears that'll hear you out.
I wish I had counselling available to deal with a traumatic issue I had,it would have saved me years of deep seated pain but thank God I found my husband who acted as a counsellor in that area.
I'm glad you're sharing this on this forum,that is therapy in itself because when we bottle things in and act like we're OK,sometimes we really aren't
And we end up causing ourselves years of emotional harm without meaning to.

I'll still advise that you marry your fiance before you try again,that way you'll be doing it right in the sight of God and also perhaps your parents.
Take care and God bless.

Akinagirl:
thanks Daviddylan*
Um, homegirl. I don't come around disrespecting you, so please do not disrespect me. If you don't have anything positive to say, then shut the hell up. And by the way, my quote on my profile has nothing to do with my personality. But since you are so holy and without sin, go fk yourself. I need sincere, and respectful advice, this is a hard time for me because my fiance and I sincerely wanted this baby.
Thank you.

For a woman who desires a child your mouth is a little filthy
don't you think ?
Maybe if you change your attitude a lirrle and marry your fiancee , you may actually pray and get your prayers heard rather than fornicating around hoping to nab a man.
gerraway!
no decent person would start such a thread on this sensitive subject telling us her location is in someone's fathers bed
That tells me the kind of person you are.
7 week pregnancy ko,9 month tumor ni

I heard that if the man converts to another religion,shariah will not apply to him.All he needs to do is denounce Islam.
How hard is that?
He needs to take his clan and move out of Bida or leave Islam for good.
The choice is his.

come to think of it why can't they just leave this grandpa alone?
This shariah thing is really run amok
but I thought they said it was a religion of peace?

Akinagirl (f)
IN YOUR DADDYS BED
Posts: 901

until you get out of that bed of fornication as indicated under your name,you ain't getting any advise from this counsellor

sistawoman:
how about banned_again

that's a good one

I could still read though but I can't post.
Infact babyosisi, +osisi, _Queenisha and Queenisha can still log on and read.
but plus_Queen is still alive and kicking.
someone pick me out a name I may need one tomorrow

sistawoman:
Off topic

Do they warn you before they ban you?

Is any of my behavior on the boards going to get me banned?

sometimes yes
most times no.
you turn on your computer and see the dreaded red sign.let me show you my last one

Sorry _Queenisha, you are banned from posting or sending personal messages on this forum.

Reason: islam

Ruby_Pearl:
try to follow the rules like me, and you wnt get banned

Ebelebe Igba!
This one wey get more names than Sarah palin get lipsticks

KarmaMod:
lmao you are not serious

Tomorrow you will be Queen Latifah

when I was picking this last one I wondered ,should I be queenie, or queensize  or even madamqueen

DeepZone:
Queenisha I love you BUT you are so anti Islam.

emi ke?

who are honeric and Daphoenix again
all these people can't behave themselves and keep getting banned.
na wa

KarmaMod:
Lmao osis, i believe in that regard we are the same size.

Osisi I love yooooou BUT you allow disgraceful Yoruba people turn you against all of us

I apologise.
I'm trying and asking for Grace for that.I need to learn to leave idiots alone

kobojunkie I love you but I wish I could get my bare hands around your neck while shouting ROFLMAO

Richy black I love you but I hate your opinions

hannibal I love you but you think Nigeran girls are trash

onyigirl I love you but my son is still in grade school

davidylan I love you but all my younger sisters are married

ruby pearl I love you but all my younger brothers are married

karmamod I love you and my mercedes are bigger than yours

deepzone I love you but you're such a man hater

JJYOU:
yes my dear sister. christians, pastors, bishops and all in the bible can be insulted on seuns land but you can't even paste an article saying mole people do implants on this land.

i don't know why people are so fearful of the naija talibans. as i have said before, we are victorious

My dear, Christianity has always been hated since the days of the disciples.It's nothing new.Christ even said it'll be worse.In many quarters people are still being beheaded and thrown in jail for their faith.
Jesus still remains the light