₦airaland Forum

victorD3: Why oppress your 4 wives on earth if you are expecting 72 virgins in heaven?

I ask again, is the 72 virgins myth in your bible or what? Or are you just a kid?
If that nonsense myth is true, the Muslims in your area wouldn't have spared you till now. You would have ceased to exist. After all, who know like better thing? Please, grow up. Ok?

devour129: Marrying more than one wife is an oppression to the first

Wrong! I know of a few Muslim women who, of their own volition, requested their fellow unmarried sisters to marry their own husbands. They said their husbands are just too good, and it will be selfish of them to enjoy their good husbands alone. Allâhu akbar! That is the height of true piety. And I swear by Allâh who owns my soul that what I have related is true.
Do you still call that oppression?
Well, you might not really understand such unique behaviour cos our Muslim women are not just like every other street lady. They understand that the goodies with their Lord are not comparable to the mirage glitters of this present world.

usermane: To be honest,'BEATING' here is a relative term. To some, beating is equal to flogging, to others its a slap. But there are those who nvr resort to beating and would rather Divorce or Separate in the worst case scenerio.
Remember that a misbehaving wife has to first be admonished. If she doesnt amend then hubby could refuse her food,if she persist, he should stay out of bed from her. And eventually beating is only legal if the above measures have been employed in correcting her. But for the sake of truth and justice, beating here ought to be mild, not use of severe high impact force capable of yielding a stinging or burning sensation.
These just show how considerate Islam is. It is a simple religion but on an individual level, adherents can make it difficult for themselves if care isnt taken. Some muslims even batter their wives, pathetic isn't it?
Take Polygamy as a case, it is permitted for some of its merits but many muslim chose Monogamy. I mean how many men would chose d burden of multiple wives and how many wives relish the idea of a future co-wife. So also, is the issue of beating, Jack.

True. The fault of a Muslim is not because of his faith.

usermane: Might i add two?
>Enforcing your opinion upon her regardless of her feelings is oppression evn though u r d head.
>Threatening to get a second wife is oppression evn though polygamy is halal.
>Disregarding her advice like a little girl 's is oppression. Its same as saying "u cant teach me a meaning thing, woman, i know best"
There is more to this than meet the eye. Ask some wives of some Ustaz,Mallams,Imams and u 'll b shocked that Charity may not begin from home afterall. Unfortunately a lot of preachers would rather preach on other issues like
>Polygamy and its importance
>Respect/Submission for husband
>Hijab, Jilbaab, Niqaab etc.
Instead of topics regarding respect for wives in a large part because there is this sub par belief that a respectful and overtly submissive wife will get fair play.

Sorry, that's why Muslims shouldn't follow any Imam/Ustadh dogmatically. Our model is the Prophet of Allâh (PBUH) who does or say nothing except by Allâh's guidance.
We have pastors like Rev. King and co who do a lot of evil. Do we take them as the ideal representation of Christianity?

tinnymerit: what of those women that are not allow to drive cars in saudi arabia,is that a form of feminine oppression?.just asking dont dare delete the post o,its a question ooooo.

That is why you have less or no rape cases than in America, where women can drive to wherever they want.
To answer your question, Islam states that the women be accompained by a capable mahram male (her husband, brothers, uncles, e.t.c.) whenever she has to go on a long journey. This is to protect her, as we know women are the vulnerable sex. What happens when her car breaks down in the middle of nowhere and she has no male around? She weeps and then what?

And I guess you missed that story of a gang of car-snatchers in Lagos, whose main targets were women. They didn't even need any weapons at all, their operations were as easy as that. Try check up that article.

"And among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may live in TRANQUILITY with them, and He has brought between you love and MERCY. Truly, in this are signs for those who reflect." (Qur'an 30:21).

The Prophet (PBUH) said: "Treat women well and be KIND to them, they are your partners an committed helpers."

He (PBUH) also said: "Never hit your wives, they are your partners and sincere helpers."

Allâhu a'alam.

Dear Sisters in Islâm:
Mere claiming to be an Ahlus Sunnah (adherent of the Prophetic ways & manners) by a brother does not truly make him one. If you don't see true signs of the Sunnah in him, please run from him; he is fake & a fraud. This means you have to be well acquainted with what the true Sunnah of the Prophet (PBUH) entails yourself.

How do you explain a self-acclaimed Ahlus Sunnah brother that allegedly puts a ring to a sister's finger & claims to have done the Aqidu n Nikah (marital solemnization) with her? And they now live as husband & wife.

He can never be your husband if your father or legal male guardian does not properly hand you as wife to him, in the presence of qualified witnesses & an agreement on Mahr (a similitude to dowry) made. He is merely your co-fornicator, and Allâh's anger & wrath will continue to be on the both of you regardless of your Mum being aware of your illegal union. Any child you bear for him under the prevailing condition is a bastard and can inherit nothing from him.

Your desperation for a spouse shouldn't push you to earn Allâh's wrath. Whoever is destined to be your spouse will never miss you.

Run away now & repent to Allâh quick.

Anyone who believes this crap deportation story is definitely an Islamophobic and daft Nigerian.

There are thousands of Saudi, not to talk of their men that are way fresher and nice-looking than this thing that was allegedly 'deported'.

There's no crap that can't sell in Nigeria. Even kids in basic elementary school will have to be coerced to believe this folktale. Except those that bought the story are toddlers though. Smh!

merengue: And Lewandowski has not been sold yet, cool your jets.

Get your facts right, he's been sold for real. How many times do you need to be told that?

Fact remains that B. Dortmund is one of the most stupid clubs I have read of in a while. How do you sell two very key players to a rival club in the less than 48 hours?
What kind of commitment will the two players give when they play their 'new club' in the UCL Finals?
I just don't understand the move, it's so nauseating and spoils the mood of the victories of yesternight and tonight. Smh!

Pk001: Big Difference!!

Zaki Biam and Odi, military carried out mass killings to avenge the death of their colleagues.

In Baga, it was an act of War. The military were confronted directly by the enemies and they returned fire for fire, leaving a soldier dead and a large number of the unprofessional enemies dead also.


Rules of Engagement : A civilian ceases to be a civilians when he carries a weapon and directs it at a military personnel, or when he protects the person directing the weapon at the military personnel.

And the properties destroyed? How does a village become a war ground, anyway?

Krucifax: The first answer to this is that in all three cases, there was terrible loss of innocent life. However do not try to condemn JTF with an underhanded dig in your write. The Baga siege,is more significant because Baga was a community which harbored a terrorist group that held the whole nation to ransom.

I do not in any fashion support the killing of women and children(that was a national disgrace)however you must also apportion blame proportionately. The JTF team got to Baga in the wee hours of the day,surrounded the village and asked any Boko Haram affiliates to surrender themselves. How did they respond to JTF? With AK47s and RPGs(Rocket Propelled Grenades)! What did you expect JTF to do? Respond with bad language or ask them to calm down??

They opened fire on a Nigerian military force and JTF simply returned the favour. The collateral damage is however regretable but it was unavoidable. So in summary i have no criticism of JTF under the circumstances,they did what they had to do!! Fact.

And the targetted 'terrorists' are all dead now, abi? Successful operation? Anyway, wait until the supposedly killed terrorists announce they were untouched, in their usual manner.
Rubbish talk!

coogar: i support all the attacks on those villages.....
if some set of people think they can hold a whole country to ransom because they are capable of making bombs then they deserve the gnashing of teeth they are getting. people who aid/abet terrorists are not different from the terrorists.

kill them all!!!!!!

Even if you happen to be innocently serving in the village at the time of the attack that will 'kill them all'?
You are a heartless monster, no doubt!

[quote author=Pontaboki ]The difference is clear,Baga was housing and shielding a bunch of Terrorists that recently bombed 5 Luxury buses killing more than 80 people in Kano.Go and ask the US the meaning of collateral damage,that is when Terrorits are using people as human shield and the people whole heartily accept to be used as such.[/quote]Proof please? Was that not the same excuse for wiping out Odi?
You're a kid... Grow up!

quid: These killings will continue so long as people sheepishly and oafishly continue to define and defend a moronic and archaic entity called "Nigeria" which exists to serve Western and so-called common-wealth interests to the detriment of indigenous people.

It is an aberration for a country to subsist largely for the sake of massaging the imperial ego of a distant empire. A nation in which only the lower kinds of friendship (characterized by covert patterns of patronage and ethical egoism) are fostered; in which the dominant ties are those of profit and pleasure, will be an essentially unstable society.

Unless the various elements in the Nigerian society subordinate private interest and pleasure to the love of the common good, the country will decompose, as the demands of self-interest and faction multiply into an explosive mixture of mutually repelling atoms.

You're dumb. Is that a justification for the massacre of innocent souls?

[quote author=val_dee]There is no justification for what happened at baga.

Neither is their any justification in using innocent people as human shield by terrorists.

It's a catch-22.[/quote]What about the markets and other properties destroyed, they were also shields?

Dear Barcelonians, please try and sleep soundly tonight, forget about the shocking shock earlier. Next Wednesday is another day. Remember your bosses will take no excuse for absenting work tomorrow, whether depression or insomnia is your excuse.

There is no cause for control, all is under alarm.

Be consoled by that saying, 'aal izz well (even inside the well)'.

#Have a nightmareless sleep.

Signed: A concerned friend!

Bayern gave a 4-star show at the Allianz arena tonight, can Barca counter with a 5-star performance at the Nou Camp, on their own night

Truly, truly, no condition is permanent!

Did this happen in Messi's era or is it a preview into the coming century?
BTW, no team has ever lost by four goals at the semi-final stage of the Champs League. This only implies the 'invincible' Barca can't just stop breaking and setting new records... Hmmn!

#Glûckwûnsche bayern!

No to the first question and yes to the second question.

FG+JTF vs Boko Haram+Ordinary Civilians (The insight- the truths and the untruths)

http://abangmercy./2013/04/22/i-am-not-a-member-of-boko-haram-ahmed-salkida-speaks-on-conversations-with-abang-mercy/

http://naijainfoman./2013/04/22/jtf-massacre-civilians-in-baga-borno-state/

~~~~~Important daily reminder~~~~~
Short, but lovely Quote (reminder) about the Muslim life- Hassan A. Zaifada wrote:

"People say you live only once, so enjoy (yourself) to the maximum... Muslims say you die only once, so prepare yourself (to the maximum)!"

#This should be a daily reminder for conscious and dutiful Muslims before commencing the day's activities. Remember the Prophet of Allaah, Muhammad bn Abdllaah (PBUH) taught us that "the dunya (present life) is paradise (a place of amusement and no limitations) for the non-believers (non-Muslims and hypocrites), but hell (a place of great restrictions and limitations) for the believers (Muslims)".

Dear brothers and sisters in faith, persevere on Allaah's commandments and restrictions and do not despair. It is for a while; and your reward is surely with Allaah (SWT), the best dispenser of justice!
May Allaah (SWT) help us to take heed to this beautiful reminder (Amiin).

chief batiatus: You see this is no longer about america manipulating anything here, these are simple bangladeshi folks we talking about who have been radicalised by this satanic religion that feeds on only one thing - hate!

If Islam thrives on hate, then your existence on earth is virtual or you have never been in same environment with Muslim(s) or you just have a media-induced phobia for Islam or you're simply sick?
Abi, how do you explain your been alive till now, when you have millions of 'haters' around you?

fitzmayowa: Bros read ya quran well...maybe na you dey "hallucinate" sha

Sorry, the Qur'an does not have several contradicting versions like your 'Holy Book' nah. Seems your problem is more complicated that first assessed.

Princewell2012: I refuse to comment on this.

You just did that, sorry.

Sure sir: nairaland he is nt a pastor, he name himsel pastor. .

But when Boko Haram claim to be Muslims and fighting for Islam, we have to believe them, even though their actions are anti-Islam, abi?
Hypocrisy is indeed a scourge!

[quote author=AB$I]a nollywood detective shei? U shud train to b a script writer instead[/quote]The guy must be detective bean (a la Mr. Bean).

MOG- Men of Greed!
Like say Kenyan people talk say them never get enough Churches to pay their tithe to?
The action is clearly a business investment, just like Dangote is spreading his cement factories across Africa.
Stop fooling us with that 'he is spreading the gospel' lies. Who goes to erect such edifice with huge capital investment in another man's land without expecting commensurate cash returns?
The way we reason in this country is why our politicians can keep deceiving us with same recycled lies each time... Nawah o!

idnoble135: If Jesus was called beelzebub, it would then be natural for THOSE HE SENDS 2 be called dsame.

Are you a learner? How will a man that lived an ordinary life and preached most of his gospel on foot send a tithe-made multi-billionaire with private jet(s)? Stop being blindly dogmatic jare.

You mean PMC?

newdeal: Its Luis of LFC today, tomorrow, it will surely be another player from another club that will do something he wont be proud of afterwards, that l can bet on

No mind them o. Yesterday, was it not their Eden 'kicker' Hazard? And we tried to give him the excuse of losing it when he showed remorse. Abi, na lie?

iampatricius: Seriously, Suarez is never gonna stop being controversial and corny. The worst is that he is incoherent of his feculent attitude that the world has regarded as a psycho. How frustrated can you be to even forge a sharpening tool you call ''canine'' to masticate a fellow player? Saunteringly, he's becoming an endemic among other professional players........He should just change!

Oyinbo, what are you doing here? You want an elective post? Anyway, next Oyinbo-ic display pleeease! :-D