₦airaland Forum

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Khalessi: Can these jobless douchebags on nairaland stop making the Nigerian female look bad!!!! This nonsense points you've just listed ain't exclusive to Nigerians ladies only, people from all over the world do it.

Neaman: Madam no vex...re u a RuNz girl?

harlos: sebi u don abuse me finish...God is watching u

bisdansun: I just finished my Masters programme abroad and back to Naija, I have 3 rooms rented apartment in a good estate. I'm 27 and last in a family of 7, all married and settled. But there won't allow me to marry. Their reason being:
Too young
no house of my own
no good car
no investment
Meanwhile i was able to save little money from my part-time job abroad. I want to marry now as not to misuse the money and my family members are asking for money, even friends asking for financial help because i just came back from abroad. Don't I have the right to say when to marry? I'm I too young?
Your advice will be most appreciated.

NOPET: I met this girl on facebook when i was doing my NYSC far away North,after i added her on my facebook we started chatting and finally fell in love,she came all the way from PH to visit me and i tried to make her happy, i took her out every evening and we spent at least #5000and after 2 weeks she went back to PH...we loved each other so much. After my service i decided to move from where i intended to stay(Abuja) and came to lagos cos she said she was relocating to lagos to stay with her sister and i have brothers staying in lagos also,in 2011 i came to lagos and i started searching for job and after few weeks she arrived lagos and where her sister was staying was close to where i was staying too so we meet once in a while... i could not treat her well again cos i was not having enough money and work was not forth coming. in 2012 i started teaching i a private secondary school and i was paid #20000 only so i saved some money and in 2012 November i lost my brother whom i was staying with it was so sad and tough for me...we went for the burial in Dec. and after i returned i decided to rent my house with the little money i was saving because i could not continue staying with my brother's wife and kids... iin january this year 2013 i got another job though it was a little better than the teaching job and all this while i give her the little i could and in march this year 2013 God bless me with anothe job with an improved salary so i try and give her the little i could,but with all my explanation she keeps saying i am stingy in september i told her i will be paying #5000 into Account every month and buy her all necessary materials she needs,i paid in her september allowance and i bought a pair of shoe and some wears for her and after 3 weeks she said i should pay 30k into her account that she has something to sort out but i pleaded with her to be patient as i dont have much for now... i called to explain things to her but she wont pick her calls and later her sister picked her call and pretended to be her and told me i should not call her again if i cant give her the 30k... and all effort to make her see reasons with me prove abortive.... now i have moved on with my life and i wish her d best too

harlos: Well... Save journey and may ur sins be forgiven.

Gbawe: Topic. A visionary and much needed project in my opinion because of where Lagos sees itself in the near future as a powerful Nation-State and regional hub of commerce and socio-economic development. This project would have moved forward appreciably If only the FG would sincerely throw all its weight behind it. Sad how politics of enmity and egotism ensures Nigeria keeps cutting her nose to spite her face.

Illuminatus: Dim Chukwuemeka
Odumegwu Ojukwu University. God, that sounds weird!

Lordwize: Anytime I cooked a delicious meal for my heart, she will just eat to her satisfaction and there is no compliment of your food is tasty from her. It pains me, is it wrong for a woman to compliment her man cooking skills?

chiboy1928: U guys should stop being scared I have dare dose guys b4 during dat oro festival and notin happen and am still yet gonna Do it again cos no one can restrict ma movement well dose laws are for them and the weak ones wen am going home dat time let them dare try to stop me dat all I can say!!!

Emmyimo: i wonder why people cannot stay here, 9ja we hail! Thee joor

berem: That's good news! I want it to become worthless so that it will be cheap in our country. Our leaders should learn to diversify the economy and stop depending only on Oil.

Afolabs101: What if someone has a medical emergency and needs to go to hospital, also some people like bankers are still working by 9-10pm. And anyway, whats wrong with being out at 10 or 11pm?